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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He has a girlfriend but he seems interested in me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - OKay I have recently moved to europe for a year. I went into a popular bar here and I saw someone that worked there. I was immediately captivated by him. so then i couldnt stop thinking about him.. I went in there again and a friend that is from europe was like 'buy him a ... (377 words)

Can use of the pill make me skip my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I've just been given microgynon 30 by my doctor and was told I could start taking it straight away... (I'm on day 8 of my cycle). The only thing is that I'm off on holiday in 3 weeks and don't want a my period to come while I'm away... can i start taking the pill on day ... (91 words)

My labia is uneven. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My labia is uneven, as in one side is pretty large, and the other side is small and tight. Is this a huge turn off for guys? Is there something very wrong with me?... (34 words)

Am I a huge sucker if I continue with this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years, I'm 27 and he's 30. We have a good relationship, we communicate with each other and enjoy cooking and exercising together. But it's not perfect,I wouldn't be asking for advice if it were. Problems started when my boyfriend's h... (320 words)

We sincerely love each other but I don't want to be taken for a mug.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been texting a woman he's become friendly with. I only found out when he accidentally didn't delete them the other day. Call it 'women's intuition' but something made me look at his phone and there they were!! He is saying they were just friends but the content ... (175 words)

Facebook message from old friend has got me in trouble with my gf, but ti was innocent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So as some of you may have read on my last post, my V of 5 months wouldn't open up to me. After extensively looking into things, she fits the description of an ''eccentric personality'' which looks like I may have a lot of working to do in order to ever make her completely ... (753 words)

I got married when I was 14 and I've never experienced an orgasm!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice well the thing is im married im 18 years old i know is stupid, i got married when i was 14 and my husband was 18. Wellthe thing is that we went over things that was makeing us apart and we came to the conclusion that its SEX! the thing is that ever since i ... (157 words)

How can I get my mum to accept me being with a 19 year old. I'm 15.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - hiii, ok imm 15 and my bday is in april. the guy imm talking to is 19, jus turned on december 30th. we have only been talking on the phone and txting for about 2 weeks and we met last year when i was a freshman and he was a senior. hes amazing! he has so many fun and unique ... (216 words)

How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me 3 months ago our relationship has been very hard for us since then. I never once suspected he was cheating on me and one day out of the blue he told me the truth and said that it was eating him alive and hes so sorry. It was with his "best friend" and ... (274 words)

When did I concieve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 33wks pregnant and I have been given a due date of 18th march, when I work back to when I concieved it brings me back to the 25th, the thing is I'm confused because I had sex the 21st and again on the 27th so I don't know which sperm got me pregnant. I think I ovulated ... (171 words)

My ex bailed after over 2 decades, no warning, told me he didn't love me, left me to be a single parent with no financial income, and sees our kids maybe every 4 to 8 wks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - What if 3 kids are involved? And the ex has cut them off financially and emotionally as well? That's what my ex did, bailed after over 2 decades, no warning, told me he loved me, left me to be a single parent with no financial income, sees our kids maybe every 4 to 8 wks. for... (461 words)

After reading his emails I worry he's gay and I am his cover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - AHHHHHHHHHHH! i neeed help! im 19 years old and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years already!...hes a lot older than me hes 27. yeah i know such a big age gap but he is my bestfriends brother and by just going over her house everyday all day long we fell in love! well anyways ... (263 words)

After he told me his plans for our future I am just dazed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am white 25 year old Christian girl. My boyfriend is 31 year old Muslim man. I want to convert to Islam and plan to do so soon. I split with my ex-boyfriend (a university 5 year romance) just before I started dating my current boyfriend. He split with... (440 words)

She is so shy she might run if I approach her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Slightly confused as to make a move on this girl or not ? She's in her early 30's and slightly older than me, we've been working at the same place for about 6 months, she's spot on, ticks all the boxes but i'm getting mixed signals, when she's in the room with others she smi... (272 words)

I worry about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 nearly 17 year old male, And i have a problem. I am firstly very conscious about my appearance (overweight, i myself would like to be more muscular) but thats not important, i believe myself to also be a late bloomer...but thats not important either... I am attracted... (148 words)

School, Crush, Dreams, Hopes and Fears

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big crush on this guy in one of my classes and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. We had to do this project and we had to ask a person questions about them and write a story. One of my questions was something like what do you want to be doing in 5 years. I said living in ... (136 words)

