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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell if he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you tell some beforehand signs of a player? There's this guy, he has cheated on his last two gfs but is going to counseling and doing a bunch of other things to at least try and change. He likes me and sometimes i dont like him but 80% of the day he's on my mind. Last year ... (154 words)

Baby situation as well as boyfriend!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and want a baby at least one, so we have been trying for a while but I don't no whether he wants as much or his hope is just lost, at the minute we are waiting to see if i am pregnant, but if i am not he is going to be so ... (86 words)

What do I do about my real dad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - right my life story basically: my mum split up with my real dad because he was a violent man but not as violent as many men, she left him and got remarried to my real dad's cousin and for years i have hated my real dad because what he had done but also i always cried because ... (210 words)

Is there such a thing as the male/boy pill?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex and about 2 weeks later took the pill to prevent my next period, now i dont no when my next period will come? and also is there such thing as the male pill or boy pill? please help!!!... (41 words)

Is husband depressed? Having an emotional breakdown?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 13 years (happily I thought). This is a second marriage for both of us. We recently bought a beutiful new home, have good jobs and both of my children have moved ot and have lives of their own. When my children were living with us we did have some ... (444 words)

Guys, how do I get him not to pass out after an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit, and it's usually at night because that's when we're with each other. I'm a night owl, and he stays up late, but not as late as i do. Oftentimes, he'll orgasm and be very tired and just want to crash afterwards. Once in a while i can get ... (103 words)

How do I let her go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I found a woman that I thought was the woman of my dreams. She seemed to fill every need I had as far as relationships go. She made me want to be a better person in all aspects of my life, personally, professionally, spiritually, etc. I was/ am madly in love with this woman. W... (168 words)

Husbands dirty secret

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This morning my husband left for a business trip. He forgot to close out a hidden folder on our computer. I have never seen this folder. It was like I entered into a shrine of women...from porn, pics of famous women, to random naked girls... Tons of random pics of women he... (141 words)

Wife found out about texts to other woman, and I don't think our marriage can survive this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age - I hope someone can help. I got very close to a co-worker, especially texting and phone calls plus some meetings when we could make it. Nothing sexual happened although we both led each other on to believe we wanted it to and the texts etc got pretty steamy. My wife and I were g... (332 words)

To cum or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well Iv started going out with this girl. We'v started going to the next step rather than kissing. Really I was just asking when the girl goes to give me a "handjob" say in my car or the room or something does the guy "cum" or what? I just thought it would be messy? ... (54 words)

B/f's mom walked in while I was giving him hand job!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now and we're completely in love. I've never been more happy and comfortable with anyone. Well, today we were at his house in his basement with his previously Catholic mother home. I'm not allowed in his house without her ... (129 words)

Virginity question

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in a relationship with a great guy,love him to bits. The problem is we had sex a while ago for the first time and we both said it was our first time. The thing is I had dated another guy (for like 2 years) before going out with the new guy. We did "everything but... (138 words)

Please help me fall out of love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically im in a massive shit hole of a situation! It will sound wierd but I wanna fall out of love with someone. the person I fell in love with is my step sister and its a horrible feeling. I also done the stupid thing of telling her I love her strongly. I think about her all ... (246 words)

Romantic ideas for valentine's day???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm looking for help and ideas of what to do on valentines day. in the evening/night me and my boyfriend are going out to a nice restaurant for a romantic meal and then off to a nice bar for some drinks but i want to arrange something for during the day, something fun, lively, ... (124 words)

Crushing on an old friend...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I've known this guy for about seven years, but we've never really known each other properly. Like, we've acknowledged eachother, and I guess we're friends, but we've never been close. Now recently, I've started to develop feelings for him. Now, I'm not bragging... (118 words)

How can I change this mentality he has about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with a guy for 3 years now, however, I have doubts about the relationship. When I first met him, I wasnt living a good lifestyle (I was Bi-sexual, and had a lot of guys), and because of him I changed for the better, I stuck with him because he believed in me and ... (147 words)

