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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He still wants to see me and have sex with me but doesn't want the title of my boyfriend!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I met this guy and it was like love at first sight for both of us so as days passed he asked me out on a date and obviously I replied yes and accepted so this date turned into a relationship. we dated for 3 years, only problem was he was a Muslim and I am catholic, along ... (454 words)

I don't think my relationship is going anywhere! Just broke off our engagement.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age - Hello: Okay first of all I called off my engagement to my now ex fiance last Monday, he is using drugs, someone put a envelope with a letter in it week before last then there are the lies and he will not talk when he should, we live together I have gave him the first option to ... (250 words)

What's her game? Is she leading me on...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, female, and bi. I spent the night at one of my close friend's house last night, who I have a huge crush on. She knows I like her because I told her a while back ago, but she said she doesn't feel the same. Anyway, last night she was being very touchy. She got extremely ... (174 words)

I feel my life is a mess at the moment... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I'm sorry for the long post in advance, but i really need some help/advice. I'm 17 years old, turning 18 in 6 months and I would say i'm an average teenager as i've faced problems in my life, just like everybody else. I've been a little on the heavy side all m... (1097 words)

I feel if I get too close to him he'll leave me...

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with this guy for over half a year and realy like him and trust him about everything but for some reason we have never made out... every time he tries to i stop him after like 10 sec and i dont know why, i think about him all the time and i want to be close to him ... (82 words)

Pregnancy Smyptons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I read many posts on this site and I value the advice u give people. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex just after my last months period but not durin my ovulation period. I was just wonderin how soon can u experience pregnancy symptons. My period is not ... (126 words)

Is this a lost cause or can we eventually be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl I like and we've been like best friends for just over 3 years now. She knows I like her and asked her out back in September, and her reason for saying no was 'you can do better' Its quite painful knowing that she used to like me years ago, but i was shy... (94 words)

I know it was a one way relationship ........

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically i've been trying to ignore this girl because i've realised that i've become really clingy with her since shes become a big part of my life, and well i want to take things further but i know it would cause alot of problems for her since i'm chinese agnostic and she's ... (170 words)

Christmas day shuffle, he wanted to be with his family, I wanted to be with mine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I and my husband been having alot of problems because I and his mom do not get along. For xmas Ihad a big fight with his parents and sister because I wanted to leave early to my family and they were in the middle of opening the gifts. he deffend his family and I leaf with my 3 ... (70 words)

I left school too early, now I want to know how to gain the qualifications I need

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello readers i have decided that i would like to be a peditrician when i am older. but the thing is that i left school when i was 16 and i have no further education. i was wondering if anyone could help me in which qualifications i need to make it as a pediatrician and... (85 words)

I don't know how to tell him the pic on myspace is a fake

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I had a challenge. At first I wasn't going to do it but agreed that we wldnt do it for long. The challenge was to get a fake pic and post it on myspace and see if u could act fake. I hated doing it and secretly didn't add any friends or talked to anyone. But this ... (126 words)

My ex and I met up before Christmas, and I wonder if there is still a flame flickering for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm in need of some Help and would really appreciate any suggestions/thoughts. My ex and I split up a year ago but stayed in touch and met up before Christmas and we didn't sleep together but we did hug goodbye and kiss each other on the mouth and he stood hugging me ... (144 words)

I love my b/f but I also wonder what is "out there"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, he is my first everything and so for a while now I've been feeling like I want to know what's out there before I commit to him entirely. I love him and he's perfect for me, but part of me still ... (248 words)

I am shy, could he be shy too?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know about this guy... I see him a couple of times a week and he's maybe in mid-20's, and I'm 18. He's always kind... never mean to anyone really. He seems to be confident in himself and he's not at all soft-spoken, he just doesn't speak much. Sometimes he's been ... (462 words)

My last g/f said I lacked in the bedroom department, now I worry about my new relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old male who has been single for 6 years. Back in 2004, when i was 16, i fell in love with a girl who i had a crush on all through primary and secondary school. We hooked up and all seemed good, until i found out she’d cheated on me numerous times with her ex. ... (281 words)

My friends seem to chose guys based on looks

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17 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - When I talk to my friends, their requirements for guys are mainly based on looks. My friends are very pretty- they have always been told they are pretty and they know they are pretty. When they talk, they talk about wanting to date a "hot guy" or not liking a guy because he is ... (233 words)

