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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I so want to tell her how I feel but I can't. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey theres this girl im mad about who just came out of a ralationship, I have built up a strong friendship but she found out i like her. when i talk to her i lied out of instinct and said i didnt like her in this way and she replied "oh thank god". i also have no self ... (103 words)

Is it normal to want someone to love and hold you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so Im 14, and I have an issue I hate. I wanna no if its normal to want someone to love you and hold you like a boyfriend haha. Like half of the day I wish I had someone like that. And when someone shows interest in me, im to scared to talk to them. I always try dating ... (90 words)

Does my best guy friend truly love me and what should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Well me and my best guy friend like each other and everyone knows it and we were both each others first kiss. But anyway a couple of days ago i was at his house becuase it was pouring with rain(and flash flooding) and my parents were out of town and i was soaking wet so i... (266 words)

Should I be with my boyfriend or the man I think I still love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, Okay, well this guy Matt is amazing, he's kind and honest and passionate. I really feel alot for him, but there are alot of things holding me back. He is 5 years older than me (23 and i'm 18), lives in London and I have just moved to Uni in Wales and I think that if ... (423 words)

He won't talk to me or is ignoring me out of the blue, I don't understand why! HELP

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well we're friends and i like him, but we're not really boyfriend and girlfriend. we texted 3 weeks straight every nightand normally talked during the day. he was very flirty with me and I with him. i had a pretty good idea he liked me. so i kept talking to him. then whe... (105 words)

I don't know how to end things with my wife so I can be with my girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 11 years ago I went out with a girl, this lasted for 3 years then we broke up. We broke up because we were too young and argued over petty things. Since then I have married ( 3 years ago )and had a young child who is now 7 months. 14 months ago my former girlfriend re entered ... (172 words)

Why did she behave like that? What did I do to deserve that???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A while ago back in college i was friends with this girl. we werent best friends but we hung around in the same social circles. as time went on i developed a crush on her and so i gathered up the courage to let her know how i felt. I got her alone an basically told her that i ... (258 words)

Telling people you're gay

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 gay male. i think i should tell my friends beacuse its getting hard to keep in. but how do you tell people you have known for 10 years your gay?... (32 words)

Cant over him, are we really meant to be. I'm going insane

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there i just wanted some peoples advice and opinions on my situation. but basically i really like this guy and i have for a long while now, but i was talkng to him a couple of days ago and he told me he was seeing some girl to see how it goes, just a general chat. and it... (136 words)

How do I tell fiance I want to wait a year now to marry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age - Hello: I have been engaged for 2 months now my fiance and I have dated 4months lived together a month okay there are things that he is doing that has started to bother me he is a very easy person and he lets people use his car I feel that they do not give him ... (284 words)

Will married man leave his wife to be with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My story is I've been seeing a mm for almost 3 years now. He's been married for a long time now with 2 kids and so he says, they're the only reason he's still at home. We love each other, had breaks away and get together usually 3 times a week and 2 of those consist of a go... (330 words)

Why do I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok this is going 2 sound abit wierd and im sorry about the length, but im in love with a guy im embarrassed to like, because a few weeks ago there was this award thing at my school an we both won a award along with alot of oher people and my parents were there and i had told ... (279 words)

Can anyone see problems with being a 25 year old virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a 25yr old female virgin, can anyone see a problems with this? Im a shy girl and have anxiety and depression that ive had since childhood. I've no experience with guys but am happy waiting for mr right to come along. I believe that if someone really truely loves me t... (78 words)

I want him in my life but not like this...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I text my male friend to get out of my life and get his stuff, as I am not able to call him and he has been very selfish and treating me like a door mat. I had no other lover, the last week and he just has been so selfish, I became fed up. My goal was for him to take me s... (256 words)

What if he really is changing? Should I wait and see?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I (I'll call him Steve) were in a long distance relationship for almost a year now. We broke up a couple weeks ago because of many reasons. He wanted to control me and I had to do everything his way. I love him with all my heart but I just couldn't take it anymore. ... (395 words)

Will the relationship become just about the Sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I've been with my boyfriend for one month now. We are both virgins. I feel really comfortable with him and I think I'm ready to loose my virginity. We've played around alot. The only problem I have is that I'm scared if we have sex so early into the relationship... (98 words)

