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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We want to move to different places. what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years now and living together for half that time. We do love each other and are good to each other and with each other. She's currently 32 and I'm 28. The problem I'm facing is that we live on the west coast and I want to ... (281 words)

He said he loves me but has left me to go abroad with his ex. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner on and off for six years. I am now 37 and he is 48. It has at times been the most fantastic caring loving fun relationship with amazing connection and intensity, yet at other times he has treated me with no respect. Usually when he was thinking about ... (279 words)

Oh help, is this love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Now, to get real help - I must speak the utter truth. So here goes... This all started at a missionary homecoming party (you don't need to know what this is - it's just basically a non-drinking non-smoking etc party) And one of my friends had just returned from a two year ... (409 words)

I keep having dreams about HIM, what does it mean? please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in love with this guy for like two years and nothing actually ever happened. It felt like unrequited love, although we used to have something going on but that was ages ago.But the more we grew apart the stronger my feelings grew and I used to dream about him every ... (379 words)

Friends with married men... too close for comfort???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - Why do women (even married women) think it is okay to become 'close' friends with a married man, and keep this relationship from their spouses? Is this okay?... (29 words)

What to you think of a girl who is dating a guy but has a lot of guy friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been seeing this girl for a few months and things have been great. We seem to be getting along quite well. My problem is probably a result of paranoia but it's still bothering me. You see, she has a ton of guy friends. Which I'm completely fine with. She isn't ... (323 words)

I'm having a struggle with sex in our marriage...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Struggle I'm really in a struggle with sex in my marriage. I feel really pressured into having sex with my husband and I'm not even sure he loves and wants to be with me. We have both made our mistakes in this marriage and I don't about our future a husband and wife... (232 words)

My girlfriend is a bitch to me, but I still love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in high school, my girlfriend and I have been going out for like a month and a half now. I really do love her, but there has been some problems lately. Okay well, she's white and thinks she's black, she says she loves me, but is constantly messing with me by insulting me ... (270 words)

Is it wrong to date a woman 7 years older?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Anything wrong in dating older women (like seven years older than you)?... (12 words)

Why do boys think its ok to trample dreams?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - was i just the bounce back girl well basicly i got with this boy and i must say things were going great untill he told me he had fallen for another girl i dont know what to do anymore why did he do this too me !! why do boys think its okay to trample on dreams xx... (58 words)

Feelings for other women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently 21 and have for years now had feelings for other women. These feelings have recently become a lot stronger and focus on one women.I dream about this women and have fantasise about us becoming an item. However i dont know her feelings or if she even has feelings ... (100 words)

I want to be "the one"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Dearcupid people. I've been randomly reading questions and answers on this website for the last couple of days and I feel I still can't find a question exactly related to mine. So without further ado, here goes: My closest and best friend is a woman I've known for longer... (389 words)

Am I bisexual or just bi-curious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I am having such a hard time writing this. I am really uncomfortable with myself at the moment. Here it goes: I am a young teenage girl, and I have been obsessed with boys from the start. I have dated and been with quite a few of guys. I even have a boyfriend at the... (169 words)

Help! On the pill, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom, i am on the pill and he withdrew every time. Could there be a possible chance i am pregnant?... (29 words)

What does this guy really want from me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i met this guy on plenty of fish..we've been chatting on there for a month now... and went on a date on sunday.. he was really nice.. and thought i was soo beautiful.. after the date..he told me..he wants a serious relationship and wants me to be his gf..i sid i ... (239 words)

Husband has been cheating with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 19 years. I just found out that my husband has been cheating with his ex girlfriend. I don't know what to do! When I ask him why he says, "he don't know". He was seeing her for about a month when I found out about it. He says he loves me and wants to ... (88 words)

Help! Should I wait it out.. I don't know what to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. we went to the same school, we saw each other every day. we were inseperable. recently i had to move out because of my mother, and now im in a different town, and going to a new school. On top of being sperated that way, my ... (317 words)

He's moving 9 hours from me... will this relationship still work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years. because of our families and backgrounds we have had to move to different countries for university. neither of us are ready to let go and we are hoping to see each other during holidays but at best it will be twice a ... (122 words)

How can I get sex to be more pleasurable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I last had sex about 6 months ago, i've only ever had it 3 times (to the same guy) but each time it really hurt... the pain was excruciating so we always had to stop, which was disappointing for us both! Me and this guy broke up a while ago, and I have now found myself ... (183 words)

