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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Where's a good place to meet girls for a young, working guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok need a little advice... my ex broke up with me about a month and half - two months ago. I just recently decided it is time to move on and talk with other girls... as my ex has been since the second day after we broke up. but my problem is i work a blue coller job. monday ... (151 words)

How can I approach the subject of him not putting much effort into our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

- Hey, Over the summer, i'm living away from my boyfriend (we are in a serious relationship) and i just can't help but feel like it's me doing all the chasing. I know hes busy with work but i'm working full time and doing placement reports in my spare time and i still manage t... (183 words)

I should just go clear this up with him, but continue to live in limbo anyway

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really confused. I split up with my boyfriend at the weekend by text (I am appalled that I did it in that way, and instantly regretted doing it but I was rarely able to get hold of him on the phone which I found deeply frustrating. We were in a long distance relationship ... (321 words)

He likes me, he likes me not. He likes me, he likes me not...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know i have put this up a few times but here goes. I have been in love with a guy for about 9/10 months now and i think he like me back. He always starts conversations with me (on MSN and in person), always teases me, gives me loadz of eye contact when we talk (in person) ... (173 words)

How do condom sizing work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - very quick question, how big does the penis have to be (length and girth) to fit a normal condom? ... (21 words)

We have differing timelines for marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm twenty-five years of age, turning twenty-six in exactly two weeks and I'm still a virgin. In junior high and high school, I never wanted a boyfriend because I was focusing on my studies, but I did have a lot of guy friends. Plus, I grew up with four older brothers ... (530 words)

I have jealousy issues, insecurity, paranoia and need a robot lover

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I seriously need some help, before I go completely insane. I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and to start with, everything was fantastic. However, I have started to become severely jealous. If he befriends a girl, I have to know everything about her. I g... (162 words)

Love triangle drama, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - right this might sound odd but i fancy this girl who is really pretty and who's (not so good looking) sister fancies me. and the girl i fancy has a bf, but i know she likes me as well. she is prepared to dump her bf who she actually hates and will go out with me. but i knw if i ... (91 words)

He cheating on his pregnant girlfriend with me, I want to continue this, but want people's opinion anyway

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok guys your all going to prob hate me for this but, m sleeping with my ex boy friend and he has a new girl who is 13 weeks pregnent, the thing is when we have done things i dont even have the ounce of guilt over doing it and to be honest i dont think he does either, It all... (209 words)

How can I make things more exciting in our relationship again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my boyfriend is getting bored with me, he said he isn't but I still wanna spark things up a lil.. Any suggestions... him and I have been together over a year. And have a pretty good relationship and are very happy it just seems like as of lately he doesn't really ... (103 words)

My foreskin doesn't retract when I have an erection

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a 5.5 inch penis and when i get an erection, my foreskin doesnt retract. i think my penis is too small for my foreskin as i can pull my foreskin over the head but it just slips back. is this normal? ... (45 words)

I can't decide on my own whether to sexually satisfy him or not

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months. We recently started having sex. He wants oral (b***j**) without a condom. Also, for me to swallow c**. I know u cant get pregnant but the thought is still in the back of my head. I want to make him happy. He means so much to ... (65 words)

Feeling awkward with my virgin b/f

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, but I'm a lot more sexually experienced around him, he's a virgin and I'm his first girlfriend, I lost my virginity at 14 and have had several partners. I feel quite awkward around him, any tips??... (40 words)

Can you get pregnant during your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i had sex while i was on my period, i was under the understanding that you couldn't get pregnant while on your period. i'm also on birth controll but the pills you take while on your period are just reminder pills not actually birth controll. so my question is ... (61 words)

I never loved him when we married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34, i will be married 5 years in a few months. Truth is though i never loved him when we married, i did it so that i would not be alone anymore. He does not know how i truely feel about him, i smile at the right times, laugh on cue, agree to pretty much everything. I do ... (258 words)

I think my boyfriend was sexually abused as a child.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my boyfriend was sexually abused as a child. He shows so many signs of someone who was sexually abused. For example he has problems with drug and alcohol abuse, has sexual promiscuity, is depressed a lot, has tried to commit suicide before, and is afraid of getting ... (147 words)

My love wanted to experiment with a threesome, so I ended it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Firstly i'd like to thank u all for helping me find solutions to my troubled questions . Here i am again in need of ur advice, i broke up with my boyfriend today and i feel horrible i don't no if what i done was the right thing to do.He stood by me when my brother inlaw tried ... (210 words)

