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Is my ex boyfriend trying to get over me?

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Question - (5 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Am pregnant and alone. Father of baby denies his child so wants DNA. I said fine to that. No issue. He has been on/off, hot and cold..he said if baby doesn't come out as his he is gone and hope you are happy. I never replied cos I found this damn right disrespectful. I think he knew he overstepped the mark. We both work in the same place and today I had to call him up over a work query.

Something I didn't want to have to do however I managed to keep my composure - stayed calm and didn't bring up last nights txts. He had a throat infection, sounded awful and run down but seemed annoyed that I knew he was sick. I ended the call pretty promptly cos he was obviously uncomfortable talking to me and talking. I know this sounds mad but is he still into me?? or is he trying to get over me but not taking care of himself cos he knows deep down that he is mistreating me????

I know I shouldn't care right as he is not as into me as I am into him but its hard not to. What do people think? and thanks.

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A male reader, Red Green 0289 United States +, writes (6 January 2010):

"he is not as into me as I am into him"

You think?

Get a DNA test, if it's his he's paying for the next 18 to 21 years. If not expect the office to hear about it...

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A female reader, angelsrock18 United States +, writes (6 January 2010):

angelsrock18 agony auntuuhm i think if he is getting annoyed of you and he told you he was leaving if the baby isn't his he's just not that into you sweetie.

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