I would love more from her but don't want to risk our friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this friend and we are closer than you could imagine. She is the only person who can make me smile and feel good all the time. We cuddle and sleep in the same bed when she comes over. I even sit with her in the bathroom cause she doesn't like to shower alone. I'm ... (274 words)

How can I stop being jealous and how can I stop thinking of his past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months and when it got to about 6 months, i became really jealous and annoyed over his past. we've both slept with the same amount of people and ive dated more than him, but his past really annoys me and i dont know why. it upset... (153 words)

He dumped me because he likes me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a bit hurt, I just started seeing a guy about 6 weeks ago, he pursued me, and we met up once or twice a week for the past 6 weeks. Tonight he told me he likes me a lot and it frightens him and he would rather finish with me now than panic about the strength of his feelings ... (201 words)

I want to talk to her about what we are..but I'm not sure what to say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my friend and I have messed around and explored each other for about a year now. She's my best friend in literally the entire world. When I got involved with a guy it kind of put us on halt, but then when i decided i was going to break up with him (It was a short ... (156 words)

Red spot in vagina--don't know what it is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey so this is kind of embarrasing but i have a spot on the inside of my vagina its just kinda red and hard its not painfull unless i touch it but its kinda getting to me because i dont know what it is it cant be an STD because i am still a virgin i was just wondering if anyone ... (75 words)

Should fiance be texting other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age - Should he be texting other women? My fiancee and I have been together for 5 years the first year and a half were incredibly rocky. He ended up with two, myabe three other women while we were together. We moved past all of that, if you can believe it. A year and a half ... (309 words)

Should I try to get my bestfriend back? Or is it too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so about a year ago my best friend of four years mum died suddenly of a blood clot in her leg that travelled to her lung. I was with her through it all i went with her to see her mum in her coffin and say goodbye even though i really didnt want to and i helped her with her ... (380 words)

Did my cousin divulge too much personal info since we aren't that close?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F) - I apologise in advance if this seems like an odd question but I just wanted to see someone else's viewpoint. I have a cousin who I am not that close to but he is slightly older than me. We haven't been in contact for years and then when his dad died we swapped mobile n... (247 words)

Jealous of boyfriend's 23 year old daughter?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age - I get upset when my boyfriend and I are with his 23 year old daughter. When we walk down the street he has his arm around her and I walk behind them, he choose a sit next to her instead of me on a shuttle bus. Am I wrong to be upset? ... (55 words)

What should I do about Lewis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this dude we'll call him lewis and we'll call the other shaun. lewis and i had a fling halloween nite,we didnt do enything just kissed and groped. then a few weeks later i seen him up my local well its OUR local. he always insists buying me drinks and always makes ... (311 words)

I dumped him on his Birthday, he wants me back, but can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I liked my boyfriend alot but I felt like we grew apart so I dumped him on his B-day. I know that seems heartless but I liked another guy and if I didnt dump my bf on his B-day then I would be cheating. Well I did it as nice as I could but he said if he ever gets the chance he ... (153 words)

Any good dating sites??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - HELP!!!Im am looking for a real inline dating site i have been searching for a while and tried a few sites but i always end up getting a girl whos always asks for money she then says a really sad story, but i just want a normal girl one who is not asking for money but one who i ... (90 words)

When will he say I love you!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I went to High School together but werent really friends. We have mutual friends though so we have hung out sporadically over the years. Well last year (april 2009) we ran into each other and the next day I got an email on my facebook and my myspace from him. ... (120 words)

27 year old virgin, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - im another 27 year old male virgin, and dont know why. i am in good shape and work out. i have not much self confidence and no self image really and im afraid to get intimate, becuase im inexperinced in sex. i am really afraid to talk to and approach women. I have only been ... (137 words)

Why can I not get that chemistry with someone any more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - You know the feeling you get when you just meet someone and your stomach drops because of that amazing chemical reaction? I haven't had it in almost a year. Seriously, i'm going insane, no matter what situation, who i'm with or even if it was just a cheeky new years kiss I d... (121 words)

How can I let go of the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman who had a affair with another man four years ago. We both broke it off (more like he did as he saw somone else with out telling me.) I love my husband dearly and our life is much better now with all this behind me. The problem is I still think of this other ... (118 words)

Is it possible to love someone but not want to be close to them or show it, or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I am in a similar situation to many of the former posters in this forum and do not know what to do...I am at my wit's end. I met my now husband in 2006 10 and when we first dated he was very affectionate and enjoyed sex and even initiated it. He proposed in 2007... (517 words)