Just a misunderstanding or worse?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been together with my bf for about 2 years now. The last time I went to see him something happened that I can't stop thinking about. One night when we went to have sex I guess he decided he wanted to try anal. There was no talking about it first, or any preparation.. no ... (287 words)

Help! What are these bumps on my vagina?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 8 months now. We were both virgins and in fact both each other's first ever partner so we had never kissed or had sexual contact with anyone before. We had unprotected sex the first time but he withdrew and ever since we have ... (377 words)

He broke into my home and stole my jewellery!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm still having problems with all this guys. i have mentioned before about this thief of a boyfriend i had, he was convicted of fraud and theft on myself last year, has been in and out of prison and has stolen from EVERONE he meets for his additions. Two months ago he le... (453 words)

I like a girl who is 5 years older than me, is this strange?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and im new at high school and i know a senior girl there. She's really nice and smiles at me when i see her and she's really pretty. The problem is that i like her. Shes 5 years older than me. Is it strange to feel this way?... (50 words)

I've loved her since childhood... now she won't answer my calls. How do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm so much with love with this girl, right from childhood i've loved her, she did love too, guess i'll say my first love but i never told her nor did i ask her out cos i felt maybe she's too good for me. Years passed, after series of relationships, i still find myself back ... (272 words)

Question on conceiving...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you concieve on the day of ovulation? Or before of after? Confused!... (13 words)

Quick change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy off of a dating site. We have been talking since may and took a break for about 2 months I'd say because we got in a really stupid arguement... any ways he has been chasing me since may. I kind of liked the chase and I was starting to fall for him, but wasn't ... (327 words)

I wish I could just make things right and show her what she means to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, So I'm 28 and my girlfriend is 24 and we've been together for just over 2 years. Throughout the relationship I had the upper hand and as I reflect on it she has definately put in more effort. Approximately a month ago we got into a stupid argument over nothing and I to... (729 words)

I feel so ugly compared to Monica Bellucci (my boyfriend's heart throb!)

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

19 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I feel so ugly... my boyfriend has a huge celebrity crush on Monica Bellucci, and has seen many movies in which she has sex scenes, with a lot of nudity. I know that she's really beautiful, especially for her age, but it still makes me feel bad that I'm not as beautiful. Once I ... (528 words)

How can I help her to get over this attack?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Myself and my girlfriend are both 17. Before meeting me, my girlfriend was forced to perform oral sex on a guy at a party; although drunk she still said no and resisted. In a previous relationship, she was also hit twice. Now, whenever I kiss her passionately (as in slightly... (378 words)

How to trust someone...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age - hi, ive been married for 3 and a half years and its been a nightmare so far, every year i say if i have another year like last year we wont make a 4th, but here i am still plodding on in misery, my hubby was keeping in touch with his ex, he met up with her for drinks, went to ... (334 words)

Chicago/Ireland/divorce???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I was just looking for some advice for my friend. She's been married for the last five months to and American Citizen and been living in Chicago on and off for the last year or so. In short, he proposed, she accepted, they were married way too quickly. She's a... (191 words)

Since getting back together, he's made no effort to reassure me--and he's the one who cheated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together four years (lived together/wedding booked). he cheated on me and started going with this other girl (I didnt know), he split up with me but maintained we were on a break. Treated me really badly - didn't say sorry and said he wasn't happy. Before the ... (425 words)

Is this a cheating husband or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - if my husband emails and call his exgirlfriend who he cheated on me with when we were dating and he's telling her how she's pretty and her lips are so invting. would that be considered cheating? ... (37 words)

Does he like her or not? Why does he move away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever known a guy to do this? Both him and this girl are my friends. They both like each other. Hes naturally a good guy, hes friendly and will make the effort however with her he is extremely shy. He wont talk to her much or anything. I know he likes her because he has ... (212 words)

Do you think she forgave me for talking to her boyfriend like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well my homegirls boyfriend is really cute abd i like him. yesterday i was on myspace and we were going back and forth asking questions. he asked me if he was my type and i said yes and then i asked if i was his type and he said idk i dont want to hurt(his girlfriend). well ... (160 words)

