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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I started going out with this guy around halloween time last year, not that long ago. We met on a uni night out he seemed really interested as did his friend in me, but I told him straight away I had a boyfriend.I really started to like him and since my bf at the time wasnt as interested as he had been the attention was nice.There were some problems with my bf, crazy ex-gf who would take no for an answer and we started going out while he was still with her, they eventually broke up, and I decided to stay with him.After a while I said to leave things for a while with my bf since he needed to leave it a while cause of the ex till we went official, but he took it as I wanted to break up, we never really talked about it, only recently but I mustve came across really badly, so I started going out with the guy from uni. Everything was great at first as always, but he's been getting really quiet, no texts hardly ever, he's at home now, but coming back to study in a week. Every time I talk to him on msn its just one word replies, last time I drove him home he never even asked me in I just feel completely neglected.Also, theres a girl he lives with in halls, who he liked when he first met her, he told her and she blew him off and started being really nasty to him, but when she found out about me they've started being really good mates, texting all the time, he knows I hate it but he still does it and insists they're only friends, and lately I've been getting really depressed, thinking about the bf I left for him who now has a new gf and they love each other so much, Im really happy for him, but my heart just breaks every time I even think about him, which is a lot. I don't know what to do anymore, Im always alone and thinking about everything, so Im always depressed, and I always find myself crying like some loser, I just need some advice please...:'(
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (5 January 2010):
You're not a loser, you're just dating guys who are losers. Don't fret, we all go through this and feel this way from time-to-time. You're still so young and have many more guys to date, don't let these two guys get you down. Think of them as learning experiences, so in the future you'll be able to pick a guy that makes you happy.
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