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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do other couples spend time together and feel connected when it's just a lazy winter day and there's really nothing to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Puzzled by b/f's behavior. This happens a lot. We're stuck inside. B/F is surfing the web on his laptop. I sit on the couch with him, and play a video game with volume turned off. After an hour he wants to watch TV. So I turn off the game but can't get into the program he wants ... (178 words)

Sexual positions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What's your favorite sexual position and why?... (7 words)

Please help me, I'm so confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my ex on a dating site after a few months of chatting. We decided to meet our first date went very and end up dating. For nearly a year all was going well until I went out one night I was raped was a virgin. After that I went through a very rough patch, me and my ex re... (220 words)

How can I stop myself having an erection when we're together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm gay/bi/confused and haven't told anyone. I'm kind of in love with my best friend, my heart skips a best when I see him, when he talks I just want to kiss his lips, he makes me horny and is part of every fantasy, wet dream or wank. My problem is, we're both going... (139 words)

Why do men like anal sex so much?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question for the guys. Why do men like anal. And why do men like to play with women's buttholes. ... (22 words)

The anecdote of perfection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so. I'm 19, shes 20. We started going out about 9 months ago, we click, we are perfectly together. So perfect, that i know its bad. We are both very close, we don't have intrest in other people, but we find, that our relationshop is perfect. We rarely fight, but when we ... (142 words)

Is he more attached than he let on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello: My boss is like 44 yrs old. He is very immature.. Well, I have been pulling away from him for some time because of an attraction between us. Needless to say - It went to HR. He asked to stay cordial with me and wanted us to still be friends, and for... (468 words)

Oddly attracted to cousin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, how can I explain this... recently, I have been very "oddly" attracted to my female cousin. I don't know why, but I need to know. Is this wrong? Please help me out guys, I'm waiting.... (36 words)

Men's sex drive!

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - how high is a mans sex drive after 30? and is it normal if a man older than 30 never got turned on with a previous partner but does with his current partner?... (33 words)

My sex life is just one big stress!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am soo stressed about this. I'm very young but I love my bf. I don't know if I should wait or go for it but I have a feeling that this time is right to have sex but when it comes to this I get very stressed out I tremble and I can't breathe. I don't know whats wrong with me, ... (100 words)

I'm a bit stuck! What to get him for valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months, we love each other so much x and its going so well... its coming up to valentines day and have thought of some stuff to get him but dont want them to be too mushy..., i was thinking about getting him like a thorntons ... (87 words)

I broke his trust... how can I make this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I am a senior in high school and so is my boyfriend and we are both almost 18. We have been together since we were freshmen and our three year anniversary is coming up. Our first time having sex wasn't planned at all and this happened almost two years ago. This... (328 words)

His anger problems are tearing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 3 years collectively now. I've broken up with him before because of his uncontrolled anger problem. He gets angry at the smallest things and then I have to try and calm him down. Usually when he gets angry it spoils our day because he's in a ... (292 words)

Your advice is needed. I don't know what to do for the best... for me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, Thank you for reading my email. I hope it makes sense and you can help me. Ok so i have been in a relationship for around 3 years now, we were due to get a house but broke up last Monday. It was my own fault i suppose, my girlfriend had doubts about how faithful i had b... (978 words)

What's a 69'r???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has recently asked me to perform a 69er with him but I don't know what to do :S please help ... (23 words)

How do I stay strong and have faith???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've been going out with this guy for about a year, and we've just decided to split up because we both go to different schools and have hobbies and commitments inbetween and it's made it hard for us to be together and to be a proper couple as we hardly get anytime ... (350 words)

Why is she distancing herself from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (?)

