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writes:I'm 22 and I struggle to have a good conversation with women. I talk to guys I know and they say they just click with their girlfriends when it comes to talking wih them. Most/all people seem to meet several/a lot of people that they can talk to about anything, but in reality, there isn't any girls out there that I can have a relationship with. Like I said, I do want a relationship with a woman, but even when I have conversation topics and try hard to carry on the conversation, there doesn't seem to be anyone. I just can't seem to make any chemistry with a woman tat every one talks about.Do I need to do anything extra in terms of chemistry? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): Good advice, there's an art form to keeping a conversation going, too bad there aren't any classes... Check out "What to Talk About on The First Date" by "The Wing Girls" on Youtube. Wish this was around when I was your age!
Most guys struggle with this, but we all notice the guys who don't...
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (6 January 2010):
 Ask people about themselves - for many, talking about themself is their favourite topic. Don't over do it and turn it in to an interrogation tho :-)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 January 2010):
One rule, just keep asking questions and LISTEN to the answers. Pick up on something she says and ask another question.
You will find someone, you just need to find someone you can chat to as a friend rather than a potential girlfriend.
Stop seeing them all as perfect possible soulmates and just aim to chat as if you would to a guy. Relax!!
Good Luck!! xx
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