She told me she couldn't do "girlfriend" and took it back. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this girl for about 5 months now. She is a rape survivor and it happened about 3 years ago in a long term abusive relationship. She really is an amazing woman who had to deal with alot. Recently she said she want me to be her boyfriend and so we made it ... (264 words)

I really like her, but we go to different colleges, and I feel as if I'm bugging her when we talk online. How do I make something of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Hi people :) Well first off, im a 16 year old male, so the stuff im about to explain you've probably heard a million times over. Ive never been the ladies type of guy, I was always the one who was "a good friend". Now that ive grown up a bit and have started college ive... (194 words)

Is my best friend gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have a question for the male readers, can you guys please give me your honest opinions? Okay its about this guy friend of mine (Z) that I knew since elementary school. He is 2 years younger than me and I sort of treated him like a kid brother. After he finished school ... (692 words)

Why are some guys like this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what makes it ok for some guys to think they can just touch girls and when the girl stands up to him she gets called a name. is that right?... (30 words)

Should I break up with him because I still feel second best to this other girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When me and my boyfriend started going out he was texting a girl everyday which i didnt know about. He used to text her everyday before he got with me anyway because they were good friends but he used to really like her and even asked her out before and she said no. big group ... (204 words)

Is my husband secretly gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is My Husband Secretly Gay? He watches gay man on man porn only? He watches gay mini-series and soaps like Jon Paul and Craig and Craig Dean? He fully admits to loathing having sex with me, and sometimes we go months without sex because sex is such a production acc... (597 words)

Any tips for a goodnight text that will put a smile on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been going out with a guy for a few months and like him a lot. i send him the usual goodnight, love you dream of me texts but i want a goodnight text that will put a smile on his face. something thats sweet but not too overpowering. thanks :)... (52 words)

What's going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly dont know what the hells going on! I need your help, badly, because i cant let this guy go. Yes i really like him but even without that coming into it, hes means a lot to me as a friend and i hope we can be great friends. I just dont understand how hes acting. The ... (697 words)

Is it wrong to date an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ijust met this guy he is 46 is it wrong to date someone older then you? and there is this other guy that i really like but he told me to move on what should i do? there is a friend that keeps coming over wanting to have sex how can i tell him i don't want to ... (80 words)

I saved myself until the right guy came along, but now I have slept with him he told me about his past and it disgusts me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. i have a pretty big problem with my boyfriend, im 18 he's 19. i had saved myself for someone who i cared about, and that person was him. i saved myself because didn't want to be another number on some guys list of conquests, another story to tell. but after i slept wi... (280 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed with smoking pot, how can I talk to him about this when he hasn't listened in the past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend smokes pot all the time and i HATE it. he has his cannabis card or whatever you want to call it, but hes OBSESSED. its basically all his friends do and pretty much all he talks about. any time i talk about doing something in a certain town he'll make some comment ... (322 words)

I hurt her feelings but I want to make things right because I like her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I hurt her a girl feelings accidently, and now she doesnt want to talk with me or let me talk to her. i was going through some problems so i didnt talk with her one week or 2, i dunno rly what to do,im feeling guilty and i really like her and i cant let her go,!??????... (57 words)

Not crazy....just really want him back! Any advice would be great

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex were together for three and a half years. I love him more than anything in the world and would do anything to get him back. Our relationship was not perfect especially in the last month or two but we were really happy before that. Now we have been broken up for ... (1716 words)

Why is life so unfair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 yr old male. I have no gf, just got terminated from my first full time job after three weeks (they decided to hire somebody else due to unexpected circumstances)... it's so frustrating. Why do these things always happen to me???? All the girls I'm interested in ... (86 words)

Is sending and receiving dirty texts and having phone sex cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi Is sending and receiving dirty texts and having phone sex cheating? I've been married 4 years, and over the past couple of months been concerned about my wife. I found dirty texts on her mobile to a guy she works with, some pictures were also sent back and forth. To ... (147 words)

Lac of communication ended our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Last Wednesday my boyfriend of a year told me that "things aren't where or how he wanted them to be" and that "we'd be better off without each other." He said we never do anything, don't have the same friends. This is very true. For about five months, nearly every day was spen... (828 words)

I'm the new girlfriend around all of his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend is taking me to a party. ALL of his friends will be there (boys and girls) and I won't know a soul (okay, I'll know one guy). Now, I tend to be socially awkward sometimes, I'll probably be very quiet and reserved, cuz I don't really handle large groups of ... (124 words)

