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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Any decision I make now I'm afraid I'll regret later!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious problem. I had a 4 year relationship with Alex and we were extremely close but I started having worries that I was too young and wanted to have a small break to experience more things. That happened 3 years ago and Alex and I never lost contact. We tried to get ... (300 words)

My attraction to my wife has been lost, and now I can't get this other woman out of my thoughts.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for about 9 years now and our relationship was very fulfilling until my wife had consistently put on weight. It has been an issue and she has attempted to try and loose weight but only stays motivated for a couple weeks and then it's back to doing ... (650 words)

Should I tell guy 1 how I feel? I don't expect to break up with guy 2 and get with guy 1.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i am here to ask for some advice and please, i do not want judgemental replys. please. if you are going to say something nasty, please restrain yourself and read another question and do not reply. Thankyou. Okay well long story short, its the typical, im not sure abo... (830 words)

I have my ex on a pedestal!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year my ex cheated on me with two of my best friends I still liked him so after 5 months we started scoring again (going out without the titles eg. bf and gf) its been awhile now since i ended it and hes had 2 other girlfriends since. I keep mesuring up all boys i like to ... (110 words)

I should never have married my husband.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I should never have married my husband. I never wanted to get married, but I cared a great deal about my husband and was very much in love with him, so when he asked I said yes since getting married seemed to be so important to him. I ignored the nagging doubts in my hea... (364 words)

How do I overcome my social anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I overcome my social anxiety? I started university in September and although I quite enjoy the course I feel incredibly lonely and cut off from people as I have trouble making friends. Since I finished school 4 years ago I've found that I have real trouble forming ... (168 words)

Am I too young to have a baby?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I have some advice please. i'm 16 and with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I have thought this through 100 times and all the aspects that need to be covered. I am also a trainee hairdresser, but I really want a baby. so does my boyfriend, however he is older than me. I ... (88 words)

Same guy, same story, different day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well me and this have been sleepin together for a lil over 9 mnths. and he lives 111 miles away from me.(at college) and weve grown distent.and i dont like it. we were really close friends before and now we really dont talk. we both hang out with the almost the same people. ... (142 words)

No one will talk to me because he has a gf and I like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i like who already has a girlfriend likes me, and now his girlfriends mad at me and now no one will talk to me! What should i do?... (30 words)

First time sex for both of us and now I'm pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. Several weeks ago he and I had sex for the first time (both of our first times as well) it wasn't planned, it hurt like hell, it didn't last that long, and now I'm pregnant. My dad found out and now he hates me because of it (my mom is deceased). ... (137 words)

I smell trouble from my mum's boyfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother's boyfriend came back to live with us after a couple years (yes, years) of taking care of his sick mother. Today, my mother had already left for work, and it was just me and him in the house. He came down for breakfast and sat uncomfortably close to me and didn't... (117 words)

My feelings for him have changed and I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there. i promised myself that life was too short to think about thinngs so deeply enymore so i said as a new years resalution that i would just go with the flow (with in reason of course).. then i met sean... he is a big man i mean as in body wise.. he's on the fat side. no... (242 words)

Introducing my boyfriend to my family...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

- How soon do you reckon i should wait before introducing my boyfriend to my family?? We've only been going out like 4 weeks already but i've met his family already but by accident and i really can see myself with him for a while. I'm worried incase i ask him would he like to... (81 words)

I don't want him to get bored with me. How can we spice up our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

- I'm finally in a relationship after 4 years. I decided just to take y'alls advice and just let my hurt and frustration, from my ex's cheating on me, go and now i think i've found someone i feel that i can trust 100% and i'm quite happy... However when it comes down to se... (188 words)

He don't want him to need a drink to make a move on me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

- ok i've started seeing this guy about 4 or 5 weeks ago and everything is going well - i'm quite surprised at this because all my life i've had failed relationships and i'm not really that confident when it comes to relationships. When he's drunk he always instigates sex w... (292 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask that this friendship ends now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my boyfriend saw his ex and kept it a secret from me and recently saved some photos of her in her underwear. we've talked it through. he said he wants me and me only. he wants us to work and I am willing to try and give it this relationship another go. Is it unreasonab... (68 words)

