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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell if he's into me or not?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't tell if this guy I've started talking to is actually into me or not. Initially our friendship started when he IMed me online with a "hey". The whole time we have been talking he has given me compliments like, "you have a cute voice" or when i told him my nickname that ... (153 words)

How can you fight depression in your love life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not dating anyone now,and i have no time to see anyone! recently ive moved away from my friends,and most of my family,and now its made me more isolated from everything. Im not the person I used to be,ive changed alot and I dont give a damn anymore. Im a very miserable and ... (78 words)

I truely love her and I need to own up to the truth! I'm just to shy and nervous to do so!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'll try and make this short so i dont bore you. I feel like i;ve screwed up big time and if i dont do something soon thats it. basically i met a girl afew years ago, i liked her from the moment i got to know her and eventually fell in love with her. But we were in the same ... (724 words)

How do I approach this girl I really like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i was just wondering if some of you could give me some advice. I really like this girl, but i don't really know how to approach her. I do fairly well with girls, like i can talk to girls and get with them without to much hassle. I never find it hard to talk to girls but i ... (167 words)

Friend keeps falling for other guys while she has a boyfriend

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right, my friend katie is with this guy and i think she should leave him because she is emtionally attached to another guy but her boyfriend and her have been together for a long time and he keeps falling for other girls so she turns to this guy what should she do??... (56 words)

Am I crazy for wanting her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so here's the deal... I had been a relationship with my ex for five years and a half, until we broke up for good five months ago. She was my college sweetheart; I met her through a friend on my first semester of college. We liked each other since we first met, and no late... (1527 words)

I left because I didn't want him to feel trapped

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you first off for taking the time to read my post. I've been dating my currently ex bf for 3 years and have lived together for about 5 months. For the past few days we've been very unhappy. I was upset because he started acting like he was cheating on me and that I was a ... (263 words)

Has anyone ever tried or does anyone know anyone who has ever tried "natural breast enhancement pill?"

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Has anyone ever tried or does anyone know anyone who has ever tried "natural breast enhancement pill?" My husband says that he is most turned on by me when I feel sexy and it's hard for me to feel sexy but I want to turn him on. So I thought maybe, if I could get a little ... (73 words)

I know I shouldn't but I'm falling for him... Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys. this is a weird one but plz help!!! i've recently went back home to europe to c my family over christmas. Went out with my mum for new year and we bumped into her cousin that i never really saw before and there was a heavy attraction from both sides. I'm not into old... (312 words)

Is it normal what I'm doing/feeling?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 15 years old and I look at pictures of naked women online sometimes, which I like very much :/ and also when I'm out shopping and I pass a lingerie section, I always stare at the models, quite aroused. But the thing is I'm totally into guys too, I've had a boyfriend ... (90 words)

How do I end this relationship with sensitivity?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I end my relationship with my boyfriend who is so kind, considerate and loves me to bits, when I just dont love him any more and can't see a future with him? I hate the feeling like I am lying to him whenever we are together!... (48 words)

I need ideas! What can I do to get him to try and lose weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have noticed my fiance's weight gain. To me it's not a problem, I still find him attractive no matter what. But he's noticed it and has got a complex about it, his frineds call him 'fat' fatty' etc and I can see it really gets to him. Also recently his parents told ... (171 words)

Been dumped by my first boyfriend and my best friend in 2 days. HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'll try and keep this as simple as I can. I am 16 years old and recently was dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months 3 days ago. He said he felt that our relationship had "run it's course". He hurt me a lot, but we eventually decided to just be good friends. The following day I ... (297 words)

What questions can I ask him about himself?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this guy i'm into said let's play that game where we can ask each other absolutly anything, this was on msn and as soon as he said it I had to go offline, so I texed him saying we'll play next time. We're getting closer and we know how far each other have been (he's been ... (144 words)

I need us to TALK... but can't get the chance. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have some trust issues, and this past weekend, my boyfriend and I fought like crazy. The next day, I wanted him to come over so we could talk about it in a calm and rational way. He tells me that he already made plans to hang out with friends. That was fine, I figured he ... (141 words)

Help! What is going on in her head? Does she want me back or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Evening all I recently found out my Fiancee (together nearly 4 years) was cheating on me. I think it's still going on as well. I went ape, but I only shouted and stuff. She denies it all and says they're just friends. I have copies of emails that strongly suggest oth... (334 words)

Friends... in love!

