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writes:I recently flew home for the holidays and got speaking on msn to a friend of a friend who'd asked me out for a drink a few months ago (but I'd never met up with him, as I had never seen him in person and asked my friends who had met him what he was like in person, and they told me he was a hideous jerk!) anyway, he's always expressed an overwhelming interest in me, and by chance on my last night out before returning to uni, this gorgeous lad tapped me on the shoulder and it was him! (I immediatly realized my male friends had been lying to me as they were jealous! -_-) We really hit it off, but when his psycho ex caught him kissing me, she came up, slapped him and got the bouncers to chuck him out by lying and telling them he'd just hit her! By the time I'd grabbed my coat and gone outside to find him, he'd been shouted off the premises! I've since gotten in contact with him and he's still keen (although gutted I'm back at uni in a different country, as he asked me out on a date), but it's clear he would have propositioned sex with him that night had he not been chucked out. My problem is that although I like him, I'm an 18 year old virgin, (and sick of being one at that) and that he's going to be put off when he finds this out- and by how awkward I'll be in bed! I want to lose my virginity before I build it up into some big thing and then feel weird and alone, and I'd rather lose it to someone I fancy and get good at sex rather then have to wait years for someone I love- or worse- loose it when feeling desperate and drunk to a random! How do I break it to him I'm a virgin and he's going to have to take things slow next time i see him?
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 You make it sound like being a virgin is a disease. Don't worry about it. Just tell him. If he is as nice as you say he is, he will treat you well.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Unless he's said that he doesn't like virgins, you can straight out say, 'I'm a virgin', and he'll be fine with it, unless he's a dork.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): hi i advise you to just explain that your a virgin but that you want him to be your first man to have sex with, if he really is a good guy then he will understand and may even be pleased you are a virgin as that means he will be the first man to be with you he may think its lucky, if he does not want you then its his loss
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