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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife's sexual fantasy excluded me! Should I feel badly about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question; my wife and I have been together for 15 years or so. We have talked about sexual fantasies in the past and my wife claimed she never had any, or the ones she did were like me and her having sex in the backyard etc. she said that she never fantasized about ot... (248 words)

Should I dump him and move on or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for two years and its been on the rocks since day one. We developed a relationship from a one night stand.To make matters worse I found out several months later that I was a part of him cheating on his at that time, girlfriend. Very crappy I know but ... (275 words)

Wet and dry...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i regularly attempt to have sex but my vagina one day can be very wet and the next day be bone dry and it can go for periods for example a week being dry and then suddenly the next week completely wet. i jus want it to be permanently moist so we can have sex ... (70 words)

Anyone know what could be wrong with my jaw?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive not been able to get an appointment at the doctors recently so i wondered if any1 on here could help on giving advice about what they think about my problem.. its more of a health problem so apologies for the wrong context being used on the site. thing is, for as long ... (161 words)

Telling my bf I am not in love with him anymore will devastate him...how do I break the news?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i am realli confused! i have been dating the same man for four and a half years now. i love him to bits and do not like hurting him i feel that i am not in love with him anymore, because there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. for the... (189 words)

The guy I like was upset when he saw his friend feeling me up! What should I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so last night I went to the local bar in the area of the city that i live in. Afterwards my friend and I went back to the guy I like's (he likes me in return)house with his friends as well. Needless to say i was quite drunk and flirty with the guy. But after sharing a bowl ... (197 words)

He hugged me...does he like me or was he kidding around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i'm in tennis. There's this guy on my tennis team, he's korean and i'm viet/chinese. He's a sophomore and i'm a freshman. On Friday, my friends and I stayed after school to practice and play, and he showed up, since he always stays after school and his friends too. He ... (131 words)

I never ever get the guy I like.. NEVER! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, my problem is i never ever get the guy i like! NEVER. and i dont know why coz im quite pretty and all. I liked this guy for 9 years but nothing happened. Finally moved on. Got to know another guy, wasnt quite attracted to him at first. But, he showed interest and my ... (252 words)

What option do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my long tearm boyfriend have recently split up and we have a 2 month old baby. I have recently declared my self homless and I will need to put my name down for a new home. I have 2 opptions, 1/ stay in the same area code as my x because he would have easy acsess to h... (308 words)

He won't make a move! How do I show him that I want him to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am almost a senior in high school and theres this one guy that ive known since 6th grade..i know he has had a very big crush on me since 7th grade when i had him in two of my classes, hes a shy guy to a certain point. Now i feel like since were getting older, hes ... (196 words)

We are not exclusive..so how can I get to the point of being able to date other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, everyone. I've been seeing this guy on and off for just under a year, and we've had some issues. He's very apt to spend days, sometimes weeks without calling me or seeing me, and this is a long distance relationship, so talking daily means more. I don't blame him for not ... (156 words)

Bf wants a break, because I can't stay at his house overnight. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, my mother really doesnt like him and never really has so, he doesn't stay nights at my house and because she's so controlling I can't stay out of her house all nite. He's been asking me to stay alot lately but I always have to leave. ... (86 words)

I need to reassure my husband who is feeling insecure about his penis size..what should I say?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - I have a question I have been married for sometime. I have only had sex with 2 guys the first guy I was with was somewhat bigger than my husband and we had trouble. My husband and I were talking about sex and the past and I mention that the first guy and me had trouble doing ... (104 words)

Health question! Do you know what could be wrong with my knees?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all. this isnt a relationship question but i just wondered if anyone can help me... as i have been trying to get a doctors appointment for over a week now without any luck. with my doctors you can only make an appointment on the morning of the day and by the time i get ... (239 words)

I'm confused! Am I gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Am i gay? I'm 19 and was with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have always looked at girls and been able to openly say 'oh they are hot', and i've kissed girls drunkenly at parties but nothing more. I have fantasized about having sex with a girl and think its a real turn on but wat... (337 words)

I really liked him! Did he want me to stay for a reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really hope im right about this situation. Thing is ive liked this guy for nearly a year and i thought he liked me. But he never really spoke to me much he just mainly stared at me, sometimes he would talk to me normally other times he wouldnt. I never knew if he even wanted ... (323 words)