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14, turning 15 in March who is seeing a 19 year old turning 20 this July. Me and him have known each other since 7\18\09 and since then we been so hooked on each other. I'm seeing him but really we aren't dating we're just friends, we do kiss, hug, etc.. He says when I ... (136 words)

How can I find someone similar in nature to her?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had a 3 month relationship with someone recently which I knew wasn't going to be long-term as she is going to live in australia in a few months. She didn't want anything serious and she stopped the relationship. I was still very down as we got on so well. I liked her a ... (236 words)

Does anyone have experience with larger men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin and yes I'm aware of protection and wait till you're ready. I am ready now and I'm going to be in a relationship soon with a boy who's kind of on the big side. I wondered what kind of things am I going to have to do.. as I'll have to be in control most of ... (85 words)

Sign over your rights!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 4 weeks pregnant. I discoved this on New Years Eve. When I told my then boyfriend he was very excited. I havent heard from him in 4 days. He wont answer my calls, he took me off his FB (how childish is that?). I texed him and asked him to just sign his rights over once the ... (116 words)

Things going wrong since we had sex

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend spontaneously and unplanned for the first time. We were both virgins and i mean it was bad sex because it hurt and nothing really happened... we both weren't ready and i think we both regret it... but ever since then.... Things have been different... ... (99 words)

I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. I could really use some help. I am currently engaged. I love my fiance. She is the best woman I could ever ask for. Here is my problem. I can't stop thinking or dwelling on the fact that she has been intimate with other men. Particularly her ex boyfriend. I... (735 words)

Heeelp!!! I can't get him out of my head. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I can't get him out of my head. Any tips? I know he is not right for me, but I miss him tremendously. We were good friends who then had sex a few times -- I am married but that is complicated and he understood the situation - but now he won't contact me and only texts me if I ... (178 words)

Why can't my husband ejaculate after having sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering why does my husband still masturbate if he has a wife to please him? I continue to catch him masturbating and that really hurts me and makes me feel like I'm not doing my job at home when I do every sexual favor he wants but even though I do that he doesn't cum, ... (133 words)

Husbands holidays away are causing problems...

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7 January 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 26 years and for the last 3 years my husband and I have been going through a rocky patch. We have always spent our holidays together, and despite not getting on quite as well have still really enjoyed time away together. During this rocky spell my ... (123 words)

Does my fiancee have a say about my decision to send my children on a summer trip?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age - I am a 50 year old WIDOWER with two children - an 18 year old and a 16 year old. I just engaged my girlfriend who is 44 and has an 18 year old. We live in our house - they live in theirs. We plan to marry late 2010, after her 18 year old goes off to college. I am thin... (167 words)

Anal anxiety!!!

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had anal sex nor had my ass eaten out. My boyfriend wants to try something new and I'm up for it. If I've never had anyone barely even touch my ass, will it feel good when he does it? Or will it take some getting used to. I'm kind of weirded out about it right now.... (58 words)

How to Say "NO!!" to Depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok here's the deal.. I want to have a better social life and a group of friends that I can confide in and stuff like that. I've been dealing with depression for a number of years and to me life just kept getting worse... I made a resolution to look at the bright side of life ... (116 words)

How can I help him try to get a better job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months but have known each other for years, he works a job making pay that isnt that great and his hours have been cut... he's been looking for another job but "says there's nothing he likes" i pay for everything it seems but he ... (111 words)

Help needed, please! How to approach a girl to ask her out?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - In August of 2009, I met this girl. I quickly began to like her. Every time we saw each other (once every 2 weeks on average) I started to like her more and more. I would really like to ask her out sometime soon but I don't know how to approach her. Does anybody have any... (148 words)

How can I help my friend feel better...?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this friend that I'm really worried about. She has really deep feelings for this guy. She kinda had a thing for him for a while but since about June she's had really deep feelings for this guy. but he's now got a girlfriend and they both seem quite serious about ea... (244 words)

How can I be 'just friends' with ex ... and work colleague?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I need advice on how to get my working relationship back to normal with my ex ... I married my first girlfriend 15 years ago, and I suppose like in all marriages we had our problems, but they eventually wore me down so much that I could see no point to even try and add... (444 words)

Scared of commitment or just being used?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been sleeping with the same guy for 2 years and have fallen in love with him. But he won't commit to a relationship. I'm not sure if it's because I have a child or that he's just not ready. Do I give up and move on? or keep holding on hoping he'll change his mind?... (57 words)

Woes with men...

