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writes:i am in a relationship with a man who's baby momma will only let him see his kids if he goes to her house.. he has sworn to me he isn't messing with her while he is there but im not sure. she texts him all hours sending him pics of him holding his son sayn how the baby miss him .( he does go see him at least 1 a week) she stays in her pajamas when he comes over there , texts messages mistakenly get erased from her off his phone they are just too close for me it seems to me she wants him back an is useing the son to get him to spend time with her. am i being insecure? he swears he just wants to see his son!an he isnt interested in her! im not buying it!am i being played for a fool?p.s baby is 2 yrs
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): I think you are being played. She is trying to seduce him and is he the type to turn down free ass? Now that baby is quite grown at 2 he should be able to take the baby out for a few hours with you. If she is not interested in him then she shouldnt mind. If she refuses then that means she wants him to herself. Or else kick him out.
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 I can understand why you are concerned and im unsure of what to suggest that would be most benificial. Perhaps you could ask if you could visit the child with him? See how advesrse to it he is?
also why must he go there to visit the child? is this an independent agreement or one decided by a court? if it is an independent one perhaps question it?
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (5 January 2010):
 There should be a court order defining the type of custody he has. Insist that the baby be dropped off at a nuetral location. There is no jugde in the world that would make either party conduct the visit at the other persons residence. He should be entitled to pick up the child and leave. Insist that he talk to a lawyer to ensure the custody agreement is being followed.
Just remember, that he has a responsibility to this child. The child is innocent. But your concerns are valid.
Jeff
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