My b/f danced with, and almost kissed, another girl, now I can't trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. about 2 and a half months ago my boyfriend of then 6 months went to a club and danced with another girl (i mean proper dancing - he told me he had a semi) then as she pulled him to kiss him he realised what he was doing and pulled away as lips touched. he said that when ... (219 words)

I don't know how to get over post break up depression

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i wonder if you can help me, what is the best way to deal with post break up depression, as i have just came out of a 2 year relationship, i cant stop crying whenever a situation makes me think of my ex.... i get really bad insomnia sometimes being up for 3 days at a time... (105 words)

All the other kids are teasing me about my crush on teacher

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i like my gym teacher. i know i'm not in love with him but all the kids bug me. they send me messages on facebook myspace and everything to tease me.we arnt dating and i told the kids this but i don't know whatelse to say.help me.... (47 words)

I want a holiday, I don't want to pay, b/f has no money, how to convince him to come?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - really want a holiday this summer but boyfriend has no money and i don't think i should be expected to pay. how can i convince him to go away with me?... (31 words)

My boyfriend is heavily in debt and I don't think it will be cleared before he retires

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 50 is in £25,000 debt and it doesn't look like it's going to be cleared by the time he's retired. he says it's a mixture of things but generally bulit up from everyday living - i can't really see how because he hasn't had any luxuries altough he's got 5 ... (59 words)

I feel I am his second option when it comes to people he spends time with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help or advice its a lil long but someone please hel.So me and my boyfriend of soon to be 6 years we live together and have a 4 year old son. so the problem is that he has a friend and he is related to me and i feel that all his attention goes to him. every where we go ... (225 words)

I can't show affection to my boyfriend

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, why cant i show affection to my boyfriend? he says when he trys to kiss me i either move so it lands on my cheek or if i kiss him on the lips its just a peck. and i never show affection in public. he says i never used to be like this.. why the change? i have str... (76 words)

I don't know... Does love exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello =). In this summer vacation i met this girl, she was everything i dream about, she was so beautiful and at the same time she was smart and sweet and had a great personality, wow she has been the best girl i met. You know, when i ask her out she say yes, but when i talk ... (172 words)

How do I get my ex to forgive me for what I did?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This past December, I reconciled with my ex after a 9 month breakup. Before that breakup, we had been together for 4 years. We were engaged to be married. We weren't getting a long and I started to get cold feet. We were fighting all the time and I was struggling with ... (903 words)

I want to give my new boyfriend head...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

17 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - so i want to give my new boyfriend head. we`ve been together 3 months and we have started to get sexual. ive done it before to my ex and the ex before that and they always said it was really good. but the problem is... they were both small-average size. about 5 inches and ... (164 words)

What's wrong with me? I love my teacher (not IN love)

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I've been doing as much research as possible over the internet on this topic but none of the cases I found were quite the same as mine, and after months of searching for advice online and finding nothing, I've decided to post my question on here. So here's the thing: (... (876 words)

She dumped me, moved on and has a new boyfriend, but is calling me - why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Long story short; My Ex and I went out for 18 months. Last month we broke up (she broke up with me a few days after I talked to her about how she is always lying to me and others). We were deeply in Love. We also lived together. Anyways, the break up was hard and rocky. A few... (435 words)

How do you truly know when you're over someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i think i got over my ex because i've stopped crying over him and the wishful thinkin about us bein together but i dont know if i really am or is it a sub-consious front. I got over him but picturing him with my best friend, because i heard a rumour he liked her and i ... (114 words)

He messed with my head telling me he wanted to get back together when he didn't, did I do the right thing telling him to f*** off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After a month of NC with my ex boyfriend, he text me telling me he misses me, that he loves me and he would do anything to get me back. I didn't reply, but on Friday after thinking about it for a long time sent him a text telling him I loved him and completely share... (227 words)

We broke up because I had depression and he cheated, we still have sex, should we get back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii.. Mmm.. The name is Daisy and nearly seventeen. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 2 years, we've been having intercourse for one year. we broke up due to me getting depression and i needed time alone and he cheated on me - but regrets it (he really shows he r... (158 words)

He calls his ex when he feels down... shouldn't it be ME he comes to???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there so pretty much my life sucks...my bf treats me like crap he told me he has nothing to look forward to in life which made me feel just wonderful...(not!) and he texts his ex girlfriend when he is down and needs someone to cheer him up and feel better. i tried talking ... (103 words)

I want another child but he has had the snip

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll apologize for the length up front coz I know what a yap yap I can be and expect this will be long lol, so dont read it if too long for ya, but dont complain if ya do coz U have been warned ..lol Before we got together, he knew I wanted another child, ... and I knew he ha... (1053 words)

I still love him and would like to try again but I'm not sure how to proceed.

