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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been in a relationship with a boyfriend for the past 10 months. usually i would tell him whatever i do. since he did not have his mobile for a few days we are not able to contact one another properly. yesterday i had gone to see a movie with my girlfriend he got angry when i told him about that and he came there all the way and slapped me in public. what do i have to do now? when i told him to break up he started crying and apologizing what should i do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous writer +, writes (5 January 2010):
leave him! if he hits u once he will do it again. and he is already showing sighs after only 10 months...run in the opposite direction. that is one of the biggest forms of disrespect and if he cant respect u he can never love u. they all do that after they hurt u. being overly apologetic (if thats a word) to make u think they're sorry but they'll always do it again. leave now before too much time is invested.
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reader, Jayney Y +, writes (5 January 2010):
First he slaps you, then he cries because you dump him? What did he expect...a medal? He has big problems, and if you take him back it won't be the last time he hits you, and it will get progressively worse. Buy him some nappies and send him packing before he beats you to a pulp, (and then bursts into tears).
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reader, fishdish +, writes (5 January 2010):
DON'T get back together with him. if he does it once he'll do it again, he clearly has control issues cause what's so bad about you spending time with a good friend? Try to distance yourself from him if he's at your school, otherwise, try not to hang out at the same places you'd see him. if he still comes around and you feel threatened, tell a teacher, parent, or police.
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