What can I do or say to get my ex-gf to give me another chance???? I love her and need her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor December 14th (without anyone ... (359 words)

I don't like being a virgin, I hate it in fact...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I just turned 22, and yes, am still a virgin and it gets me incredibley depressed, i haven't had many relationships either, and those few that i have had were... stressful, due to that type of woman that either i attract or the type that i seem to go for, which are nuts lol, ... (302 words)

How does a 31 year old tell a male 27 year old to shave his bush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How does a 31 year old tell a male 27 year old to shave his bush?... (16 words)

I messed up with a girl that really liked me but now she doesn't. Will she ever come around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey. on the last week of my freshman high school year...this girl passes by me. we make eye contact but both of us look away. she waits until she is halfway down the hallway to say hey to me. this had me thinking for a while and i mention to one of my friends about it. she said ... (1211 words)

Any comments are appreciated. I want to be in a relationship but I just don't see it happening again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been 9 months since my ex broke up with me. A part of me always foolishly held onto the hope of her coming back. Any hope I had stopped when she found a new boyfriend. I'm not mad at her about it. I want her to be happy and if she finds happiness with this new guy then ... (207 words)

Help me out here! Is it illegal for an 18 year old to date an 15 year old?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it illegal for an 18 year old to date an 15 year old? ... (14 words)

Should I just keep it to myself or should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 2002 was a rough time for me. I had just had gotten laid off, and I had sank into a deep depression. During this depression, I had become very insecure and this manifested into me developing serious trust issues with my ex, and in the process I said and did things that I now ... (213 words)

Who is best for me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey. okay, i really don't know what to do, this guy has asked me out, and i said yes even though i just met him 2 days ago and he has an extremely bad reputation of cheating, being controlling and sleeping around, but supposedly he really likes me, but i'm not that fussed t... (120 words)

My relationship is on rocky ground and to top it all I've found out I'm pregnant! Now I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found out im 6 weeks pregnant. I'm 23 and have only been with my boyfriend for a few months. The last few weeks we have been having a really bad patch, always arguing. He says he wants me to keep the baby but i dont know what to do about him or the baby. I have a f... (75 words)

HELP!!! She won't let go!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a lesbian who has been in love with the same woman ever since I was SURE I was a lesbian. After a couple of tries at relationships, me and the woman decided to remain friends and she is now with someone else. I'd like to move on as well, but the fact that I am still madly ... (334 words)

PLEASE! I need an outsider's perspective about this relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a bf almost a year ago whom I had broken up with because I found out he was cheating on me. This had hurt me so severely I was depressed for months, had nightmares and developed a phobia on certain things and places. For some reason, my ex and i kept our communicatio... (496 words)

How do I tell him I am ready too have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about three months and we understand each other very much. He is becoming my best friend and our relationship is close to the point when we can honestly say that we love each other. I know that 3 months are not long time to get to know the ... (265 words)

How do we get that 'naughty' spark, back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ive been in a long-term long-distance relationship for over 3 years. We've had our share of challenges including trying to keep our sex life heated up. Our sex life has not been great for more than a year now. The distance keeps us apart for weeks at a time and our intimacy ... (535 words)

I hate my parents...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I hate my parents, i get chewed out over anything. Even stuff they have done. They have taught me its not okay to love anyone and that no matter how nice I am I am being rude or a nuisance.... (42 words)

Why can't I compliment my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined together. Why can't I tell my wife that she looks hot? My wife of 20 years hates it when I tell her that she looks hot!! I don't understand the difference between a come-on and a compliment. How come she thinks that I'm asking for sex every time I... (314 words)

He never told me until now that he has a 6 year old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and I thoughtwe had a pretty solid relationship. Over the christmas period we didnt see much of each other as we both work in retail and were working silly hours. We managed to find time before the new year abd he said he ... (161 words)

Boyfriend's mom seen nude pics of me and says she's going to show everyone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I sent my boyfriend some nude pics of me, and his mom saw them and took his phone. Now she is saying she is going to show people the pics of me. I was just wondering if there was anything i could do. Now before you judge me, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, ... (74 words)