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17 January 2010 (F)

We married on a whim and now I regret it

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - On 2008, I dated a girl who I thought was the perfect woman for me. Somebody who can be a great wife and good mother for my children. I propose to her in four months. After leaving together for a month, we got married. Then, everything changed. She started getting emotional ... (170 words)

My mom has just told me my boyfriend is my cousin

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, erm I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I am madly in love and everything was going fine. Until that is when a few days ago my mom drops the bombshell on me that we are third or fourth cousins, I don't understand why nobody told me before, I think she ... (141 words)

How do I get him to believe I don't want anyone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been goin out with this lad since 22nd december 09 then he dumped me on 15th jan 10 so i thought maybe i have done something wrong and the excuse i got was x said that you fancied someone else and yo took my name off msn so i explained that x was lieing and that i didnt ... (164 words)

Why does my ex want me to resend messages about my other ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex (Ted) left me for another girl about a year ago. This was really depressing but I tried to move on and after 3 months, I had a new boyfriend (Jim). After about 3 months, Jim and I broke up as he was moving to another place and he wanted me to move with him which I can't ... (392 words)

I can't move on from my first love and it's tainting my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf cumulatively about 8 months while we've been on and off for about a year and a half. My feelings for him are definitely growing and now they are to the point that I do love him. The problem is, I can't tell if it's in a romantic way that I love him. My ex ... (318 words)

He put his penis in unprotected, now I'm late, but it wasn't full on sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age - Okay, so I don't know much about sex but lately I've gotten incredibly paranoid. A little while ago things with my boyfriend heated up and he stuck his penis in without a condom, but things did not get intense because we both didn't really move and it only lasted about a ... (99 words)

What is sex like? How do you know when you are ready?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im just curious.. What is sex like? Is your first time special or akward? How do you know when your ready?x... (21 words)

My boyfriend says I have to ditch my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend and me have been through a few rough patches including some really rough ones. we have spent the past year or so patching things up. We have gone through a lot and known each other for years. My partner is now telling me that I HAVE to dump him and never speak ... (82 words)

Nothing is going right for me, no education, job or girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone to be honest i don't know where to begin because i have so many problems i dont know where to start i have no education because i left school at 16 i have no job and everyone i apply to they reject me. i still don't know what i want to be when i am olde... (151 words)

We broke up as he preferred video games, he has a new girlfriend but says he still has feelings for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother) 6 months ago. Our relationship was great but he got to the point where he had started avoiding me and was always playing computer games. I didn't want too break up, I was in love with him but I had doubts he felt the ... (380 words)

Does anyone here HATE the dating game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - does anyone here hate the dating game? i went on a date with a girl who lives about 1hr away from me, and it went really well, and we are going to hang out again soon. I always am wondering if she likes me or is she getting bored of me, does she think im boring now that ... (107 words)

I need help to tell her how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok first off I was drunk when I typed this I never share my feelings with anyone and waited till I was more sober to post it here it goes I have a friend, me and her met a few months ago, and all I can say is she is the most amazing girl I've ever met. At first I thought ... (149 words)

Why did I cause her to be in such a state of shock ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I went out with a girl for two years, one i worked with. I found out by chance she had been seeing someone else at work, I walked it hurt, remained as best i could with dignity. This was two years ago. I always found it difficult to interact with her after that, though i tred ... (830 words)

I'm a girl starting to notice girls??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so this is totally weird for me. I am straight, but recently I have started to notice girls too. I don't really like them that way, but I'm interested in their bodies more than guys. I don't think I'm bisexual, but I don't know if this is just a part of growing up or if I ... (81 words)