Pregnant at seventeen and need advice on how to get my boyfriend to treat me better!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi my name is chantelle and i'm 17 years old and pregnant. i need help and advice because i cant go through this alone, and my boyfriend is making things worse. my question is, what kind of talk can i have with my boyfriend to make him smarten up and treat me better? he's ... (86 words)

He ignores me when he has a girlfriend but makes out with me when he doesn't! I like him, should I wait to be hurt again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my bestfriends ex recenly started talking to me..well in october.. after a while we started hanging out and the ended up kissing. he was my first kiss. we continued to make out at least once a week, and my friend knew. as we kept going he started you know.. feeling me up and i ... (159 words)

Married and bi. I want my wife to watch me have m2m relations, how can I convince her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey hi im a married male and im bi and i want her to watch me have sex with anouther guy but she says no any ideas how to get her to say yes or should i keep just having m2m sex behind her back?... (45 words)

I promised my parents I wouldn't kiss anybody until I was married! Is this stupid?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well, i know this sounds stupid. but when i was like 5ish i pinky promised my parents i wouldnt kiss anyone till i was married. i am a christian, and proud(: but i kinda think its stupid.what do you think about this. is it stuupid? my friend told me that by the time im 20 ill ... (157 words)

Had unprotected sex but have had a period since then, cud I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex b.f. had unprotective sex..i think im pregnant..but i have had my period since we had sex...is it possible for me to be pregnant.?... (27 words)

My boyfriend wants to join the army, but how will I stop worrying about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i met one of the most amazing guys ive ever met. I love him so much and i feel like i would die without him. We're serious about our relationship and plan on getting married someday. however his life plan is to join the army and while we joke around ... (162 words)

How do I tell the girl of my dreams how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 17 years old and not the most confident of guys. i have liked this girl now for 5 months and have not pluked up the courage to talk to her. we have been texting etc for the past few weeks and have arranged to go out. but every time i try to arange something she is busy. i ... (179 words)

Feeling sad about my experiences in high school! Is this a precedent for the rest of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is pretty shallow compared to a lot of people's problems, and all the chaos in the world, but it really bugs me after all these years. When I was in high school, I never went to prom. It's not a big deal, but it makes me a little sad because I know how special it would... (593 words)

How can I stop being gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help!!..Long story short Im 20yo n have had a pretty normal life..well.. I am gay.. but I hate it..I wish I wasnt gay. I dont know why or at what point in my life I became this way... Id like to know why I turned gay.. think about it all the time. I hate when Im riding ... (205 words)

He doesn't even want a bj! is he not attracted to me anymore?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey you guys. ive been wanting to try giving my boy friend **** but he just doesn't seem to want a blow job. he keeps saying he doesn't want my mouth around that thing, but i can't help but think its me. . .is he not attracted to me anymore??... (50 words)

Feeling inexperienced for my age and don't want to end up alone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone, Had a rough couple of days and really wanted to ask any advice. I'm 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, still a virgin ... never really held hands with a guy. Only really told two guys I like them, both were pretty good friends... (840 words)

How do I get over the anger I feel towards my parents?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just turned 30 and I'm still hurting from anger at my parents, and I'll always struggle with that anger. In my heart of hearts, I feel certain that they didn't want me and that they don't love me. I don't want to have to bear their surname anymore. It's humiliating to ... (1528 words)

I'm embarrased that I got drunk and texted my ex to tell him I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i drank alittle more than im used to and i just decided on the spot to send a text to my ex. I know very dumb especially since the message started off saying i love uu lol. I really felt like saying it to him randomly and i know right now he's thinking what the hell is ... (160 words)

I was hoping that we would fall in love at the same time. I'm ready to, but he is not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'd been dating this guy for almost two months now.. He really likes me and so do I but he said to me that he wants to take it slowand not fall in love fast with me yet.. this gives me red flag--because I am ready to fall in love and I Was hoping that we'll fall in love at ... (286 words)

I had unprotected sex and now I am 3 days late.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - okay I'm goin krazy !!!! My cyle has been commin dwn on da 27 of every month. A day befo my cycle wuz suppose 2 come I got on Adepix and I started walkin okay kool only 1 thing where n hell is my CYCLE !!!!! it wuz suppose 2 come dwn Wed and now 2day Sat. I feel like it's ... (148 words)