I hate blow jobs but i'd love to know how to give a good one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I hate blow jobs but i'd love 2know how to give a good one.... (14 words)

How do you get over somebody cheating on you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get over somebody cheating on you? My husband didn't really cheat on me, he just wrote to a woman and told her she was attractive and enjoyed the nude pictures she sent him. No matter how hard I try I just can't seem to get over it. Knowing that he found another ... (161 words)

I know I should stay cool and back off, but I also feel like I should call her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a girl on a once a week basis, partially because we both live busy lives and I'm always traveling. In the past she has been by my standards permiscuous, for example sleeping with someone who has a girlfriend. By no means is she a good girl but she insists that ... (299 words)

I don't know why he wouldn't talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend hasn't ever been the same since he hasn't contacted me. The only time he contacts me is when I tell him that someone he knows talked to me. Then he asks who it is that I contacted that he knows. After like 4 or less texts he stops completely. I don't know why he ... (239 words)

I think it's time we parted or take our marriage to a new level

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - together since 14 and now 37 our relationship has been through A Lott. But we have got to a bad situation of tiredness, children,Debt,work and stress(like everyone). I have always been sexually adventuress and pushy.Obviously my wife and i are not on the same wavelength ... (317 words)

I want my ex back, but she wants nothing to do with me after I said and did some really awful things.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I said things to her that really hurt her feeling and broke her heart. Now she does not want to talk to me, does not want to reply to my emails, has even removed me as a friend from her facebook, and said please do not contact her. I feel really bad for what i did and what i ... (163 words)

I should leave him be, but I still want him which will cause more anguish for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ill try to make this short. Well i used to have this bf, and we had went out twice he broke up with me the first time and i broke up with him the second time.So basically we have history.Even though we werent together we liked eachother a lot.One night got into some sexual s... (230 words)

Is thought we were moving toward a relationship, but now I'm not sure ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Good Evening. My problem is with a work collegue. We've worked together for nearly two years (known each other even longer) and just recently we've become 'closer' I can;t explain how but there's something between us. We get on famously both in and out of work. Collegues ... (173 words)

How do you know if he is single or taken?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how can you know if a guy is single or taken without asking them?is there a way to find out their relationship status?if you have any idea,please answer.... (28 words)

I'm insecure and feel less loved

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - (Mod note: two questions merged together) ONE: im really insecure with the fact that my boyfriend has a lot of girl friends. he has one in particular, who is undeniably gorgeous, talented and popular. in comparison to her i cant help but feel like a discarded lump of coal.it'... (390 words)

Why does intercourse still hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why does intercourse still hurt if iv had sex at least 15 times?... (13 words)

He stood me up a few times, yet I still think I should stick around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you think when you've been seeing a guy for over a year (dating) and he all of a sudden, stands you up (more than once) and says he'll call you back and doesn't? im not a spring chicken im almost 30. it seems as though this guy doesn't want to be bothered with me... (64 words)

I am falling for my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am falling for my best friend, who has come to me for help. Me and this boy, lets call him jon, have been best friend since the start of yr 7 and i am going into yr 11 in september, we've always been able to talk to each other about our problems, i could trust him with me ... (194 words)

Could a minor argument really spell the end of the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I've been dating a girl for over a year now. Everything has been going very well up until yesterday. We've had some small issues of course, but have generally worked things out well. Yesterday, however, we had an argument, and she started repeating hersel... (213 words)

Now that we live together there's no "alone time"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an amazing boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and have been living together for a year. However, ever since we moved it, i realised that my boyfriend slowly slowly seems to lose the need to spend alone time with me or go on a "date". We are always with some... (150 words)

He loves me, but he doesn't want to go through a trouble relationship again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago i got really mad and broke up with my boyfriend. I didnt really mean it but i really hurt him. Since then we had been dating on and off again. He kept saying it didnt feel right anymore because i said i wanted to break up awhile ago. I know he is still hurt ... (120 words)

My boyfriend flirts with other women, comes home to me but I am paranoid

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok heres is my issue. My boyfriend is a very well liked person. He is always flirting with other girls and things like that. I know this is wrong but I have a password of his and I do use it to check up on him. But he is writing girls telling them that he is thinking about them ... (156 words)

