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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could you please help me to either move on or give me a chance with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I'm a 15 year old boy, I have this friend who's a beautiful girl with the most amazing personality. I think I love her but I'm too embarrassed to say anything to her because I have asked her out before and she said no. I now get very shy whenever I see her. I've been told ... (101 words)

My mind is consumed with what she claims was drunken sex romp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So I met this girl at a party a while back and we hit it off super well. And we started hanging out.. a lot. We spent a lot of time together and were messing around, we hadn't had sex for the first 2 weeks that we hung out (On my call, she wanted it the first night we hung out, ... (668 words)

He is always correcting me but I don't want to hurt his feelings by saying something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy that I know.Ive known him for about a year or so now.I have a huge problem with the way he is always correcting my grammar.Sometimes I will say went when I should have said gone.I say hamburger meat instead of ground beef.Sometimes I run words together such as ... (212 words)

He is taking his friends advise not to get back with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - He goes with me at school. We hang out together and my friend told me he talked with her and told her that he STILL loves me after i broke up with him twice and the truth is i still love him to. She told him to talk to me but he still has'nt even said HI to me or even ... (96 words)

I am being replaced by my wife's vibrator

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I posted before about my wife's low sex drive, partly due to being on anti depression medication. After a long chat, she decided to stop taking her meds and try cognative behavioural therapy in the hope of it increasing her libido. Everything seems to be ok for her in that ... (210 words)

My best friend and I are fighting over a boy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is saying stuff about me and I want to punch her in the face..Should I? This all started over a boy.... (24 words)

I met an old beau online, we wined and dined and then his wife phoned me ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age - I was on an online dating site. I decided to delete my account because I wasn't happy with th contacts I was getting. Anyway, I had one wink and when I decided to respond, it was from a guy who I had been in love with when I was 18. He came to see me on my job, we chatted ... (230 words)

Is he keeping me dangling, or does he just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, Me and my ex boyfriend J broke up due to his violent abuse and cheating on me. But the night after I broke up with J, I snogged another boy called T at a house party, I partly think it could have just been because I was hurting, But after that me and T started dating a... (244 words)

All seemed to be going great and then voila! he disappeared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for several months, we are on the cycling team together he is 22 and I'm 20. Last week we danced together and made out at a party. He came over to my place the next day and we kissed, cuddled and made plans to spend time together. The next day, he texted ... (239 words)

He usually initiates contact, should I email him?

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A relative gave my email address to this guy (lives in the US) sometime in July and since then we have been exchanging emails occasionally. Last December, I went to the US for a holiday and we agreed to meet up. We went to see a movie and had dinner, watched a concert, watched ... (210 words)

I feel I cant match his last girlfriend for looks

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm dating this guy and everything is great. Execpt I feel like theres alot of pressure on me. The last girl he went out with was gorgeous, she's really pretty and one of them most desired girls in school. I feel like I cant possibly live up to her high standards. ... (137 words)

My friend said the reason boys don't ask me out is because I am hyper

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) age 26-29 - ok well ive been single since i was in 5th grade and i want a bf but i dont know who likes me i liked these two boys last year and i didnt know they liked me til this year cuz one of my guy friends told me and they knew i liked they so why didnt they ask me out and how do i ... (95 words)

Wondering if my periods are normal

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and I've been a woman for a little over a year now, but my periods aren't regular and sometimes I miss 3 or 4 at a time and then a heavy one in the middle of the month that lasted bout a week for the flow to finally stop, and then last month it lasted maybe a day if ... (123 words)

We are cousins and madly in love, should we tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, well a few years ago my cousin came to stay with us for a while and we imediately became really close, then one night he kissed me (although i had been wanting too for ages i didnt, because i wasnt sure how he would react.) anyway we ended up having sex and everything all ... (187 words)

Should I ask out my best friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i have this huge crush on my best friend and i really want to ask her out, the only problem is she knows i fancy her, what should i do?... (30 words)