Should I forgive my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over twenty years, my husband told me a few months ago that he is hauted by the thought of havingsex with multiple partners, including myself. I really tried to understand him, but I am not at the same point as he is. Finally a few days ago he admitted... (69 words)

How do I explain that I do want to be with her, but I've got a bit of emotional baggage that I'm stuck with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this girl and i are hitting the stage of a serious relationship, but i'm worried that we won't make it that far. This girl, let's call her megan, is a lot more carefree and loose than i ever was, but the real problem is that im afraid to tell her that intimacy and pretty much ... (179 words)

Condom Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or at least hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i dont try to cum as fast as I ... (309 words)

What can I do now my girlfriend has become so commanding but she wont break up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4919 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been in a relationship for one and half years and all of a sudden my gf became soo commanding,maybe because she just obtained her higher cert.and im yet to,i suggest she needs a break up but she cant say it to me.what do i do.... (47 words)

She says she loves me to the end of the earth but doesn't want to lose our friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So i have known this girl for most of my life, i met her freshmen year of high school and i am now 21. My problem is that i am confused. I really care about this girl, and she told me recently that she loved me to the ends of the earth after saying that she doesn't want to lose ... (128 words)

Should I let my boyfriend know what happened between me and my ex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there so for like i dont know the past month and a half maybe two months i have been dealing with my bf and the way he treats our relationhip like he doesnt need to try and make it work...its like he thinks he can act however he wants to and not have to worry about me break... (419 words)

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to give up on this idea, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am in love with my maths teacher, he was my form tutor when i was year 7 and im 13 and in year 9 now. he knows how i feel cuz one of my mates told him (which i hav forgiven her for now). he is so gorgeous and he seems to treat me more caringly than he does anyone else, he is ... (353 words)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have liked this girl for quite a while now and never had the confidence to ask her out for the fear being rejected, my mate says that she likes me but I think he's just saying that to make me feel better. On New Year's Eve she was out and I thought that this was the best time ... (153 words)

He forced himself on me after I said no, then 4 days later he broke up with me! I just feel so down all the time and don't know what to do next

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, i was recently in a relationship with a boy 1 year older, im 13 and hes 14. We were having regular meetings and having foreplay almost everytime, we were both virgins, until the other day he asked if i wanted to go all the way and i straight away said no so he said okay. ... (160 words)

Did I make a mistake in thinking he is the One?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well okay here goes, I really can't believe I'm doing this but I need help. Sorry if this gets long want to make it clear as possible. I have been seeing a guy 11 years older then myself for the last year and 8 months. His divorced, no children, his ex wife really hurt him ... (388 words)

Should I approach him first? Or should I let him do the chasing?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age - Hello again, I have written a few times and have gotten good advice. I'm the one who dated the man who was very heavy for almost six months and broke up because of his ED. He played lots of games after we broke up like making me jealous and sending me mixed signals.... (704 words)

Should I go to my ex's wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a dilemma. I have just received an invitation to my ex-boyfriend's wedding. We split up 3 years ago. He treated me really badly when he dumped me yet wanted to be good friends with me. He came over to my house 2 weeks after we had broken up and had clearly already ... (453 words)

Now her father has died - should I contact her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age - I have been friends with her for 27 years - I mean close close friends - to a point where she was even included in any/all vacations my husband and I took - except when his were business related. We used to joke that the three of us were a couple and that she was the second ... (500 words)

We're both virgins but he loses his erection whenever we try to change that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfreind have been together for almost a year now. we really love each other but theres just one problem- we still haven't slept together. We both really want to but whenever we try it just doesn't happen. He looses his erection and can't get inside me We're both ... (78 words)

Advice for a recently ex-virgin please....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so i lost my varginity 2 days ago and after i didint feel anything but when i woke up my stomach felt achey and strange and i also bled for the next 2 days but that just stoped today but i still have a weird stomach ache. we used a condom so i couldent be pregnet but im just ... (61 words)

I get nasty when drunk but ONLY with my boyfriend! Why??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have a perfect relationship, he's loving and caring, attentive and passionate, basically everything a girl could want, obviously it has its little problems however in general its good. The problem is when we drink i always end up arguing with him. I say ... (121 words)

