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writes:hello everyone, so before i get started ill give a little back story. 2 years ago i met this girl at work who i thought was the most beautiful thing i have ever seen, so far out of my league(mainly because i have severe self confidence issues, even though every woman who knows me thinks im so amazing. the most romantic, attractive, gentalmanly person in the world, a true prince charming anyone of them would date in a heart beat. I just dont see myself being worth the air i breath). Every guy who saw her would do every possible thing to try and get with her. But by some act of god she actually liked me and eventually asked me out. we began dating and fell deeply in love. Before me her longest relationship lasted around 2 months. The first 10 months or so were amazing, we loved each other more than anything, i treated her like a princess, always putting her happiness before mine simply because making her happy made me happy. we never had a single fight and we had an amazing sex life, i could do things for her no other guy had ever come close to and i even enjoyed making her orgasm more than myself. Then it got where she would start fights over the smallest things or even nothing at all and our sex life came to a standstill. this went on for 2 months till she started a fight over nothing and broke up with me, saying it was my fault. a week later( 2 days before our 1 year anniversary) i found out she had cheated on me broke up with me so i wouldnt breakup with her. i forgave her and a week later i looked at her phone and she was still talking to the guy, planned to party with him that night, and even had a picture of his dick on her phone. I told her either u stop talking to him or were over. i came to the realization that she had become bored with me and was unattracted to me sexually. i told her how i felt and she said i was to nice i should be more of an asshole to her. things got better for a while, we started haveing sex again and fights lessened. Then one day she started a fight at work because i jokingly tossed a ketchup packet at her, a week later i found out that day she went out on a date with some othr guy. I, being so in love with her and scared no other woman would ever love me, forgave her and we moved on.two more months of being okay then came last week when after work she breaks up with me. she just says she doesnt think she should have to work for a relationship, we fight to much and she just wants to have fun. the next day i try to talk to her and she says shes in mulvane and cant talk. i ask isnt *guy2 from mulvane ( the guy she went on a date with). so n less than 10 hours she dating the guy she planned on cheating on me with. sorry for so much information i just wanted to give the whole story. So the problem is i just dont know what to do. I still love her with all my heart and i would give anything to have her back, and i know its stupid of me given what shes done with me. everytime i see her at work i just get depressed thinking about not having her in my life and how pathetic i must be since i couldnt keep her happy enough to stay with me. Do i wait and see if she comes back to me, is there anything i can do to get her back, do i act friendly towards her or just ignore her, do i just wish her well and try and move on with my life if so how do i make this easier. I would do anything to make her happy, thats all i care about even after what shes done, even if it means seeing her in the arms of another but how do manage remember i have to work with her so i cant ignore her. Again im sorry for the long message, but thanks to anyone who actually endures the entire thing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): you were being too kind and letting her walk over you. Girls need a man not a push over. She cheated on you tell her to fuck off and move on. This is an common situation that many man has to experience at least once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): Fuck! Leave that cheater and never look back! Women are not a need like food and water. Be happy without being with her, and you'll be more attractive to all women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): talk to her, learn more about her later ask if she will go out with u
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