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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I really felt like I belonged to a close-knit family at long last but now it's all gone...

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend is 36 yrs old and we were together for 2 1/2 years. He was the first man I felt truly comfortable around and we were really compatible. I felt we were on the same wave length, and that he was a very attentive and fair man. However, we were not without our ... (671 words)

Will our relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here it goes and i only want honest advice on what to do... I have just started work for the first time and have met a guy that i really like. He has just split with his girlfriend and i really like him, he asked me the other day to make things official and i said yes..... (134 words)

I'm tired getting hurt by him and don't know what to do for the best...

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked this lad for months now and we've always been really close friends but he confuses me so much, one minute he speaks loads and the next he doesnt talk to me. so i got fed up with this and then i found out he has a girlfriend and i got really upset and hurt so ... (286 words)

How can I stop having feelings for my friend's boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a huge problem, my best friend and me have been friends since 8th grade, two years ago she started going out with a kid that i introduced to her. Before they were going out i thought he was kind of cute and felt really atracted to him but now that they been going out for ... (246 words)

Will I ever be able to have a committed relationship the way I feel about sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a masculine gay young man, but I fear that my sexuality is very *selfish*. I enjoy having anal sex with other men and receiving blow jobs, but I find being on the receiving end of anal or giving blow jobs utterly repugnant and a total turn off. I can't even bring myself to ... (201 words)

My mom won't stop calling my boyfriend gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since my boyfriend and I started dating, my mom has poked fun at him. I usually just laugh it off, because I used to poke fun at her boyfriend, but lately it's been getting a little harsh. We've been together for 7 months, but we haven't had sex. I sleep in his bed with ... (376 words)

Unhealthy relationship. What do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my best friend, I think i am obsessed with him I told him how I feel, I love everything about him, His smell his eyes his hairy body he is fat and has the cutest face he spits, farts, snores and is fearless he is a bear type he is very controlling but he likes ... (528 words)

15 and pregnant. HELP!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 And Pregnant, i really need help. So please tell me what you think i should do.... (18 words)

How to bring up the talk with your parents about contreception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 years old and have had intercourse with my boyfriend who I have been with for over 1 year but I want to be completly safe and get a form of contraception but I don't know how to ask my mum and how would she react when I tell her I've had sex help?... (55 words)

We don't know if it is right to date each other due to the age difference

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so me and this guy been there for each other but the thing is he is 19 and im just turning 15 and we really dont know if its right to date. We liked each other for a really long time, and he has met my parents and everything and he even said to me that we wont do nothing ... (100 words)

Is he taking advantage of all the freedom I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my boyfriend spends a lot of time with his friends playing football, video games and other stuff, but i think he spends to much time with them and not enough with me sounds crazy right, well i do things with my friends but he hardly do anything together!! I allow him ... (111 words)

How can I love someone when he doesn't love me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I love someone when he doesn't love me back? How I know is when I have to beg my husband to hold my hand in public that's not love And we fight a lot. He has children with his ex wife and we have a 21month old little girl and a 9 week old little boy and he puts them on ... (71 words)

I don't really feel anything when I masturbate, am I doing it wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Ive masturbated myself before but it doesnt feel good. Is that normal or am I doing it wrong or anything. Im quite concerned as my mates say it feels good, when i dont really feel anything.... (37 words)

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's behavior? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, this may seem stupid but its making me feel down, me and my fiance have been together a yr and half. im 9 months pregnant. we was ordering a take away online and instead of putting our post code he put his exs. it seems really dodgy to me, why would he put her post code? im ... (123 words)

My girlfriend has a low sex drive and I am worried it might cause problems in the future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been dating the women of my dreams, for almost 2 years now. We want to get married. only problem i fear is that she has a low sex drive. Now to be honest im a nymph :) how do i get her to be free and open with me, i am the one constantly initiating the sex. I have all the ... (129 words)

Teenager worrying about sex for the first time

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok. i'm a 14 year old girl and ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now. He's already had sex with his ex partner so it seems like he's expecting it from me. I want to but im freaked out because im a virgin and i don't know what he expects a girl to look like down there. So ... (104 words)

I love my boyfriend but I cant help enjoying the attention my ex gives me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and a chap i used to see and have had sex with is 24. i still see the lad regularly even tho we are not having sex anymore. he is very much like part of my family and everyone gets on with him. but i have a boyfriend now who i really love lots and he means a lot to m... (192 words)