We met online, but he hasn't asked to meet in person. What's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I received an email from a very polite and good looking man from an online dating site. He said he was looking to expand his circle of friends to do more things...and emailed me to say hello. He also described himself as very laid back, and a bit of a loner. We actually li... (182 words)

Scared to get an HIV test because if I test positive, my new guy will dump me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am scared of getting an hiv test. Me and my boyfriend broke up for eight months and then I got a new boyfriend and slept with with out protection. I broke up with him because he was annoying. We only dated for two months. He has never been checked out. It's completely out of ... (136 words)

How come everybody likes the same guy I like

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ever since i liked this guy everyone else wants to date him, why though?... (14 words)

How do I quit being so overly jealous here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - here goes my prob. m very jealous, everytime i see my bf talking to some other chick i go green. i always embarass myself infront of people because when that happens i dont care where we r i shout at the top of my voice its so embarrasing. the other time i saw my bf talking to ... (87 words)

We were trying to reconcile and I find out he 's dating another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who claimed to love me broke up with me just less than a year ago due to arguing too much. I didn't really think things were that bad (we were trying long-distance for a period of time he had to be away) but we went our own ways and I was pretty devastated. I gave ... (493 words)

Do you think he wants me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am wondering if this means anything. I had an fling with this guy-- I say fling because it was sex 3 times then people began suspecting and we couldn't be together anymore ( I am separated- he is single, but some politic are involved here). It was difficult for him to pass ... (179 words)

Below the belt questions... do I look right down there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, im 14 years old. And i dont think i look right down there. But my boyfriend says i look great.? Should i beleve him? Do you have to shave before sex? Also could you please tell me how to give oral sex? Thanks heaps :) xx... (57 words)

I think my husband's best friend is attracted to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - First of all I got married 2 years ago, and I love my husband to death. I am 23 yrs old. I believe my husband´s best friend is attracted to me, or he´s just trying to play some kind of a game thinking that I will fall for it. He is 30, married and has 2 kids.When I firs... (314 words)

Can I love her if I don't find her sexy? How will it work without sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok guys there is this girl i think i love her, everything so damn great when im near her, its so fun when we are together. i feel that shes the i want to live with forever. but the problem is, i dont find her sexy at all. is this really love? if it is hows it gonna wo... (117 words)

I want to wait to have sex with someone special, but my sex drive is through the roof!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and will be turning 20 pretty soon and ive never had sex and have only been kissed once. It isn't that i want to rush sex or anything and i don't want to do it for the sake of it but at times its very tempting because at my age my sex drive is through the roof and it ... (261 words)

Has my guy lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ive have been with this guy for over a year now . i live with him we see each other every day . were very involved in each others lives but here lately its like he doesn't want to tuch me. what does that mean, has he lost interest. i love this man very much and he says he loves ... (131 words)

He never initiates saying "I love you", but when I say it he says it back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing eachother for 3 wonderful months. We've gotten very close...met the family already, gone on vacation together, and he tells me all the time how happy he is with me. A few days ago I said those 3 words..I love you...and he said I love you ... (152 words)

Does this mean anything or am I just kidding myself that he cares?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Wow, This may be too log for some but here goes. I had been with my husband for 7 years. The last three were awful. I treated him like crap and it was as though he didn't exist. I was never intimate with him and we never even slept in the same bed. I now know that I had post ... (490 words)

What are the main signs that he is only looking for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I've recently got back together with my boyfriend after i dumped him. I dumped him because of family related problems which made me push him away. My boyfriend felt that in our relationship he/ we had become selfish( not seeing friends etc). This i accepted and agreed. ... (152 words)

If a straight man in a relationship with a straight woman receives "a massage + a happy ending" from a male masseuse--no emotional intimacy involved--is that cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Brief facts: I'm female. Been with my boyfriend for nearly a year. I'm very, very open minded. Compared to other relationships I've been in, our sex life isn't so great (for various reasons), but there's a lot of love between us. I KNOW he's into tranny porn and that he'... (322 words)

How to maintain a level of Respect from a Guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am getting to know a guy that requested my friendship online and I am trying to maintain my respect in the process.. what I mean by that is when I gave him my number he replied to my email through text and the reply was kind of on the "fresh" side ... I'm not a prude but I ... (120 words)