My mum is eating herself into an early grave... how can I get her to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. I'm really worried about my mum. She's been overweight for as long as I can remember but I'm really starting to worry about her health now. She's very heavy - she must be obese although I'm sure she doesn't realise this or is in denial. Every time I try to talk to ... (263 words)

He has feelings but doesn't want to get back together. How can I harness those feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up a while ago. We've been separated for the past 6 months due to job relocation. He's back. We've seen each other. I haven't gotten over him. I can't tell if he's gotten over me but I do know he doesn't want to get back together. He told me he'... (212 words)

I got off with my friend's girlfriend when she was drunk.... now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there! Something strange happened this new year's eve. I went to a friends place to celebrate. There were 4 of us (me, my brother, friend and the one who invited me). We got pretty drunk and at 1 am in the morning the girlfriend of the one who invited me (let's call him ... (227 words)

How to make her first time special? (and calm my nerves about it?)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my gf for 4 months and she rocks my world. Our relationship is great, but we haven't had sex yet. She's a virgin and I'm beyond nervous about it. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it was a drunken mess. I really want to make herfirst time special but I am ... (134 words)

My family frustrate me. How do I handle their taunts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - God im so angry! My job is high pressured, i work in a contact centre in customer service making outbound calls, my targets are high and on average a day i speak to 80 -90 people. Calls are recorded and it quite a strict place. Anyway today at lunch my mum asked if i... (292 words)

My lover wants to be watched!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age - hi i have been in a relationship for the past 18 months and we have both fallen in love with each other very much so. our sex live is wounderful and we are exploring each other. a few weeks ago whilst having sex i asked about what her fantasy was, she told me she would like t... (127 words)

Sex with my husband is almost zero! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I don't understand what's happening with me and my husband. We been married for only 2 years, his 20 years old and i'm 23. I feel as if he's changed, when we were boyfriend and girlfriend before, we were so active with making love. But now that we're married and after 1 ... (111 words)

How can I stop being so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've realised I've turned into being controlling as a girlfriend. I'm very sensitive about issues such as porn and fantasies and have imposed rules on my boyfriend around this in the past. He cheated on me once a few months ago and quit drinking. When he talked about ... (1154 words)

Help... am I gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 17 year old male. i perfer watching gay porn thinking of boys and penis and using anal toys. i think that this makes me gay so i decided to watch straight porn and i didnt get erect or feel anything, but when i watch gay porn it really turns me on. ive never dreamed ab... (297 words)

Every time we meet we hook up but why doesn't he make a proper move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Iv had my eye on this fella iv known for quiet a while. There is amazing chemistry between us, we seldom see each other but over the last few years every time we have met we have hooked up. We got "reaquinted" :) over xmas (i hadnt seen him in months before that)-we do stay in ... (167 words)

My boyfriend just left for army training and its killing me... any one been in my shoes or could just give me some advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 3 months now, i know it doesnt seem long but you know when you have that connection that is soo strong and makes you feel like their the one, well hes that guy. Any way he just left for army training today and its ki... (164 words)

Is she having an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I just want to know how do I tell when my girlfriend is about to have an orgasm or is busy having one, because most of the time when i give her oral sex, her body shakes and she tenses up for a moment then releases and she moans alot, is she having an orgasm? and also, ... (78 words)

Is my affection for him clouding my judgment about remarks he makes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I would really appreciate some objective opinions/advice. My daughter is 21 and she often walks around the house in low cut tops/scantily clad. She is a v pretty girls who gets lots of attention and is naturally quite joky and flirty. My partner of 7 years and her ... (622 words)

How can I make things better between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help me please, i really cant stop thinking about this guy, i met him in may last yr and swapped numbers, then stoped talking then in october, we started talking again, and hit it off really well, i met him 3 times and slept with him twice, the thing is now we have stoped ... (197 words)

He seems to sway towards being friendly but then gets upset about past arguments!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I have posted here before and got some helpful advice so I'm back again! I'm really confused about the behviour of my ex. We split up about a year ago but stayed in touch. During arguments he has threatened to change his phone number and never speak to me ... (371 words)

Do I shave... or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hey, im 14 years old, and i dont know if i should shave me pubic hair or not, i have heard it looks a lot better, but i'm not sure, please help? ... (36 words)

Curious about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats the right age to lose your virginity? I am 15 am I too young?!? How do I masturbate? (women)... What does sex feel like for a women? what am i letting myself in for?I don't want to have sex till I am 19 am i frigid?I want to have sex but I don't think I am ready. Wh... (73 words)

