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*ittlemommasheel
writes:ok so i been seeing this guy for 5 months now. we have known each other for 2 years as friends. he was divorced bout a year and half ago. he was hurt horribly. so he is leary now. which is understandable. the thing is, i love him, and i want to tell him. i am not sure if i should with the fear that i will scare him away. i do not want to scare him but i do want him to know. help me please. what to do? what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): And he hasn't said I love you yet? Then I think you might as well tell him how you feel about him, I am sure he feels the same and will be relieved you went first.
If not, he's a loser, lol.
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reader, littlemommasheel +, writes (5 January 2010):
littlemommasheel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes he asked me to be in a relationship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): What do you mean by "seeing" this guy for 5 months? Has he asked you to be in an exclusive relationship with him explicitly yet? If not then don't tell him, but instead ask him what he thinks of you, listen to his answer. Then ask him how he "feels" about you and listen to his answer.
What he says should tell you where you stand with him. If he hasn't asked you to be in an exclusive relationship with him by 6 months, then I would say it is time to fish or cut bait....leave.
Good luck
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