Please help...I love this girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, have a question my girlfriend of six months sent me this email the other day.what should I think of this.I care for her deeply.(I'm not sure where I'm going with this, but when I ask for time to get my thoughts and feelings inline, that's pretty much what I intend to do. ... (225 words)

Facial hair and depression. Could the Pill be causing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on the pill, I am 26 and never wanted to go on the pill however, I have noticed that I am getting quite a bit of hair on my neck, chin and face, I have read that some forms of the pill can help, I also feel quite depressed just before I am due my period, has ... (73 words)

Mechanics of male orgasm/ejaculation. What is going on for you?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Some possibly weird questions for the guys here that a couple of recent incidents have had me wondering about ... I have asked my own man all this stuff by the way, but he is one man, I am curious aboout consistencies and contrasts experienced across the board. So fi... (240 words)

My bf's friend is jealous. How can I not come between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Right im in a relationship, and have known the guy for over a year so i know all his friends, in particular his closest friend. But this friend at first wasnt too sure about me and has gradually warmed up, but i found out that he gets jealous of me a few times. And as i dont ... (208 words)

Why do I have these random feelings about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy for about 6 years already and we're very good friends though I don't tell him everything. We're very open and our friends jokes about us being an item all the time. We fight and argue a lot nevertheless. At the same time, we're very competitive and are ... (360 words)

There are no more butterflies..bored but scared to let him go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, so i dont really know what im asking. But i know i have a problem. I have been seeing this guy for almost a month. We have been on a few dates and text constantly. When we started seeing each other, he was friends with my friend so she didnt like it at first but we pushed ... (168 words)

How can I help my girlfriend feel more secure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I could do with a little bit of genuine advice, because Im in a bit of a pickle with regards to an issue that keeps being raised in my relationship. I am 21 years old and I have been with my girlfriend nearly 15 months. I love her so much and we are in many ways per... (1564 words)

How can I sort this all out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry my question is so long but i couldnt shorten it anymore.If you need to know anything about it please ask. Me and this guy met up and liked each other.after a week he asked me to have a relationship with him which i said no because i find it hard to trust people after a ... (700 words)

Guys: would you have responded with a phone call or a text?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

23 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - I texted my boyfriend after getting home from a girls night out. It was only a little after 9 p.m. He didn't respond, so I called and no answer. I had asked him a question in the text and he normally responds even if there's not a question. So I texted him that I just tried ... (158 words)

Am I bisexual or do I just fancy a tumble with a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there. i am a very girly girl i love to take care of my appearance and love make up and doing my hair. however i catch myself looking at GIRLS and fantasize of how they would be in bed. i am really attracted to the "tomboy" kind of lesbian and i really would love ... (152 words)

Dry and unable to orgasm. How can I fix it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - dear sir/madam i was just wondering why im so dry when me and my sex partner have sex and why is so hard for me to cum. can somebody please give a suggestion wat i can do bout my situation.... (49 words)

Update: "My wife's boss wants an affair with her"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding. From talking to her friends at work ... (553 words)

He says he stayed with ex for his son. I don't understand why.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need to know wether I am being a idiot or if its normal to feel how I do. My boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship and this situation is hard but we have a agreement regarding the visits. But my boyfriend has told me about the relationship with the mother.... (146 words)

Is he over me now that he took my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing a guy for about 8 months now, from the start he has been chasing me. he is 26 and i have just turned 20. We both have a lot in common and are comfortable around each other. we see each other as often as we can (3-4 times a week)and he always texts me after our ... (481 words)

Doctor did not exam me to determine how far pregnant I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so 2 weeks ago I did a home pregnancy test and it came out positive so I took another one just to be on the safe side. This also had the same outcome. I went to my local supermarket and bought a clear blue digital one and this one came out pregnant and said 2-3 weeks. That ... (150 words)

