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Should I bother having this relationship or just stay friends because of the distance?

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Question - (5 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17.

God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen.

Except... He lives an hour away from me. I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years old, so how does anyone expect a sixteen year old to even WANT to make a long distance relationship work.

It's just that, all the guys at my school are total jerks. And he's tired of all the girls at his school because they're kind of sluts. And we just have liked each other for so long.

It would've been easier if he still lived here, but he moved about a year ago.

I don't know what to do, if I should bother having this relationship or just stay friends. It's hard to make that decision because he's just so sweet to me, looking out for me. And it's so nice to actually have a guy care about you for a change.

Has anybody ever tried a long distance relationship before? Worth it or not?

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A female reader, LustyMisa United States +, writes (7 January 2010):

LustyMisa agony auntI know it seems like alot now but trust me an hour is nothing lol :)

I say if you really like the guy and he's what you're looking for, don't let go of him or you'll regret it, if its meant to be it'll work out one way or another

And when you think about it, really what decision is there, if he's the only guy that really cares about you, its not like you have to make up your mind so you can go date someone else if there IS no one else that can compete :)

if things don't work out they don't work out, but if its good now why not see what happens

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