Head says move on, Heart wants him so bad.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy for 3.5 years and in October he sent me an email saying that he had to finish it as he loved his kids more than me (they don't know about me) and he wasn't ready to move in together. We were looking at flats together 2 days before and I have only ever been ... (611 words)

I feel violated by his video antics!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Last night I found video on my boyfriend computer, about a week old, of him filming up the skirts of women. I found 5 videos, i dont know if there are more. The video clearly shows his face, and him on escalators, putting his camera phone up girls short skirts without their ... (117 words)

His looking at porn could be a big problem for me, especially as he lies about it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband likes to look at porn. I don't mind as long as he is truthful about it and offers to include me sometimes. No it's not my favorite thing to do, but I love him and if it's something he likes then why make a fight of it so long as he is honest. So far, almost 5 years ... (291 words)

Things are going good, but is it too soon to tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't been in an actual relationship in nearly four years. My last boyfriend and I broke up at the end of our freshman year of college due to distance since it had become a long-distance relationship since going to college. Recently (about two weeks ago), a local guy find... (960 words)

When you love someone with all your heart... how do you know?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - How do you know when you love someone? When you really love them with all your heart? Me and my girlfriend have only been together for a month. We have already had sex and we can talk about everything. Even love. But I feel it is too early for us to love eachother. She has told ... (137 words)

Should I read into these comments on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is a different cultural background. Would you get upset if you saw on a public networking site two of her clients at work making sexually suggestive comments about her? Nor directly at her, nor were they crude. The convo went like this: One of them took a test... (165 words)

Unrequited gay love in the southwest US

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 30-year old gay man living in the southwestern United States. I moved here with my parents when I graduated from high school, and when I moved, my best friend from high school moved with us. Now, through high school, I wasn't out; neither was my friend. However, he was ... (373 words)

Still in love with my ex but I have a boyfriend now! So confused... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am torn. Completely and fully torn. I have a boyfriend his name is Rick. He and i have been dating for almost 3 months. Well recently my ex boyfriend who i never really resolved things with, his name is Jake, have started talking again. He was the first guy i ever fell ... (308 words)

I feel betrayed and cheated. Did she cheat on me or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So here's the story: I started to hang out a lot with this girl last year (I've known her for a while from college). She still had a boyfriend but he was to leave her after four years and eventually she cheated on him with me. We had a wonderful time last spring, meeting at my ... (461 words)

Boyfriend flirts with other girls, what should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have been dating my boyfriend not to long and I really like him he treats me so good, he makes me laugh and smile and is very sweet. He has told me before we dated that he is a flirt but he will not date other girls well he get's these friend request from girls on his ... (139 words)

Penis Pumps - Worth it? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

- Hi I've been looking into getting a penis pump - does anybody have one and are there any long term gains from using one? And any problems with them...? What do you think ladies? Any explination would be helpful!... (45 words)

I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age - Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been a promiscuous woman and I, ... (69 words)

Why is he behaving this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is acting really weird. he dumped me and when I told him "fine, leave me alone then" he wanted to speak, stupid as I was I gave him a chance to speak only to have him ignore me. I have asked him three times now to leave me alone, it hurts a lot even as it is, but he ... (122 words)

How can I find like minded people like myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've wondered about the fact that I've never had a long term relationship or what i would call a real relationship ever. I've had people that liked me for physical and personality reasons but they never commit and stay with me for very long. Some cases it was because they were ... (952 words)

How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant seem to let go of my past. I don't know if its really bad but I'm just having difficulties with my self esteem. I kissed one guy when I was younger like 16. My first kiss. Then I got into a relationship, my first real bf when I was in high school and he broke up with me, ... (219 words)

Anxiety and insomnia problems...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Does anyone know any good websites for helping with anxiety and insomnia?? I currently have real problems getting to sleep naturally (due to anxiety/panic attacks) and I worry it will affect my life/relationships! I have tried counselling/relaxation to no avail - has anybody ... (51 words)

Give the engagement ring back... or sell it???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex-fiance/girlfriend for nearly 4.5 years. Our relationship was very up and down, and I believe I never could make her happy. In fact, I don't think she's a very happy person at all. When we met, we were friends, her then 4 month husband was in iraq. Suppos... (828 words)