Do you think what happened meant something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I kinda have two questions. Firstly i'd your opinion on if you think anything could come of this and secondly i need some help talking to this friend of mine. Heres the situation. I've known him afew years now, always thought he liked me, i always liked him. Nothing was ever... (953 words)

What will I do if she becomes pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. my girlfriend and i had unprotected sex then she took a morning after pill. we had sex two more times and she took another dose. am afraid of her becoming pregnant. we are both in college. we are waiting. what will i do if she becomes pregnant? we've dated for two yrs. how ... (64 words)

Can anyone relate to my situation? I am sick of living with my husband's family but he doesn't seem to care about my feelings!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't know what to say its just that i want share my stories to everyone maybe others can relate.Now its midnight i am here in front of my computer typing my stories make as my self defense for what i really felt...maybe in this way everything here inside my heart will ... (191 words)

I don't think he's gay, but why would he look at gay porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a good relationship with a strong black man for 5 years. He has always been interested in porn, and his brother explained that it was common when growing up because their Dad had tons of porn in the house. I started a high demand job in 2007, and I was too tired ... (180 words)

Does sex always hurt first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i need a bit of help i`ve been getting to that age now that i have been thinking a bit about sex. I feel like i want to do it and my boyfriend sean who lives in ireland wants me and him to do it when he comes down soon. But when i talked to this boy before he said that the ... (76 words)

Should I worry about the three little words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi . I am misssing the elusive : " I love you " that I have been waiting for . I have seen a lovely , caring older guy . Fifteen years older than me . He is kind , caring and passionate . He has told me ....that I am special , and big in his life and how much he cares fo... (110 words)

Would it be wrong to date my brother's former friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid i really need your help. im 19 and my brother is 22. for years he and his 3 best friends were inseperable and i was always tagged along. i wasn't one of "the guys" i was the annoying little tag along sister ever since i was 15. i stayed out of the way for the most ... (191 words)

Do people really love or care about you if they don’t want you to succeed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I’ve been visiting with my boyfriend his family every other weekend for about three years now. I’ve gotten very close to his mother and am close to his sister and children and friendly with his father and brother-in-law. I haven’t worked in the real world for a while and have ... (812 words)

Did I do the right thing by stopping my daughter from masturbating?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My eleven year old girl has been masturbating lately. Last year for her birthday i bought her this toy dog that when you pull the tail it vibrates. Four days ago i peeked into her room and saw her repeatedly pulling the tail and she had it on her private with her pants off. I ... (137 words)

Is my only option to break up with her? I don't feel I should be responsible for taking care of her and paying for all her bills!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My girlfriend and I have been dating since april of 09. She is 19 and I am 20. It was love at first sight when we met, but in ther last couple months I haven't been happy at all. You see, her parents are kicking her out in february andn she expects me to t... (140 words)

Is it ok to be friends with my former friends ex after what happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all This story is probably worthy of the Jeremy Kyle/Maury show but here goes. I had a friend last year who I helped out but were not friends now (were both gay guys btw) While we were friends, we slept together one night after he and his then boyfriend had an argumen... (288 words)

Is it ok to have oral sex if you are Muslim?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi dere, I am muslim and got marrried 2 years ago and my wife is askin for oral sex just wanted to know that is it allowed to give oral sex to women in islam.... Thanks for ur help in advance ... (57 words)

I'm so sexually frustrated but I don't want to seem pushy and rush her into something she's not ready for!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 19 years old (nearly 20) and have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now. only, I still haven’t moved past 1st base with her yet (we've only kissed) It seems to be the only thing that’s bothering me about the whole relationship. Not that I don’t... (285 words)

After this last week he has scared me a little, should I stay with him and get married or leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am involved in a gay relationship with my best friend. He is married but now separated. We have been together about 1year and 5 months. We have never had sex as yet but we do sleep together in the same bed when I go spend the night at his home we do hug each othe... (380 words)

Teenage girl worried about sex for the first time....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] 1. I am a 14 year old girl and have been with my boyfriend for around 4 months. We havent had sex and are both still virgins. He has fingered me but I havent done anything to him and i want too... (163 words)

We were getting along great and suddenly everything has changed, I don't know what went wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i know this is probably a stupid thing to get so upset about. i just really dont know what to do! im 17 now, when i was 14, i met this guy.. he was 18, so i never thought anything would go further than the comforting hug which i got every now and again (while i was going ... (485 words)