Can someone get pregnant without sexual intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm pretty much messed up right now and way too worried. I'm still a virgin as I have not had sexual intercourse yet. However, the other day I was lying on bed with my boyfriend and we were playing around, we had our underwear on and I gave him a handjob. He took... (393 words)

How do you knock back a friends advances without losing the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this boy in my year at school. We're good friends, but he's always hugging me and saying "Wuv you," and telling me how gorgeous I am and flirting with me... He hasn't actually asked me out yet, but, all my other friends think he will soon, and he's actually told my... (111 words)

I think he could still love me to but I'm not sure because he said nothing more than friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. I firstly want to thank anyone who replys to this it means a lot to me. I am in love with a boy (lets call him T) I have been since August last year. Me and T dated a lot like not as boyfriend and girlfriend but it was dates as we kissed and things. Then I made a... (178 words)

My cousin is constantly seeking attention from me on facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a tricky situation and need advice. My cousin who i was very close to moved to Chicago 6 years ago when she got married.We have always kept in touch. Now just before Christmas she joined facebook but she bombards me with things everyday -everday s... (294 words)

My b/f says he doesn't know what he feels for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he feels for me and needs to see me to help him decide. I went overseas and he had to move back to his hometown cos he lost his job. We had discussed we could manage a long distance relationship cos we had done fine before he moved ... (358 words)

I am about to meet my online b/f and worries I might not be slim enough for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - would like some answers from male readers. i have been txting a man now for the last 5 mths. we get on great and he is a great person. he lives few hours away and we are meant to be meeting next week. he has seen pics of me but had to take them myself and are just from head to ... (166 words)

My girlfriend is suspicious and always frowning at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there. my gf and i are having serious problems since she saw me holding her sisters waist. she thinks we have someting doing but we dont! she frowns at everything i do,call me names,even in sex she frowns. please u guys should tell me what to do. hope the girls can help me ... (56 words)

Kicking myself for failing my driving test. Again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Morning guys, Im on such a downer. I failed my driving test again yesterday-my 2nd attempt. I had such awful rainy weather and the route was so difficult. I know i need to book myself in again but im soo scared.To make it all worse my family just rolled their eyes at me as to... (200 words)

Just thinking about him turns me on. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - there this guy that am getting to know.. and i swear when i think about him.. i get soo horny:(.. is like i just wanna be with him..like have him sexually:(..am always fantasising about him..am soo embarrassed:(.. am not a sl.utt or anything.. and i haven't had sex for a year ... (156 words)

BF pushing me away, but does not know I only have months to live. Should I tell him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ah, I can't stop the way I feel and stay away.. I love someone he loves me too but we can't be together coz plenty of reasons anyway, I have a health issue for years and it got worse in the last year. Recently, the medicine stop working I tried alot but doesn't work, my docto... (168 words)

Guilt over not calling a friend the night before she died

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Again, I have another non relationship-related question, but I love the advice, so I figured I'd ask. On october 23rd of 2009, a dear friend passed away from ALS. I saw her for the last time ever on the 3rd of october, My last promise to her was to quit smoking... and I... (433 words)

I'm attracted to my stepson.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 38 years old and married to an older man - he's 50. It's his second marriage and he's got 2 kids from his previous marriage. Over the past few months my attraction to my stepson has grown tremendously. We flirt a lot to the point it could be considered highly ... (186 words)

2 friends on dating site both contacting me. Are they playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy like 2 weeks ago on a dating site, we have been exchanging really long mails and we started chatting as well, it seems we have a lot of "chemistry", so I am starting to like him a little to much and it "feels" like he likes me a lot as well. So, I looked for him ... (242 words)

Should I give an ultimatum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I started hooking up with a friend of mine about 4 months ago. We love each others company and have a great time together. She knows how I feel and she bounces back and forth between feeling the same way, and just wanting to be friends. I want to protect myself so I don't ... (141 words)

BF wants our LDR to become an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with my guy for over 8 yrs now..since like school days....but it has always been a long distance relationship.. when we started i used to look very pretty and was a very confident girl....n he found this very attractive...it was all good for the ... (376 words)

