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First time jitters...

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Question - (5 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet that we do have sex. He has told me he will wait till im 100% certain. I'm really nervous about the concept of sex but i want to have sex and was wondering if anyone could help me settle my nerves and give me a few tips for when the time comes. Thanks.

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A female reader, angelsrock18 United States +, writes (6 January 2010):

angelsrock18 agony auntJust let it happen.. what happen's just happen's.

don't be planning on when to do it or anything.

and get to know him.

and when you both are ready are into it.. then go for it.

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A female reader, missSamanthamary Canada +, writes (6 January 2010):

haveing sex isnt as scary as some people make it sound, if you dont no this guy very well then you might wanna wait till you no everything about him ,maybe some phone conversations instead of msn,from the sounds of this question it doesnt seem like your ready,

you dont want to be a hump and dump so make sure this is the guy you wanna be with cause your first time is the most meaning full

anyways good luck i hope it all goes well and you make the right choice , be safe and i hope this helped

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

Opionion only. Do not do it! Not because it is bad, because it is good and you want it to be with the ultimate person and never regret giving that one special moment up.

Just thought I would share that, like I told my daughter wait until marriage or wait until you have nothing else to do.......lol

be safe

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