I need an English name similar to my Chinese name which sounds like Melwhi Lam

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - maybe it looks stupid to ask for help here because of my name thing anyway,my Chinese name sound like melwhi lam .and I'm a girl .in the past ,i usually teach others to pronounce my Chinese name .now it's the problem .I NEED A ENGLISH NAME.my teacher said i must have a Englis... (106 words)

Why is my boyfriend not replying to my texts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend went to his dads for new years and because of this he had to break off a date. he didn't text me at all or call and i texted him 2 times with no answer. then at new years he texted me happy new years and i told him that back and that i missed him with no response... (164 words)

How can I make sure that she will want to resume our relationship some point later down the road?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i my girlfriend recently just broke up with me. For the past 11 months i have been very happy with the girl i have been with. She is terrific and i love her very much still and care about her. I know she still has feelings for me but i can't help but see why i didn't see... (594 words)

I'm worried I might be getting too "aroused"! Will this put men off in the future or will they laugh at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm aware that when a female is sexually aroused she becomes wet and also the labia become swollen. But I am worried that when I'm aroused mine get too swollen, not enough to cause problems but enough for me to be embarrassed or self conscious. This started a few months ago... (118 words)

We argue about everything and he always blames me for starting them! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an relationship for 1 1/2 years we now have a 2 month old baby and he lives with me and my 12 year old son. We argue about everything.... no matter what is! We are good together financially seems everything else is a problem. He blames all the agruments on me as ... (65 words)

Any tips for things to do/say to my boyfriend who is into BDSM?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. My boyfriend is really into BDSM and likes to be dominated which I don't mind but sometimes he asks me to call him names which I've got the hang of now, but he likes to be abused and humiliated too and then my mind goes blank and can't think of what to do. I mean, ... (133 words)

I'm worried I might just be her safety net until she meets someone better!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf broke up with me 3 months ago i dated this girl for three years.....two and a half were great. the last months we fought a lot but i was still suprised when we broke up...i just thought it was something we could get past...we took some time and i realized a lot of my ... (350 words)

How do I end my affair with my neighbor's wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i am married and started also started a relation with my neighbours wife. I was the one initiated it and was behind her for it. Most of the time my neighbour will be on tour.We are in to this from last 1 year. Now i want to come out of it , but now she is madly needs me on ... (72 words)

Questions about sex.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I think that when I have sex I will cum very quickly, and I "spring back up" quickly to, so I was thinking that I make her orgasm first so she doesn't feel "unfinished", is this a good idea, should I ask her, and should I ask her how to help her orgasm? ... (53 words)

What is he trying to tell me? Does he love me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all so the guy im seeing told me he loves me but is not in love.But then he said he used to think he was in love with me.He also said he has deep feelings for me.What is he saying?... (41 words)

How do I attract boys when I go to an all girls school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hii I go to an all girls school and me and my friends really want to find some really good looking boys to become friends with, meet up with every weekend and then possibly go out with one. got any suggestions on where to find some or how to attract some? please don't... (68 words)

Need help having first time sex with girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are both 17 years old and virgins. A fortnight ago, we tried to have sex for the first time. She's quite petite, never pleasured herself before and she's never used tampons, so she's very tight down there. We did a lot of foreplay, but she was still very ... (266 words)

Should I start a relationship with him when he lives so far away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5439 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, well i dont really no what to do with my relationship, here is the story: i go to turkey two times a year because my grandad lives there. and i met this turkish boy about 3years ago and everytime i go, i see him. and we are really close. but then when i go back to england, ... (163 words)

Do girls like friends that just listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like my friend, but don't have the courage to ask her out, so do girls like having friends that just listen? Or do you prefer boyfriends?... (28 words)

How shall I face the relationship with my brother-in-law?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a cousin that has two little children with a man that's not married with yet. this man, that i consider him to be my brother in law made me several personal compliments. that looked strange to me, but considering him to be a good family man, I didn't think much of this. ... (583 words)

I still love him and think he will come crawling back again, but he blew his last chance with me after he slept with my friend! How do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - For about a year now i have been sort of seeing this boy on and off, he is a year older than me (im 14) and i always knew he had done stuff with other girls. loads of people warned me he was a player and was no good for me but i paied no attention. things were going great ... (329 words)