Am I crazy to wait for a guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. Ok so when I told my best friend how strong my feelings were for him, he had told me that he liked me too but he doesnt want a girlfriend right now. Then i asked how long do i have to wait because i dont wanna wait forever and then he said less than 6 months. I told ... (118 words)

My husband is divorcing me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is divorcing me, doesn't want mediation or to explain why he's divorcing me specifically. He just says it's too late, I tell him he's not even trying! He's tried to commit suicide when we were having financial problems and they gave him bi-polar disorder meds. but he ... (1334 words)

I'm tired of putting up with hubby's crap

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. I am so exhauseted from trying to deal with my husband. I just don't know if I even want to be married to him anymore. He never has anything nice to say to me. He always teases me but never praises me. I could take the teasing, I have a sense of humor, ... (551 words)

I got my sister pregnant.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age - I'll give you some background im 22 and i have an 18 year old sister. We've always been really close. When my mom and dad split up she was made to decide where she wanted to live. I had already moved out and got an appartment so to spite our parents i said she could come and ... (320 words)

He hasn't got time for a relationship. Should I pursue him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First, i'd like to thank you all for taking the time to read and answer my question. So here's the situation: I got my cousin to talk with the guy I like. I found out that when he liked me, he still liked his ex girlfriend. But he said he tried pushing her away so he cou... (199 words)

I think its time I raised the subject of sex with my girl, but unsure how to do it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What would be a good way to bring up having sex to mu gf? We have been together for well over a year now. We have gone as far as dry humping with only our underwear on. So what would be a good way to bring up the topic of sex to her?... (53 words)

I'm giving off 'stay away' vibes to guys and want to change that

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a confident girl and I'm having trouble seeing why guys are not attracted to me. They never approach me or bother to look at me twice. However, the guys are not solely to blame. I will admit that I am intimidated by the opposite sex and it's only because I've had not one- ... (100 words)

I am making my own plans for my future but sad I will never see my mother and sister again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

23 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - i need help. i am a girl. and me and my girlfriend are planing to leave home after 18 , after school. we are not telling anyone . its like running away but we are legal to. everything is decided. at the end of this year we are leaving. but my mum and my sister are leaving for ... (107 words)

I rejected him twice but now he has a g/f I think I want him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I know it sounds weird, but I have no other option. I like a guy that I have rejected about 2 times because I was scared to be in a relationship. I wanted to be, but i couldn't face it. He's told me he loves me, but I was to scared to adimt the same. And of corse he... (111 words)

Where can I get free, confidential treatment for an STD?

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I might have an STD where can I get tested? is there anywhere to do it for free or cheap and with privacy? like not notifying my parents. I'm 17.... (32 words)

I'm dating a married man, he wants sex, but if I give it he might break up with me

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am dating this married guy, i am married too. i am 18 years old and he is 32. i know is kinda crazy but im really attracted to him. we met by our job, it was my first time i worked and damm! it happened, i am so into him, maybe is because i have only had one man in my ife, ... (142 words)

We've been dating for about two months but now I don't even find her attractive anymore

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Some background info to start out: -We're both in high school -This relationship is both our 1st relationship with anyone -We've been dating for about 2 months, and we've known each other for about 5 or so. -We see each other everyday at school and hang out almost every... (172 words)

I am hot for my sister

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - hi my sister is very hot and i have a thing for her should i tell her?... (17 words)

Is my penis small?

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and my penis is 6 inches in length and 5.5 inches in girth, and I feel like its so small. Sometimes I get nervous with new girls because I think they will think its small also. So i really want to know if its small. (Mod Note - OP's own title) ... (57 words)

He just wants to be friends and free to flirt

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23 January 2010 (F)

In love with my manager but he has moved in with girlfriend

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So I love this boy and he was my manager. He is 25 and I am 24. Two years ago, he started working at the theatre since he replaced our previous manager that just got fired. In the beginning, we didnt really talk, the only time we even spoke was a couple of words. As the ... (613 words)

"All the Rules" has any1 read it and found success?