What to do in Seattle and how much money will I need?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this is a bit of a random question.... but how much spending money does someone need for 2 weeks in Seattle, keeping in mind that all accommodation has been accounted for? also keep in mind that i will have to worry about food and transportation and getting drunk, t... (75 words)

Should I continue to have sex with him???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - It all started when I took this guy I work with home, we flirted constantly at work and we fooled around every time I took him home (I would go down on him and him on me). I then left work for two weeks to go down to NC to visit my father for christmas, we texted every day all ... (316 words)

Drink helped him get an erection!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) age 51-59 - Can someone help me out here! I really need to understand something before I lose my mind. My husband has had chronic impotence in the last few years.. it goes down when he enters. Also he has no sexual desire. But he never said he does not love me, or we should stop our ... (194 words)

Why might blowjobs be considered degrading? Help me understand...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Blow Jobs being degrading is NOT a view I hold. But I hear it mentioned often enough on this site to know that it's a view that many women do have. Usually it mentioned by "male askers" complaining that their partners won't give them head and "female repliers" ... (311 words)

Help! I don't know if I can trust him with his mates on holiday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 11 months is going to magaluf with his mates and says he will not cheat as he loves me and i am the one. Although he slept with a girl 2 months into the relationship but felt so bad because i was so hurt. i do trust him but all his friends are only going there ... (84 words)

Condoms!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I watched this video on youtube and it said always wear condom on oral, vaginal and anal sex. -Why is it important to wear a condom during oral sex? -Why can't you put the condom on the wrong way? What happens if you do?... (46 words)

What does my ex girlfriend mean when she says she feels trapped and feels too young for a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi to cut a long story short this is my story... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-has-my-girlfriend-suddenly-changed.html but what i want to ask is, what does my ex gf mean when she says she feels trapped and feels too young for a serious relationship even though she ... (159 words)

How do I get over this so I can see the real him even when I'm not in contact, so I can finally move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex have been broken up for a while... he had a lot of issues, called me names, didn't respect me, flirted with other girls all the time, etc. Whenever he and I are talking again, I can see all the reasons I left him and I want nothing to do with him... but whenever ... (98 words)

A question for the guys, why does my ex-boyfriend act this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my ex have been broken up for 3 months, he was talking to a girl about 3 weeks later and they started dating about a week after that. He lied to me when i asked about her and i asked several times, later on he said he just didnt want to think that he didnt lo... (496 words)

I know I have to move on but why do I keep thinking that one day will be back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so confused about my situation. I know I have move on but why I still keep thinking about it that one day will be back together. My bf broke up with me before New Years Eve. He told me 12/27/09 that we have different goals in life. That he doesn’t want kids anymor... (753 words)

I think my boyfriend is an asshole but he is the only man I want!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles i really need help my boyfriend and i are having problems he is selfish and unaffectionate a smartmouth asshole but he is the only man i want and can think about he is my first and i care about him a lot but everyone keeps telling me that he is cheating ... (212 words)

Anyone know any colleges in Baltimore?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this is not a relationship question so thank you for helping. I am planning on going to a school near baltimore county so that i can live off campus with my aunt and save a lot of money. does anyone know any colleges near there that offers a degree in sports mangement or ... (56 words)

He's hit me before but we have a kid and I don't want to leave him, what do I do to make this work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half we have a 5 month old baby together.the first time he hit me was when i was a couple months pregnant i had never been in that situation before i felt as if my life was about to end thats how bad it was but i had no marks.With ... (771 words)

My mum is dragging my husband into our arguments, is she trying to sabotage my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid,av got an issue that hurts me deeply.well i got into a very huge fight with my mum recently,she always barks orders at me and insults me evry chance she gets,so i bursted and told her that i wouldnt talk to her ever if she didnt start treating me like an adult,(am ... (237 words)

Is he a friend or a bit more? I don't know what to do about him seen as I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known my friend for nearly twelve years now but we never got close until secondary school, now he is always on my mind but i have a boyfriend and have been with him for two years and i do love him but its my friend we always talk we are so similiar, he is single now but ... (95 words)

