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Something so insignificant suddenly becomes all you can think about...

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Question - (5 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well I've been here before a few times. This question is a kind of a follow up from one before where I was wanting to get back in contact with a guy, but here is basically my question.

Ever started thinking of someone who you think is pretty insignificant, then somehow you end up thinking of them all the time and then you kind of wonder why the hell you're thinking of them so much in the first place?

I'm wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience and how to get around this because it's starting to get me down that I want something I can never have.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2010):

It's hard because I have no direct contact with him. Don't have any of his contact details, only see him very occasionally (and I mean I bump into him once a year if I'm lucky) I asked him for his number last time but he just told me he didn't have a phone. Dunno if he meant that or not.

I HAVE however managed to get back in contact with his sister. Maybe in time I'll manage to get in contact with him through her. Fingers crossed and thanks!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

I have the exact same experience and it's been bothering me for like 6 months, I knew this girl her name was lily, I stopped talking to her over time, But then I started thinking about her non stop and it was killing me. So it was odd but the day i was begging for her to talk to me she did. So every time I'm kicking myself for not talking to her I just do. I talk to her and I feel relieved in a way. Just talk to him and see what happens, don't sit around wondering.

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