Could my personality be a barrier in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 years old and still trying to grow-up as far as financial and emotional independence goes. Recently, I met a man who is 19 years older than me, never been married, but had several serious relationships in the past. He showed special interest in me and just recently ... (224 words)

Friction rash from anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had anal sex for the first time last week--we didn't use enough lube, and although it actually didn't hurt at the time, 2 days later I started feeling like I had a rash right around the anal area, presumably from the rough friction. It's been almost a week now and it still... (108 words)

Would you date someone who was the wrong star sign?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this?... (45 words)

I have signs of pregnancy but never have had sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a bit concerned because I have some of the symptoms of being pregnant but I know I'm not because I've never had sex. I usually have alot of stress and anxiety though, any help or suggestions? ... (37 words)

I have fallen for my straight friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello im a gay male thats have fallen for a straight guy that i work with.im truly is like confussed bout our freind ship i really thank hes want to try me out lol ill get to the reason why i say that is he always playing around with me like hitting me on my butt n brushing ... (141 words)

I want to feel independent again, but he's begging me to stay together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my BF and I have been together for 2 years and just a few months back we are having lots of conflicts and resentment. Most of the resentment I have, I assumed is caused by my dependence on him. I havent been dependent on him from the start, it just went BOOM. Suddenly I... (255 words)

How do you deal with a person who treated you like you were just a fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can someone treat someone like they are not even a person? I work in a downtown core and have been talking with a man that purchased a coffee sop in the area of my work. We hit it off great and have been talking for a year and a half. We went out a few months ago and t... (405 words)

I should tell her how I feel now, but for some reason, I believe it's not the right time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, well first off I'd like to tell my story. Me and this girl have met up about three years ago in a game and ever since we've been talking to each other. I just dated her cousin beforehand though (online) but after we broke up I started to like her. At first I didn't r... (219 words)

I am super paranoid about my boyfriend spending one night at his friend's place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I have something to worry about or are my friends just trying to get things into my head? Ok, so my boyfriend is hanging out with his buddies this weekend..it's one of the guys B-day. :) Anyways, he said that he might drive out Friday after work depending on the time he g... (141 words)

Beaten and abused and I need a way out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me..ok i am 16 years old and my mom is very physically abusive and verbally abusive towards me.i have been in state custody once because i reported her.i was in state custody for 7 mths and i loved it my foster parents were great.well somehow i got put back with my ... (350 words)

We need time apart to test our connection, yet I think we should be together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My boyfriend of 11months has just told me that we should go on a break. We have been arguing quite alot lately and it was really getting him down. He has told me that he needs a break to work out if he really wants to be in a relationship right now as it brings so much p... (550 words)

How do I find a decent guy who doesn't just want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My exboyfriend and I broke up like 3 years ago. But I havent have any other serious relation ever since. I just feel that I dont trust guys. Every guy that I meet they just want to be friends with benefits. How can I find a good decent guy who is not afraid to be in a ... (63 words)

My teenage boyfriend is horny and sweet talks to let him finger me, even when I am not ready

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 13 almost 14 and I have been dating this guy for 6months and I absolutly love him. Please don't judge me cuz of my age. Well, he has been wanting to finger me but I'm scared and that's normal. But, I asked him if he would be mad if I wouldn't let him and he said yea ... (155 words)

If he's interested, why does he keep looking at his watch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When a man is interested in you would he keep looking at his watch? Would he say that he dates "alot"( which is not a problem) I am not looking for anything serious and neither is he. He says he likes me and we have great chemistry, but he is consitantly giving me mixed ... (201 words)

How do you tell a guy you're still waiting for an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I slept with a new man the other night--in our texts he kept telling me about all the things he would do, oral, etc. But in reality we had intercourse twice, and I sucked him off for a while. But not once did he try to go down on me or please me or even ask whether I had an... (211 words)

I want to study abroad, but it costs a lot

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello ppl i`m a21 years old egyptian guy studying engineering here in egypt .. my whole life dream was and still is to study abroad in uk us or canada .. i dont like the egyptian educating system i prephare american system better as i was studying in american high school here ... (165 words)

I obviously have fallen for one of my friends, but I'm confused for some reason

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A few months ago, my friend introduced me to some of her other mates. They are all girls, except one. He is really small and sweet. I know a boy would hate to be called that, but its true. I took a liking to him cause of his energy. He's always so happy and full of energy like ... (314 words)