Implantation bleeding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm 18, just got a quick but serious question, 6 days after ovulation (i did have sex the day before ovulation,) anyway i had a brown spottin for about 6-7 hours, i figured it was implantion bleeding, i'm not 11 days late on my period, took 2 preg test both neg, took one ... (81 words)

I regret my termination of my baby, and blame others as well as myself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 17 years and have two beautiful teenage daughters. A few months ago, I found myself pregnant (an accident of course) and I had mixed feelings. My husband did'nt pressure me to have an abortion, although I detected he did'nt really want the baby but he ... (333 words)

Wife staying with friend she used to have sex with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have got married to my wife bcoz i needed a visa to stay in Japan. But at the same time i did loved her before we got married and I truly still do (so we just accelerated our marriage). About month ago she informed me that she need some space for herself and that I need to ... (213 words)

Our gay friend was naked in front of my wife and I didn't like it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has this male friend she was friends with for about 2 years before she met me. I'll call him BJ (for his initials). They were never bf/gf or I wouldn't let her still be friends with him (ex's are never a good thing when you're married). BJ and I are 'kind' of friends ... (292 words)

I feel guilty but masturbate all the time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am 14 years old and I am not good at talking to people and I guess that's why I never had any freinds, especially not no boyfreind. So, anyways, I guess i am wondering if I am going to hurt myself by masturbating too much. I usually only do that when I can't fall asleep ... (89 words)

Should I not have kissed her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - OK people, I just need some advice. I have developed feelings for a girl who recently separated from her boyfriend (it wasn't planned!). On Sunday we met and it went better than I think I dreamt of, we held hands, cuddled and even kissed when saying goodbye. Anyw... (251 words)

He messed me around so I blocked and deleted him. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so this guy i really liked..we got one..screwed me over..gave me false hopes.. screwed me over.. basically.. we were dating for a while.. we had sex..i gave in cos he kinda pressured me and i regret it soo much..the night we had sex.. he told me to text him he'd ring me ... (171 words)

How can I not hurt my boyfriend? I just don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Dr,i have a 2year old son.i broke up with his dad and have been dating my current bf for almost one year.the problem is i still secretly see my ex,and we've had sex several times.i have lost feelings for my current bf and i feel am still in love with my ex.my bf loves me ... (82 words)

How come I never heard back from her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

19 January 2010 (M) age 41-50 - I'm basically here in need of a friend after a bad break up about 1 mo ago. I have been feeling so bad about things and I'm hurting really bad. I broke it off with someone I cared for deeply b/c I felt she just wasn't committing to the relationship like I was. I wrote a letter ... (125 words)

Our relationship is secret so should I worry about the other boys that like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey this is a good thing well.. i think it all started when i went swimming i made friends with some randomers and now im being argued over and apparently 3 of the boys like me well ... great the thing is im going out with one of them and we are keeping it quiet for now he is ... (117 words)

Can anyone help me figure out how I can make sex enjoyable for both of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for about a 3 and a half years now and we've had sex many times. I view myself as a lesbian, for I am not attracted at all to men and strongly attracted to women, but I've never really gotten any pleasure from making love to her. I enjoy her ... (217 words)

My husband isn't sure he wants our marriage anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A few weeks ago my husband said he wasn't sure our marriage was what he wanted any more. He said he still loves me but he needs some time to work out his own thoughts. We have been together for 5 years - very happily I thought until a few months ago. I knew something was wrong ... (239 words)

Questions for the girls: Is my height and my scar a turn-off?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi to the girls: whats the lower limit of height of the guys ud date? how bad is 5 10? i also have this big scar under my penis starts from right under the head to the balls is that a huge turn off for girls?... (56 words)

Hubby says I'm not fun like others

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age - My husband went to luncheon with some female clients and when they asked him to bring me for lunch one day, he replied that I'm not fun like them. He told me this when he came home and realized his mistake when I was offended. He tried to correct himself by saying he meant I ... (166 words)

My heart has been broken one too many times and I'm scared to let my crush in, am I driving him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid There is this guy at work which I totally adore, and I have the biggest crush ever on him. He is everything that I look for in a guy! My question is that my heart has been broken once too many and i'm so scared to let him in, am I drivng him away? How do ... (157 words)