Why doesn't sex feel good the way people say it should?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - when i have sex, it doesnt feeel as good as its described. for some reason, it feeels goood but in a way, hurts. i've done it with only one guy and i lost it this month. why doesnt it feeel like people say?... (43 words)

Should I let things settle and just be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've dated bf for 7 years now. I've always had hope in him because after 4 months of dating, I wanted him to be my future husband. After 4 years of solid dating, I started to change my mind/heart. I started to feel that the grass might be greener on the other side. I started ... (574 words)

Didn't bleed after sex! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've had sex, okay? and idk why, but i havent bled from it, at all. i did it earlier this January. and i've had sex after that too, but still no blood/ he's gone in the whole way, and he's not small either. maybe just cause i'm skinny? idk, can someone tell me whats going ... (57 words)

Faded line on pregnancy test - what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I took a early result pregnancy test and a blue line showed up in the control window, but in the result window the blue line was faded. Anyone knows what this means?... (32 words)

He's dating another girl but I like him, is there a chance we could be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okaii , so this year my brother who is one year younger than me signed up for hockey , and he's playing on the same team with guys my age. then one day i saw this one guy there that i had never seen before , he was really cute . :$ . so the next day i also figured out that he's ... (410 words)

What should I do about my friend? I really liked him and I want us to be together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do when your best friend that you like talks to his friends more than you? When hes in a group he stares and I threw a random object at him and he smiled. he always makes it seem like he wants to talk to me and when I get home he talks to me online for a short ... (171 words)

Why don't I trust my boyfriend? do I need help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, im 18 years old and i started not trusting my boyfriend and getting fishy ever since this: to make a long story short: he gave me his email account/password back in sept to check something. In Dec, i went on his account because i got fishy. There was nude pictures of a gi... (437 words)

Am I obsessed, crazy or just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - four years ago, I dated a guy who I was head over heals about. In other words who I was very obssessed with but not in a crazy way. Just in a weird way that I could never understand. We broke up because of peer pressure. I was a kid and he was more of a kid than i was. Listen, ... (538 words)

How important is having hair to being attractive to women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - After all these years of having sex I finally got to where penis size is not an issue. It's actually very funny to me now. Now I have a whole new body image issue. I'm losing my hair. I'm getting the sex I just dreamed of when I was 18 because my lady is incredible in bed ... (107 words)

I'm regretting what I did to my sister when we were younger, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok, this is strange one. what have i done!! this is even weird and awkward for me to type but... for years ive been really anxious and worried about what happened to me and my sister when we were young. i was about 12 and she about 6. we played 'doctors and nurses' for want of ... (355 words)

How do I fix my self esteem after dumping a narcissist partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age - i have broken free of a narcissist after 4yrs. i know i must stay positive, use my exercise equipment, spend time with my grandchild,do some voluntary work, take up a hobby , go for a swim,but my self esteem is in the gutter, i have no motivation and i feel dead inside. how do ... (57 words)

Gave a man my virginity and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 16 and a few weeks ago my older sister had i party which i went to. Whilst i was out in the garden having a drink (i was a little bit drunk) I met this boy (he was a year older than me) anwe got talking for ages at the end we ended up snogging but then i went upstairs to get ... (205 words)

My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes on about how good she looks, ... (246 words)

Had sex with someone new, and now have pain while urinating! Sign of pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with a new partner 2 weeks ago, and since then i have felt bad pain when urinating and felt the urge to urinate much more frequently than normal. What could be causing this? Is it a sign of pregnancy?... (44 words)

How can I stop being so needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in desperate need of help, my partner and i met eachother online 4 years ago, and moved in with eachother 6 months after first meeting, hes 26, im 24. before we moved in we would chat on the phone for hours every day, in total about 7 hours a day and endless texts, i... (353 words)

What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What do you do when you have someone you genuinely love just want to be friend? She liked me at some point, but I have no clue how she feels now. I tried looking at her as just a friend, but it's impossible for me. I stopped talking to her on New Years Eve (Hadn't seen he... (203 words)

I have 5 girlfriends and now it's a problem.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've got five girlfriends and I honestly don't know what to do. Basically, I met a girl three years ago in college. We began a relationship, got serious, then she left for work in the USA. We're still together in the form of a long-distance relationship. I chat with her online ... (357 words)

I was dissapointed I was not pregnant at 15.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, well my boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and last week we had a pregnancy scare, I'm not but for some reason we were both kind of disapointed when my period came. Even though we should have been over joyed. I mean if I was pregnant we could raise a ... (102 words)