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It is a very unfortunate situation so I could use some help. I am 5'9", considerably humourous, intelligent, and a supposedly extremely attractive female, to which I have been offered a modeling contract with a popular clothing chain. Now I have an ex whom I care for dearly a... (311 words)

My husband wants me to "talk dirty" to him during sex but my mind goes blank. Any ideas?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years, we have a great sex life but he keeps asking me to talk dirty to him during sex, I don't have a problem doing that, it's just that my mind goes blank and I have no idea what to say, What do guys like to hear? and what things ... (62 words)

In love, now lost... please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. i'm 17 and i've been having a relationship with this girl, A for almost 3 years. she confessed to me 3 years ago and i accepted. starting, we were really very happy together. i can feel the love she had for me. after that we decided to go the same class. we did and ... (345 words)

I don't know who to believe, my girlfriend or my friend.

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so last night my girlfriend's friend told me that my girlfriend has been cheating on me like a while ago during 4 months of our relationship, got fingered and fooled around with guys so i confronted her about it and we had along talk to just find out if what her friend said ... (298 words)

I need to get out and grow up... help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm an 18 year old girl, but feel like a bit of a child. My friend and I still play with barbie toys. Do you think this is really bad? If so, what could we do instead. Also, I've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. I feel like ive missed out a lot. What can I ... (86 words)

My dad is making my life a misery...

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im 9 months pregnant and live with my partner. all my life my dad has put me down and made me feel bad about my self, he wanted me to be this perfect little princess. when i started to become my own self he would have ago at me. he would have ago at me about the music i ... (370 words)

Shouldnt he put a little bit more effort in now that we are together in a long distance relationship?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 16 me and this guy dated for one year, we used to go the same school and he was my first love and I was his.. We really loved each other. We were too young and we ended up breaking with each other. However, we managed to stay best friends (something which all our ... (812 words)

I just need some advice on how to get out of this funk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently have had a bad break up and my ex is now dating a girl and seems to be doing so well (but other sources tell me he is not). I recently found out he is saying all the stuff to her that he said to me and it's really made me feel worthless, like i was just another ... (782 words)

Help needed! I don't know if I have the strength to start again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age - hi I have been married for 25 years and with my partner for 27 years. there have been problems for many years but i was not prepared to leave while my children were at home. my daughter left home 4 years ago and I finally had the courage to leave on Nov 27th 09 but i found be... (296 words)

Is he testing me...?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I posted a couple of days ago about how confused I was at the fact that the guy I've been seeing just stopped texting and calling as much as he used to. I took people's advice and texted him asking how he was after a couple of days of not talking, and he told... (367 words)

He's dating me, but he's engaged, what would you do?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im a 16 year old girl really need some advice... i recently got a job on weekends and at my interview met a boy who is now 21. ive been working for 2 months now and weve become better friends over this time, he was always helping me out and coming to see me on my b... (176 words)

Confused over long distance relationship. Where do I go from here?

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7 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I need some advice on how to handle a situation. me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months. out of those, 4 have been long-distance (we live in different continents because of college). We have a lot of history together, (i was his first time, we traveled together... (287 words)

He was seeing someone else when we started dating, I don't know what to think now! Advice please?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does it matter if my fiance was seeing some one when we first started? Until we really got serious maybe several months into the relationship. Now he says there is no one and we are getting married. Should this be alarming. They shared a phone together all the way until now ... (86 words)

Fear of being alone...

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year and i'm only 17, starting university in september. Everything is going great for me but for about two months now i've not been attracted to him or feel like i love him any more. I've told him how i felt and should we break ... (168 words)

My girl said she hates me... but does she mean it?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm currently going through a break up with my girl. She ended it and said some things to me that didnt make sense. i tried reasoning and asked for the truth with no reply. i love her so much and after 6 days of no contact i seen her. She's changed her number and claims to hate ... (99 words)

I know she is not good for me but I can't get her out of my head...