I'm 8 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has been distancing himself from me, maybe men are not right for me and I should become a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together into this one post] Question 1: I jus found out yesterday that im pregnant. My bf has been distancing himself from me(not calling, texting, or coming over to my house). A few hours ago, i told him... (280 words)

She has me wrapped around her little finger......how can I stop her talking to my enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my girlfriend has me wrapped around her little finger,She has recently been going out with a friend that gets her into mischif, they both meet up with an old friend that i call my ARCH ENEMY!, The truth is im a verry jellous person who loves her to much, but i know what a ... (153 words)

Do I believe my eyes or is he right in saying it is just my head playing tricks on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i,ve been married 13 yrs now and i have a problem last yr an issued arrived which caused my trust to vanish he wasnt unfaithful or anything but he lied and covered up things to continue his lies n i caught him out. since then we argued n i think he finally had enough, but ... (101 words)

Valentine's day....what to do? Should I drop some hints reminding him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

19 January 2010 (F)

- My bf and I have been together for 10 months. As this is our first Valentine's Day we are about to celebrate, I don't really know what to do, or what to get him. I've never been in a relationship on valentines day, so I am a bit clueless. I am also worried that he may forg... (104 words)

Why would a guy lie about this?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I had a crush and I was talking about our final. So he said that he asked for my friends phone number so that he could call her and ask for help. He said that he couldnt get her # because she said that her boyfriend would get jealous if he called. Cool. But then... (119 words)

I had sex using a condom and I had my period twice since then, but I get the feeling I am pregnant!

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Am kadzy, 21 years old and i had sex for the last time with my guy on the 13 of novenber 2009,thou we used a condom and i have seen my period twice since then even thou they were like,i dont have the normal pregnancy signs but am feeling pregnant and am scared of going fo... (97 words)

How do I tell my friend I love her?

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So i used to be really good friends with this girl, we were bffl's and we'd talk on the phone everyday for hours and would talk on msn all the time and always text each other. And I guess through all that i liked her but she always seemed to have a boyfriend and i didnt want to ... (188 words)

What are the chances of me being pregnant?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My period started on the 4th, so I started taking my birth control that same day, for the first time in 5ish months.. Period was normal. Well Saturday, 16, my boyfriend accidentally came inside of me, whats the chances of me being pregnant?... (45 words)

How do I tell him I want a break without hurting him?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i work nights and am constantly on standby and my bf works days, and we are constantly fighting when i am off... so how do i tell him i want a break until i have a set schedule? i dont like hurting him but i am unhappy at the moment.... (50 words)

He says he was scared...shd I take him back?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, and I have been dating someone for almost six months now. I have always had a problem with connecting to people, but with him its always been different. I feel like I can spend the rest of my life with him, but he has two children with another woman that he says he ... (152 words)

Did she get back with me because she really does like me or is there some other reason behind it?

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Wow, havent been on here for a while. Well lets get to the point. A few days ago, my gf decided that it was best if we took a break. We had been going out for well over a year now. Then, about 2 days later she said that thats not what she wanted anymore and we got back ... (140 words)

I gave her everything she needed yet she still cheated on me! It makes me think I never want to fall in love again

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with this girl about a year now, and i treated her so good, just like a queen, always was there for her and she even told me that i was the only one that she could ever tell embarrassing things to and be so comfortable with it. but jus a couple of mouths later, she ... (198 words)

Did my FWB actually ever like me or was I just some random girl to him?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Guys, your point of view would be interesting. So I met this guy, not interested in him at first but he was in me..very interested. I decided what the hell, give it a shot, and we started dating. First off, I slept with him on the first date. We continued seeing each othe... (277 words)

Was I right to be upset about this?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age - i am 60 years old and my husband is 75. we have been married for 4 years and very happy. unfortunately he has a heart condition and diebeties and has been impotent from when i met him.he makes me laugh and very caring all the time.last week i came home from work and found a ... (131 words)

Is there a chance she could be bisexual, or is she just being friendly?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old bisexual female. I have been attracted to a friend of year or so. We started hanging out, and our friendship grew from there. My situation is that, it seemed like we were attracted to each other, but nothing has come of it because we were both involved ... (200 words)