- I am a middle aged female. My very best friend is also a middle aged female. She say's she has had low self-esteem all of her life. What I don't understand about low self-esteem in regards to my friend, is when she thinks I am distancing myself or if I don't tell her how much ... (146 words)

I am always nice to girls, but they don't seem attracted to me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - No girls seem that attracted to me, i am always nice to them, being a gentleman what else can i do, ... (21 words)

Should I tell him my REAL age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey you guys i have a question that i want to ask im 14 soon to be 15 in june and my boyfriend is younger than i am i want to tell himm that im older than him but im way to scared that he might reject me becuse of that. please tell me how should i tell him the truth. so if i do ... (99 words)

I'm really angry right now. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm a bit angry right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend. Reason being that he had trust issues with me and my past, for the record in the past I wasn't a slut (although he thinks I was) and well, I gave oral sex to a guy we both know (I stopped talking to that guy... well ... (605 words)

Would having sex with her change the perameters of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm an 18 year old virgin. A girl I know, who is a close friend of mine, has said she will have sex with me if I want, so I can gain experience. I really like her, and I wouldn't say no, if you get me. But she's one of my closest friends and I don't know if sex would mak... (102 words)

I am tired of my boyfriend being too relaxed on the weekends to go out.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a demanding 4 year old boy and a boyfriend of 1 year. We see each other twice a week. Half of the time he calls to say his shift happens to be short that day so he could see me. The other times we call on the weekends and hope we would meet up. The problem is if I plan ... (223 words)

Why is she talking about how hot her body is after I creeped her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was really hung up on a good friend of mine. I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too but no thanks. Later I got really drunk and sent her an email about how much I liked parts of her body and how seeing her for a couple of minutes the previous day had made me ... (174 words)

My boyfriend became violent and doesn't tell me what is the matter. Can you help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. my boyfriend is a very nice person and is very caring. recently he has been quite violent and aggresive. i dont know whats wrong. ive asked him and he says nothing is bothering him. can anyone help me please. ... (40 words)

First kiss difficulties...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid: how do you have your first kiss with a boy who hasnt ever kissed any one either cos everyone has told me to follow him but wot if he was expectin to follow me ??? x... (38 words)

I have ED, how common is this over 40? WHY do I have it? Am I the only one?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) age - How common is erectile dysfunction over 40? I, m having ED since 43,and now,Im 47.. My doctor did not find anything wrong with me medically. He just says,it is aging. I CAN'T ACCEPT THAT.I really don't want to complain, but it is such a bad situation. My wife is still with ... (133 words)

What is making me think of someone else when I am with the love of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ill try be brief, i have been with my boyfriend for over 10 years, im only 26 .i love him his my soul mate and best friend and i would die for him and never want any harm to come to him and we laugh so much together. His so sweet and kind and treats me like a princess and is ... (522 words)

After a flirting/emotional relationship with someone else, am I finally able to relax in my marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a flirting/emotional relationship with a committee colleague and his wife found out several months ago. She snooped on his phone and found some incriminating texts he hadn't deleted and he told her it was just a game between us. She rang me and texted me wanting to know ... (317 words)

What position would be best for first time intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - so me and my gf are goin to have sex for the 1st time. we are both sure we want to do this. i have asked other questions having to do with this, and so far almost no one has said anything about waiting until were legal, and isnt the legal age 16? ok, so for our first time what ... (111 words)

Would I be wise to take another chance with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i split with my boyfriend of three years, almost three months ago. The desicion was his, i tried all ways for us to stay together but at the time he was having none of it. we stopped seeing each other all together, as he lives a 1hr and half away from me, but he would... (391 words)

How do I resolve all of these issues that I have with my dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I'm don't know how to resolve an ongoing issue with my dad. He and I haven't been that close for many years. He left us just before I started gradeschool and he started a new family. He was a fun guy for me when I was a kid, but then he changed very abruptly and became someone ... (751 words)

Is not seeing each other while he's away...ruin what we have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and have been talking to a 18 year old boy for about 3 years now. He went to my school. There is nothing wrong, we text almost every day and speak on msn when we can. I sometimes worry about texting first incase i seem desperate or silly but most of the time it's him. I ... (192 words)

Is she afraid, I'll move away when I'm done college? advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am totally lost with this at the moment. I'm 22 and talking to a girl that is 18. She is a senior in high school and I am in college. We have been on quite a few dates and things are going really well between us. She just got out of a bad relationship and wants to take ... (206 words)