He's kept everything from his relationship with his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, I have the decition of dating a man. He is everything i like. Funny, smart, attractive, sweet, ect. The whole pacage. My mother loves him, but has no idea what is going on with me and him. We spend just about everyday togeather, and each day we get closer. I really... (208 words)

Does he want a second date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so nervous about this that I can't sleep. I went out with a really sweet guy who I really like a lot, but I'm afraid that he doesn't like me as much as I like him. We had a great conversation and lots of flirting, but nothing more than a hug at the end of the date.... (178 words)

We only have sex about 3 times a month, help!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

3 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. This is my first question so bear with me. I'm in a relationship with my fiance and have been for 4 1/2 years. We have a 2 year old child together and a mortgage and share pretty much everything. I Love her and she loves me. I couldn't imagine life without her. But... (276 words)

Afraid 2 have sex with virgin gf

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend of 3 months is a virgin. i am not a virgin and hav been in 1 relationship so far in my life. im not looking for anything 2 serios yet due 2 my former heartache but my gf keeps pestering me for sex n im afriad 2 give it 2 her. if i take her virginity then what??? ... (156 words)

Afraid boyfriend will leave me if I don't have sex

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm scared that if i don't have sex with my boyfriend he will leave me. He's not pressuring me into anything, but it does make me wonder weather this is the only thing he's interested in? He's already done it with his ex girlfriend when they were thirteen and i feel like ... (143 words)

Sex and Masturbation help!!!!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: Poster states she is 13, NOT 19 as it shows. I'm a 13 year old girl and I masturbate but i cant ever find pleasure in it...i want to finger myself but im scared i might bleed cuz im a virgin...and ther is this guy that i dirty talk with to make me horny and we both ... (68 words)

Involved with a guy but I like his housemate more! Why doesn't the latter want sex?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was having friendly sex with a guy i then meet his house mate. We get on really well, and we made out like teenages. There are a few problems. He says he dosnt want a relationship. He had a bad breakup but it was afew years ago and he dosnt want to upset his house mate. ... (133 words)

I need advice on fingering.

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I'm new to this site and don't get it that much. But, I have a question. I've been trying to finger myself a lot, and I'm a boy( Yes, I'm Gay.) How exactly do I? I've seen a lot of tips for girls to, but how do I do it since I'm a male? Please, no jokey answers. ... (61 words)

Ex just looking hotter and hotter

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well i still having strong feelings for my hot ex gf and every time i see her i just get depressed and sad because shes getting hotter every time and she has a bf tho but i feel she still likes me butt i was her first bf and she wants to see whats out there first before she ... (71 words)

Falling in love with an adopted brother?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - me(im a girl btw)and my family might adopt a guy my age (13)and im really excited about that its there is one thing im worried about.... what if we were to fall in love? I mean i dont don't think i would mind it at all! but at the same time I dont know what would happen I mean ... (79 words)

Will he take my letter the wrong way?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if i give this letter to him is he going to take it the wrong way? i dont want to leave him..its supposed to be more of a wake up call or a warning.. "i think we both know how much i love you and that my intentions in where this relationship is headed are much different than ... (217 words)

Is my obsession with wearing women's clothing healthy?

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I like to dress up in a sari with all ladies materials make up and underpants i even like to wear other ladies clothing with all ornaments bra panties make up and a wig with long hairs I wore the sari first time when i was 13 wears and became durgamata in a fancy dress co... (179 words)

He has a girlfriend. Is he not falling for me because he's afraid he'll get hurt?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I like a guy. This guy has a girlfriend. Their relationship is fairly new. I'm almost positive that this guy has feelings for me. He talks to me much more than he does his girlfriend, and we flirt often. Well, I think that the reason he isn't going for me is because he ... (128 words)

I'm scared if I say no he'll dump me!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 We had oral sex once and now he seems too want it alot... Sometimes i want it (because it feels good) but at the same time i dont want things to get out of hand but im scared that if i say i dont want too he'll dump me and i really like him, so what ... (67 words)

Small hard bump inside me?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm a 15 year old girl, and I've never had any sexual relations other than a simple peck on the lips with anyone. I recently found a small, painful bump on the right side of my privates. It's not in the vagina. When I feel it it's like a small, hard ball. Also, I used ... (81 words)