Did I blow my chances with this guy I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So theres this boy I sit next to twice a week and I really like him. So I may have flirted a bit.His mate noticed and went around telling everyone that I like him, so I told everyone that I don't, even though I do. His mate does not believe me but the guy I like said that he ... (159 words)

I hate university! How do I tell my parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me just get straight to the point, I hate university, and i'm only there to make my parents happy. They know that. I've tried telling them so many times that i'm literally depressed there. I still live at home and travel up every morning, but I hate it! I know what else I ... (128 words)

40 Days and 40 nights... Only 8 times Worse. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a couple questions about my current relationship and hopefully somebody has a couple answers. I'm 22 and have been with my guy for going on 2 years now. I have an extremely high libido, pretty much up for sex whenever and where ever. We only live once right? And when I ... (424 words)

Why didn't he say he was with his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the other day i was laying in bed watching tv with my boyfriend (we've been dating a few weeks.) a girl called and asked what he was doing and he saying "just laying in bed with my friend (my name)." i know he used to hang out with her a lot, not sure if he does anymore but ... (109 words)

Can one cultivate a sexual attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome? ... (22 words)

We check each other out, but nothing comes of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age - I am finally to have a relationship after breaking up with someone about 8 months ago. I have tried online dating for the last 6 months and haven't had much luck. I recently reminded of a guy at the gym. I noticed him way back at the end of the summer (I joined in May).... (473 words)

How do I convince him he's making a mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5348 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I convince him hes making a mistake? My boyfriend is broke. He lost his job last year and even though he is working again, he has such a backlog of debt that he struggles. I try to help him in every way - buying food, helping with the bills but now he feels that he... (313 words)

What do men find really irrestible in women???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you? Im not talking about attracting a guy so you can sleep together, but the kinda love where he wants to meet your parents. What do men find really irrestible in women??? please be honest, many thanks -CandyC... (60 words)

Is it possible to stay together with a liar and a cheater?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My question is a very short one. I have been married almost 3 years to a man I really love and consider to be my best friend. however since i first showed him the cyber social sited he bagan to talk to girls all overr and began telling them hewanted to have sex with them and ... (208 words)

I don't want to lose my b/f but things can't go on like this either!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had problems with my ex boyfriend for 2 years now. He said that wants to try and work things out with me, but as soon i do something wrong he says 'i was going to ask if you wanted to get back together but im reconsidering it now'. i told him that i feel it will work if ... (273 words)

Do muslims have to marry their own kind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age - i met a muslim guy in oct and having been seeing him once a week as he works in a restaurant so very busy day and night. i very fond of him and he brought me a ring for christmas not a engagement a costume ring with crystal on and its silver very nice. i am a white person so ... (185 words)

Should I end my marriage due to my wife cheating for a year whilst denying it all that time...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age - I have been married for 10 years and we have one 9 year old child. My wife is 8 years my junior, she is 42. I first suspected my wife cheating over a year ago based on the usual e.g., not answering the phone when I am around and sleeping with the phone in her underwear etc; and ... (298 words)

Every night I think of my ex but I don't want to leave my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with my ex bf for 4 years and i end up calling our relationship quits... i found a new bf and he is everything i wanted except he is not working and does'nt help me with nothing but he is trying his hardest to find a job... my ex boyfr... (155 words)

Choosing between boyfriend or new friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's my situation..I have been with my boyfriend for 5years beginning was crazy cheating you name it. He has been trying to change..but he gave me an ultimatum to have a kid so he could feel like he has a secure thing going..Mind u I have two boys 15 and 8 that are not by him ... (162 words)

Crush Verses Obsession

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the difference between a crush and an obsession. When do you cross that line between having a crush on someone to having an obsession with someone?... (29 words)

I got drunk and kissed a guy from work, do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there... Well basically I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and I really love him. We were best friends for about 3 years before we got together. Everything is great now but the start of the relationship was a bit awkward really. One night at the star... (139 words)

Brother and sister playing footsie..too close?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a concern and maybe it is not. We were watching a movie yesterday and my fiance was sitting with his sister on the coach. It just was alittle wierd for me they were all bunched up together and were playing footsies but it looked weird and I was sitting next to him but he ... (160 words)