Relationship confusion, bigtime!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, i have been seeing this guy for about three months now and its been great up until i met his children last week...well let me make it clear first that i am bi and a guy...so when i met them everything was good at first and a few minutes later my boyfriend pulls me to the ... (410 words)

Dating: My parents still see me as their little girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I feel I am ready to date, but my parents have different ideas. I know that when it comes to stuff like dating, they still see me as their little girl. I try to talk to them, but as soon as I start, they won't listen to me at all!!! It feels... (141 words)

Hasn't been the same since his grandfather died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have been in a realtionship for the 18 months now, at first me an my guy were so in love, best of friends etcetc, but a few months ago it began to go down hill. He suffered a major loss as his grandad died, so i tried to let him no i was there for him but also gave hi... (229 words)

Gambling problem and he lies about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance is having a gambling problem and i know everytime he does go and then he tells me he went to see a client or went for a drive , and now a dont even know if he does love me when tells me he does , i dont believe a word that comes out off his mouth anymore now we do ... (110 words)

There is something wrong between me and my professor

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - HI everyone, i need some advice. i am now 22 years old and i am the 4th year student at my college. There is one male professor in my college. He is 36 years old and hold PHD. Anyway, for the last 6 months, all of my friends observed that he always stare at me too often ... (544 words)

Sexless relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now and at the beginning he was very keen for us to have sex. Problem was I was a virgin and I told him this. Anyway the first time we tried to have sex, it hurt and I bled a little. The bleeding carried on for 1 day and I was a ... (242 words)

Growing attachment to my best friend's girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have a really horrible situation. I am very much in like with my best friend's GF. She's not the hottest girl I've ever seen or anything. Shoot, in my book she's a 6/10. Yes, I'm horrible I rate looks. I do my best to stay away from her, but my friend keeps... (203 words)

Why is it that a girls virginity seems to be more important than a guy's?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Something I've been wanting to know for ever is, why is it that a girls virginity seems to be more important than a guy's?... (24 words)

I love a girl but I can't tell her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I love one girl. But I can't tell her. What Shall I Do? I am 15 years old. Am i aged for dating? What Does Dating mean... (32 words)

I feel I am being pulled into a relationship I'm not ready for yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and I've been dating this girl who is 22 for about 2 months now and everything has been fine. However, recently she brought her five year old daughter to live with her which changes the dynamic of our relationship considerably. Originally, I thought her daughter did... (346 words)

I think I love my cousin, but in a romantic way, not a cousinly way

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I love my cousin, not in a family way. But he's not really my cousin, we were both adopted. Is it wrong that I like him in a Romantic way? Please help!!... (34 words)

I'm not sure if he wants to have sex with me or not... how can I bring it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 monthes and I know he's not a viqin and he jokes about sex all the time but never asks me about doing it or anything. I really want to have sex with him but i dont know how to bring it up. I'm not sure if he'd want to have sex with me...... (63 words)

My boyfriend needs to chose, me or the weed!

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17 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi...so I have a huge problem going on right now. My boyfriend of almost a year is amazing and I'm very much in lovve with him as he is me. But he has a past with drugs and is now starting to want to get back into doing them. I tell him I don't want him doing them and he keeps ... (139 words)

Help! How can I make her fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16, I'm not bi or lesbian but I still fall in love with girls, this year in school I fell in love with this girl but for some reason I can't seem to smile in front of her. I always get this angry or sad look on my face whenever she looks at me. I don't know why, maybe she ... (106 words)

My husband has taken a lower paying job so that he can study and I am angry about it!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I Married 1.5yrs together 10. We are both nurses and we moved from one side of the country to the other 1.5 years ago. When we moved my husband worked temp jobs for a little while and I did not seek employment do to anxiety and depression following being ... (289 words)

My boyfriend is getting turned off sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am only 18 and i have a huge problem... My problem is i get so wet i actually can have a puddle by the time me and my bf finish having sex and it is such a problem not only because of the mess obviously but also because my bf cant get off and finds it a turn off and because ... (105 words)

What does bootycall mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, ok simple question. This guy told my friend that she was a "bootycall". What in the world does that mean ?? Thanks alot... (25 words)

I was breaking out in pimples so I bought an over the counter product and now I look even worse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there, ok so im 15 yrs old and I started breaking out bad on my forehead on the left side of my cheek. Im kind of like a drama queen so i couldnt handle it anymore so i went out and bought Proactiv. I started using it for about 2 weeks and it had a burning sensation when i ... (121 words)