My wife lacks interest in certain sex acts, I like. How do I convince her to keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age - My questions are simple, I have been married for quite a while we always have had a good sex life. I know that as you get somewhat older it will slowdown. We always tried different things had a good mix 3 to 4 times a week when younger, now we will only do it if I'm lucky 1 or ... (206 words)

Lack of experience...any tips to share?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a 20 year old guy who has never had sex/date/or gf. i consider myself pretty decent-looking and have confidence. i talked to a couple of girls from high school that were just friends but the biggest problem i have is my lack of experience in 'taking the next step.' iv never ... (160 words)

He's much older than me..will this be a problem?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5428 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am carrying this kind of problem everyday. I am confused and i don't know what is best and right to do. I currently having a relationship with a guy who is older than me and separated from him wife. I am 23 years old and he is 50 years of age. I met this guy when i was s... (330 words)

How can I achieve orgasm, while he's on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here's one for you, How can i achive a orgasm when he's on top? I can only have one when i'm on top of him! he doesn't know, and i'm afraid to tell him, because i've been faking for awhile. But iv'e really never been able to orgasm any other way, and with any other partner. ... (77 words)

My husband has touched my daughter... how do I deal with it?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3844 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter who is 19 has suffered from depression for the past 3 years, she is on tablets and struggles to sleep. I have tried to talk to her to help her to try find out why. She finally opened up to her CPN at the end of november, she told them that when she was 11 her dad ... (564 words)

Guys, what makes you think a girl is easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - all guys that comes my way. thinks am cute and sexy. and they all just seem to want sex.. i dont dress sl.utty..or give it up easy.. but i do however, flirt with guys alot..(thats cos they always start flirting with me first) and when they realise am not like that..sl.ut... (140 words)

My boyfriend and I have a fictitious lover - anyone with similar stories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am looking for input. My fiance's biggest turn on is fantasizing about me sleeping with other men. I don't but for the sake of role play have developed a fictitious 'boyfriend' and make it as real for him as possible. So, is there anyone else out there that has a similar ... (56 words)

Should we wait longer to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 15 and im thinking about having sex with my girlfreind but my penis is 5.5" erect with the girth of 4" is it too small and should i wait longer + will a condom fit ?... (38 words)

How can a friend be so close and never want to talk to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend only talks to me when he doesn't kno its me? I just started AIM and added him. He kept asking who it was and I didnt want to tll him knowing if I did he would never chat with me. I wanted so much to talk to him but he never understands me. How can a friend e so close ... (154 words)

Once I was accused of rape and it proved to be a lie! I am afraid it can happen again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I just need some reassurance because i am worrying really. When i was 11 in school, we went on a week long residential trip to wales, half way through the week, a person i thought was a friend, she was also 11 accused me of raping her. it got found out she was lying of course, ... (130 words)

"Fake" friend hitting on girlfriend - what should I do so she doesn't speak to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im an 18 year old male. i have a girlfriend and my friend is so messed up and says stuff to her behind my back. he asks her to send him sexual pictures. he asks her for kisses to cheer him up. and to bite her ass and stuff. the thing is i promised her i wouldnt confront him ... (196 words)

I dislike the way my closest friends treats me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Basically ive been close friends with a women(im female)for a couple of decades!.We would always tell each other our daily news and regulary meet up every few days. But within the past year she got a new boyfriend and all of a sudden become distant,didnt invite me to see ... (538 words)

Why do I always end up just being 'the friend' when I want more than that?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Why am I one of those guys that women want to be friends with but nothing more? Of my ten closest friends, nine are female. They all say I would be a great catch. I have asked them, seriously, what I could do to make myself more appealing but they all say that I dress very ... (161 words)

Going to sleep with a man I work with. How can I get over my flaws and be more confident in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this man a year ago. We work together. We find each other really attractive and have finally decided to sleep together (once). There are no long term plans, we just want to have fun together. What I want to know is how can I make sure I don't do something stupid and ... (88 words)