I went to far with my adoptive sister while drunk and now she hates me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - i cant believe im doing this, but here goes. Well, when i was 5, my dad was an alcoholic. He killed himself after he killed my mom. A year after the funeral i was adopted. I guess my childhood memories made me who i am right now. Im an alcoholic, im depressed and angry. I dont ... (322 words)

I think I should have waited longer to get married

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am so confused...i've been married just under a year, after dating for only 6 months. i'm beginning to think that we should have waited longer. my husband is really nice and a great friend, but i'm not sure that i am in love with him. his mother is very domineering and ... (166 words)

I'm pregnant, and I need his love and support...but he's not giving it to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm pregnant for 23 weeks and married for about 6 months now. Before marrying we knew each other for 6 years I knew he was already married but yet i decided to marry him because of his love and since childhood i was away with this affection. my hubby doesn't spend ti... (177 words)

He told someone to tell me he never wants to see me again. Does he mean it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My scorpio man 13 years my senior has just ended our two year relationship very publically and abruptly with abosolutely no warning. I am not really sure why. He says I spoke badly about him. I did pass 1 comment in jest. He told someone to tell me he never wants to see me ... (94 words)

I don't know if what I'm feeling is love. How am I supposed to feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please no negative comments. I'm simply asking for thoughts. I need to start off with my dating history so you guys can fully understand. My 1st serious relationship was in high school. I was 14 and he was 17. So freshman and senior. Before that i had a boyfrien... (584 words)

I can only have sex a couple of times a day - is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and it's been good but we can only have sex once or twice a day as i get sore is this normal? Sometimes if we don't have sex for a week or so and we try and have it i will be sore so we have to keep trying and then it goes awa... (74 words)

If you'd had a baby through a brief affair would you tell anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you'd had a baby through a brief affair would you tell anyone? either confide in a friend or tell the biological father? would you be guilty and tell all eventually or keep this a secret forever? ... (51 words)

Please help me put my mind to rest, do you think he meant what he said to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey:) i'd just like an opinion on this please of what you think is going on. I've liked this lad for nearly 2 years and everyone thought he liked me. It was obvious he did but nothing was ever done, i was very shy and also this girl who also liked him started bullying me and ... (1165 words)

What else can she do to get a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my friend is in her thirties and still stays at home, i think between us we have exhausted her options of finding a man shes quite fussy when it comes to what she wants from him job house money etc..and this is a reson i think shes still single, shes tried online dating ... (75 words)

Men: When is a women being cold?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - guys when is a women being cold? when she doesnt get in touch for a few days, in another hand is texting or emailing every day just too much? what would you guys like from us as a thirty something woman ive still never figured out how to play it... (53 words)

Dating a year and now things have sort of dried up between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been dating this girl for about a year and everything was going great but lately weve both noticed that things are changing, we dont laugh as much and we are both very playful but things are very dry with us lately,and i recetn;y learned that she is still very ... (146 words)

Let the guys do the chasing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Okay I've been talking to my ex for the past three weeks now. He's the one who contacted me first. Ever since that day he contacted me we've been talking or texting everyday. Today I woke up and decided to give him a call to say good morning. I think he really liked it, but I ... (95 words)

Even when invited I feel left out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel totally alone. My friends all go out and socailize, but never invite me. When they talk to me, they blame me, and say I should asume to be invited to everything, and I understand that. But I nver feel welcome or wanted, and when I do go out, they ignore me, leaving me a... (143 words)

I'm 17 years old---am I too young to get married?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am just 17 going on to 18 in a few weeks my boyfriend wants to get married to me, i don't know what to do we have been together for 2and a half year he has been a wonderful man to me in every way but i just need some advice. thank you for helping me.... (67 words)

Big trust issues here! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i will try to keep it short thanks to anyone that replies. i was seeing a girl for a few months and she was texting this guy all the time and going out on saturday nights etc with this guy as a part of a group. anyway he told her he liked her and i asked that she just try to ... (332 words)

Addiction vs bad habit...what's the difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - will someone please explain the diffrence between an addiction and a bad habit thanks.... (14 words)

How can I stop my bf from texting her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i recently found texts on my boyfriends phone from him to another girl (who doesn't have the urge to look :P) she goes to the same college as me, he was texting her like he does to me putting 'babe' and lots of kisses i could tell he was getting really protective over his ... (216 words)

