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writes:I'm 16 and recently lost my virginty to my boyfriend of 7 months now, I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not but I keep having these weird feelings, could you guys help me out? I know the best way would be going to the doctors or taking a home pregnancy test but I'm not ready to excatly hear what's in store for me. Yes, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex (not the best idea I know) but i heard that precum could also get you pregnant so, that got me worried. I swear that my flat stomach is getting a bit bigger (or maybe my mind is playing tricks on me I don't know), hard time sleeping at night, always tired in school, taking naps when I get home, i had my period twice last month and now I'm waiting to get it this month but another question, if I get my period twice last month, would I get it again this month? I only threw up once and that was today but I think it was an odor that got to me, I'm sick and feel just horrible. I'm just really worried so please write down what you think! (: thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionohh, no not 7 months ago. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. But yes, if i don't get my period on time i will take a pregnancy test.
Yeah, alot of people say that you aren't suppose to be having sex this early in age but there's not an age to actually..have sex, depends on the person (: Well, Thanks for advice :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): you should be thinking of how you can better your future instead of having sex. Your just a child playing a married role. Please be a smart young women and ask yourself if your ready to become a mother. If your not pregnant you need to be wiser about your emotions, I know what its like to be in love with someone we all do. But No was always my answer. You will be falling in love thru the years of your life, but it doesnt mean you need to sleep with every boyfriend you have. Love and take care of your precious body. For your question, anyone can give their opinion, but the best and only way to find out it to get a blood test. Your symptoms could be from many things thats why a blood test is more accurate than just a urine sample...hormones do affect your periods, but we have other hormones in our body i know when I was feeling the same I was told it was my throid, but i had the same symptoms you did. The difference between you and I are I'am in my 40's and your just a baby. I hurt when I hear how young teenagers are having sex. YOu should be having the time of your life studing and hanging out with friends, NOT ON YOUR BACK.....Pls take care I will pray for you. I can just imagine how scared you can be right now, expecially if your parents are not aware of you being sexually active. Be smart next time if this does come out to be negative. Protect yourself for as you well know by now that he was more concerend about getting laid instead of your wellbeing. I hope what Im telling you will make you think and cherish your body more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah, i had my period first, then had sex, then in between one week -2 weeks I had another period. it wasn't light though so good sign! right? but thanks guys! (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): first of all you shouldnt be having sex at 16....but yes odors do come alone with pregnacies. You will find that smells will be sensitive to you. But you should still go see a dr let them do a blood test maybe it could be something else that can cause your hormones to change..its better than sitting there waiting. There are alot of plan parenthood clinics that can help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): You should start getting ready to think about whats in store for you. You felt mature enough to have unprotected sex, be mature enough to take responsibility and get that test. It's really all I can say as pregnancy symptoms can come from just about anything else as well. But 7 months into it you should have gotten more than a bump on your otherwise flat belly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Get a test, the sooner the better, put ur mind at rest. You had unprotected sex, so the chances are very high!
take care, let us know how u get on!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 January 2010):
Virginity messes with periods. We get that all the time as a question here. If you've had a period then you are not pregnant. You were lucky. Buy some CONDOMS for next time, and don't be an idiot more than once.
As for the symptoms, well it sounds like it could be a bug you are fighting off.
That and if you are not sleeping at night then of course you are going to be tired. Stop taking naps, get an early night with no caffine all day and a warm milky drink and a good book. No TV or internet. Just go to bed and prepare for sleep.
Everything else could easily be stress due to a new school term and fear of pregnancy.
Good Luck!! xx
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