My friend is angry that I warned her about her dangerous driving.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I went out in the car with one of my friends who passed her driving test about a month ago. Only 1 of the other passengers could drive as well. Basically she was driving way too fast. Dangerously fast. The two of us in the back felt uncomfortable and not really safe. Sh... (257 words)

Is he gay or are we just wrong for one another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've been seeing this guy for almost two and a half years(I'm older by two years and divorced with a son). One week after being together he said this reltionship wasn't going to work out.Nevertheless he kept loving me ,and calling me consistently. I loved him too. I kept ... (259 words)

I think my g/f is trying to get pregnant so I marry her. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my g/f for more than 6 months now and she has been hinting about marriage. We have been having sex since our second month of dating and up until a few weeks ago I was using condoms. My girlfriend went on the pill so I would not have to wrestle with con... (432 words)

I don’t have a girl to talk to and to just do stupid things like gossip and go to the spa with anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. I can’t even explain how much we’ve gone through together but he has always been there for me. The problem is while I was going through certain things in my life I lost pretty much all of my friends except for one. ... (393 words)

He told me to quit my job to save our marriage, should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a mid twenties woman who has been married for a few years, we have two kids. Ive been uneasy in the relationship . WE finally talked about the possibility of it not working out, and he told me to quit my job, it wasnt really an ultimatum. but nonetheless it bothers me, how ... (70 words)

She is not at that stage in her life to date me, what does this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what does it mean when a girl says that she is unable to date u, as she wasnts to remain single 'at this stage in her life' and that she doestnt want to have everything in life planned out in the moment and doestnt want to think of the future and wants to live in the present ... (72 words)

Have I wasted 5 yrs of my life with this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age - I've been living with my fiance for 5 years. He's 50 this year and i'm 47. At the start he said he wanted marriage and would ask me on a weekly basis but now he seems to have changed his mind. When i approach the subject he either says i'm starting a row by even mentioning it ... (217 words)

I'm thinking of using hair removal cream for my pubic area.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im thinking of using hair removal cream for my pubic area. any advice? any brand suggestions? should i use it on my scrotum also?... (24 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i started my period december 28 2009 and ended my period on january 2nd 2010, then i had unprotected sex on the 14 of january 2010. It is now the 28 of january and my period hasnt started and i took a pregnancy test on january 25 and the test was negative. Ive never kept ... (96 words)

Should I choose my friends or my work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok im going to make it easy on my first term at school i didn't get a good grade on my report card, and this term im studying so hard that im actually getting exellent grades and my parents are really happy for that. But the problem is that i study so hard i don't have time ... (117 words)

Why do some people in our lives persistently show up in dreams, while others do not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some people in our lives persistently show up in dreams, while others do not? For instance, there is an ex boyfriend who I haven't seen or talked to in almost six years and I haven't thought much about him or dreamt about him really at all, especially since our lives ... (233 words)

What do I do to save our relationship? What do I do to make up for my mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - A few years ago, I met a girl. We were both in relationships at the time and we carried on kind of a long distance friendship. About a year ago, after I split with my ex, we started to talk more, and even though we lived a long ways apart, we started talking about getting ... (643 words)

I like my friend but how do I get him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm falling for my friend. I don't know what to do because I'm not sure if he feels the same way about me. I can't tell him as it will ruin our friendship. I really like him and I'm going to try and flirt with him so maybe he might like me back. But how do I do this because I ... (75 words)

I'm scared of being on my own. Any Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think my relationships coming to an end, ive been with her 2 years,and before that was with a girl for 3 years, ive not really been single since i was a teenager and im pretty scared of being on my own now due to this. any advice? ... (48 words)

I do not trust that this girl isn't going to attempt to sabbotage our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted a question yesterday about a mutual friend sending my boyfriend love letters and that my boyfriend is still friends with her, and im not, she lied about sending them after i found them, and threatened me to report me to the police when i sent her a text asking her why ... (345 words)

I've tried relaxing and stuff, but now I'm just a constant wreck whenever we get intimate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm 17 and i've been dating this really attractive girl for going on 3 months now. The sex is amazing and so is the oral, but the other night when i was receiving oral, i lasted a bit too long and it started to lose feeling after a while, resulting in me losing my ... (142 words)