Did she want to talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I go 3 times a week with my mum to the hospital so she can have her dialysis. There's this girl in the dialysis unit she runs a exercise program she keeps looking at me and when i look back she turns away (i asked on here before about her doing this) and people said its because ... (227 words)

Is it possible that I'm pregnant from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I did oral sex yesterday. We didn't *** or orgasm at all but before he fingered me He rubbed his penis (I doubt he had pre-*** because before that gave a hand job and it wasn't wet or anything) then I gave him a ******** but stopped(no cumming). I think ... (120 words)

What should I do about my girlfriend? She won't tell me what's wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My GF had on and off mood swings which I can not figure out, sometime when I'm with her shes really hyper and happy and that but when I'm at work and she is at home I call her on the phone and she just goes quiet and doesn't really talk. I say to her what's up and she tells... (218 words)

A man's taken interest in me but I still love the father of my child. Should I go for it or not?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have recently split with my fella who is also my childs father.he has clearly showed me his interest are else where and he has no interest in me,im having some work done in my home and been bombarded with 4 elecrticians 1 of whom has taken a bit of an interest in me he`s ... (121 words)

Was it wrong of me to lose my virginity to my ex?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well first off i'm a 16 year old girl in serious need of advice! I would normally go to my mom or dad for advice but this time i cant. i feel like if i tell them ill disappoint them and thats exactly what i dont want. cuz like ever other normal parent out there my parents... (314 words)

I think he's having sex with his daughter!

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am with a man in his late 40's he has a daughter living with him who is 18 i have known this man for 15yrs now and am madly in love with him. I really feel that he is having sex with his daughter and cannot get it out of my head. I have confronted him but he said that is ... (167 words)

He's talking to a girl I'm uncomfortable with

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is talking to a girl through text I'm uncomfortable with. I can not force him to stop talking to her. So I simply have to deal with it. The thing is, I think I can deal with it by knowing if they are talking every day or not. I plan on going on about that by asking ... (69 words)

What is this white cloudy stuff?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy when im in the bath i get like a white misty cloud come from my vagina when i like push. Is this normally? what is it? ... (31 words)

Daydreams that are more like nightmares

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have these occasional "day dreams" where my mind travels into an imgainary scene or something, although I wouldn't exactly call them dreams. More like nightmares. These visions make me feel extremely sad, automatically tears form. What is this? I want these pictures to stop! ... (45 words)

Am I just a way to get over his girlfriend?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have feeling for one of my best male friends. we a re very flirty and there is a strong chemistry. he has a gf but we have kissed quite a few times recently, without anyone knowing. i want to know if he has feelings for me or i am just a way to get over his girlfriend? he has... (93 words)

Do you just know when you love someone?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - how do you know when you love someone? i broke off with this girl a month ago cuz i was nt sure about my feelings for her and asked for some time...i am struggling to know whether i love her ot not ...she was one of a kind who loved me from all her heart! i have touched the ... (348 words)

22 male and still a virgin

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey so I'm a 22 year old male virgin in college and until recently I never felt like this was a real issue for me (I'm not religious). I've found that a lot of old friends have been getting married or are in serious relationships while I have hardly any experience. Lately I've ... (312 words)

I think my fiance is messing around with my mom

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15 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - dear agony aunt please can u give me some much needed advice. where do i start. i have had my suspicions for a long time now tht my fiance whom im due to marry this year has bn having it off with my mother. i havnt actually caught thm in the act but they are very secretive with ... (202 words)

I want to let go but I work with him and see him every day

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need some advice how do you get over sum1 that you totally ar in love with and you see him everyday in work and you cant help looking at him and hes looking at you but he has a girlfriend and you have been with him before and the sex was great but he seems to want you as much ... (159 words)

When does it become just sex?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Just want to know what you people out there think of Love, do you think you can make love with someone yet not be in love with them,if not does it only then become just sex?? And if you have broken up with someone countless times and they say they don't love you but eve... (109 words)

Should I take it now? How long does it take for the pill to work properly?