Need of a Reality Check or Her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Happy New Year all, I hope it's been so far so good and possibly a fruitful year ahead. My question is regarding an ex I broke up with in early December. The back story is I'd been seeing this girl for around 2 months and I cannot tell you how quickly I fell for her. ... (895 words)

Was he avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age - Ok so I was acting childish about this guy, I admit it. So I decided to take all the confidence I could muster up and be an adult so I gave him my phone number and even asked him if he would like to go to a New Year Party and meet some new people. He smiled and said well I'm ... (521 words)

Marriage misery!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age - I have been married a long 29 years. We certainly have had our down time. Having one now. Background includes some physical abuse that he will not admit to. He now stays in his room in bed all day everyday we are not at work. I have arranged marriage counseling on 4+ times ... (257 words)

Ex: Its like he has 2 minds or something!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I have posted here before and got some helpful advice so I'm back again! I'm really confused about the behviour of my ex. We split up about a year ago but stayed in touch. During arguments he has threatened to change his phone number and never speak ... (386 words)

Who is at fault: The girl for making inappropriate sexual comments, or the guy for not standing up to her and setting clear boundaries?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

- When a girl is saying inappropiate sexual type comments to your bf, who is responsible? The girl, or is your bf responsible for standing up to her and making sure the boundaries are clear? My bf dosesnt see himself as having any responsibily in these types of situations and s... (288 words)

How can I speak to him without ruining the way things are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Background Info. Met a lad around 2 years ago, was completly besotted with him. Spent around 3 months of seeing him all the time. There was a family crisis and we moved so we drifted apart. So heres my problem, recently started to talk to him again. We speak via msn and... (227 words)

He asked me to wait for him but I can't wait around forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - well my boyfrined and I finished 4 months ago. we were together for a year and a half almost. we finished because he had feelings for someone else and about a month later they started seeing each other. he'd still text and phone everyday however as things got more serious ... (120 words)

Married living like brother and sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I found your website with hopes in finding some advice/input on a situation that I have. First off, I am married and have a year old daughter that I am very proud of. I am also military and have only seen my daughter maybe 3 or 4 times, and I have 6 more years in the arm... (310 words)

My boyfriend seems more concerned with getting his ego boost from this older woman rather than considering my feelings in all of this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

- I am 21, and my bf is 25. We have been together for about 10 months now. When we first met, I remember him telling me that he usually goes for "older women" and has never dated someone younger. I felt a bit insecure and on edge because of that. Having said that, I am the ... (401 words)

My pregnant wife or my mistress whom I have met months ago?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My Wife or my mistress? I am in mid 30s.married for 4 years. Got my wife pregnant and I feel responsible for it. i got the work from another country . where i feel very lonely. until one day when i meet my other woman. she is everything to me. we are compatible, mentally... (219 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend that my ex raped me, which would explain why I am struggling to have sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

- About 2 years ago, my bf at the time (now ex bf) raped me. We broke up a few days later. It was a pretty traumatic experience for me. I tried so hard to stop him but I just couldnt. I tried fighting him off me, but he had me in a pinned down position so I couldnt move. I tried ... (343 words)

How can I resolve this continuing argument with my Mum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm nearly 26 and due to a bad breakup over a year ago, I'm living at home. Since then, my Mum and I have been arguing a lot. I'm dating someone else now, and I spend quite a lot of time with him. The main argument is that I don't 'care' about my Mum, when I do. She says tha... (362 words)

Something feels wrong but if I dump him I'll never get him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, my name's bea and im in a mess! I liked my boyfriend for a very long time before we went out, and about a year ago, i told him how much i liked him; he liked me too. he wanted to take things further than friends, and although i really did like him, it just didnt seem lik... (369 words)

We're trying to stay just friends but I think it could go into more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this girl for some months now... and we get along really well, I couldn't ask for anything more. We talk a lot, for hours and hours and we've been hanging out and whatnot, at one point we even told people we were a couple as a joke, but lately I've been ... (185 words)

Problems cumming too soon...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I am a 28 year old male, single from delhi who has a problem with premature ejaculation. Why so, please inform me why this happens. I am having since 5/6 years that i cannot understand why this is happening? Please kindly give my some way to stop this and make my future ... (100 words)

Is it possible to get pregnant and after how long should I go to check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Please i need your help. I started my periods on 25th last month on the 27th that is my 3rd day of my periods i ended up with my boyfriend. We didnt make love but he was brushing near my vagina until he cum now idont know if the sperms went in. Immediately i wiped the cum and ... (86 words)