I sort of like this guy and we kissed while drunk, but he has a girlfriend! what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I kissed a guy, we were both quite drunk, well really drunk. He goes to my college, and is in a few of my classes. It was really awkward for a while, but it's alright now. Anyway, I didn't know that he had a girlfriend, who is abit older than me. I... (159 words)

How can I stop comparing our relationship to others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice. I can't stop comparing my relationship to others and i am becoming increasingly more jealous of other girls around my boyfriend. I don't know why i do it and its really getting me down...i keep taking it out on my boyfriend too which makes everyt... (123 words)

Bad relationship with my husbands kids! How can I change things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Several years ago I got involved with an older, married man. At the time I thought it was simply a short fling, but it developed into a relationship that eventually led to him leaving his wife. I do not feel the need to go into the 'gritty' details of their divorce. Well... (392 words)

My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ... (43 words)

Broke up with my ex and he says he still loves me, but how can he if he isnt with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex slpit 5 months ago. he admitted he had feelings for someone else so we broke up. We had been together a year. Shortly after that he got together with this girl and they're still together now. Thing is, we've pretty much spoken every day since we split. I know we ... (151 words)

I'm worries because I repeated something my ex g/f told me in strictest confidence.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok i broke up with my girlfreind and i really took it bad, she had revealed lots of intimate secrets to me(about sexual abuse in the past) i promised her i would not tell a soul. During the break up I became a real mess. I had to speak to somone and i told her secret to my ... (99 words)

Should I take police advise and sue my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, or I could a) take him to ... (99 words)

Are some people simply destined to be alone all their lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) age 36-40 - At age 25 i have never been in a relationship and obviously still a virgin never kissed anyone and as each day passes i see myself growing older and lonlier. I suffer badly from depression and anxiety i have no self esteem at all no confidence and self loathing. As i wake up e... (203 words)

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use sex toys, in fact we had a ... (553 words)

I text him, he says he doesn't know who I am, or that he doesn't want to talk, and yet I still wonder if he could be interested in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone help needed please, i like this guy and we got on really wel, anyway we stopped talking for a reason i cant really explian 2 u it wasnt bad but he didnt belive that it was not me, Anyway everynow and then i text him sometimes he relpys sometimes he doesnt like a fe... (384 words)

I quickly ruled him out, but now am wondering if I was too harsh

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy that is interested in me, however I have ruled him out on after two dates, an informal meeting, and two chats online. He gave me a pretty tough first impression to get over as he didn't seem like he cared about others feelings or having good morals. However, I ... (433 words)

I got my sis to speak to my wife about sending money to another man. Now she says I can thank my sis for her dirvorcing me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone...im in alot of confusion and disbelief... ok so on monday the 26th my wife used my credit card to send money to some guy names Ivan...so i texted my 2 of my sisters and asked them to ask her what was going on cause i tried texting and texting her and she wouldnt ... (320 words)

To move on or not when we have trust issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - We are having trust issues because he decided to bring a girl home, got touchy feely with her and in his bed. Then he updates her with his new number after swearing he is not going to have anything to do with her again. I went through his phone and saw a message to his friend ... (324 words)

Is he Gay or am I Crazzzy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate to think this way because I love my boyfriend with every beat of my heary buuuut there's a few things I'm starting to wonder about latley. ((Hopefully I'm wrong)) Ok so my bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years. This is my First Serious Relationship because I was ... (338 words)

So does anyone have any good suggestions for places to meet a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really want to start talking to girls more. I'm 19 and in college but I go to a primarily guy college. No joke there is like no girls here. For every 15 guys there is maybe 1 girl. So one night I thought about all the ways I could come in contact with some girls. Only to ... (220 words)

What is a swollen thumb trick in ref to viewing a penis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys, I was talking to my mate who is bi and he said something that i wasn't familiar with. i want to ask u guys because i cant find it on the net. basically he said he was shown a guys penis using the "swollen thumb trick" if anyone can explain what this is i'd like to k... (70 words)