My boyfriend told me he doesn't want a relationship in college. what should I do?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, heres the deal. I'm a junior in high school. My boyfriend is a senior. We have been dating for 6 months. Our age never made a difference at all, until now. He's starting to get serious about college, and it has brought up questions about our relationship. We had a fight ... (526 words)

He's 29 years older than me!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend n me really love each other a lot. we can die for each. n v r so close to each other that v cant even imagine life without each other. the only problem is that he is 29 years older than me...i know its shocking...bu v love each other a lot. the thin is tat he is 4 ... (130 words)

I was the rebound guy

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - First post on a site like this. Any thoughts would help. I admittedly was the rebound guy. I was single and confident when I met her and simply looking for a good time. We had an amazing summer together while she was home from school. She's 20 and still in college while... (596 words)

Losing virginity to best friend?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I've seen a couple questions on this general topic, but I haven't found any specific answers so I figured I'd just ask by myself. So here's the deal. I've known this guy (he's 15, I'm 17) for the past... let's say two years. Our friendship has gotten REALLY clo... (277 words)

He said it wasn't him but the booze!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been bestfriends with this guy for a year in a half. He always had feelings for me but I never really had feelings for him. He was always there for me and I could always vent to him. 3 months ago k found out he was moving 2 1/2 hours away. We were both devistated. I knew ... (775 words)

B/friend's parents HATE me!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my bf for a year now, and his parents are an issue. His mother more so, in the beginning she wouldnt let us hold hands in her house. She says she likes me and when I go over, shes always glad to see me. Untill my bf and I fought over something trivial ... (246 words)

Should we wait a few years before dating?

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I like, and she likes me too. (we have already kissed a few times) I just turned 17 and she turns 15 in May. We have known each other since October, when we met at a football game. I am a junior and she is supposed to be a freshman, but she held herself ... (184 words)

Why be so disrespectful towards me if u claim to like me?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - if he claims he likes me why does he disrespect me? today a guy i dont even date embarrased me in front a group of people. the thing is since 2008 we have liked each other on and off. well today was his birthday n he asked me if he can cop feels on me i said no n walked away. ... (229 words)

Horny around my 17 year old sister!

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old male. And I have started to get horny when I am around my 17 year old sister. I don't know if I should keep hanging out with her or if I should stop until these feelings pass. Please help.... (47 words)

How can I keep friends that will make me happy?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a group of friends that lately have been treating me horribly i cry all the time. so i decided that i would stop being friends with them and they dont seem to care which hurts me even more. i tried making new friends so that i have new people to be with but they seem to ... (134 words)

Was it a mistake to leave that V-mail?

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3 January 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a year ago and I contacted him in September and he called me back a few minutes later and I explained my regrets and how I know what went wrong etc etc Basically he wasn't looking to jump back in with both feet like we were in a relationship again ... (585 words)

How do I relieve this sexual tension?

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3 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So, this is going to sound complicated and rather weird. Question #1: So last year, for about 8 months I had a boyfriend. We had sex nearly every day (Sometimes more than twice a day) we were very sexual. I loved him very very much. But we broke up last May. During the summe... (200 words)

During sex sometimes I just don't want it anymore!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - H. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. we have a great sex life, and we get along like a house on fire. It's just, sometimes when we have sex, just sometimes, we get into it, and obviously im horny etc etc, but then, out of nowhere i just don't want it ... (254 words)

Should we continue to disobey her parents?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there's this girl (i am a girl too), there is a bit of distance, but in the end, i feel that its a minor problem. Basically, this girl and i have just been talking for a few months. We realize it would be sort of hard to officially label ourselves as a couple, because ... (393 words)

How does the zodiac sign picese attract another picese with bipolar?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this boy... he is really hot. He's 14 and his zodiac sign is a picese. i just would like to know how i could make him fall in love with me. we happen to both be the zodiac sign. i just need somebody to help me figure out how i could make him like me. and want to kiss me. ... (101 words)

Do a lot of men not like oral sex?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!I am asking for help with something that has been bothering me. My boyfriend does not like to give oral sex-at all. I just want to know if he is one of the rare few that do not enjoy this. . .or are there more than I realize? I would really appreciate any feedback!... (55 words)

Prison not Broken Heart

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The way i met my current fiance was while being pen pals to inmates from a site i found online. I wanted just to make new friends and give people who are in jail hope that there are people out there who will listen, not judge and can be friends with them. i understand their ... (292 words)

Is it possible that the condom broke and we didn't notice?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for about a year now. We are both 18 and in college and we had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago. We did use protection. My period was supposed to come a week after, but it still hasn't and my breasts have been very tender/swollen/s... (105 words)

She is 34, I am 21, and I am in love with her!!!! what shal I do? any Advive pls??????

