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female
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41-50,
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writes:HiI would like to have answers from guys!We saw each other 3 times as we are both very busy but also because I went for Xmas break for 2 weeks. He seems to be a nice guy and interested. he texts me every other day. We met on online dating. The thing is we slept together on our second date. I know it was a mistake but it just happened as we felt very much atracted to each other and I meant to just sleep on his sofa but you know. In the following week he texed me as usual and went with me to my friends birthday and met some of my friends. He met me with flowers, very sweetie. Then after the Party he came to my place. I went away and just came back last weekend. We spoke on Sun and he said he wanted to have dinner with me on Friday. I am doing a part time evening degreea and I go to UNi 3 times a week and I also work full time. I sad that I would check If I had lecture on that day and let him know. In the past I was giving too much attention to guys I was dating and I got hurt all the time. This time I decided to play a bit hard. I don't call, I don't text and I don't talk about our relationship. I am sweetie and attentions when I see him or when we chat online. I have noticed that he still on online dating, not sure if he is dating other people. It has been a month altogether we are dating. The question is: I really like him and I want him to fall in love with me. What shall I do? I am doing the right thing? Shall I still playing a bit hard? I am not confortable sleeping with someone that might be dating other people, so I thought to ask if he is dating and if he is then stop sleeping with him or explain my reasons. I wanted to tell him that I would like to spend more time with him, not only once a week but at least twice a week. But I am afraid that he will then know I am very interested. What would you advise??All comments wil be appreciated but specially froom guys. Thanks
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 January 2010):
If he's known you for a month and hasn't stopped online dating, then as of yet you're not close enough to him. So although it's good to make sure he does a bit of running, don't play too hard or he'll think you're not interested. He needs to know you're interested, so tell him you'd like to meet more. If you play too hard, he'll think you're not interested.
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