I need advise of a sexual nature

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend loves when I give him head, but I can't do it for very long because I start to gag. Is there anything I can do to prevent gagging while doing this?... (33 words)

He flirted with me at church, asked for my number but now has cooled off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - it's kinda long story... i met this guy at church before one day he came to me, introduced each other then we didn't meet each other till one day i talk to him to ask something,he answered coldly at first.next week he came to me and said he wants my number so that we'll be ab... (260 words)

What can you expect from girls in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what are some things that guys have to deal with when being in a relationship with his girl? some things that girls just do but you have to deal with.... (30 words)

Why did my boyfriend cheat on me with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why did my best friend cheat on me with my boyfriend they dont even know i know what should i do... (21 words)

Why is he all of the sudden being so clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

17 January 2010 (F)

age - This guy and I were FWB for nearly a year. Gradually it got to where he couldn't do the deed. I couldn't understand his problem as he wouldn't talk about it, so I backed off. His personality and mood became dark. I didn't want to be around him. Recently he got into on-... (222 words)

How can I not talk to her but still have her in my future?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So Im caught in the crossfire with two girls, check it out here's the situation. Ive been with this one female going on four years, i devirginized her, showed her what she know's, and everything. Only thing is over the years i put her through hell, and i know im not right for ... (489 words)

Should we break up now or wait until we go to college?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years now. We are both seniors in high school. I already know where I am going to college, but she doesn't know where she's going. The problem is just a week ago she got rejected from the last school that was close to me. ... (174 words)

Is his behavior my fault?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. It's been pretty good, hanging out with him and stuff. One day we were watching a movie,and then he walked me home. The next day, he glared at me, would not speak to me, and whenever I tried to talk to him, he would ... (144 words)

What is your definition of respect?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age - I am in a relationship with a man who calls me the C word often for "acting like one". He feels this acceptable, am I missing something here? Men please describe your level of respect for and what kind of person fits the label? Ladies please let me know how degraded you would ... (56 words)

I have a crush on a "straight" guy.

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I’ve been debating where I could actually post this and get opinions and thoughts on it. I’ve tried typing out the situation I’m about to explain many times, but I often lose focus and tend to just stop writing… This is kind of lengthy, so please be pre-wa... (1538 words)

Does this mean I'm a lesbian?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - One day I went to my friends house and I was playing with her for like three hours then me and her went outside so her mother said by girls then we went out side then me and her was talking then started to wrestle so then I picked her up and put her on the grass then as we fell ... (112 words)

My girlfriend is perfect so why am I still looking?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for somewhat more than a year now. I'm 24, she's 20, I have a college degree from a top school, and have a stable well paying job. She's in college. I'm pretty intelligent and am fit. She's in good shape too and does decently at school. Our ... (509 words)

Am I crazy or is my teacher interested in me?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a former teacher asks you if you're a senior yet? My 9th grade art teacher saw me for the first time since he left the school for another teaching job. He recently came back and When he saw me he seemed happy to see me. anyway, he asked " are you a senior... (326 words)

Would telling him I love him change our friendship?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Would telling my best friend that I'm in love with him change our friendship? If it might, how would I ever be able to tell him that I really like him? How exactly should I tell someone that I like him a lot and that I would like to go out with him without making it sound too ... (69 words)

Will he be locked up for getting me pregnant?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'am 17 and pregnant by my boyfriend who is 23 and i want be 18 until feb.23.2010 this year can he get locked up even if i didnt want him to and my mother know's how old he is and she's okay with the age difference? ... (46 words)

Could my lesbian friend have deeper feelings for me?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently a sophomore in high school, and I met my current best friend back in 7th. We've been best friends ever since we started talking, but then I moved away for 3 years, but now I'm back so we're back in touch and able to see each other again. My best friend is a lesbia... (380 words)

Should I assume she wants to equalize the treats?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just got rejected because the girl happened to have a boyfriend and all... We decided to meet up for coffee but then she asked me if I want to do dinner instead. The last dinner we had, it was on me so I am assuming she wants to equalize the treats. Not really in for a dinner ... (91 words)