Does he regret dumping me now Ihave a modelling contract, or does he really hate me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just been dumped by a Pakistani boy who I've been with on and off for about a year. He's tried to dump me a few times before, but he'd always come back to me. Anyway he told me he'd met someone else and he wanted to be with her, so he dumped me again. I'm in colle... (256 words)

I thought she loved me but she got drunk and cheated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex were together for a year I thought she loved me but we broke up in november, after she cheated on me when drunk. Unfortunatly we are in the same classes for 17 hours a week, sitting next to each other. We arnt talking at the moment, sometimes we do sometimes we ... (155 words)

Are my braces to blame for me not getting dates?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Are guys afraid of braces? Seriously, I have never dated and I want to know if it's something to do with me or if guys are afraid to date me just because I have braces. ... (35 words)

Why does he lose his erection if I want foreplay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - So. My husband gets hard pretty easily and can stay hard if we have sex immediately once he's ready. But if I need a little more foreplay so that I can get wet and ready, he loses his erection. Why is that/? Is it something wrong with me? Or he has some issues/? What is going ... (58 words)

I feel like I'm missing out on my youth by being in love.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5179 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm 23 years old and have been in my relationship since I was nineteen, so we're going on four years now. We live together, have a dog, and are partners and best friends! The problem is... I feel like i'm missing out on my youth - I know to some people t... (180 words)

How do I convince my ex I lust after her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-wife and I have been divorced for 3 years. We were married for 10 years and have 3 beautiful children together. We are both very involved in our children's life and communicate on an almost daily basis. Mostly regarding the children. She is the one that asked for the di... (455 words)

I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no reason to do so. Many years ago ... (298 words)

My hubby said he had an affair to deliberately hurt me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know which way to go, stick it out or call it a day. We've been married 3 years, together for nearly 10, and have three young children together. When I was unknowingly suffereing from depression a couple of years ago my husband set out to deliberatly hurt me (his wor... (141 words)

The other mums are more friendly with each other than with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - Let's say that I am friends with another mom through our girls since they are in the same grade at school. We don't do a lot together, but we go to our girls' events (sports, etc.) together, and I feel that we are pretty good friends. Two of the other moms are very good fr... (518 words)

My married lover left his wife, but now he has cooled off with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been having an affair with a man for around 9 months. At the beginning of the month he left his wife and is getting a divorce. Over the last 5 mths our relationship and become stronger and we've fell in love with each other. He used to make excuses and sneak off ... (267 words)

Should I go for the popular guy or aim for someone more like myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok Ok people dont freak out but at my school there are populer people and then theres people like me not populer the crazy one with the crazy friends. But you know what I dont care Im proud to be me but thats not why I posted this I have an important question. I like this bo... (312 words)

Has he been cheating & should I stay or tell him what I know & get rid of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - I am with my partner for 5 years and I thought we were very close until recently. He's 52 and I'm 46 and we are both divorced. During the first 2 years together I herad remarks/comments/rumours about him and other women and whe I asked him about them he said it was just... (503 words)

Hubby wants the cake and to eat it too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - My husband, out of the blue (after 14 years of a good marriage and a 10 year old child)started having a secret affair with his married colleague. They managed to hide it for nearly an year during which i accidentally discovered and confronted him but he kept denying it and ... (326 words)

My ex sexually assaulted me and I don't know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so im sorry if this gets long, and i know that im more in the wrong than any of these guys! I just really dont know what to do anymore, ive been with my amazing boyfriend Richard now, for 11 months, everythings being going great, hes so kind and conciderate, caring and ... (664 words)

Save your "you are just a kid" speeches

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok righto. My beautiful girlfriend's mum brewed up a shit storm with a friend of my family. The mum is a hell of a lot less immature than than my love. So after the fact things between my girlfriend, lets call her Ella, and me have been a bit strained. Ella is the most ... (164 words)

Is true love and romance dead

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - is true love and romance dead ? is it just becoming a myth a dream that can only exist in ones head ? humans are so horrible to each other its truly disgusting.. this world has become so dark it truly makes you think why are you still here! then they say its depression are you ... (156 words)

I don't know if I should trust him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am packing up stuff into boxes at the moment to move house with my boyfriend and I came across his leaving card from his most recent employer - it was signed by loads of people. I was looking at the card laughing at some of the comments when I found two different comments ... (344 words)