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi All. Thanks for reading my question and please reply as I am pulling my hair out with this problem and it's really getting me down. I split up with my girlfriend of a year and a half around 4 months ago. It was a very up and down relationship mostly down but the good... (457 words)

Foreplay suggestions, do you have any?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I struggle to orgasm and i think one of the reasons for this is the lack of foreplay me and my partner have. How can i encourage him to engage in foreplay prior to sex? Does any one have any good foreplay suggestions that we can incorporate into our sex life? Thanks.... (57 words)

Relationship woes at the hands of his daughter...do I stay and fight or walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age - I am a mature, very attractive, independent woman dating a professional, very sweet man (M.D.). Four years now. He makes excuses for not having me meet his two children, both very needy in their own ways. They both live out of state. Both in mid-30's going on about 14 ... (727 words)

He was out of order for reading my messages, now I'm so confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been chatting to this lad for about 4 months now, we have history but lost contact. We started chatting and getting very close, and i was confused at where we stood with each other, i asked him, he told me he wasnt able to commit to anything as he isnt ready, and that ... (285 words)

Is it too late to make an effort to show him I'm still keen on him or is he not interested in me any more and is getting bored?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for a few months and from the very start he was chasing me, texting, chatting to meet up and take me out on dates. he always took the initiative, even talking to me first on msn. if he doesnt talk first then i wont. iam very shy and eventually i got ... (441 words)

Are we just really close or is it love?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I want to know what this feeling is: I met a boy when i was 10 and for the last 9 years we've been best friends. In the past couple of years, i've found being around him different. We act the same around each other but i get a feeling that makes me really think.... (115 words)

This is all just such a mess... please give me your perspective on things.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am confused, and can't seem to find the right way out of this mess... I have been with my husband for 21 years, we are both in our late 30's. Things have not been good for about 8 years, due to his job. He works away from home and we never see him (we have 2 children... (376 words)

Should I send her a letter trying to explain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm reposting since i didn't get any good advice! About two weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend over some pretty hurtful things I saw on her phone (yes I looked through her phone). The month before she had told me she didn't know if she wanted the same life as I wanted... (456 words)

Does it look bad to have foreplay with someone you've been on a couple of dates with?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Does it look bad if you engage in foreplay with someone if you've only been on a couple of dates?. We've known each other for a couplre of months maybe 3 but have only been out twice, used to talk daily. I'm curious because I like this guy, we have a strong sexual attraction ... (153 words)

My first blowjob???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm sixteen and a guy I know at school has offered to give me my first blowjob. What are the potential consequences of having a blowjob both emotional and physical? Is it really that big a deal?... (37 words)

Is there any truth in the saying that to get a man to want you, to have to stop chasing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts and uncles, I just wondered if there is any truth in the saying that to get a man to want you, to have to stop chasing him. I have been with this man now for number of years and every time he goes quiet I chase him and chase him, which seems to push him away. ... (127 words)

Is it wrong of me to just want to ignore him and disappear off the face of the earth until I am over it???

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've slept with my friend a few times and have started to develop feelings for him. The last couple of months he has started to behave distant for about a week after sex! We use to email/text/facebook all day everyday. So I'm quite disheartened and basically feel used. I ... (500 words)

Is my husband just using me???

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7 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Me and my husband have been married about eighteen months now, our relationship is long distance as he works away so he views porn online of real life couples having sex. however he wants me to now go online and have sex in front of strangers too. the question is 'is this love ... (64 words)

In my senior years, remarried but I'm not happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (M)

age - I lost my first wife age 58 16 years ago, also her sister age 56 who was widowed died the same year, life can be a pig, I remarried 12 years ago, the marrage was never consumated because she was raped as a child by her uncle who went to prison. My present wife is a clean ... (111 words)

My husband's closeness with this other woman is now affecting our marriage! Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age - I recently posted a question on here regarding my fiance's 'friendship' with another woman. I got married last month and was told prior to the wedding that he had dicussed how I felt about the closeness of his relationship with the other woman with her and I was lead to believe ... (326 words)