Her mom caught us making out and now I think she doesn't like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - we have been going out for a month. today we were making out in the back seat of my car. next thing we know it, her mom caught us. it was about 12 midnight. my car was parked in her driveway. thing is, my girlfriend strictly followes he's abstinence policy, which I totally ... (178 words)

No Contact Question

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So how does no contact work when my daughters involved?... (10 words)

Does he have any kind of feelings for me if he is still resolute to hang out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So I dated a guy for a few weeks. The day before he broke it off with me and said he wanted to be "just friend" he had told me he was starting to like me etc etc. Well after that he broke it off and started with the whole friends thing. Anyways we have kept in contact we went ... (153 words)

Compensation for accident?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I slipped and dislocated my soulder as i was exiting a public transportation (TTC street car) the supervisor came and took notes he also told me just relax when i discharge from the hospital. i am planning on sueing them. do you think that 'ill get enough compensation. ... (52 words)

She is crying her eyes out but still wants to end our long distance relationship..how can I convince her otherwise?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I started dating at the end of my senior year in high school and we dated all through the summer. I went to college and it hasn't been fun being this far apart. I try to visit as much as possible but sometimes there is 3 or 4 weeks in between. She now says that ... (141 words)

Is his height hampering my ability to orgasm??

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my old boyfriend an i had great sex. I can only get off in certain positions, but he used to make me orgasm all the time. My new boyfriend has pretty much the same size and shaped penis, but i don't get off nearly as well with him. My old boyfriend was 5'11'' and my ... (94 words)

Why didn't he kiss me after our first date?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just went out on a first date with a guy I met last week. I was so excited to see him because we had a great conversation and he is very nice and attractive. I had a great time on our date and I would really like to see him again, but I'm afraid he might not be attracted to ... (206 words)

Should I care what others think?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid. I’m with my GF 3 years already, and on Christmas she told me she wants a « heart breakable « jewellery for the both of us. She told me that it would represent our eternal love, and relationship. Well at the beginning I didn’t think well, so I bought her and ... (162 words)

How do you play without hurting them?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im not much expreineced with giving head and i just want to know as i hear that its good to play with guys balls but there really sensitive how do i play with them without hurting them and wat do you mean when u say playing with the guys balls?... (51 words)

Is this my problem...or our problem?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been dating for eleven mos. It's been a pretty rocky relationship, and a lot of it stems from the fact that I suffer from both major depressive disorder and PMDD and I am not settled on any medications yet (I've tried about five but haven't gott... (425 words)

I rip my heart out telling her things but don't get the same back

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok this might be long but i need help. i want to trust my girlfriend again she cheated on me before but only a kiss with the same guy twice. this was about 3 months ago but i just cant trust her and when she hangs with guys i get upset and like start getting thought bout what ... (236 words)

Not sure what to make of her signals please help me interpret them

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She is sending me mixed signals and I do not know what to make of them!!!!!!!? I met this girl a month or two ago and it seemed like we immediately hit it off. Lately we have hung out a few times with friends and **** and that is always cool, but when its is just her and I sh... (193 words)

I'm depressed about what I've done!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together since I was 14. I'm now 21. Please don't judge and call me a horrible person. I know the mistakes I've made. I've been paying for them everyday. Anyway, back to the problem. When I was 17 I told my husband I wanted to take a break. I was ... (859 words)

The boyfriend? The ex? Torn between them!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello: I have a boyfriend of 7 years but half-way through the relationship I started to talk to my ex again and feelings started to come back. The ex and I dated for about 5 months (7 years ago) before we broke up. For the past few years, I've been talking to my ex and having t... (351 words)

How to lose weight fast without hurting yourself?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age - how to loss weight with out hurting your self to any pills an you are only 16 years old and want to loss it fast and keep it off for life can yall help me i mean its a new year i want to start off right but i need help because i know for sure i can't do it alone at all it is to ... (91 words)

How do I know? what are the signs?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well im 14 i like this guy and im nt real sure if he likes me i dont wanna straight up ask him cause 1. what if he dont and 2. it would be just plain weird it may mess up our mkship.. and i dont want to get my friend to aks him that just a lil childish well guys can you help? ... (77 words)