I'm afraid to kiss him coz I can't stand his gross teeth.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, my boyfriend is amazing and sweet and i really like him but im afraid to kiss him to tell you the truth his teeth are gross and i just cant stand them but i want to kiss him but idk wat to do. should i kiss him and see how it goes first or just never kiss him during o... (64 words)

I'm 16 and I need advice on how to talk to girls!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 16, i never had a girlfriend or even got my first kiss yet. its not hard for me to talk to my girls that are my friends, but i get super nervous and shy around really hot girls idk. what should i do to "break out of the shell" and also, i rush things too fast(idk how to slow ... (79 words)

Is he interested or not? Should I drop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Below is a text from a guy I'm dating. "sorry i was hung over so it took a while to reply im sick atm. i finish work there at 6. wanna catch up in dalesford lemme knw xoxo." It took him 24 hours to post that.. he always takes forever.. I tried to reply, but i feel annoy... (88 words)

I got my period twice in a month. Am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys i am new to this i am in serious needs of answer... Okay so here the problem I had my period Jan. 14.2010.. Me and my boyfriend started having sex Jan 2nd 2010.... and then we had sex on the jan 12th 2010.. so i got my period a day after we had sex. That was wierd but ... (154 words)

24th girl shot me down in a row, please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - this question is for the woman reading. I dont know whats wrong with me im a nice guy, very patient, understanding, and good listener. but all the girls i hang out with awile then become good friends with them, i ask some of them out, but i always get the same repley i dont ... (185 words)

Given his ex is on the scene should I even be considering marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance continues to talk with his ex. I believe it is her that initiates the contact. I've read his emails to find this out. She says things like, I miss you more than ever and I miss you so much I could puke. It has been 3 years since they have had a relation... (492 words)

How do I cope when I see history repeating itself ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Oh my god, this is so petty, but I'm reliving memories I just don't want to relive at all!!!! A few years ago, my boyfriend and I partially broke up because he met this girl who got to a part of his soul. It wasn't the only reason, but she was the icing on the cake that en... (860 words)

What did she mean by saying "I don't know you?"

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31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok! I have a personal problem I want to ask you guys. When I was in high-school, I was single throughout. One day I remember I asked this girl for her telephone number. I didn't know much about her, but I knew her name. I just thought she was beautiful. So I did, and she ... (593 words)

My friends think I am just a booty call. Am I?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known a guy through a mutual friend for 2 years. We have slept together 4 times. After each time, I would send a general message, from a friend to a friend asking how things were going, but I would receive no reply. From what it seems, he only contacts me when he ... (199 words)

I have had sex 7 times with 3 diff men and don't enjoy it.

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So Ive only had sex about 7 times but Ive been with 3 men. But everytime I have sex it doesnt feel good for me at all. Its more uncomfortable than anything. But I dont get that feel good sensation that people keep telling me about. I dont think that thats normal at all. Should ... (126 words)

Is love supposed to hurt?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some major advise i am so confused i wonder at times is love suppose to hurt? i have two daughters with two different men and the last man was almost perfect except for the fact that he didnt work..he was so nice understanding and romantic but the lack was in providing ... (157 words)

Turn out the open realtionship is only kinda ok withher boyfriend

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31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - k so i was fooling around with this girl and i knew she had a boyfriend but she said it was an open relationship so i thought it would be cool we went pretty far suffice it to say if we would have had a bed we probly woulda had sex. any way turns out her BF is only kinda okay ... (92 words)

Am I being unreasonable in my distrust of him and by getting angry at the drunken states he gets into?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 19, and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year, he's 21. Before going out with him, I'd only had one previous sexual partner, when I was 17. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had about 10 sexual partners. None of which he dated, they were all drunken one nigh... (490 words)

Met a great guy and didn't get his contact info...I need tips on how to be proactive in tracking him down.

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a nice guy when I was out with my brother last night and I'd be really interested in meeting up with him again. The thing is, we lost track of time until my bro realised we had just 5 mins to get to the other side of town, so I had to rush off without swapping any contact ... (173 words)

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!... (28 words)

I want her but she has a bf! Any advice on how to make her mine?