Can a labia majora be docked?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my best friend has a quite big labia majora and a friend of us suggested her that she should put a rubber round it so it can cut out(docked),like people do it on dog's tails.is that ok?i am worried about her...... (41 words)

Discretly ask boyfriend to lose weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I kindly and discreetly ask my boyfriend to lose weight with me? I don't want him to lose a lot, but just a little, and I don't know how to go about doing it. ... (36 words)

I've slept with one person, and been with him for 3 years. Yet I think I have herpes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody. Im seventeen years old and going through a tough time. About two years ago me an my boyfriend of 3 years slept with each other for the first time, and have been sleeping together since, at first using condoms and then after a year i went on the pill. We got... (505 words)

Should I ask him if he's planning on seeing his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My boyfriend of almost a year is going to visit his relatives in a week by himself. In the time we have been together, he has only been to see them once, and he and I went together for a holiday. I normally would not think anything of this, but his high school sweethear... (458 words)

What to do about this Scarlet Letter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The guy I'm seeing has a girlfriend. I've met her, I know who she is and I remind him all the time that he has a girlfriend. I know some of you will judge me, knowing he has a girlfriend, but I've tried to stop, so has he, but apparently it's still happening... who knows why! ... (407 words)

Understanding low self esteem and dating a best friend of 12 years who suffers from it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am looking for some opinions on low self esteem and dating. My best friend of 12 years has very low self esteem and not suffering from it myself, I find it hard to understand how she feels. I looked on the internet and found a comment that an unknown girl had written and I ... (603 words)

What can I do to make him think I'm not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi guys ok so i really fancyone of my best mates hus a boy but i think he knows and it gets abit awquard around us when we're together, i dont even want to go out with him anyway cos if we did then broke up that would make things really weird between us and our friends cos were ... (111 words)

Abortion: I said I wouldn't do it again but b/f wants me to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and just found out i'm about 5 weeks pregnant. i've told my boyfriend of 4 years who i live with and he doesnt want it he isnt pressuring me to get rid of it but he definately wants me to. I've already had one termination while i've been with him and said i wouldnt do it ... (117 words)

B/s doesn't know I"m gay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 guy n im in love with my best freind whos also a guy but dosnt no im gay but has suspitions i dnt no wat to do at all i tell him i love him but he thinks im messin we spend every day togeather n i flirt n cuddle n watch him sleep n cuddle him wilst he sleeps n sumtimes ... (146 words)

Scared of Anal sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year, and I've built up this barrier in our sex life. I'm afraid to have anal sex, so much so that I've made him believe I can't have it or I'll freak out. I know he had anal sex in his previous relationship and I know he ... (117 words)

She says after 2 kids I'm still too big and hurt her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok me and my gf have been togther for 4 years and our sex life is pretty much nonexsitent because she says my penis is to big and it hurts her everytime we have sex. Now im only 21 and shes 20 shouldnt she have some sort of tollerance after all these years. She has had two of ... (122 words)

Lesbian relationship - she wants to see other women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Recently as to last night my gf called me to state that she had been thinkin about going out and seeing the lesbian clubs and bars to meet new people. which i understand she has never been out done it and got the t-shirt. she also dose not know if she will make a mistake ... (307 words)

I married him not realizing what a deal breaker his kids would be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age - I have recently got married for the second time. I have known my husband for 14 years and we were always really great friends. He has 3 children by different women and sees them all regularly. One is now grown up but the other two are 8 and 14. He is a very strong and ... (415 words)

Her words have become meaningless

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 31 yo guy who is getting married to a beautiful 28 year old girl who i love very very much. However i have some issues, and i know they are my issues but i need to know how to get over them. Firstly, the small town where i grew up is the same town she grew up in, our ... (561 words)

He destroyed my trust. Can we get past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about one and a half years now. We've become the best of friends and are really close. A month ago he brought a girl home and allowed her to sleep in his bed. He told me they didn't do anything but just got touchy and feely. Oh he says they were ... (202 words)