When he's with his friends he treats her like a jerk!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there im a girl here and i have this problem its about my sister.well theres this guy that she and i work with[we work at a movie theater].she texts him all the time and wen there alone hes all nice to her but i think wen hes with his friends hes a jerk to her. i can tell it ... (136 words)

Talk to the ex about us? Or let bygones be bygones?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I agree to talk with my ex about 'us', or is it better to let bygones be bygones? My ex boyfriend wants to talk to me about ‘us’. I don’t think I am ready to do this, but he is a good person, and I would like to be able to meet him face-to-face to talk. We have tried being... (373 words)

Do I bring up the subject? And how?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Last year I was at my friends house and we where waching a nude movie. He kept saying ''I would do anything for a blow job now'' and so I said I would do it as a friend. I really thought a hand job was a blow job then. He said ''thats not a blow job but whatever''. Then I heard ... (99 words)

Player? Or sincere guy who wears heart on his sleeve?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the opinion on a guy who REALLY REALLY likes you in the beginning of a dating relationship. I've been seeing this guy, he's not clingy, but he makes it clear that he really likes me. He doesn't pressure me for sex. He calls me when he says he will. He takes interests ... (105 words)

My boyfriend has low self-esteem and depression, how can I help him?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend suffers from low self-esteem. I think it is mostly because of his mom, she's always been really hard on him and used to put him down constantly, telling him he's a screw up and will never amount to anything, terrible things like that. We're both 19 and have been... (238 words)

Was this rape? Or consensual?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year ago, I was in a relationship with a guy who was 21. I was 16 at the time. We had sex, and I consented (well, I couldn't legally give consent, but I said yes). Now that the relationship's been over for a few months, I'm feeling more uncomfortable with my choices, ... (101 words)

He calls 3-4 times a day but says he only likes me as a friend

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when a close friend of yours that youve fallen in love with, tells you he only likes you as a friend....calls you 3-4 times a day everyday. im in california, he's in texas.... (37 words)

Is it fate to run into her again?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im a lil confused by a cituation im in. when i was in highschool i had a good female friend. we talked every day at school, but that was pretty much the extent of it. we would flirt every now and then but she was in a relationship. although one day i got into some trouble ... (289 words)

What kind of sexual contact does she want with me?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My aunts try to brush their nipples onto my elbow. Lately one aunt (married to my mum's brother) on new year's eve brushed her nipple on me as she walked past me from behind. What kind of sexual contact does she want with me? BJ with me to come on her chest? Earlie... (433 words)

She acts like she's interested but then blows me off!

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have been talking to this girl now for a couple of weeks, she seems like she is interested, but whenever I ask her to hang out she just kind of blows it off. for example the other night I told her I was going to bed and that we should hangout this weekend, goodnight:). She ... (141 words)

I don't have the balls to get divorced because I feel guilty!

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I had been married for 10 years, my marriage was failing since the wedding night when we were not able to have sex because she had too much pain. I centered my attention in working and getting my doctorate and I can realize now that I put my relationship in the "back" burner. ... (288 words)

Ex calling me

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2 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I had a relationship with my ex.Ex's ex girlfriend came back.He broke up with me.I was very understanding.I moved away from his life.He has always tried to ask how I am or what I have been doing.He has also asked me if I need any monetary help.I have never ever got a single ... (216 words)

I seen pictures of her on facebook and she doesn't look the same and now I feel shallow!

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this girl online for almost a year now. She doesnt live close by, but we have been planning to meet. I talk to her on the phone all the time and I have added her on Facebook. I feel so very horrible and shallow though. She used to send me pics of her and ... (257 words)

Men and Rejection

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I once heard that once a man has rejected by a woman he will never pursue or respect her again. I am very curious to know how bad does rejection hurt the male ego. Is it really that hard for a male to get over the rejection and just be friends with the woman who did it, or will ... (66 words)

In love with best friend and she's what I'm living for!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I just dont know what to do anymore. I love someone even though I know I cant have her cause shes my bestfriend and we all know how that ends. Shes going through some pretty rough shit and all I wanna do is be there for her. Problem is I listened to what was going on and then... (498 words)

Am I A Monster?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am not a perfect person and i dont believe anyone is. But i do think i should be better than this. Im only just starting to see how much of a nasty selfish person i am. What i want to know is am i as bad as i think i am. Is there no hope for me to have a normal happy ... (1635 words)