How can I stop my jealousy, be secure again, be sexy, feel sexy again and get my relationship to a normal healthy state??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i am 20 and my boyfriend is 41. we have been together almost 2 years. we started our relationship "Long Distance". After 3 1/2- 4 months of being together. I had my school prom and went with my ex. I kissed my ex and danced with him. I know how wrong this is and I never ... (943 words)

My husband is telling my friends his sexual fantasies! Is this ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age - Is it okay for a husband to exchanges emails of his sexual fantasies to two friends of mine which the two friends responded back to them. They have been doing for a while. This was his second time. I am confuse whether I should forgive him or what..... (50 words)

Does this mean I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a relationship and have bin with my partner for 3yrs but, if I were to masturbate, I often think about women. I am totally straight, well atleast I think I am but I often say oh, wow she's really pretty. Does this mean that I am gay?... (51 words)

Would he be dissapointed if I wont perform oral sex on him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a boys to ask me on this question. Here`s the thing; I`m little bit scared of doing blow job. Actually, I`m not absolutely sure that I want to do it, but also, I don`t have aversion or anything like that. Would my boyfriend blame me, or would he be disappointed if I don... (62 words)

When did I concieve?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 33wks pregnant today, if I ovulated on the 25th june does that mean I concieved on the 25th june?? ... (20 words)

Will he leave me when he looses weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive a bf who is overweight. He is planning to have a surgery but Iam little bit worried because he may cheat on me after surgery. Cause Iam thinking that oh nowhe is overweight and he thinks no girl looks at her thats why he is really into me and cares about me and evrytime he ... (91 words)

I have a major problem, he's my best friend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's background knowledge: I've known this boy for several years, though i''ve only met him a few times. He's an ex of the dear friend i'm going to talk about. However, he went out twice with her before he quit it, saying that exams were far more important. I comfort my... (545 words)

Is sleeping on the same couch with him wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - is sleeping on the same couch as your boyfriend wrong if you have been going out for a number of months and nothing will happen? ... (25 words)

I like the guy I'm dating a little, but the thing is I actually like my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going out with a guy that is 6 years older than me. He's 19. I'ma call him LJ. So about 2 week ago we were hanging out with a group of people the whole day and by the end of the day, we were holding hands. Now, we kissed today. The thing is, I like him a little, but most... (115 words)

I really like him, what should I put in his valentines card?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been going out with a guy for three months. i am 15 and i really like him. can i have some ideas what to do on valentines? and also what to write in his card thankyou x... (39 words)

I have a boyfriend so how do I deal with these feelings I have for a mutual friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a terrible situation and I have no idea what to do. I am usually so focussed in life, knowing what I want but I am actually torn between what I currently have and what I can potentially get. I have been in a relationship with a man for almost two years now, and h... (965 words)

I really want to return the favour for my boyfriend, but I'm pretty scared to do it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need a little help, see me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years (since highschool were 20) and we both are still deep in love. We lost our virginities to each other when we were 18 and the sex is great! My boyfriend doesn't have a problem at all going down ... (153 words)

Any romantic ideas for Valentine's day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, Myself and my girlfriend have been in an online relationship for over a year now, and I decided that this valentines day, I want to do something drastic, and travel to her country and surprise her with something romantic and unexpected! Sadly, I've, as of y... (103 words)

Is he trying to get my attention by telling me he wants space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for about eight months. Every thing has been alright, except that we have had one longstanding problem of attention. At first, I was always the one complaining that he was not giving me enough attention. He would like always be ‘busy’ for me and ... (210 words)

He didnt get me a birthday present, am I just being used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 months. A few weeks ago he moved away for work for 3 months. It was my birthday last week and he sent me nothing. Yes he rang a few times on the day and sent a few texts...its not like he forgot. I asked him earlier if he actually got me ... (172 words)

I am planning on having sex for the first time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - how to have a romantic sex so that my girl friend will like it actually will anyone explain me in fully detail as i just listen from my friends about it but i have not done sex yet ......... reply me girls you know better ... (50 words)

I feel very insecure with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend has been known for never being single for long. After a breakup, it doesn't take him long to get someone new. We have a history so I sure as hell hope I'm something special. Whenever I hear one of his ex-girlfriends' names, I feel li... (220 words)

He says he feels trapped, should I give him an untimatum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - six years ago i caught my fella with another woman this wasnt the first time and i threw him out. i took him back on the understanding that we went out as a couple and he could go to the local occasionaly. recently hes been going nightclubbing with his mates every couple of ... (156 words)

We have unprotected sex a lot, but I don't fall pregnant

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend and I have sex a lot and he doesn't pull out. He never does. But I still don't get pregnant. and I don't take birth control or anything. Is this something I should worry about?... (50 words)

He's a good guy, my parents love him, but I lost interest one year in.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok let me start from the begging. when i was younger my parents didnt let me go out at all. i wanted to go out and have fun with my friends at the mall and parties, i would beg to my parents to let me go out but they would make up excuses. by the way im the only child and i ... (249 words)

Did I deserve to be treated like this?