Skipping rope dangerous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys!!!! my girlfriends 18 ....well actually she has gained a lil weight and now wants to get rid of it!!!! before 2 years i was 85 kgs n came down to 60 kgs just by skippin (jumpin rope)..... i told my gf to do the same...bt i hav heard tht skipping for women is ... (70 words)

Erection pain!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm laying in bed trying to sleep thinkin about just holdin my girl and fallin to sleep nothing special or anything just that, and out of no where for no freakin reason I got erect and I was like really freakin hard like daimonds and I was like ok freakin great so I ... (98 words)

Reluctantly Romantic: How can I reverse my romantic feelings for my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, There's this girl. (Cliché, right?) She's just about the cutest thing I've ever seen, and at the same time she's so independent and self-sufficient. She's not interested in a boyfriend and that's part of why I find her so attractive. It's because we have c... (244 words)

Do I throw away 4 and half years of hard work for this friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 n half years now n everything was good to begin with. We have been through a lot as well and still stuck ny each other. Now, it feels like I'm.just a cook,cleaner and dog walker. I do everything in the house and go to college 3 days a week. My... (294 words)

My wife is very dry when we have sex...why is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear sir/Madam when I had sexual intercourse with my wife the vagina of my wife it is become very Dry I can not move my penis in side the vagina so what you suggest me for my wife she has to go to doctor to check this thing please let me know Mesme Thank you ... (62 words)

How can I stop being so sensitive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have been with my boyfriend almost a year and half. I have always been sensitive in this relationship and he has always been the total opposite. When i get upset he gets angry and always wants to break up.he tells me he doesnt want to but its the best solution. I always ... (116 words)

My husband was looking for love online. Is that cheating?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age - I recently caught my husband of 21 years, posting profiles on dating sites. He stated that he received no love or attention from me and was looking for someone in our area for "discreet sex". I confronted him with the copies that I had printed of the sites that I saw. (I was ... (618 words)

Should I let my friend move in with me?

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey thanks for any advice i have a friend a girl that is having alot of trouble at home,she has been telling me about her problems and she recently asked if she could move in with me, she said she would pay rent even though i didnt ask, she has a job and goes to school, ... (154 words)

I'm 22 and can't seem to get a dating life! Help!

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, I have never really been on a real date. It was only a couple of months ago that I actually first (tongue) kissed a guy. It was some random guy at a party who really liked me and we talked and made out a few more times after. But ... (298 words)

I want to know what its like to feel safe in my own home

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with this guy for seven years, we have been split up for one year exactly. During that seven years I lost myself completely - he was abusive, controlling, manipulative, obsessive...you get the picture. If I went to the store that normally only takes 25 minutes, and it ... (329 words)

Need advice for an experiment!

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This shoul'dnt be very long,thanks for reading,I've been kind of a tomboy for a long time,I see this women hes a crossdresser..so i suppose i should say man..well i meen..physically he is a female,i dont no her,but she's my insperation..ive decided to go out in public as a ... (133 words)

My boyfriend likes to wear clothes with naked women on them...I don't like it!

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11 January 2010 (F)

- My bf likes to wear clothes with naked females on them. I find this quite offensive. If he wants to look at porn, thats ok, as long as I am not subjected to it. Why does he have to wear it on his clothes? It makes him look like a sleezy pervert in my opinion and I am embarra... (107 words)

I feel really guilty...how do I come to terms with my past?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just finished college, and my last semester was one I unfortunately regret in many ways. I dated a guy for two years and he broke up with me right before first semester ended. He was my first serious boyfriend, and this hit me pretty hard. We tried staying friends (and were ... (216 words)

How do you end a friendship?

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you tell a long time friend that your friendship is over? Lets say for instance that if you tell this friend they might hurt themselves or hurt you or do something else. I need help I don't have the courage. I am afraid!... (45 words)

I'm sick of being single! How can I be less reserved and more available?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm almost 18 years old, and i haven't dated anyone in probably 3-4 years. in my last 2 relationships, i noticed that my first boyfriend was much more physical than emotional, and i ended up breaking up with him, and with my second boyfriend, he was much more emotional than ... (335 words)

Is she cheating? She lies about where she is going...