The ex: Neither of us will say that we still love each other

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just spent an amazing evening with my ex boyfriend. Unfortunately, we're not together and haven't been for several years now. The part that makes this so complicated is that I know I'm still deeply in love with him but I haven't said anything. He know's that I still love him ... (133 words)

Why are guys so afraid of comittment?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - can someone tell me more about commitment and why guys are afraid of it so much.i don't understand my bf told me he wants to make the relationship work but he does not want any commitment.i tried breaking up with him for the new year and he was in a total wreck he said he wants ... (125 words)

I want to masturbate in front of my sister

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My sister walked in on me when I was in the middle of masturbating. Since then I have wanted to masturbate in front of her. I am afraid to ask her so I secretly masturbate in front of her while she is sleeping. Should I ask her if I can do it in front of her or am I barking up ... (64 words)

Should I tell his wife?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I tell his wife? I am 18 years old. On new years eve(last night), i had been drinking. (first mistake) For the past week i had been house sitting my neihbors across the street. Towards the end of the night (around 3:30am) i went to go let the neighbors dog out. On... (513 words)

I'm just frustrated that she would like to him! Leave the relationship?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have a woman I'm dating and one day when I was using her laptop I happened to see that she maintained an active profile on a dating site. I was also able to see one or two emails where she maintained active contact. Reading one or two of the emails it wasn't anythi... (285 words)

We never have sex unless my husband is drunk!

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2 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - happey new year i;m married to my husband 7 yeras we have 3 kidds i work he work too my husband is a quit person te last 3 yras our relationship was rocky my husbandn is never home and if he is he is his room waching tv or online he dnt lough at me he dont spend timewith me or ... (264 words)

Falling for a taken man

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - so my situation is this, i met a guy while i was still in a relationship (that was already falling apart), this guy and i had sex it was AMAZING!! at first i thought its just for fun. I break up with the bf since it just wasnt working out. I continue to see this guy which by ... (288 words)

Life without David?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am absolutely confused with what to do with my life right now :S this is why.. About a year ago i met my brothers girlfriends brother and had a crush on him for no reason (lets just call him David). It was the most love ive ever felt and so unexpected, wasnt good looki... (457 words)

Growing tired of my friend

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2 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have a friend who I've known now going on 11 years. We're now 25, but she has grown to be very competitive and brags all the time. I never try to compete or rub anything in her face but that's how she is. I always support her but she just seems to insult me. Plus, she's ... (257 words)

Is one woman never thrilling enough?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Whenmy husband and I married we took vow to 'forsake all others'. To me this means not having relationships with others but also sving our sexual selves for one another . Not allowing our sexual stimultion to come from other. But he uses porn an says although we have an ... (179 words)

Small boobs-- boob job??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

2 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I really need some advises :( I feel like i'm too skinny and i've been a skinny girl since i was little. (im 21 at the moment) Tried to eat loads but never work out. I'm tall (5'8), skinny, so my boobs are just 32A or maybe AA when i drop weight. This problem has been ann... (405 words)

My cousin is all I've ever wanted...

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im in love with my cousin!! i have a boyfriend but my cousin is all ive ever wanted...i didnt like him til new years when he picked me up and squeezed me and kissed my neck and cheeks deeply and i did the same to him, no one noticed anything cause it didnt look bad but i felt a ... (119 words)

Why do some guys squirt when they cum and some dont?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Um, I'm 39, a healthy bloke and I've always wondered why it is that some guys squirt when they cum and some (me) don't. (:o/ I have sex every day in my relationship. I really like the idea of squirtin on someone, but it happens rarely. Either what is produced is too ... (79 words)

What is my best approach with this woman?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age - I'm 53 years old going on 25. I have been married for almost 15 years and both my wife and I agree the marriage is over. I'm still living home because of children and financial situation. I met someone last year and it woke me up both emotionally and sexually. We had 4 months ... (175 words)

Can I kiss this guy and get away with it?

