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writes:hi im 19 years i have 2 year old girl ive not long told my boyfriend that i want another baby i told him just a few months b4 xmas just gone and i was going to stop taking my pill December but we both decaded not to until after xmas wall from then we havent talked about it and its starting to get me down a bit i want to talk him about it but i don't want him thinking im pushing him i now that we have months that we sturgle with money but who doesnt i hope someone can give me some advise about it, i hope everyone can understand what ive said i have probelms putting how i feel into words.
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reader, Ravenxx91 +, writes (7 January 2010):
 To be honest i'd focus on working and not even try until your daughter is in something like year one so she is settled in school. 3/4 years would give you plenty of time to develop a career if you dont have one or build it! ..dont push it either, just wait until you are both ready for another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Your only 19 so you've got plenty of time, dont rush into having another baby. Think about your career and what you want to do in life.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 January 2010):
Wait. That's my advice. If you're struggling now, to have another child would add to the strain. Focus on your one child just for now, and make sure you have more money. The last thing you need is to be broke with 2 young children.
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