Has it slipped his mind that I hate noisy bars and clubs? Why is he asking me to go there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently started dating someone who seems really nice and compatible, and things have gone really well between us so far. We've both admitted that we're starting to establish a real emotional connection, plus genuinely good chemistry, etc. We met on an online dating site... (456 words)

Boyfriend has made me feel like dirt

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I currently live with my ex bf we have in his eyes been broken up for about 5 months. He has for the most part treated me like crap but sometimes is nice and says he loves me other times he says I don't want to be with you I'm just tolerating you. He has made me feel like dirt. ... (108 words)

Messed up joke

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

7 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - i'm affectionate with all of my close guy buds and even other teachers and some others who are way older than me. but this situation has somehow gotten out of hand. it all started as an inside joke between the two of us. i was kidding around with him. my teacher (who is ... (517 words)

I want to walk around in my underware

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like taking off my clothes and leave my underwear and bra on only but afraid that my family will find out but I cant resist doing it because my kids would see it... (36 words)

I keep having sex fantasies with my great uncle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I know it sounds absolutely wrong! Because it is. I just came back from my holiday (back where I came from birth so it was like a family reunion) And well he was obviously there because he's my nan's youngest brother.. He's middle age i guess.. (44) I dunno if that changes ... (239 words)

Ex is not interested and it hurts

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid...so far you are the only person i talk to and who has been kind enough to help.Thank you. Nway with the newyear,i had to make resolutions, that can help me be a better person. So among other stuff, i decided to get into a relationship again. Lucky enough one of my x ... (286 words)

Is my belly button sticking out because I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there any other reason why a woman's belly button would stick out? I just recently noticed that my belly button has slowly started moving outward. I don't feel pregnant or look pregnant. I have a 6 month old who I breast feed, so isn't it impossible to be pregnant? Plus I ... (62 words)

Should I wear my heart on my sleeve and see what happens?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so here is the deal. I wrote previously about some other guy. We ended up breking up becuase he became distant after finding out i didnt want to believe the doctors about me having a misscarriage and i have been fine until now. I turned 21 on the 20th of Dec. I'm hittin ... (234 words)

Is my straight friend bi or gay?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok this is driving me crazy would appreciate ur thoughts.im 23 openly bisexual and totally in love with my straight friend ben.known him for about a year thru his bestmate. The second time we met at a rave we were both very drunk and he couldnt keep away from me, followin me ... (379 words)

I'm walking on eggshells. Is he a cold person?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. When we first started dating he dropped hints about being very intense and mentioned that his parents used to tell him not to be mean as a child. I didn't understand because he seemed so laid back, warm and gentle. Things were ... (419 words)

How can I trust her after her fling?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of three months, whom I've known for six years, chose to have a two day fling with her ex while he was in town. We have talked about what happened and I don't feel I got a strait answer of why this occurred. She has told me they are finished and she never wants ... (112 words)

Why are jealous men viewed as being unhealthy?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Why do many women beleive that men being jealous or protective is unhealthy? Why do many women seem to take sides with a woman even if she is a bitch or has wronged a man? It is realy starting to piss me off that men are veiwed as assholes all the time and women can do no ... (126 words)

He kissed a girl and got a bj from her

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so i have been dating this guy for 6months now..well distance is a problem.but we do our best.we talk evryday and try to make things work..but he told me that he kissed a girl and let her give him a BJ..i appreciate hes honesty but it hurt.what do i do?... (50 words)

Worried about nipple size

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably a self-esteem question. I've been seeing this guy for a while, and I want to take it to the next level. Not sex yet, but other things. I have a problem with my body though and I'm scared he won't find me attractive after. My chest is average size, 34c, but i'm ... (93 words)

My mum is over controlling

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - heres the thing.i just turned 18 and i have been with my mum for 2years now..she left when i was 11 or 12 and we started livin again when i was 16.she has all these rules like dont date,be home by 5pm and all that.she wants me to dothings her way,when she wants and how she ... (157 words)

Is the army making him emotionally unattached?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy back may just as he was headn for another deployment n iraq and we emailed, then IM'd and talked on phone alot then i flew to see him for thanksgiving in germany after the deployment because i work for the airline. Well had a blast and n dec he came home to tx ... (211 words)