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is my story. I came to know a girl by wrong number(she is 20 year), slowly we stared to like each other and she used to share everything to me( im 26)..i was feeling good ,she used to talk to me daily for 1-2 hours and i asked many time that she had a boyfriend ,she said ... (985 words)

Can dreams predict the future? Am I freaking out over nothing?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if this post has anything to do with a relationship, but I really could use some help. I had a really weird dream last night, and I'm not sure what it meant. I'd like to hear from anyone who knows about dream analysis. It's actually the most recent of a se... (1246 words)

Lately, I've developed a liking for transexual porn.

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll start off by saying that I'm a 16 year old male and I've been watching internet porn for quite some time. Lately, I've developed a liking for transexual porn. I have absolutely no desire for a relationship with a male or a transexual so I don't believe I'm gay. I've never ... (189 words)

I'm trying to make him miss me.

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I will just introduce myself as Princess in here ^^ 19 years old this year ^^ hmm.. Actually I have problems with my boyfriend, he is 22 years old this year.. We been together for almost 2 years.. We started together on 21-04-2008.. I met him in a college.. The first met, I... (640 words)

I no longer enjoy her daily company.

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am in a weird limbo with my girlfriend. I have both profound concern for the way she feels, but at the same time no longer enjoy her as daily company. My problem is I have no healthy relationships to define where healthy boundaries, and being a cold uncaring boyfriend meet. ... (321 words)

Any boy I talk to, just seems plain nothing comparing to my ex.

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just CANNOT forget my ex, we broke up a few days ago. Even though we fought a lot, when we didn't it was perfect! Any boy I talk to, just seems plain nothing comparing to my ex. I love him to pieces, I sometimes wish I could just call him like old times. I don't know what to ... (77 words)

How do to "grinding"?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going to a dance soon and there is always a lot of griding going on....can someone tell me in details how to do front grind nd back please... (30 words)

I need help to get me back on track of focusing on me and my goals.

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles i really need advice my boyfriend and i were having problems and i was sos deeply in love with him i stopped focusing on myself and my goals to help him obtain and find his but now i feel like i need to take a break from people including my boyfriend and ... (154 words)

My boyfriend has told me many things that have made me feel so bad about my body.

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28 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - What can I do? My boyfriend has told me many things that have made me feel so bad about my body. In his mind, he's just being honest and blunt, but in the end "it doesn't matter, because I LOVE you!" - like it was a magical phrase to make me feel better about the other ... (973 words)

What am I supposed to do for Valentine's day?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's note: post edited for clarity.] my bf moved to washington recently and im mad because valentines day is comin up and he hasnt come back yet and i wanna spend it with him but i cant he's tryin to come back but he has no money for a grey hound ticket to make it in t... (90 words)

I feel ashamed of my body!

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone i need advice and i would really appreciate it even though this is not a relationship qustion ...... I need advice on how to lose about 7 seven inches off of my waistline right now my measurements are 40ddd 36waist 44 bottom ive been feeling ashamed of my body ... (72 words)

I had to be stupid and ruin it by kissing his best friend

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. i really need help... my life is so complicated.. i know this is a love/dating site but i thought someone on here might be able to help me.. I was dating this guy for 2 years and then i had to be stupid and ruin it by kissing his best friend... that ended the relati... (451 words)

I really like her but she ignores me

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend have started dating for about a month now. And when we first talked we would stay up talking about the stupidest things but we have alot in common also. And I've noticed she decides not to txt me back alot. And it went from not going a day without ... (185 words)

Can high blood pressure medication change someone's personality?

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28 January 2010 (F)

- Can high blood pressure medication change someone's personality? When my boyfriend doesn't takes his, he is awful! His combative personality almost destroyed our relationship early on, then his doctor switched his BP meds and magically he mellowed out and became the sweet, ... (146 words)

I want our relationship back but don't know what to do

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He has taken on my 4 year old son as his own. Things were so good in the first 2 years of our relationship. We were so happy all of the time, except for the ocassional fight from time to time. We talked about anything ... (264 words)

I'm never noticed and I need to know how I can be.

