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writes:I really need help and I don't know who to go to. My question is... How can you tell if you are hemorrhaging?I let my friends make feel insecure about my virginity. So, like a dummy I went out and bought a dildo. It's heavy and glass and I've never been penetrated by anything besides a pinky and that was six months ago. Well, I tried to play with it but it didn't really work out. It hurt badly. I heard somewhere that twisting might help so I tried that while thrusting but I think I may have torn myself or something because I only did it for a few seconds and I started bleeding immediately afterward. It's been two days and it hasn't stopped. At first I thought it could be my period and I think it might still be but I'm unsure. I keep getting pains in the bottom of my stomach. I won't be able to go to the clinic till Thursday. I just want to know if I've scarred myself for life. I pray that it's my period. If it is I won't try anything like that ever again. :( Someone please help.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (5 January 2010):
 assuming you know what your period feels like by now and that this is different pain, you probably tore your hymen a bit or completely. The thing with sex and shoving dildos inside of you is that you have to be REMOTELY in the mood...otherwise you'll hurt yourself, cause trauma to the area, and yea, bleed, esp. if you're a virgin! I'm pretty sure most guys can't tell whether someone has a hymen or not? it's definitely not that big of a deal, you'll still be 'tight' you're still a virgin, this will all work itself out, but man, try to get yourself remotely in the mood by getting yourself hot and bothered over whatever you're doing so that you've naturally lubricated yourself. but hey, i've been there; my hymen was such an issue for my boyfriend and me we joke that a banana took my virginity (used it to get myself able to handle the 'real thing')..tmi? hehe sorry.
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