How do I avoid being stuck in this town the rest of my life?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right now I'm in a situation I'm not too happy with- small town, alcoholic father, severely disabled brother, medical expenses, and not many friends for obvious reasons [can't bring them anywhere near the house!] Learning to drive is also a big problem due to these ... (130 words)

How do I make things right with my husband after I fell in love with someone else?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 20 years old and started dating my husband when I was 16 years old. We tied the knot when I was 18 years old. Since we have been together, we have only physically been together a total of 9 months due to his deployments. Because of his absence,emotional and mental ... (568 words)

Not the lifestyle I want

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - okay i have this problem im 20 yrs old and i dont know why im having this doubt that i might be gay first of all i never fantisised bout a man i never looked at a man and said i want to be wit him or sexual toughts i always thought dat was wrong and how can that happen because ... (415 words)

My boyfriend's penis won't get hard?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, we have not often because of my living place, and the paper thin walls. But we do when we are alone and the moment strikes. Anyway I guess you could say 1-2 times a week. We had sex yesterday morning, and today he comes over to my place after his work, and he says "My dick ... (119 words)

Meet? Or just remain computer friends?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy...he's almost exsaty a year older and he's like the guy me...this may be wierd but i've never met him. his best friend was my very good friend when we were younger and it truns out the guy i like moved there the year i moved away...so in which case i met ... (139 words)

Should I feel guilty about my actions?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right... After a year and a half, my boyfriend broke up with me. It was completely out of the blue for me, and I took it extremely hard. I constantly asked him "Are you sure you want this?" and "Are you honestly happy?" and he always said yes. Everytime I tried to speak t... (341 words)

Should I deal with my abusive stepdad or leave home?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, while I was sitting on the couch with my mom and step dad, my step dad and i started arguing mildly. He started to raise his voice, and I asked him to stop, but he didn't, and kept raising his voice even more. He was really getting on my nerves, so I tried to make ... (421 words)

Will he forget me when he's gone?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling seriously bummed. Me and this guy just started flirting for a couple days and he's so sweet. We text and IM eachother all of the time but now he's leaving for 2 weeks to do some family stuff. Do you think he'll forget me while he's gone? I want this to go somewhere ... (60 words)

I'm pregnant and he doesn't want another child! How can I make this work?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. My son's father and I got together fall 2006. I knew he had a daughter and they had a good father-daughter relationship. I got pregnant soon after we begin dating. My son is 2 now. His daughter is 11. I don't really care for his daughter because of the way he parents her. ... (290 words)

How do I make her feel better so I can kiss her?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So we have been dating for a while now. We're kind of young I'm 16 and she's 14. She's two feet shorter than me and almost twice my weight and not confident at all and we haven't even kissed yet. She has never even kissed anyone. How can I make her feel better about her se... (72 words)

If his peins didnt go all the way in but I bled and it was my first time am I still a virgin?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well this guy that i liked for awhile finally likes me after he moves away and comes back and i finally told him that i like him. so we had hanging out and we tlkd n decied to have sex. i lied and told him that i wasnt a virgin when i was and his penis didnt go all the way in ... (231 words)

How do I convince my parents to let him visit for a few days?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking with this guy on the computer for a few weeks now. But I already feel like I've known him for so long already. I talk to him through IM, texting, and the website that I first met him on. I know that it's not maybe the smartest thing to do, meeting people ... (323 words)

Three months and he hasn't even attempted to make out with me...

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been going out for three months. we were both each other's first kiss, so we're both fairly new to the whole kissing thing but i really want him to make out with me but he hasn't even tried. i think he's afraid he'll do it wrong, so he is just pushing ... (95 words)

Girlfriend and porn...

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years with my current girlfriend. Things are going great, and we both confide in each other for pretty much everything. Porn has been a little bit of an issue in our relationship, though. I like to watch it and masturbate to it, but ... (214 words)

Hubby not interested in sex anymore??

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok I'll get straight to the point, Ive been with my hubby for 20 years, he's 42 and I'm 36, the first 15 years together he couldn't get enough of me, then I started to do shift work and he said he got "lonely" and met some girl at the supermarket and started texting her, he ... (261 words)

I need to get over my ex... but how???