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all, I met a girl who is almost 10-12 years older than me. But through our communication we both feel that we have many things in common, and there are small differences which we can adjust. But I haven't still spoken of my feelings to her and neither did she as we both are ... (106 words)

Since the LDR started, our roles have reversed

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship and have been for about 4 months. obviously it is really difficult but I am starting to wonder if my boyfriend is losing interest in me. we dated for 7 months before we started being long distance. i really love him and he used to (and ... (283 words)

In love with my boss, obsessed by him!

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my boss. So much so that I have become obsessed by him. I have downloaded pictures of him to my computer and saved each of his voice mails that he has left for me. Over the past two years I have tried to get close to him but he doesn't get any of the hints I ... (106 words)

Is it possible to lose this much weight quickly?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have low self esteem and i am also very inactive, my BMI is at 42/43 at the minute and i am very unhappy in myself. but my question is how long and how fast will i be able to lose 112lbs (8 stone) (50 kilos) if i started going to the gym say 3 times a week doing the e... (126 words)

Lonely, lost and confused

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is long and confusing and hard to put everything into context but in a nutshell - i am totally confused about my feelings i keep having about my brother in law. History - I have been with my current partner for 15 years, we met at high school and i became pregnant ... (770 words)

Is it normal for a guy to place his hand on the small of a girl's back?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I understand that friends or a boyfriend might touch a girl's lower back in a "leading" kind of way, but what if the guy who does this is merely an acquaintance - if that?... (34 words)

Is he only interested because I am unavailable?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age - I am in an unhappy relationship for over 7 years. Have a child but do not feel relationship is going any where. Have developed a crush on another man who knows my bf. Whenever I see him he acts nervous and keeps staring at me when I am not looking. We have spoken about thi... (141 words)

This woman will do things my wife will not do

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am currently married 10+ years. Was married nearly 10 previous. Have posted an ad for a descrete sexual relationship and found my potential match. She is willing to do things with me my wife will not. She wants me to do things that my wife would never have me do. I feel sex ... (138 words)

Why am I having these dreams? What do they mean?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been having these dreams lately about this man i never really noticed who he was until i thought about it deeply, i remember this man from when i was seven i remember the police interviews with the camera's in different of the rooms and some of the questions she asked ... (273 words)

How many people got divorced last year?

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - just want to know how many peopel they divorce last years thanks?... (12 words)

Dont think I'm in love anymore how can I get it back

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 1/2 yrs we have a 8 month baby boy. I know I love My husband but haven't really felt in love for a while I feel he takes me for granted everything I do is wrong, he fusses about everything. I hate fussing and fighting I tried to act just like him for a ... (123 words)

Pushing things in the right direction

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so.. i am talking to the same guy i have been posting about and we are talking again just recently and i guess we are kind of in between friends and gf and bf.. we went through so much together and he wants to give us a chance to see if we should get together or just stay ... (102 words)

Why do my legs shake when I have an orgasm?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know i sound realy stupid asking a question like this but my new boyfriend used to be a bit of a slut so i guessed he knows what hes talking about. We have been having sex but when i orgasm my legs tremble and shake, he always asks if something is wrong and if he is hurting ... (113 words)

Help! Her past is freaking me out!!!

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid, here I am again. Yesterday I had the strangest day of my life. With my Gf we are together for 7 months, and we really love and live together in same appartement.May be in future she will be my wife who knows. So yesterday she was very upset that at new year I ... (337 words)

Isn't she into me any more?

