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*allaZine
writes:I met this guy at a training course through my workplace. He walked me to the station everyday over the 2 weeks and I felt so comfortable being around him, he was so easy to talk to and we had a lot in common. Each day, when we were around other people he was quite shy with me and I used to catch him staring at me and then quickly looking away quite a few times. He seemed to remember everything I told him about myself and is very observant. I kept in touch with one or two other girls from the training and on the last day he gave me his number and asked for mine.He text me that night asking me to let him know when I want to go out for a coffee, I was suprised but so happy. We emailed each other a few times, just making polite chit-chat then after a while he called me and we set a date to meet up. On the day he text me and told me he was ill and couldn't go...that he was really sorry etc. I was a bit disappointed but told him it was fine and wished him well.On new year's eve he text me at midnight to wish me happy new year which was really sweet. A couple of days later, I text him my new number but I havent heard from him. He is very shy and I would like to know whether anyone thinks I should just call him at some point and re-arrange to meet up..... I'm very cautious too and a bit shy which makes it annoying I know. Im single and so is he. Im quite sure he likes me, but Im not sure if he knows how much I like him and I dont want to ruin it by letting him know I like him. When he called me a few times, I was so nervous I didn't answer so he left me messages and he sounded so awkward and shy. awww this is so irritating!Any opinions on this would be great...thanks :-)
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reader, LallaZine +, writes (6 January 2010):
LallaZine is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everyone, I just needed an extra opinion or two and its really helped. I'll text him now, I've also been thinking that he might not think Im interested...and I wouldn't want that!
Good luck to you both in your relationships
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (5 January 2010):
 Good heavens, just call him and tell him you'd love to have coffee! (or you'd enjoy meeting for coffee, if you want to dial it back a tad).He evidently likes you, and vice versa. So enjoy meeting him, take it slow and see how it goes after a few more outings......as Emilyanswers said, what have you got to lose?I too wish you good luck.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 January 2010):
Just text him and ask if he wants to go for that coffee now he's feeling better. It's possible he thinks you aren't that keen if you haven't been returning his calls.
What is there to lose?
Good Luck!! xx
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