Is our affair worth all this stress?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with a married woman for the last 4 years. We know the relationship is never going to go anywhere due to our commitment to our respective partners. Over the last few months I have seen our affair is adding stress to my love and have suggested on ... (165 words)

Should I sleep with my married boss?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am considering sleeping with my boss. He is married with a family, and from the outside all seems fairly happy and normal, I am single and have not been in a relationship for a while (so had been feeling rather lonely). I've known him for over 6 years and we are work friends, ... (355 words)

Does the guy have to be hard to have sex?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. So I see people saying on here when their guy looses their "hardness" they don't do sex after that. So I was just curious does the guy have be hard to have sex??... (34 words)

Am I worrying too much or is he up to something?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to start this by saying that my husband has always been a private person, he hates when I look through any of his stuff. (drawers, boxes, use his phone, ect.) We have been together since the beginning of high school, my sophomore year he was talking to a girl. I had no ... (196 words)

It's just problem after problem...

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with the same guy for three years and I've been living with him for two out of all and we've broken up twice and fight like cats an dogs. I'm not going to lie we were both once hard into digs and have quit but he hasn't I've gotten him to quit most but he still tends ... (319 words)

How do we move on to the next level?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with a guy for almost 1 year now and the other day he tried to go a little farther and take my shirt off. no guy has ever done that with me before becose he is only my second bf. anyways i dint know how to react so i just asked him to stop and he did but since then ... (86 words)

After sex with new boyfriend, is it normal to have an irrational fear of being dumped?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I had a longterm relationship that ended over a year ago that was full of lies and abuse. I thought it would be a really long time before I'd meet someone else, however I met someone about 6months later. We've been together for a while now and I like him alot. He... (329 words)

Advice needed please. Problems with sex...

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we want to make love. To my distress we're both virgins. He can't seem to get hard at the right times and yesterday when he did and got a condom on it all went downhill from there. I don't think he was up for very long ... (127 words)

In love with depressed friend.

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, looking for advice. My best friend suffers from depression, and has very poor self esteam. I have however, fallen for him. Ive found it in me to tell him how i feel and he says he cant feel that. It was a crushing blow and one I really found it hard to get over - Im n... (177 words)

Everything was good, how did it go wrong?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months and we have the same likes in almost everything we like the same football team, we are both compatable in sex we like the same music and even the same candy if i wasent wrong i thought we are each others soul mates. ... (188 words)

Boyfriend LIES!

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years lies to me every time he hangs out with his once friend that I'm not fond of. Whenever he goes out to see him, he always tells me he was with his cousin or with another friend. However, I know that he's 100% lying because I've read his texts before he ... (202 words)

Why won't she tell me what's wrong?

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17 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been with my girlfirend for about a year now and I must say, it's been going well. Since I went to university, we've been fighting more and more. Little things turned into huge matters. She used to be able to tell me anything that was bugging her. Now whenever sh... (295 words)

Was it really necessary that he delete me from his Facebook?

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently started seeing an old flame from the summer... long story short, he ended it with me to be with his ex. Then him and his ex didn't work out and now he's been single. He had been contacting me for a while again and I finally agreed to see him. We saw each other for ... (332 words)

No visa - no win situation.

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there This is a bit complicated so please bear with me. My boyfriend Albanian but lives in Sicily where we met six months ago. He can't visit me because his residency gets him into the shengen countries of which our lovely UK is not part. He applied for a visa for ... (616 words)

I am crushing on my cousin!

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know why but recently i have been having feelings for my cousin. Now i know that this is wrong but i just get weak at the knees when he smiles and i think he knows about it because he gives all the hints and we always give hugs and kisses to people in our family and he ... (72 words)

I want him back but he showed me up by cheating on me

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17 January 2010 (F)

We are expecting our second child, but he doesn't even want to hang out with me!

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 4years we have a lovely daughter nd another one on the way. He works alday from 5 till 6,7 at nite it veries with the wheather nd wen hes not home hes with his friends,i never get time to myself or with him how do i get him to do stuff with me ... (75 words)

I worry about when he is ready for sex that I still wont be

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17 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I am 15-years-old. My boyfriend and I have not been dating for very long, but I feel like he's the one. I've had many boyfriends before and he is the only one I have ever considered having sex with. (We're both still virgins, by the way.) The first time we talked a... (172 words)