Is it ok to date my Brothers ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age - I would like some answers on dating my brothers ex girlfriend My brother and his ex girlfreind split up 21 years ago and he passed on 3.5 years ago. Is it ok to date her now?... (46 words)

Is there any way I can help him get over this so we can move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me? :( I met up with a male friend (the first time I'd ever met him) a few months ago as STRICTLY a friends thing. I did this because he did something horrible to me and wanted to apologise in person, so I invited him down. I feel ashamed to say this but I only ... (340 words)

How do I escape my misery and change my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have never been so frustrated with life before. I don't even know where to start! I'm so sick of failing at life, but I am so frustrated because I feel helpless. I would like to change my life and be a successful person, but I feel powerless to change it. I've been feeling ... (769 words)

Is he just in denial about the baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I let myself be used and abused willing by a ramdon guy i've know for a little while, now i'm pregnant - the thing is he has a kid and we joked about having kids, not that i really thought anything of that, kids were the last thing on my mind. It wasn't planned but i couldn't ... (396 words)

Am I a slut for letting other men cum on my face?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age - I wrote about that my husband and me want to invite a couple of men join in and cum on my face. Am I a slut even if my husband agrees to this?... (33 words)

Is there any urine when I squirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age - My husband loves to give me oral,almost as much as I love receiving. I am one of those who squirts[female ejaculation]. He swallows as much as he can,drenching his face. I was wondering if there is any urine in it. He says it has no taste,espically that of urine.... (49 words)

Fiance won't marry me because of ex sister-in-law's behavior!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance of two years (we've been together a total of 7.5 years and have a two-year-old daughter together) recently told me that he never wants to get married. He proposed on New Years 2008 right when the ball dropped. That summer we had some problems and split up for a month ... (301 words)

Does she have a "different" kind of orgasm than other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just started having sex with a new woman I'm seeing - everything was great, and she seemed to be enjoying it, but she didn't seem to have an actual orgasm. I asked her about it later and she said that she doesn't really have one big orgasm, just reaches this sort of ... (158 words)

How can I tell if she wants sexual contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm almost 15 and my beautiful girlfriend is 14 we haven't had any kind of sexual contact but I really want to and I think she does to how can I tell?... (33 words)

Which one do you think could be the father? I'm two weeks late.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok ive been so naughty and feel so bad but ive slept with 2 different guys this month... The 1st one my ex boyfriend we had unprotected sex but it was only anal sex and he came there.. the 2nd guy i met on new years eve i have slept with twice we used protection (condoms... (97 words)

Why is my husband so lazy when it comes to sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello My Dear Cupid friends, I been married for 8 1/2 months i'm 29 and he is 48,I wrote about him in a previous post.. I have had some problems with porn with him but he cooled out on it alot.. My husband does not like to kiss and is not affectionate type I wish he was,bu... (303 words)

What do I do about these deep feelings I'm having for my fiance's best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Good Afternoon Aunts and Uncles, I hope you can help me. I'm having love issues, as I'm sure alot of other people out there are aswell but I'd just like some advice as I wouldn't dare voice this aloud to anyone else. I've been with my boyfriend for more than four years now and ... (505 words)

He dumped me and I may be pregnant with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hey about a 14 days ago a fella i was going out with for near a year out of the blue dumped me.. i was in bits he was 28 and told me that i was the girl he had ever sleep with so we had shared sumthing speical.. i had heard fromm him in near 3 weeks and he text me one day say ... (111 words)

How can I ever let go of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - last weekend me and some friends went to a local lounge and started having a few drinks.... Except for me, I finished a bottle of spirit (I know this because of the bill I later found in my pocket....) I actually should have had alcohol poisoning, I really wish I had one..... (169 words)

Was it all just some game she played?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am trying to make sense of all of this and need some other opinions. I began a relationship with this girl that I goto school with. She just got out of a past long term relationship and said that it was over, that she didn't want to get back together with him no matter w... (422 words)

I'm so confused! Does he love me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i will try to keep this as short as i can. My story starts way back in Jan 2009 my boyfriend and i had a heated row the first proper row in 6 years. A few days later he said he didn't feel the same way about me anymore his feelings had changed and we had to part. I was ... (553 words)

Relationship going stale...