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15 July 2009 (F)

- How long does it take for the pill to start working properly? Im in a relationship with my bf, but we are waiting to have sex until I feel ready and until we have been together longer. Although Im not ready yet, I want to be prepared for when the time comes. So should i star... (64 words)

He neglected to tell me things, what should I do?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This could end up as a long explanation but i want to try and include all the background details to make it clear.. I am currently in a long distance relationship that has hit a rock, and i am unsure how to continue, if atall. What complicates it more is the relationship dir... (325 words)

My ex keeps popping up in my mind

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15 July 2009 (F)

- Hey guys, Well i have a bit of a problem on my hands and desperately need a bit of help!! Sorry if this post is a bit long, so bare with me!! I am 21yrs old, I am bi-sexual, and I have a girlfriend who is 24yrs old, who i have been with for nearly a year and a half now. She ... (392 words)

He left me for someone else during my difficult time

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I know this man for almost 10 months, we knew each other from the internet. He was a nice guy,I liked him so much, and I felt that I didn't feel lonely in this strange country (all of my family live far). After 3 months dating, he said that he couldn't be in a ser... (458 words)

How do you know if you've done the right thing by telling him to leave?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age - hi i have seperated from my husband of 18 years 10 months ago. I have a 10 and 14yr old girl. My question is "how do you know if you have done the right thing by telling him to leave?" He is a very selfish man, when we first married I was the one making more money, with the ... (291 words)

Does spanish fly drops work?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - can anyone tell me if spanish fly drops realy work on women? Should you recomend it?... (16 words)

After 8 months I still haven't gotten the courage the ask her out

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am wondering if you can help. See there's this girl in work who i've admired from a distance but have not had the courage to go over and talk to her, this has been going on for about 8 months. You see I never have any dealings with her so I need an excuse to talk to her, ... (113 words)

I'm not sure if its the right time to ask her out yet

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I've recently been talking to this girl and I'm really attracted to her but she just got her heart broken and its been about a week but I'm not sure now is the right time to ask her out because I want to give her time to get back on her feet and everything. We talk a lot on ... (161 words)

He says he doesn't like sex and can't be bothered with it!

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He is the most wonderful boyfriend and most amazing person I've ever been with. When I'm with him I feel happy and content. I adore this guy and I hope to be with him for a long time. The problem is I am not happy with our sex ... (481 words)

Is it stress, or am I just pregnant?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a sexually active 18 year old. I do not use a Birth Control Pill but I do use condoms consistently and carefully. I always make sure to check the condom and put it on/take it off properly. I get really paranoid, so after sex I check the condom by filling it with water ... (413 words)

I'm a girl having dreams about having a penis

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a sixteen year old girl and I'm bisexual. I find myself sexually attracted to both girls and guys, and I have for a long time. I've been having strange dreams for a few years, in which I have a penis. I never even thought about something as crazy or "out there" as that ... (107 words)

Do I love her? Or am I just used to being with her?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i wont hide anything..long story short, i broke off with this girl cuz this relationship was goin too deep and she was too eager about our children and marriage stuff..im 22 while she was 17....she loved me so much that i feel i have touched the skies of being loved!! i feel so ... (341 words)

Does this sound like someone who has been sexually abused?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been dating this guy for a few months and I think he might have been sexually abused as a child. He just told me that he is not capable of loving someone in a romantic way, and only loves me as a friend. He also told me once that he will only be on top when he has ... (248 words)

How can I avoid being lonely?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am wanting to find a women to have a relationship with after being divorced 5 years ago. I have been alone since then and don't even know where to start. I am in my fourties and have only dated one women my ex-wife ever in my entire life. I am tired of being alone all the ... (180 words)

Me and my friend's gf are falling for each other - what should I do?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well i think ive fallen for my good friend's girl. i didnt mean to it just kinda happend. i met her when her, my friend, and a couple others wnt to dinner. he never told me she was his girlfriend rather just some girl he messed with. well we all went to her house to chill ... (346 words)

I need closure, should I write him a letter?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote a post on here yesterday about my boyfriend cheating on me. I'm still extremely hurt by this as it is all new and fresh. He won't take my phone calls because he is so incredibly angry that I ended things with him. I guess he expected a pat on the back and a... (273 words)

Effectiveness of withdrawal method plus spermicide?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any statistics available on the effectiveness of withdrawal used in conjunction with a spermicide? I'm not on the pill any more and started having sex with my ex again. He never would wear a condom, so we've been using a spermicidal gel along with him pulling out and ... (85 words)

We've been married 29 years and never fight, Is that common?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age - me and my husand (mod note: named removed! please do not include full names in your posts) have been married for 23 years and been together for 29 years and i want to know if its common if we never fight i mean we talk about problems but really we never fight... (52 words)

I have feelings for my moms cousins daughter.

