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writes:i've completely lost my sex drive and i dont know why.i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and for the past 4 months i have no sex drive whatsoever. Dont get me wrong, once we start having sex i really enjoy it but its like i cant be bothered to start it or initiate it. Im very self conscious so i've always been shy when it comes to initiating sex but even when i can tell hes up for it but isnt intiating it, i dont do anything because i think to myself that i cant be bothered to have sex even though i know i'd enjoy it once we get into it.im more attracted to my boyfriend than i've ever been so why is this happening?
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (5 January 2010):
hi could be a number of reasons why you have this problem stress etc but if you worry about it that will make it harder maybe have some foreplay before sex which will get you in the mood or watch some videos etc with or without him then maybe act out the scenes sex toys also good idea sexy outfits
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Maybe it's the thought of having to clean up all the mess afterwards - but once you get into it the pleasure outweighs the inconvenience?
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reader, supermum +, writes (5 January 2010):
 Have you started hormonal contraception? If you have this could be the cause. If not, see the GP as this could be hormonal, or linked to depression.
If its neither of those, try eating some aphrodisiac food like chocolate and avacado.
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex +, writes (5 January 2010):
 youve been with this man for 2 years, if you are insecure with him now, youll always be. I suggest trying it on with him in the dark! lights off will make you feel more confident! good luck chick :)
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