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I am frightened that my relationship has gone stale. we have been together just over a year and i feel as though he is fed up of me. i try to talk to him about it but the truth is i dont know where my insecurities are coming from. i cant give him good enough reasons f... (282 words)

Am I obsessed by this guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all i need some help here, A couple of months ago i started a new job on a horse stud, my boss had warned me about the next door neighour(farming properties) and said that he was a brat and that he was not a nice person, we had a big bushfire come through the valley and m... (396 words)

Would you be angry if your husband took a job that pays a lot less?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Would you be angry with your husband for taking a job that pays a lot less than what they should be making? my husbad and I have been married for 1.5 and together 10. We are both nurses and we moved from one side of the country to the other 1.5 years ago. When we ... (497 words)

My dreams are making me paranoid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there aunts and uncles I have had a problem for quite sometime now, ever since i have started dating. every-so-often i would have bad dreams about my girlfriends, they would be arguing over some boy or some lie shes told and something iv found out through listening and ... (554 words)

How can I change his mind about not wanting a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I continue to go out with the man i dated last year when he asks me that but now we have rather a friendship than a relationship. We stay friends as he was not interested for a serious relationship. Can this ever change and can he ever be serious interested? Should i be more ... (74 words)

Blocked him on FB and now he won't talk to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - ok guys a silly one....a few weeks ago i accidentally blocked the guy i like on facebook i felt i was always on there seeing what he was up to,which was nothing i might add..anyway i unblocked him and he wasn't my friend anymore!now he's not talking to me i tried adding him ... (90 words)

She cheated. How can I tell if she's being sincere about working things out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what if a girl makes a mistake of cheating on you one time, but really wants to be with you and make the relationship workout? how would you be able to tell if she wants it to workout?... (38 words)

Is there a reason I'm so jealous?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old and Male, i feel exactly the same i even get jealous of my cousin, my best friends, guys she works with, or just guys in general. If she wears anything to revealing when we are out, or i am not there, but if its just us i am fine with her wearing not much. ... (158 words)

In love with my best friend! It's a FWB.

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very close male friend with whom there have lately been some 'benefit' action. He always warns me not to get attached and that it's just a FWB situation but truth is, I am attached. I can cope with not being his girlfriend, our friendship and his affection is enough ... (86 words)

I feel betrayed, we broke up and while I was home crying he was off having sex with lots of different girls, now he wants me back

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18 January 2010 (F)

- My bf broke up with me, then went out and had sex with a bunch of random girls, and now he wants me back after 2 weeks of being broken up for. Why would he do this? He says he realises it was all a mistake and that he didnt appreciate what he had and took me for granted. He ... (198 words)

I found a photo on his phone, he says its nothing but why keep the photo?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i have just found a photo of a woman on my husbands phone which he had hid in his phone files when i asked him who it was he lied and after alot of shouting at him he admitted he had kissed her on a night out when he was away on a stag doo. He said he realised what he was doing ... (152 words)

My ex girlfriend and her friend cooked up a scheme to get back at me

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I went out with this girl for maybe 3 weeks. A the end of the three weeks, she dropped me for occasionally saying stupid (not mean, just stupid) things, and not calling her on a holiday. I tried to get her back for maybe a week then about a week later she said she wanted to ... (171 words)

My boyfriend cheats on me, I wish I could just walk away

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well my Bf is a jerk, we've been together for more than year and a half. he keep lying and he does a lot of internet dating. I went on holiday for XMas and came back on the 4th, when i came back he aid we will make a fresh start and he gonna stop. I believed him, and today smt ... (210 words)

I think he sabotaged our relationship because he anticipated it wouldnt last

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I hung out recently. He's been M.I.A. for months due to personal/financial probs.He contacted me,he was in the area - We talked and flirted for hours in the car.He talked bout hating the dating process,wants companionship,someone beside him nightly etc (repeated ... (399 words)