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31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Never really knew what I wanted in a Girl, but now i do. The only thing is she already has a boyfriend. Another thing to add is she already knows i like her. Im in desperate need of help and any advice on how to make her mine. Any tips?... (54 words)

He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??... (30 words)

He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age - I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those countries. He based his ... (130 words)

Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 1/2 and you have to be 17 to ... (163 words)

It seemed great, and then he doesn't want to go out. Was it just for sex?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got dumped by a guy I really liked after less than a month. Things seemed great at first as we had a lot in common and our personalities really seemed to click. After two weeks he suddenly seemed distant, but when I asked if something was wrong he said he was just ... (288 words)

He calls me names and he has stopped taking care of himself. Should I dump him?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend calls me a bitch sometimes when he's mad. We've been together for 4 years now, but we just got back together at the end of October after I broke up with him for 3 months. One of the agreements for us to be a couple again was that he could never call me a bitch ... (674 words)

Never thought I'd fall for a married man...super confused here!

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I never thought I'd fall for a married man! I didn't intend for things to get so heavy.I work in the same building and see him everyday..he just told me he wants to end our affair of only 1 month. Yet on the weekend he texts me and sends me pics of himself. Can someone please ... (112 words)

Told my gf I watch porn, and she doesn't understand. What can I say to her?

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31 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i have been watching porn. i have been with my gf for 4 years so i told her that i watched porn. she got mad and was telling me that i shouldn't be watching those things cause it is all fake so i told her that even if it is fake the sex seems real. she got mad and thought i was ... (274 words)

Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and havent been able to go anywhere, ... (149 words)

Is there any way to keep out best friend relationship?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ohkay,(this is long) well ive liked this guy alooooot since 4th grade(now in 7th). He like use to hate me but over the summer we texted and on my space my mood was "ilikehim" like most girls do, he messaged me and was all like please tell me, i wont tell anyone! is it me? you ... (267 words)

Is she acting differently because of what I said?

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31 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - If a woman is interested in a man, might she change the way she acts based on what he says? For example, I said "you're awfully confident today." and the next time I saw her she was embarrassingly over-confident toward me. It was charming. I don't usually comment on the w... (58 words)

What does it mean when someone only calls you talk about their problems?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - When you meet someone and get into a relationship with them while they're going through a rough time, but then they finally come out of it a while after you break up (they are finally improving their life and are happier), and they used to call you all the time even after the ... (93 words)

Period cycles...please clarify for me.

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi okay this is a question about periods and period cycles. Considering my age i really should know this but honestly i am don't have a clue. Someone asked me a while ago how long is my cycle and i answered 34 days however i got to thinking about it and i realised i wasn'... (116 words)

Am I just his 'secret' friend...what's going on with this guy?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy at school who already has a girlfriend and i think he fancies me. we met in the beginning of the school year in my science classes. we were forced to sit together so we got talking, music, likes, hobbies ect. small talk really. and we've had loads in common so ... (234 words)

Concerns about my clitoris...help!

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never had an overly sensitive clitoris. I do not masturbate because it does not do anything for me. I have feeling, but it is hardly pleasurable…it is more irritating (not painful) than anything else. Recently, I read somewhere that my problem may be due to clitoral ... (301 words)

Do I just sit back and let my boyfriend disown his family?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. Our relationship has been plagued by the same problem from the very start. I am West Indian and he is East Indian. So, his parents come from India and mine from the Caribbean. Both of our parents are against us being together f... (329 words)

Planning my future in the Navy. My friends don't understand and I feel isolated.

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm applying for the navy soon (in july to be precise) so i've been training phisically, mentally and emotionally. i've also been getting as much experience as i can on ships n that. but i'm only 15. half the people who are 16 in my school haven't a clue what they're doing ... (242 words)

Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?

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31 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?... (48 words)

He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?

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31 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I pressed the talk button, and ... (153 words)