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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a little over two months. at first it was really painful for her now it just is when we start or if we go too long. she loves doing it but its not pleasurable for her at all shes turned on and we're trying new stuff and going over old things but nothing seems to be making it any better for her. please post if you have any idea how to make sex pleasurable for her lack the emotional state answers Reply to this Question
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (5 January 2010):
It takes up to an hour of foreplay for a woman to be ready for sex. Kissing, stroking, oral for her. Some women end up pretending to be ready just to get over and done with it especially if they sense that you are getting impatient and pushy. So just lots of patience from you. If she tries to speed things up then tell her you are taking your time. If she climaxes first then it will be better for you both.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 Well the fact that it hurts right when you start indicates that she's not turned on enough before sex. If she's not already aroused and enjoying things before you start having sex, she's probably not going to enjoy it during sex much either. I know you say she's turned on, but sex should not hurt. Losing your virginity generally hurts a bit. But after that if sex continues to hurt it could either be a medical condition, or it could be that she's not aroused enough or not lubricated enough. If you're sure that her being turned on is not the issue try just adding in some lube to see if that helps. It's impossible for her to enjoy sex if it hurts and lube is pretty cheap. Hopefully that's all you need. Also remember that most women can't orgasm from intercourse alone so you may need to add in some manual stimulation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): ask her or rub around the vagina area while havng sex
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