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2 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Heya, I'm 24 (just to put that out there)! This guy and I always flirt a lot at work, and I always hug him goodbye before I leave. I always wrap my arms around his neck so our bodies press together real close but I noticed that he only let me hug him from the side recently. W... (222 words)

Did I cheat on my boyfriend?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like my boyfriend alot I mean alot alot. But the other day I was in the dark room a room at my school where you make these pictures you took in photograph class. Anyways so me and this boy "Tom" where in there alone because the bell range and everyone left but we had to stay ... (246 words)

Sexual tension with cousin but he has a g/f!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my cousin is three years older then me and ever since we were little we've been great friends, but recentally ive been feeling a sort of ...sexual tension between us and im actually jealous cause he has a girlfriend. i really like my cousin and feel totally weirded ... (58 words)

I need to change for my relationship

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i've gone through this with my boyfriend a dozen times,we've broken up because of trust issues mostly from me. We want to be together but find it hard to stay together happily. First off we went out for 1 year and broke up for 2 months he got a gf (it lasted 1 week ... (304 words)

Good experiences with online dating?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age - I have a question about online dating and proper protocal. I went online and actually met a guy about a week ago. Between, his cute picture and his profile and some emails, I found myself attracted to him. He seems very nice. He live four hours away. I am in my mid forties and ... (204 words)

Haunted by my girlfriend's past?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on my girlfriend's account, hence the female part. She has given me permission to write a question here, and has been very supportive in trying to solve this with me. She has even posted a question herself. My girlfriend is 17, and she's a virgin. She has, however, in the ... (325 words)

Divorce my wife to date or marry her sister?

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2 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - have any men divorced their wives to start a relationship with their wifes sister. is it ok to divorce and begin a relationship with her sister, perhaps even marry her. ... (30 words)

Would it be wrong to kiss my teacher?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so the other day I posted a question asking how to get over my much older teacher (I'm 15 and he's 50). I never expected it to go anywhere, but the other day it did. I have his class last period, and it just so happened to be my birthday. My friend in that class had told him ... (382 words)

Can my boyfriend be platonic friends with his ex?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was upset when I realized my boyfriend's platonic friend was actually his ex. and he didn't tell me. I got emotional on the phone with him and asked for a break. The sent him an email explaining why I was so upset. I haven't heard from him in a day (long for us). Did I ... (65 words)

Scared about having sex!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - will am a female am really worried cause will i want to have sex with ma boyfriend but m scared...any suggestions..(sorry bout tht spelling)... (24 words)

Is this a case of cold feet?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok. This is my issue. I am recently divorced (42) and I have been seeing this man for about 4 months (he is 45. We live 3 hours apart. Things were going really well. We were spending almost every weekend together. Then he went cold. Phone calls became infrequent, visits ... (255 words)

Could "once a cheater, always a cheater" be wrong in his case?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In 2007 I started dating a guy that was 8 years older then me. We had a great relationship and dated for 10 months when I finally found out he was MARRIED. when I confronted him about it he promised to leave his wife for me but I didn't believe him or even want to let him get ... (296 words)

I told him I would call his home!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in a relationship with a married man and I thought I got pregnant and tried to contact him several times. So I called him a few times for about 5 days and he didn't answer. Then I sent him a message stating that I thought I was pregnant and I didn't want to call him at ... (186 words)

I need a firm plan as to what to do with my ex!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive decided that as it is a new year i should decided what to do about my ex, i really miss and want him back even though i dont want to feel this way. hes my first love so its crazy to say i thought we were going to last forever but i did. i am really bad at showing my true ... (193 words)

Sexual tension between me and my cousin's husband!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I was at my cousin is house for a party and i got really wasted with her husband we had like shot after shot after shot long story short is we ended up making out touching and he fingered me, i didnt stop him tho, i felt horrible in the morning because shes a really close ... (150 words)

Age dfference, but can't help the feelings!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a fourteen and a half girl. Anyway this is my dilemna and I'd really appreciate it if you could give me your input or some advice. Just recently , I went back to my homeland, where I was actually born. There we have really good family friends and they have a son ... (259 words)

I feel so guilty, please help me?

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all I'd like to thank all of you who are currently reading this..you have all served as another method of therapy for me, I don't know what I would do without your guys' advice.. I'm 17 years old, and my (now ex) boyfriend is 18. We have been seeing each other on and ... (324 words)

He makes me feel so rubbish about myself that I have doubts about us!

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2 January 2010 (F)

- Hey, I've now currently been with my boyfriend for two months, I have known him for six months we were together before for three weeks but it didnt work out as we never saw each other much but we realised we both wanted to be with each other ALOT so we got back together... (162 words)

His life doesn’t revolve around me so why should mine!

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2 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting the feeling that my best friend thinks that I need him. Just because I told him that I like him. I think that he thinks that since i like him that I am interested only with him. How can I get the point across that i don't need him in order to be happy? I like other ... (140 words)