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well i know this might sound strange or weird but i have feelings for my moms cousins daughter.I dont know if shes considered my 2nd cousin or not.and well Ive never seen her or talked to her for a very long time.i think i was 9 or 10 when i saw her but was not interested in ... (111 words)

I called my girlfriend a whore and slut and she wont forgive me.

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this girl for about 6 months now. Basically to make a long story short, my girlfriend never SLEPT with nobody but she did talk to a BUNCH of guys on myspace while we were going out for about 3 weeks because she was mad at me for a bunch of shit, plus people ... (358 words)

He's stopped hitting me, but is this still abuse?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 years. When we first got together I got pregnant right away. He slapped me when I was 8 weeks pregnant. I miscarried at 14 weeks. I tried to get away from him but moved back in with him after I miscarried. At ... (239 words)

She's dumped me 14 times, is she serious this time?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My X girlfriend broke up with me in August 2005. We had been seeing each for 4 years and living with each other for 2 of those years. During 2006 we got back together a number of times. It was her doing the hiring and firing as i desperately wanted to get back with and she ... (305 words)

My wife of 11 years is looking for her own apartment

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 11 years told me today that she was looking for an apartment. she says that she need some space and some time to know if she can be happy on her own. we have 4 kids which makes the even harder. she says that she doesn't want to get a divorce, however this doesn't ... (94 words)

Getting mixed messages from my boyfriend

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and he's cheated on me (accidentally) with a girl that apparently was all over him and he couldn't stop her. This is fine but lately he's been acting strange and saying things like "I'm scared i'm using you" etc. He's also put a note ... (95 words)

He's made no plans to see me, he leaves in 3 days

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It's years since I've been in the early stages of dating, so I'm not sure if I'm right or wrong to feel annoyed right now. I've been dating this guy for 2 -3 months now, not too seriously (as in we haven't slept together or talked about whether we're seeing other people still). ... (133 words)

He physically hurts me, but I love him

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if been with my boyfriend off and on sence 7th grade I'm now n 10th we've gone through so much being together or at least I have he has the rep of a cheater and he's cheated on me more than once well if only proved it once the rest is just rumors he also has major anger issues ... (144 words)

How can you like a woman but not want to be in a relationship with her?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Men: how can you like a woman but not want to be in a relationship with her? This guy I'm seeing told a guy friend of mine that he really likes me but he's just doesn't want a relationship right now (not that I have ever pushed for one with him or anything). I don't get it?... (57 words)

The guy I'm seeing denied my facebook friend request!

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been casually seeing a guy for eight months. We had been friends on myspace (he added me), but I deleted my profile so about a month ago I tried to add him on facebook. He denied my request! He has over 100 friends so clearly he's not that choosy. I don't understand why he ... (152 words)

Could his unemployment be why he's putting us on hold?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I met this guy a few weeks ago and we hung out a couple of times and had this amazing chemistry and connection. The third time we hung out I invited him over for dinner because my roomie is also seeing his friend so we all had dinner together. I thought the night was going ... (231 words)

We haven't had sex in 12 years, WHY?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age - My husband does not want to have sex. I am not unattractive, active and in very good shape for my age. We have not had sex in 12 years. When I ask him why he says he will try but never does. If he has a problem with ED would he tell me? If he does not want to have sex I would ... (124 words)

Is this guy serious or stroking his ego?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a real connection with this particular man that I saw a couple of times over the past year and a half. He also said he felt this connection too. He moved away a while back, but he still does the same thing as he did when he lived locally. He gets into contact, tells me a ... (103 words)

Should I contact him again?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have always wanted to get back in contact with a guy that I went to college with. It has been 7 years now and I ran across his parents number and his sister. I found the courage to call him after I saw that he was on another social network site where he listed his ... (142 words)

Should I go out with him?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! so i'm 15 and i like this guy who's 17. He's a really good friend and we've flirted over texts. He's funny and sweet but i don't know if he'll ever ask me out. If he does, should i go out with him? One of my friends has told me he was kind of a player... or something like ... (80 words)

Lack of trust on both sides of our relationship

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my question is this: I had an affair with a married woman that became much more to both of us. This was 7 years ago. I am now married and my wife knows that i have tried and sometimes managed to contact this woman. Last week was the last straw. the womans husband found ou... (187 words)

I'm not sure how the guy I'm seeing feels about me

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure how the guy I've been seeing for the past two months feels about me. We talk about everyday, we have a good time together when we hang out, and he tells his friends about me. The other night (when he was really drunk) he asked me why do I like him and said he ... (85 words)

Some questions regarding sex.