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok just bought the book "All the Rules" and its about dating and how to hook line and sink a husband, has anyone read it and found it to be successful? It was a pretty popular book around 1995/96... anyone who has read it please reply!... (46 words)

Is 2 months too soon to get sexual?

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my boyfriend just asked me if i would let him figure me. i said yes cause i really want to get sexual with him. We have been going out for 2 months on the 24th and I am just wondering if we are going to fast? I don't want to rush things, but i really love him... I'm not ... (79 words)

How do I French Kiss?

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - how does french kissing work?... (5 words)

I want my married lover to leave her husband for me

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

23 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having an affair with a married woman. If you are reading and feel the need to tell me to stop or find someone who is not married, you can keep your comments to yourself because I don't care. We are both crazy in love for one another. She wants to be with me, I want to ... (466 words)

My Wife's Boss wants an affair with her

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23 January 2010 (M)

Decides now he does not want to be with me coz I lied in the past

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my guy has been knowing eachother for 2 and a half years. for the first year we were good but i felt like he confused me.i lied to him before and he has forgave me. now hes saying hes not ready to be with me because he wants to make sure i dont do what i did ,even though ... (143 words)

7 years on and he still has excuses not to marry me

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok i just dont know what to do anymore. I was married for eighteen years. It was rocky marriage and stayed for the children. I was filing for divorce and had met this man that swept me off my sweet. He pursued me so strongly. He was so honest and loving and Acted so inlove ... (401 words)

Husbands Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is driving me away

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 8 years, married for 2 years, upon which we moved in together after the wedding. Over the course of us living together, I began to notice he had signs of obsessive compulsive disorder. He would create rules around the house, such as I am not ... (634 words)

The guy's a jerk, but I can't let go.

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do get over a boy that is a really jerk but I still like him. And I need help to get over him. I erased his number and any sort of thing that reminded me of him, but I seem to always want to call or text him. What do I do to get over him? ... (57 words)

Read his letter and tell me..should I work this out with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is a letter my "fiance" sent me.. we have a 21 month old daughter have been together for 3 years. Please read it and let me know if I should bother trying to work this out. thank you. ----(from him) So let's cut the crap. I don't like you. I think you're a mani... (770 words)

Which is the better buy - Fujifilm or Panasonic camera's?

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i recently asked a question about a fujifilm camera for my gf, but now am wondering if a fujifilm or a panasonic would be a better buy? ANy suggestions would be most welcome, Many thanks... (40 words)

My BF constantly flirts with other girls

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my boyfriend has been going out for 3 months, its going good however, he keeps meeting random girls when he's out and he is meeting another girl next month and staying over at her house. He is also meeting up with his ex, and a random girl he met of the internet that ... (174 words)

He wants the baby but not me...

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - good morning everybody, i'm 23, i have my boyfriend and we have been together for 2 years. First, he loved me so much but my parents were really disappointed about our relationship. Now i'm 2 months pregnant, i told him so and he's being like a lion. two weeks ago he told me ... (121 words)

How can I be noticed in real life and not in people's sugar covered depiction of reality?

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always had issues getting dates and relationships for some unseen reason, the only flaw that people i know can see when i ask them to honestly tell me what my problem is, they answer that the fact that i am basically a nerd and i wear clothing with stuff that i like that ... (1020 words)

Why don't guys reply when you text them????

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23 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont get it. Why don't guys reply when you text them. He's my mate, we're good friends hes often said that to me but i sometimes wonder. We dont talk much online as i have to start the convo and when we go out together hes always really shy around me, sometimes hes alright ... (203 words)

She's oblivious to my real feelings but it's seriously eating me alive.

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23 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am seriously in love with someone. I think about her all day and dream about her every night. She makes me feel like nobody ever has before, but we could never have a relationship for the simple fact we are best friends already. This sort of adds to the problem because I'm ... (168 words)

Will my teacher keep our conversation between us?

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23 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - If I tell my history teacher that I have been having trouble concentrating in school because of problems with my friends and at home, will he keep it between us or tell my head of year. Please help I don't know what to do ... (46 words)