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, so I'm in a rut with my love life. I'm always single it seems. I'm always the third wheel and this has been how it has been this way mostly since I've even been interested in dating. I'm 22 now. I've had some short relationships that haven't lasted that long and many ... (252 words)

What do I do when my best friend lied about not loosing her virginity?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I cannot trust or look at my best friend of 6 years the same way again after she lied about not loosing her virginity to her boyfreind of less than 1 month and they have had an on and off relationship throughout that month. The day prior to her loosing her virginity she admited ... (128 words)

Is being loud, obnoxious, and competitive a turn off to people, especially the guy I like?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How should I be if I want a certain guy to like me. Normally, I'm really loud and competitive at school, but I think that's only to attract attention. There is this girl at school who's beautiful, smart, and sweet to everyone, unlike me, and that's why so many guys like her. ... (89 words)

How can I deal with the frustrations of being an older virgin?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help here, as I am beginning to drive myself nuts with self doubt and insecurities. I am 26, and a virgin, and I feel so lonley, miserable, deprressed and frustrated, I cannot describe how horrible it feels. Everywhere I look, there are happy people in relati... (255 words)

Is he really planning on being together once both of our divorces are final???

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In August 2001, I met my soulmate online(I'll refer to him as Adam). We had both dealt with very painful summers; I had an engagment called off that May, and Adam had been dumped by his high school sweetheart. He had moved from his home town(we'll say it is Jacksonville) to ... (1543 words)

She feels that I will never leave my woman so she most likely will stay with her man.

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some advice. I'm currently married but somewhat unhappy with the way things are going right now. However I met a friend awhile back and we became real close. When I say close I mean we had sexual intercourse. We both enjoyed our session and we even became c... (325 words)

Does he still have feelings for me?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was involved with a man and during that time we've had our ups and downs.. he used to tell me how I wasn't affectionate enough and that I was mean.. here's the thing , I care about him so much that I've been doing some self improvement both mentally and physically and still ... (243 words)

Is she playing games or what am I doing wrong?

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I really like this girl, I'm crazy about her and i know she likes me too but it seems like every time we start to get serious she backs away then she will start flirting all over again my question is... is she playing games or waiting for some sign? What am i doing wrong?... (57 words)

Am I obsessed, insane, confused or just stupid?

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28 January 2010 (F)

I keep dreaming of my crush!

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When i was in high school i had a huge crush on a boy but after i got to know him it just became a he's cute thing. well i have not seen or heard from him in 4 years or even thought about him but he keeps posing up in my dreams. the first time i was dreaming of being at an ... (110 words)

How can I stop being so insecure?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ask him. If I asked him to ... (354 words)

She talked about heartbreak with an ex friend, should I be worried?

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28 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've not been on one of these forums before, so apologies in advance if I'm not clear I have a bit of a confusing situation with my current long term girlfriend. I have recently overheard my girlfriend telling one of her friends that she had fallen f... (246 words)

Help! In love and confused...

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so my ex and I have broken up about 5 months ago. But during the beginning that time, we've been flirting and said I miss you, sweetie and stuff, but never seemed to have gotten back together. We talk constantly nonstop nowadays! Well there's this dance coming up, and ... (146 words)

Why did he buy the condoms?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Lets call my boyfriend 'Max' My best friend 'Amber' and 'Ambers' boyfriend 'Sam' - to make things less confusing. Recently I heard from my Sam, that my current boyfriend of a week, max (Sam and max are best-friends so Sam would know) that Max recently bought condoms... I rea... (213 words)

How can I be a better person overall?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend, but I feel that he doesn't see me anymore but only sees my other friend. I have to admit, this other friend is really nice, intelligent, extremely beautiful, and I am pretty intelligent too, but my personality is not as sweet, and I'm really ... (162 words)

I love him, he compliments her, do I need to change?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known my best friend for 2 years, and I am really, really in love with him. The thing is that I get this feeling that he likes this other girl because he always compliments her beauty and intelligence in front of me. Everytinme he talks about her, I feel jealous and ... (106 words)

Emotional cheating, should I accept it and move forward?

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28 January 2010 (F)

age - If your partner/spouse of over 30 years with whom you had been very happy (most of that time) cheated on you emotionally and got close to someone else to confide in instead of you although declaring how much they love and always have loved you, would you be able to accept this ... (72 words)