Could friction have caused my problem?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Moderator's Note: This question has been edited to remove sexually explicit descriptions. My boyfriend and I have now been together for a year and a half. He had been working out of town for about three weeks, and when he came back he picked me up at my house and took me to hi... (289 words)

I even joined the military to help forget her, but it isnt working

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im in some trouble here. about half a year ago I started this girl who lives in canada while I live in the states. yea a ldr. we had such a connection. all the same likes and dislikes. are connection was so strong that thru some days after meeting her, one day she didn't call, ... (540 words)

Was I too pushy with him?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and i are in the process of getting a divorce and so is his sister and her husband. well last wek her husband and i made out and talked on the phone for an hour and had phone sex. we both said we liked it and he told me to call him sometime. well monday i txtd him ... (242 words)

What's a good reason not to be jealous of people who aren't virgins?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and a virgin, I've been madly deeply jealous of people who is sexual active around my age. You can say it's good to save V card to the right person, but wait, the right person could possibly be hooking up with some guys now. So what ? Get over it, the past is the past ? ... (156 words)

What should I be doing with my life?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how relevant this question will be on this website as it's mostly about the relationship with myself - sorry if that sounds egotistical or narcissistic. Anyways... my boyfriend and I have been together for over three years now. Three years and a month and a half to ... (763 words)

Why does he still contact me after we parted ways?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for 9 months, then he moved to another city. I liked him more than he liked me, and I'm having trouble getting over him even though it's been months. So I do the right thing, try not to contact him, but if I go longer than a week without sending him a text or ... (147 words)

How do I stop worrying and enjoy my relationship?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to deal with my insecurity issues. I've been with my BF for about 5 months, known him for about 6 and he's really amazing. Before him I didn't have a serious relationship. One guy I dated cheated on me and lied all the time, another two just disappeared with... (195 words)

My husband acts like I'm invisible!

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18 January 2010 (F)

age - my husband and i have been married 10 years to each other. i have been married before 3 times. he has been married once. we met at rehab where we were both recovering from our own addictions. we are both clean and sober now. my husband, however is a dry drunk. he is very mean ... (393 words)

Is it wrong of me to think this way?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm here to find out... am I wrong for not believing in getting married? I love my partner, we've been together for 13 years and have three kids but my parents marriage kills my hope for ever wanting to do it. Is it wrong of me to think this way?... (52 words)

How can I create a better life for myself?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I am lacking a good support system that I can trust. The two people that I trusted most have both betrayed me. My fiance' of 4 years cheated on me with my younger sister who was living with us. It has been one of the most painful times in my life and I am having an ... (124 words)

Is my wife dating another man?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age - please help me to make a decision about my relationship? i am suspicious of my wife dating another man after reading a message on facebook to her friend stating she was going on a date but i arrived home that night discovering "going out clothes and high heels" which she said... (242 words)

Out with the old and in with the new?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with a guy for nearly a year and the past 3 months we've gotten closer.My ex(dated for 5 years broken up for the past year) decides to call and tell me all the things that I've ever wanted to hear him say and is aking me to give him another chance. Should I ... (122 words)

I'm hurt about my wife's sexual past so what should I do?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age - My wife was married for 5 years in the seventies.Her marriage evolved into swinging.She has had sex every way you can, from anal to group sex, she was quite the party girl.Toward the end of her marriage she got knocked up to reel in her husband and thier partying ways. The st... (223 words)

Why do I treat him like this?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what is wrong with me? theres this guy i lile and i am often very mean to him. he likes me too were friends. i always treat other guys nicely, flirt with other guys, dance with other guys even though im not doing anything serious after with them.the guy i like he was there ... (101 words)

Is there a place for a teenager to become a foster child without going to the police?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I have posted on here before about my step father hitting me, and how my mother has chosen to be happy with him although he is abusing me. But now, I am at a turning point. I have searched all over the internet, and there is no foster place for a teenager to go to if ... (218 words)