Missing Him...What Should I Do?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi. I've been kind of seeing this really wonderful/fine/sexy guy on and off for about 1-1 1/2 yrs now but he doesn't want to committ to a monogamous/exclusive relationship with me at this time. When I bring up the "relationship" topic he claims that we will discuss it but ... (625 words)

They all say I'm pretty and nice but why do I go home alone every night?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ive met cocky guys players jerks who only want sex or guys who have a gf but say they like u more and i wait and wait they just never break up,leaving me bleeding inside..and i dont believe "im too good that guys get intimidated" it's a lie.. so yeah im sad..ppl just say "aw ... (91 words)

My girlfriend won't give me oral sex

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm gonna go straight to the point; My girlfriend won't give me oral sex. She says she doesn't like doing it, even if I tell her that I really like it and would really love to do it to her first. I'll be straight, this is my first girl, so everything we've been through is ... (363 words)

My girlfriend keeps lying about her past and I cant handle it anymore!

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont know if I want to stay with my girlfrend and I really need some help here. I know it should be my own decision but I really dont know what to do anymore. She had told me everything about her past. Well I had though everything. She had told me that she had been with 6... (435 words)

My friends say he is a creep and doesn't deserve me, but I still really love him! What should I do?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for almost a year. We have been together for over 18 months. He chased me, professed his love and moved cities to be with me. I forced myself to love him and now he is making me very sad. He lost his job last year ‘cos of his bing... (1596 words)

Why did he have to go looking somewhere else for that kind of attention?

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19 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I feel like I'm not good enough for my boyfriend. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything has been great until recently. I found out a couple of weeks ago that he had been getting in touch with this girl who had called his best friend for a long time. ... (360 words)

Did I freak him out?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I had worked with this guy for about 2 years and I had admitted to him that I liked him, and he had an idea that I did. He said he didn't really want to start anything because we did work together, which is understandable. I soon left and began a new career and we still ... (230 words)

How do I overcome this jealousy I feel towards my boyfriend's ex?

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19 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - I feel jealous of my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. They're still friends and that isn't really a problem; she's really cool. The problem is more of the fact that I'm comparing my looks to hers. She's really tall. I'm only 4'9. She's extraordinarily beautiful and I view myself as ... (67 words)

My husband of 32 years said he doesn't love me anymore, I feel so lost and confused

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19 January 2010 (F)

age - I don't know what to do am scared and confused. My husband of 32 years told me he doesn't love me anymore and wants me to move out. We split several times I left him. Funny thing I left him cause he had said before that he thought he didn't love me. Well this time we moved 900 ... (95 words)

Pregnant and worried he is cheating on me!

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm afraid my fiancee is or soon will be cheating on me. I'm 4 months pregnant and I've let myself go a bit because of it. I've found emails of him emailing craigslist girls saying he wants to chat and he's looking for a friend AND lover. He even sent a pic of me and him ... (165 words)

Why did I cheat on him when I am the one accusing him of cheating?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I was in a very long relationship (two years) and i honestly thought that he was the one for me. After a while, i realized that i was chatting on the internet to men i didn't even find attractive. My relationship at the time was very good, he was always there for ... (739 words)

I am profoundly hurt over her behavior!

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend proposed recently and gave me a beautiful ring. We have been together for over 6 years and we are very happy. I called my best gf's first and the one that I thought was my very best friend, said she was at a bar and too drunk to talk. She called me the next day ... (249 words)

Is my soon to be ex husband's friend off limits?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been apart since 2003/2004. He started using drugs/alcohol and abondoned his family in 2004. He has caused nothing but pain and anguish... but I did try to stick it out because of my wedding vows and our child. Over the years, I have grown feelings for one ... (172 words)

How do you tell a guy you've been with for 3 months you're pregnant?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you tell a guy you've been with for 3 months you're pregnant? So i've been with this really amazing guy for 3 months now and i'm 19 about to be 20. We have only slept together 5 times and I'm on birth control which is the crazy part. I took a test today becaus... (203 words)

Why is my army boyfriend communicating with me less?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend is in the army and we've been been dating for a year and a half. The first three months he left me for basice training was real hard because we barely communicated but i received letters during his absence every week or so and if he did called me was over ... (188 words)

Do you think my husband is telling the truth?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to know if my husband is telling me the truth, since we recently got married he told me he had a female friend and she was married and he had never met her, that she lives en PA and she is his friend because they talked over the phone because she was his provider ... (229 words)

How should I tell him I want to move back home?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So after a long few weeks of thought and depression, I have come to the decision that after have moving 1,000 miles to be with my long distance boyfriend I want to move back home. Only problem is that I am horribly conflicted. I am still completely in love with my boyfriend, as ... (655 words)

What if there is a third party?