I don't know if this man is playing with me or not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a store, around early November when I noticed this guy promoting something or another. He was vocal, to say the least, and just sooo funny. I couldn’t help but chuckle! He caught me while I was picking flowers and just stared straight at me. No smile. I couldn’t read ... (654 words)

We want to exchange naked pictures to take care of our sex drives

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I send my boyfriend naked pictures of myself? I am abroad this semester and he will be abroad next semester, and we are trying to think of ways to deal with our sex drive without being with other people. We are dedicated to doing this. He said that it might help. He is ... (155 words)

I want to lose weight and not put it back on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, Im sixe 16/18 with lots of flab everywhere and im really looking to drop down to a size 12 but i really want to do it HEALTHILY. Ive looked on loads of different websites but I cant find one that not about taking some pills or doing something drastic. I want to lose we... (99 words)

My girlfriend lost a bottle of her favourite perfume while in a club with me last night... And she wants ME to replace it! What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night in a club with my friends, I got separated from the group. I decided to text my girlfriend to find out where she was. When I couldn't find her from her directions I told her where she could find me. When she got there she waved to me, and a bottle of fragrance fell ... (181 words)

A guy proposed to me online, then he saw a photo of me and changed his mind. Now he just wants friendship. Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so here is my problem....There is a boy whom i love madly. v met on facebook n then after some days of chatting, he proposed me. i told him to think again n see my photo 1st of all bt he said that he love me for what i am and will never leave me whether i am ugly or gud ... (159 words)

We broke up after 15 months, a few days later I'm interested in someone else! Am I crazy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok heres a pickle, my boyfriend and I broke up 4 days ago. I was totally ok with it, we were together for 15 months, but had been good friends first. We just couldn't make it work, we kept having arguments and the break up wasn't messy. I thought I loved him I really did, and I ... (168 words)

How do I come out of the closet to my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey all, I have known I was bi for about years years but have never really told anyone about it. until i met a really cool guy who was bi as well. i later found out that he had "come out" and told his closest mates and even his parents. but my question for you is, should i... (82 words)

I'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend on prom night. How can I stay safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im planning to have sex with my boyfriend on prom night, i really feel like we're connected because we've been dating for 2 years. im a little nervous any good tips on safe sex, how to satisfy him, and if im making the right decision??? ... (45 words)

I don't want people to think I'm interested in my married friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a question I have about friendships with married men. I met a guy at college whom I get along with well and we have gotten to know each other more on a personal level in recent months. I'm hesitant about developing a closer friendship, however, because of his married ... (202 words)

Why are guys insecure when they know a girl has been with a larger penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about sex and he brought up his size, which I said was perfect. He then asked how he fits in size wise with past boyfriends I have been with and if I had been with larger than him. Of course he couldn't accept that he was perf... (194 words)

What sort of man would do this to his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age - I have had a married lover for over 25years, when I met him he was not married, anyway I have 1 son with him and he has 3 sons with his wife, he paid child support for the child for 19 years, But he (my son) caught us talking dirty on the internet and let his father have it. ... (127 words)

Why doesn't he like me asking questions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have just started to workout together. He is a police officer and ex-military and is very experienced in this area, but I am not. I am the type of person that asks questions in order to understand what I need to do, and he gets very angry when I ask questions. ... (143 words)

I won't be able to see or talk her for two plus weeks and don't know what to do! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

30 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - So about a week ago me and my girlfriend skipped a day of school so we could spend the day together alone (I know this isn't a good idea but it's really hard for us to spend extended amounts of time together alone not in a sexual way but just to bond) and when we did the school ... (221 words)

What's the use in trying to be good enough physically to be noticed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I recalled all of my relationships of the past. I haven't been in just one or two, but a little more than a few. I don't sleep around, and I don't settle for the first thing that comes my way. I feel love, I do not just feel lust. I try to be realistic, but I realize now for ... (452 words)

Our relationship has come to a standstill, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My wonderful boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. It was beautiful, blissful... up until a little over a month ago. There is really no specific moment in time that either of us noticed a decline in anything. We are very compatible physically, completely happy in ... (251 words)

So, what's the point of being attractive or hot when it just attracts those that notice your physical assets while not appreciating your other assets first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

I think there is a huge problem of woman simply spreading there legs and thinking that is all that is required of them.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - For the first 10 years of marriage my wife hasn't been sexual at all. She new absolutly nothing at all about sex and could care less about learning anything new. Of course she couldn't have an orgasm. She did do her wifely duties and would spread her legs when required but ... (219 words)