Would it be wrong not to have anything to do with him?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I was wondering if anyone could help me...I am a 38 year old women who just had a set of twins boy and girl by my formal lover...We where never in a committed relationship, so when I got pregnant he wanted a abortion I chose not to..Well he just started coming in the ... (138 words)

What can I do to deal with this feeling of dread and loneliness?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. I guess this is a general question. Maybe some others out there are also pained by this feeling. One time in my life, in the past (10 to 5 years ago), I lost touch with most of my good friends of high school and college due to inevitable changes of location and gradual ... (600 words)

Am I doing the right thing by telling her how I feel?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 y.o shy guy who has been battling with these feelings over a friend of mine a 20 nearly 21 y.o girl for 2 years and I should explain that we are both christians. Sometimes I feel like she likes me other times I can't be so sure and I am too scared to tell our mutu... (165 words)

Was it a heat of the moment thing my wife said?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Help me out, what exactly does my wife mean? We have included porn (not all the time) in our sex life. We watch it together, never apart and typically it varies as to the content. Lately my wife has been wanting to see more gangbang scenes, more MMF scenes, etc. She is not... (162 words)

How do I talk to this new boy in my class?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i will try to make this a shot as possible for you guys! thanks so much!:D ok so im kelley (im 16)(: and recently there is a new guy in my class(he was in a different english class) and his name is tyler. the second i saw him i felt like, we could instantly become the perfe... (437 words)

Should I push my feelings away?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A couple of days ago I gave a girl a note and it had my feelings about her and that I think she is special and how I like her more then a friend then later that day she sai she had to talk to me then she said she don't like girls then she said she didn't mean it in a rude way ... (123 words)

Blow Job Technique Explanation

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I would love to give my boyfriend a really good blow job the first time I do it and despite all the websites I've been on and all the porn I've watched, I still don't feel like I've gotten good enough answers.I understand the techniques, the excitement of wanting to do it and ... (189 words)

Should I not get my hopes up for children in the future?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance recently told me that he may be infertile. He says he's had two accidents that have resulted in crushing and one accidental electrocution. We aren't trying to get pregnant right now but I'm wondering if I should not get my hopes up for having biological childre... (58 words)

My husband watches gay porn but denies he's gay?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very confused... My husband and I have never really had much of a sex life and he hates french kissing, oral sex (given or received), as he says it's degrading. I ALWAYS have to initiate sex and even then it's such a chore to him. I always had a gut feeling that he ... (611 words)

He proposed to me during sex! What do you think he wants?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Last summer, I was about to get married but we broke up 15 days before the wedding. After 2 months, my ex-boyfriend wanted to talk to me after 6 years. At first, we were just walking and talking for a month. We used to talk about everything especially the cancelled wedding.... (373 words)

I crave to be with her but she says she is not ready, if I give her a baby will she come and live with me?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl on a nightout I fell for her hook line and sinker we speak on the phone everyday and have done for 16 months I love her she has had a lot of problems and there is a 13 year difference I'm 31 she is 19 she says she's not readt to be with me (she is an ex drug ... (112 words)

He fawns over young employees and tells them I am okay with it!

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have struggled with a situation twice in the past 4 years with my husband of 12 years. We have 3 young children. Each time he developed a "crush" on a much younger employee, which lasted 6-8 months (winding down now). Although no physical boundaries were crossed with either ... (461 words)

Wife number two doesn't like children of wife number one, I have them once a week, and every week she complains

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Should I leave my 2nd wife? She and the kids from the 1st wife don't click well at all, I've tried so many things but noting helped, the kids stay with us every Sunday, by Sunday evening she always bitch to me about them, so my week is always massed up since my energy goes to ... (143 words)

I adore her, I want to make her fall in love with me!

