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*oplessInLove
writes:I'm in love with my best friend. We've know each other for years (13 to be exact). She knows. She says that she is afraid of losing me when I've made it abundantly clear that nothing, and I mean nothing, could make that happen. I love her too much to just leave her b/c we didn't work out romantically. She used to say that she felt like I was her brother, but that changed about 2 months ago when we kissed. Things haven't changed, no awkward silences, no idiotic remarks from either of us. In fact the only thing that has changed is that when our eyes' meet we stare into each others eyes' so deeply that I feel like she's looking into my soul (cliche, I know). Sometimes I feel like maybe she's trying to hold her self back from kissing me. If you could only see the way she looks into my eye's you'd understand what I'm talking about. I'm hopelessly, endlessly in love with her. I truly believe that she is my One True Love. Oh yeah, and recently, b/c of my job, I had to relocate. Who do you think offered to shack me up when I got here. That's right my BF. So I now live with her as well. We've always shared everything so it's really nothing new to us. I mean we have a joint bank account, and our checks have both our names on them. We're a couple, but not really a couple "exclusively" as some would word it. Like I said I'm hopelessly in love with her, and I know she loves me too. She's just afraid of what might happen. So my question is this. What can I do to prove to her that I'm the real deal. That I would be the guy who would be with her until the day that I die. How do I reassure her that no matter what happens I'm always gonna be there??? How do I become more than a friend to my best friend?Much love peeps,
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reader, kayxlovesxjamiex  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 what you just said, say to her! tell her youd be in it for the real deal, your not just after 1 thing, tell her u love her, tell her u wanna be with her, just repeat what u just wrote to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): awe, really seems like you are deeply in love with her. I don't know if you could show her even more that you're the one for her, she has to take the time to see it for herself and see what she really has. My boyfriend confessed to me that he loved me (he was my bestfriend for 2 years) and all I could do was deny my feelings for him. I then took the chance, and now i've been with him for 7 months going on 8. it's really amazing because he knows everything about me, and he gets me. I think you should confess or tell her basically over and over again that you're truly in love with her and no matter what you guys will always be bestfriends (: nothing could break you're friendship up because it's too strong. (: Hope you the best!
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