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok im 21 and my gf is 20 and we have been dating for 4 years in the past two years we have had two kids both babies stil every thing was goin good until about 2 monts ago she went to a holloween party with some guys from work now i dont want to belive she is cheating but its in ... (109 words)

Problems with friends....help!

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year i was best friends with a girl who has recently turned out to be my worst nightmare. At the start of the year see, my father had cancer and started getting chemo, which made me sad. And i told my friend, and it seemed as though she sorta did care, but then not long ... (983 words)

I'm curious about this guy but I don't have a crush. What do I do?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I'm in a bit of a strange situation I guess. I've been home for the winter break. It's only about 45 min. away from the university that I attend but with no car and the fact that I haven't driven in over a year, it seems like a long way. I live in dorms, so no permanent ... (261 words)

Was he just using me to get over her?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend chased after me for four months. I was never really sure whether I truely liked him or not and was still trying to figure things out so when he asked me out during those months. I said no, three times. I wanted to be fair to him and make sure I was ready to put ... (233 words)

Our first attempt at sex didn't go well. Was it something I did?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night i attempted to have sex with a guy i really like, he was hard at first and then he was only semi-hard, so we couldnt do anything. Then to top it off my friend almost walked in on us and he said "Well that just ruined it all together" and we both got dressed again. He ... (118 words)

I need a second opinion on whether he's interested or not!

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and he's 18. We have known eachother for about six years now, and (I think) that there has always been that attraction between us, because he always seems to treat me differently than other girls, and he seems to behave differently around me than he does around other ... (381 words)

I'm having my boyfriend's baby but not ready to commit. Should I date other men?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pregnant with the baby of my boyfriend, we've been together for 5 years total BUT had a break for about a year and only recently got back together. We got pregnant about a month after starting our relationship up again. Now he is talking about marrying me, living together, ... (340 words)

Am I just the rebound girl?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So after months of asking to see me again, I decided to go on another date with a guy I saw over the summer. We were only seeing each other (not serious), but he ended things when an ex came back in the picture. I knew he liked me (and still does). Well, things didn't work out ... (282 words)

Where do I go from here...I've only met her once...

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I am 16 and I go to an all boys school. I met this girl but I only met her once and we talk on and off on facebook. I really like her and I dont know what to do because I dont have alot of experience in relationships or even asking girls out. How should I go about this?... (61 words)

Why am I so obssessed with him?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. I fell in love with him the moment I met him. I had the strongest feeling he was the man I was going to spend the rest of my life with and I was positive I would never want anyone more than I wanted to be with him. He says ... (275 words)

It seems my ex has moved on...its been a year and I can't seem to...

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 20 years old and i'm at university i dated this girl a year ago and we were very close we only went out for 5 months or so but we were friends before that. We broke up because -quote ' you just don't have time for a girlfriend' so she left me however she was really upset ... (243 words)

Should I tell him how upset I am about the comment he made?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - When i was talking to my boyfriend about us having sex ONE DAY not anytime soon..and he brought up the fact he wanted it to be the most special thing for me and i couldnt say the same since he is not a virgin...i hurts i know i have talked about this in another question but i ... (105 words)

Do other couples who've been together for awhile find it hard to stay sexually excited about each other?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Concerned about a lagging sexual desire. Been with b/f 5 years, he's funny, interesting and incredibly sexy to me but lately neither of us have been in the mood for sex. He's on blood pressure pills, so I understand where his problem is coming from; but oddly enough I used to ... (127 words)

Why does he get so mad when he lies and hurts my feelings?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I know my boyfriend asked this girl I know to send him a naked picture of herself to him. I know because I saw it on his phone when I looked through it. I also saw that when she tried to hang out with him, he turned her down and said they shouldn't talk anymore because he has a ... (387 words)

We messed around one night so does he like me more than a friend?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im really confused. Me and afew of my mates went out one night one of which is a guy ive liked for a long time, things have always been difficult between us due to people(who we dont see no more) winding us up and so its made it awkward for us to totally be ourselves ... (370 words)

Does the amount of pre cum affect conception?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When my man gets sexually excited he produces ALOT of pre cum.. I was just wondering whether this could affect the amount of sperm which is finally ejaculated thus affecting our chances of conceiving? ... (34 words)

I had an affair while he was in prison. Should I tell him I'm pregnant or have an abortion?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello im a 27 yr old female with no kids and have been trying for the past 3 years to consieve with my boyfriend soon to b husband.he gotten in some trouble and had to go to prison at which time i had a lil affair. Now im pregnant and dnt kno if i should tell mt boyfriend or ... (105 words)

My girlfriend is controlling and only lets me see our child on her time!

