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female
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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. He is 23, out of school, smart, successful, and wonderful to me. I'm 18, and a college student. This is both of our first relationships. Sometimes though, I feel really insecure. I know he loves me and I know he wants to be with me--he's even said that he can see himself with me years into the future and I really like that. But he makes plans to go to parties and things and doesn't clue me in, and I feel blown off and unimportant. I don't expect him to spend all his time with me, but we only get to see each other on weekends, and I want him all to myself. I just don't know what to do. I need some advice to calm me down, maybe a new perspective?
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reader, angelsrock18 +, writes (6 January 2010):
Well being like that doesn't help trust me.
Just let him be and tell him you would like to see him more and let him have his own time and go to partie's and stuff. you can't always be with him or he'll feel like you are obsessed or something.
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