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Bear with me, this may take a while. I'm a 21 year old female and up until two years ago I was a very logical, rational (some might say cold) person. I'd had one serious relationship with a guy I cared deeply about at the time, we were together a year and a half, he ended i... (850 words)

I'm not sure how he feels... what do I do?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - he says he doenst want a relationship and doesn't like getting into one. however, he says I am 'cute, sexy and have a nice personality.. lets just see where it goes'. We get on well and make each other laugh. He's been calling, texting and coming on msn to talk to me ... (156 words)

I feel kind of trapped, what do I do?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have my boyfriend who's this perfect guy who im super super attached to. But then there's this other guy who was my best friend then he started to like me so i made out with him one night. I told my bf all about it and he forgave me. but my best friend, wanted more than a ... (71 words)

Why is an attractive woman pushing men away by not having sex with them?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am single again after 10 years of marriage (wife passed away 2008) I have meet a nice lady has a teen age son, divorced since 92, and I think very attractive. Problem is she has not had sex in 10 years and refuses to even talk about it. I love her and she says she loves me ... (195 words)

What do you do if your PE coach has a crush on you?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and im in high school, lately my PE coach has been flirting with me. He's told me how good I'm doing in his class, and how much I remind him of an actress off his favorite tv show. I've caught him looking at me when I wasnt looking, And by his gestures I know ... (95 words)

Are my looks turning guys off?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it goes. i am twenty years old, 5'6, 110 lbs, have long brown hair and blue eyes. i also wear glasses. so what can i do to get a boyfriend? i've never had one and im beginning to think i will always be alone. any tips on how to get one? are my looks turning guys off? ... (84 words)

At my age can I buy a vibrator?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'll get straight to the point. Im 14 and masturbate. I have for a couple of years but have done the same thing the whole time. It feels amazing but Im getting tired of doing it that way and like to try new things. Any suggestions? Please don't say finger myself or something ... (78 words)

Another notch in his bedpost?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. Not sure how to begin, but here it goes. I'm in a relationship that has been going great. But since i found out that my bf isn't a virgin and i am, i find myself 'holding back'. I've always imagined losing myself to the one i love, a virgin also. Yes, i do love him, but... (123 words)

Why do guys push the girls head down while she's giving him a blowjob?

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question for guys. Why do you push a girls head farther down while they're giving you head? does it feel good or is it just like, there? My boyfriend does that (i've only given him head twice) and it makes me gag sometimes. and i heard a few of my friends talk about ... (84 words)

He doesn't call or text me often

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7 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We get along really well, I've met all his family and friends and he's said that he's never been more sure of anything in his life like he's sure of his relationship with me. One thing though that I can't seem to deal with is that he ... (293 words)

He's very big, I'm very small, I'm worried he tore something inside me

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am head over heels for my boyfriend, and today we did it for the first time. We were a little rushed so there wasn't any foreplay, and he is very big, and after we finished I was bleeding a lot. I am a really small girl and I am worried he tore something in me. What should I ... (60 words)

What can I do to last a bit longer during sex?

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, me and my girlfriend have recently started to have sex. She's the first girlfriend I've had that I've been having sex with and when we first started doing it I lasted quite a while. Within a few times of doing it i had lasted 90 minutes. But, now we've done it a ... (179 words)

Boyfriend becoming very protective..at first it was cute but now its annoying

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7 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for awhile now. Well, he's very overprotected now all of a sudden. He says that he cares alot for me, worries about me, and basically want me to himself. He doesn't really like me talking to other boys because he "doesn't like me getting ... (175 words)

I'd love to move in on my uncle's wife

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7 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 years old and my uncle married some lady(second wife) a few years back. Shes like 30 now. I know she doesnt love my uncle. Well anyways, I find her really attractive. She is hispanic. Plus, she recently got a boob job and i gotta say they look good. Shes blonde and has a ... (175 words)

He says "What you did in the past was much worse"

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7 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I don't think he finds me hot or sexy enough. He got angry and upset because of my past (as always... sigh). Past = stuff that happened BEFORE I was with him! Ok, so I was a virgin when we started dating, right? But a couple of years before I'd given head to another guy that ... (448 words)