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Ive been in a relationship with the same woman for over 14 years and we are both in our thirties. We have two children 2(boy) and 7(girl) my lady says that i annoy her too much when i try to cuddle (she says i'm too heavy or i'm squishing her. I'm an averege size man 5'9" 180 ... (197 words)

He won't have sex with me because I'm pregnant yet pleasures himself with porn!!!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 27 weeks pregnant with my partner. There is a 20 year age gap between us. He told me he is not sexually attracted to me any more and then tried to tell me that he didn't say that a few days later and that he meant it its because of the baby he doesnt want to have sex. He ... (278 words)

My cousin blows hot and cold with me... is he using me or does he really have feelings for me?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my cousin and i had sex last summer but i was drunk and he wasn't. well long story short, i love him so much and i think he feels the same. then about 4 weeks ago, we had sex again, and it was better than before!! well, he avoids me, and when it's just us, he's all touchy feely ... (104 words)

Terrified of going ahead with this in case it leaves me in an emotional shambles again... Help!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i had decided to get married in 2 years but later he put it on hold saying his parents wouldn't agree to the match. He suggested that we should just remain friends. I had stopped picking up his calls to try to get over it. But after a couple of months he has contacted ... (120 words)

I'm really confused as to whether he likes me... or not...

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i met a boy a while back (who is a bit older than me)but never spoke then recently i went to a party and we got talking, he asked me lots of questions about me and seemed genuinly interested and always seemed to direct the questions at me. he was always trying to make me laugh ... (306 words)

Will he be disappointed if we don't have sex on our first date seeing as he's coming all this way to see me?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age - I met a man online and we are meeting face to face within a few weeks. He lives out of town about five hours a way. My question is, I do not have sex with a man, unless I fall in love with him. When I am emailing him, I am telling him about myself. I put in the email that I am ... (129 words)

I really think he's changed. How can I get my friends to like him more?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to a boy i met at a party a couple of years ago and he seems really nice so we have met up a lot these past few months, i have really started to like him but my friends dont, i dont see what their problem is as they have never really spoken to him. But he ... (124 words)

Premature when condom is put on...?

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or atleast hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i dont try to cum as fast as I ... (310 words)

How can I push things forward in the right direction?

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I have really liked for a couple of years now, who I am friends with. For the last year or so she has had a boyfriend, but recently she broke up with him. When she was still with him, I told her that I had really strong feelings for her and wanted to be with ... (173 words)

Are we too young to want to be together for the rest of our lives?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello (: I'm new to this site, but every time I type something into google to look for advice, I always get sent here. Right now, I am dating a boy who is a year younger than I am. I am 15 years old (almost 16) and he is 14. He's (as I call him) my "good little catholic ... (195 words)

I need this harrassment to stop!!!

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted this question a few months ago, now i really need your feedback on what action to take, if any, to get my ex to leave me alone. Update: I received another email from him on xmas eve. it was not threatening, but he went over our relationship again. i broke down becau... (451 words)

What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first move or just accept being horny all the time?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my new b/f and i have only had sex a few times..at first it was hard 4 me 2 get wet with him bcuz i was so nervous being that we had been friends 4 a few years. Now it seems like i always want to do him but he's not around.. What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first ... (74 words)

Help! I feel as if I am losing my sanity over my non existent sex life!

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3 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Hello there, I am an aunt here who never posts anonymously but tonight I'm feeling discouraged and cowardly I guess. Earlier this year, I had a short-lived text relationship that was innappropriate with a much younger man. It started off innocently on my part, but somewhere I ... (519 words)

Should I let him continue to text me first or should I take the initiative sometimes?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i was wondering if anyone could give me some advice please. My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago we were togather for 10 months. we said we would still be friends and he's texed me a couple times. We talk just fine but i was wondering if i should text him first ... (139 words)

She dumped me to be with an old man!

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife dumped me, she is with an old man (63 years old), she is 41 years old, will the relationship work out? She is acting like 15 years old but I'm more worried about my baby who is 8 years old, I'm really not sure what to do, I'm heart broken. She dumped 17 years of ... (67 words)

Can I trust him again... I love him so much?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's the thing I was with my boyfriend for 8months when I found some texts from another girl being really flirty when I confronted him about it I asked him staight if he was flirting and he said yes! I agreed to stay with him if he didn't text her any more, but a few days ... (196 words)

Help with insecurity...

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3 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have new found problems with insecutrity and need input on whether I need help or if I am not actually doing wrong or acting wrong. This will be kinda long, but here goes... I have been married for about four years now. My wife left me about a year ago ... (398 words)

Does anyone else feel like a stranger the morning after sex?

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3 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the other night i was round my blokes house for the night and we had amazing sex he kept going for ages which really pleasured us both. the next morning when we got up it was like the previous night never happened. Does anyone else feel like a stranger the morning after se... (56 words)