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone my name is michael. im here to get some help. what should i do. ok here it is. im 22 and i have been with my girlfriend on and off for almost 3 years we have a son together and we where happy at one point. but for the past 3 or 4 weeks she has been avoiding me. she ... (150 words)

He says I'm the best thing that's happened to him. Is he for real?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'd like to know why this man who is 20 years older than me winks at me every time he sees me, and usually when we are alone, and what you think of the rest of the situation ?. I am 25, and he is 45. He is single, and has never been married, and doesn't have kids. He used ... (387 words)

I made out with my teacher ... where do I go from here?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been attracted to my science teacher for three years now, but never thought he was interested in me; we've always been close, but only in a friendly way. recently, though, we started texting and it escalated into him telling me how he truely feels about me and i about ... (216 words)

I told him I am in love with him and he needs time to process all of it?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age - He is my sister's ex. She gave me her blessing to see him. He is 50 and never married and has no kids.I am 48, divorced with 2 adult children. He asked me to Christmas shop with him. We went out 4-5 days and nights each week for about 5 weeks. We always had a nice dinner out ... (334 words)

How can I get training in the beauty industry online or from home?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.I was wondering if i could learn how to train in beauty from by myself home or online ?. I'm interested in starting my own business, perhaps doing manicures or facials. I don't think i would be confident enough to do waxing. Is there any way i could learn this quickly ?. I'm ... (89 words)

How do I get him to understand?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - First of all, thank you for reading my problem, it means a lot to me. I believe that i have a confident issue when it comes to my boyfriend and he thinks that i'm a jealous girlfriend. My boyfriend has a very close friend who's a female that i feel very threaten because... (234 words)

Why do I like older men?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright here it is. I have always been attracted to older guys. Even when I was little, like four or five I would try to kiss all the adult males (not blood related of course) that were around me. I'm nineteen now going to be twenty and by this age i'm attracted to men around 3... (350 words)

Why is she contacting me again?

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I told my female friend I shouldn't talk to her anymore because the closeness of our relationship was disrespectful to my girlfriend. She knew I had had feelings for her and seemed fine with it. She had had feelings for me at one point too. She went off to date a guy. Now, ... (102 words)

She's become very defensive about the way she conducts herself!

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, I have a problem, im not sure if its myself, the way my gf behaves or a combination of the two? she says i have been getting more insecure recently, i have not really noticed this in myself, what i have noticed is that shes being more defencive with how she conducts her... (950 words)

My wimpy boyfriend makes me mad.

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I really love my bf, we've been together for a year and we've been talking about marriage and kids and we're only 15 (yes i know we're too young to know anything about love). we've already had sex but he's too much of a wimp and cries a lot and that gets me really mad. ... (67 words)

Does your cherry pop whenever you put a tampon in?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Does your cherry pop,whenever you put a tampon in?... (9 words)

I know she's had sex with others in the past and it makes me sad.

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11 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been dating this girl for a few months now and ive loved her for along time and she has loved me for along time to a few years i think like 8 or 9 years and i know shes had sex with other people before we got together anyway i know it souldnt bother me but it makes me ... (116 words)

Can't talk to him but love him with all my heart! Help!

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - so me and my boyfriend were talking and he started talking about this party that went on and was asking me all these questions and he asked me why i didnt kiss him.i would turn my head and not let him kiss me the whole time and its like that now i wont kiss him.im not sure why ... (118 words)

Do I ask him out even though he likes another girl?

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11 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I like this guy and he likes a girl that's in our bio class. We hang out. Until, our friends threw us into a greenhouse together and he was forced to ask me out, but he didn't he pounded the door until a teacher came to let us out. And we didn't talk for a week. But he ... (81 words)