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 1 year and 7 months.We are both 22 years old.She is sleeping in our house for at least 2 to 3 times a week.We used to have so much love and care for each other but it seems that it all turn around this past 20 days. we have ... (337 words)

How to make this work?

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've Known my Girlfriend for 2 years before we hooked up as being good friends. The reason we didn't hook up before in the past, is that she was already in a relationship. what makes it interesting is that it was with another Girl. Anyway to make a long story short she has been ... (599 words)

Is an old, young looking guy going out with a young woman, creepy?

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19 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - If a guy is 45, but literally looks 27, and goes out with a 20 year old, is that creepy?... (20 words)

Online dating and trust

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there, I need your advice on my situation. I am an international student in the US. During my thesis writing, I felt so stressful and boring, then I googled and joined a chat forum where I met a guy from Singapore. We started to talk and he seemed well educated and goo... (427 words)

Conflicted - To leave or to stay?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 6 years, I am 24 he is 29. we have been living together for about 5 and a half years. Anyway, recently I have caught him out lying and being dishonesty to me in regards to his activities on dating websites. I basically had my suspensions but I... (428 words)

Should I be friends with my ex

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Last week, my boyfriend broke up with me (for the third time but this time I don't want to get back together)because he had enough with all the stress from me, school, and family (his parents are breaking up and he would had to get a part-time job when they do. He's only 15.) ... (164 words)

He's a pathological liar, and says he's still in love with me.

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little confused as to what to do with a situation concerning this guy I dated. It's been over a year since we broke up, but we decided to remain friends. Before anyone gets any ideas, I have not been intimate in any way with him since we broke up. Things have bee... (660 words)

Old lady - old question

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19 January 2010 (F)

age - My husband is an alcholic and his drinking is getting worse every day. Been in detox four times in 2 yrs. I can't take in anymore. I don't know what to do next. I love my home. can I keep it on my own income? i am 50 something. We got married late. We don't share ... (69 words)

How do I tell the fiancee of the man I want that he cheated on her with me?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy I have been sleeping with for 3 years gave me some beautiful jewelry for Christmas, sapphire necklace and earrings. He has a girlfriend, but was questioning their relationship, I thought this is a sign he wanted to be with me instead of her. I felt I had been on the ... (159 words)

Glutton for punishment

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had an intimate relationship with an older guy for 3 years, mind you, he has a girlfriend. I kept thinking he would break up with her and be with me. Last week he told me he was getting married, that he wanted to stop seeing me, I said my goodbyes. Yesterday, he texed ... (76 words)

I got into a physical fight with my brother and now my boyfriend wants to beat the crap out of him.

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19 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old girl and well last night was a really bad night. My twin brother and me got in a physical fight. I was already really upset and he was just getting on my nerves because he was calling me names and saying stuff that was starting to get me really mad. So I ... (299 words)

I wanna lose weight! Any tips?

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - can someone help me understand how many calories I might have to eat a day to lose weight.. I am 27 yrs old I weigh approx. 205lbs and am 5'7 , I did the bmr math thing but it doesn't seem to be rite.. im hoping to lose 2lbs a week if possible. Hoping by eating rite and ... (69 words)

My boyfriend needs to be more motivated...

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently got back from a year travelling. My boyfriend and I met one year before I went and as it was something I always wanted to do I decided to go anyway and we decided to try and make it work as we really liked each other. We worked at it and stayed together for ... (421 words)

Open marriage...

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years now - happily married for 7 of those years. We recently made a decision to have an open marriage and have agreed to a set of guidelines in place to protect our relationship. I have no concerns regarding this decision. ... (627 words)

Spicing up the sex life.. advice on confidence and outfits!

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19 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone! basically i want to buy some sexy outifts/lingerie for myself so that i can bring something new and spice up the sex life.. but im very self conscious and havent let him see me fully naked or anything in the time iv been dating him! im very conscious about my ... (117 words)