I fingered my gf the other day and she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I fingered my gf the other day and i asked how it felt. She said it didn't feel any different and that it felt normal. It was her first time and she was expecting more out of it but she said it wasn't as good as she thought it would be. I was wondering how they are suppose to ... (71 words)

Can I Forgive A Cheater?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

30 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years. We met in high school and dated for 8 months. At the time, I was still immature and I didn't know what love really meant. He ended up ditching on my prom night. I was so hurt and furious. I broke up with him in an attempt to ... (483 words)

She's a really nice girl but I'm afraid she's not telling me the truth about her virginity.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm pretty old to have just lost my virginity which was only a few months ago. I wanted it to be with someone really special but it wasn't. A month after that happened I met a girl who I really wanted to lose it with. She tells me that she's a virgin but I'm not so ... (156 words)

Could my harmless flirting lead to sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

30 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a long distance email friendship with a woman I used to work with. Every week we exchange emails. I tease her pretty hard just as I did when we worked together. I kind of think she's attracted to me but we often call each other "friend" as well as many other unsavory ... (266 words)

I love being around him but I am not physically attracted to him.

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30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend in September. Everything was going great and he's so funny and we hit it off really fast. We slept together in October then Started dating shortly after. He was the first guy i ever slept with but I feel like ever since we slept together that I like him more ... (101 words)

Long Read - My boyfriend's drug problems

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30 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I don't like feeling so torn, and I tried to mentally prepare for this to not happen, but it happened. My ex was in a bad place in his life when we met. He tried to make it seem like he was not, but it soon became obvious to me that he had not reached his 'good' point in ... (966 words)

My gf is pregnant, wants to keep it, but I don't.

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30 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf is pregnant. We've been together for 5 years. I don't want to keep it. She didn't want to either, but now just accepts it and wants to keep it. We rarely even have sex and she was on the pill, of course this has to happen. She just looks at the positives of it, ignores ... (248 words)

My college room mate asks me to stay elsewhere so she can have men over!

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30 January 2010 (F)

- My college roommate has currently started sleeping around. Today she asked me if she would mind me spending the night elsewhere so she can have a boy spend the night with her. I am typically pretty good about giving her the room when she asks for it during the day but I feel ... (98 words)

My sister sent a naked picture to my boyfriend! Yet I am made to feel the bad guy for finding out!

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30 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex and I broke up over 3 months ago. It all started when he lied to me about being out. After that when I had the gut feeling to check up on him I did. First, I found a message to another girl that asked if he could see her before I got to his work (he is a bartender). ... (249 words)

I'm in serious need of purging my 'issues' and pain

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30 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - I'm in serious need of purging my 'issues' and pain right now, and I need to work them out somehow. But I'm afraid to see a counselor again because I sometimes think if I've waited too long to deal with something directly (in this case a very bad breakup which I should have ... (222 words)

I had a dream that I caught them they were together & that girl was laughing at me...

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30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ...why do i feel like i hate my hubby's female friend? i don't wanna prolong my agony, please help me...should i sit down and talk to her (female friend) just so i can get over with it or just ignore the fact that she is my husband's friend and no matter what i do, she's a part ... (224 words)

How do I get through to him that while he might find it attractive I find shaving my pubic area sleazy and gross and uncomfortable?

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30 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband keeps asking me (repeatedly) to shave (or at least severely trim) my pubic area. I prefer to just shave the sides to keep everything inside the underwear. If it was up to me (i.e. no embarrassing moments at the pool) I would stop shaving altogether, but I do like to ... (307 words)

He is gone, and I'm falling apart, what do I do??

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30 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been invovled with a guy for almost 2 years. and i just found out he is moving to another state thats far away. and i am fallin apart. i have gotten close to him and i dontknow what to do. how can i cope with this?he may never come back. does anyone have any advice? i ... (61 words)

I have had anal sex and now I'm bleeding

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30 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have had anal sex and now im bleeding when i go to the toilet and im really scared there is something very wrong with me :(... (27 words)

I love this girl with my whole heart how can I rekindle those flames of love with in her?

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30 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here is the deal. I got into an online relationship with this most WONDERFUL girl in my life. I went and saw her for about 3 weeks, but I had issues with giving her the right attention. So I decided to make a change. Months later she came to see me. Same thing happened. I ... (362 words)