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a really big problem, I like this girl that i've known since grade 9. (I am 17) She is my closest friend, someone I can trust no matter what and I have gone over in the middle of the night upset just to speak to her. I adore this girl so much, i'm scared to make i... (157 words)

I hardly see him but I can't get him out of my head

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive had a thing for this guy for almost two years, off and on. recently, i realized my mistake in suppressing my thoughts of him and have come to the conclusion that i could seriously love him. i cant say im in love yet, but i honestly feel like one day, i could be able to say ... (316 words)

I offered to be a FWB, he agreed but now he isnt talking to me

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Last week, my boyfriend broke up with me (for the third time but this time I don't want to get back together)because he had enough with all the stress from me, school, and family (his parents are breaking up and he would had to get a part-time job when they do. He's only 15.) B... (156 words)

My boyfriend has a body fluid fetishes

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is into all fluids that are produced by the body and his "fetish" has now gotten out of control. He wants me to take a laxative before anal sex so that i can s!%t on him during sex. If he's in my anus will the poop come out?.... and telling him i wont do it is NOT ... (61 words)

Boyfriend of 3 months OR friend of 9 years?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First things first I have a boyfriend ( harry ) but i like a guy ( nick ) who I've only just realized I've liked for 9 years..and he has a girlfriend ( mollie ).. We went to a party last night ( house party ) and i got a little drunk, my boyfriend and nick went as well and... (328 words)

Help! I really like my guy friend but I don't know if he likes me back

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry in advance for all of the spelnng mistaks, im in a hurry :P so me and this guy have been friends for around a year, but we barley saw eachother. just recently, we have started hanging out together again, but his little sister and my little brother have been with u... (404 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's daughter?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is 50 and has two children a 14yr boy and 16yrgirl (he rarely sees his boy). my partner's been separated from their mother for 15 years (who is remarried and has another child)- the daughter has him wrapped round her little finger and gets everything she wants. ... (298 words)

Shouldn't relationships be built on trust?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - here's the situation. i've been dating this guy and he's said some pretty mean things to me/doesn't apologize/etc. and i've tried to break up with him but always he somehow convinces me to get back together with him. then we traveled together around china, and we both had ... (797 words)

Is she into me or am I just her friend?

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18 January 2010 (M) age 36-40 - This girl I've known for a while just wrote me an email calling me a jerk and an asshole for teasing her, telling me she recently had a one-night stand for the first time ever, calling me a cutesy pet name, asking me like five questions about what's going on in my life and ... (82 words)

Despite a loving relationship for 17 years I am still bothered by the guys she knew before she met me

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - OK - after reading all the other posts and trying to compare mine with others - I could not! So, here I go. I have been in a very sexually active relationship with my current wife of over 13 years especially when we have been together for well over 17 all together. We met... (439 words)

I have proof she cheated but she is still in denial

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what if you're you been a girl with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. even when u have proof of them flirting and she sayin romantic things a... (144 words)

What should you do if you have a selfish boyfriend?

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What should you do if you have a selfish boyfriend?... (10 words)

Does she have a thing for me, she's acting kinda wierd?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes the 1st to say sumthin) but whe... (169 words)

Best friends only... or is that impossible?

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Can an attractive man and an attractive woman ever really be best friends without one of them falling for the other at some point?... (24 words)

When I go to college I am scared that he will go looking somewhere else for sex.

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18 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi..I am 17 years old and me and ny boyfriend are sexually active. Well the problem is that I am a senior and he is a sophomore. I got accepted to college and will be leaving this summer. This means I won't see him as much anymore and I am scared that he will go looking ... (109 words)

Caught my husband in affair and he left me pregnant and alone!

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18 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 36 weeks pregnant with baby #2. We have been married for 5 1/2 years and already have a son who is almost 4. We were more like roommates than a married couple, but I never imagined he would be cheating on me. Man..I was wrong! He withheld sex for the past year, and now ... (583 words)

I have proof she was cheating, but she still denies everything

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18 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - what if you're you been a girl for with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. Even when u have proof of them flirting and she sayin romantic things a... (146 words)

She said she liked me, and I started liking her, but now she says she hates me, what did I do wrong?

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18 January 2010 (?) age 26-29 - I'm 14 and this girl used to have a major crush on me, and i didn't feel the same way, eventually i started liking her and now i am totaly obsessed. We went out and even though her feelings hadn't changed she ended it. She then started ignoring me and saing that she hates me ... (102 words)