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have two questions, one is when i have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't like it when i moan its weird because i thought that turned men on even more. and my second question is can you get pregnant while your on your period ... (45 words)

How can I get out of this trap of a marriage and keep custody of my children?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear All, I'm married to a British man(I'm Indian) and we have 2 children under 4yrs of age. We have lots of arguements atleast one every day. Just one for example: I have bought water/liquid absorbing doormat(light green,one of those JML magic carpet/doormat) for the front do... (1516 words)

Venting relationship troubles

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Where to start? I am with this girl and she is 8 weeks pregnant with my child.She lives almost 2 hours away and neither of us has transportation at the moment.I broke up with her the morning of the 4th because she wanted to go home.I don`t have the best living arrangements at ... (402 words)

How do I ease my insecurities during pregnancy?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this will seem like silly question to some, but I just cant take my own advice. I'm 14 weeks pregnant, and in a stable loving relationship. However I feel like I'm gaining too much weight. My doctor says that everything I'm gaining is normal, but lately I've been ... (203 words)

My virgin GF cried during foreplay, is this my fault?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend told me she going to give her virginity (I didn’t pressure her and I’m not a virgin). We waited until my birthday to do it just to make a bit more fun. She acted really nervous around me. When the day come she was really freaked. I didn’t think much of it and just ... (97 words)

Am I holding onto something that I shouldn't?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Ive been with my husband five years out of those five years we've been married two years. He just told me that recently his has been feeling their are times when he doesn't love me anymore but then their are times he comes back and says he does love and doesn't want to be ... (144 words)

I want him to notice ME, and realise the other girl might break his heart. How do I do that?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ha well right now it seems like the song is going on in my life. I like this guy from my school, but he likes someone else. He keeps telling me that he's almost positive that she doesn't like him, and it's really upsetting him. So I'm being the good friend who's trying to build ... (200 words)

Should I just be happy with friends with benefits?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am head over heels for this amazing guy who shares the same feelings towards me, next step would be to just get together right? Wrong, he wants to sort through the commitments he already has before taking on another. Now we are friends with benefits and its a very comfortable ... (105 words)

Time heals nothing. Write him a letter?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a very traumatic breakup with my first love at the age of 16. We had a very deep and meaningful (yet turbulent) relationship. I have borderline personality disorder and was going through puberty; I took his pure love and mangled it all to hell. Towards the end I ... (853 words)

Does he want my friendship or just sex?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met "boy" late 2006, I was 16 and he was 18. We went out a couple of times w/ friends and he visited me numerous times in school, but we never even kissed. So long story short we started seeing other people and then I was single, he lost his virginity to his then gf, he ... (300 words)

My girlfriend left me after a mishap during sex

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of one month left me 5 days ago cause 2 weeks ago during rough sex I must have did something to her cervix now she cant have sex with me may be more o f a problem but she wants to leave also or shes confused cause she said she cant be around me and not have sex. ... (67 words)

He wants to kiss me but I don't know what to do

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 years old theres a boy i like and he is 15 my friend always talks to him on the phone the other night me and my 3 friends went to sleep at there house miles away we said we were staying in a friends house we had lots a fun and i could tell he was flirting with me i was ... (107 words)

Should I just sit around and wait for him forever?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I've posted on here once before about my relationship with my ex-boyfriend. Quick Recap: been together 18 months, he moved cross country with me when I was offered my dream job, 2 months after getting here he decided that "something just wasn't right" and he decided to move ... (371 words)

I have a lazy bf and pay for everything HELP!

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has no job, no money and won't make an effort to even try to get a job. He'd rather smoke pot, I take us out everywhere we go.. I pay! Im tired of it.. How do I convince him to get a job?... I mean he loves me and is there for me but I am the one who pays for ... (66 words)

I feel chemistry with him, except for when we're kissing

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can one person feel chemistry and the other nothing on a date? I've been dating a great guy for a little while now and we've kissed a few times and, well, I don't really feel much from the kiss. He seems to get into it though. I feel strongly attracted to him when we dance ... (78 words)

Will he ever make his mind up? Should I wait until he does?

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15 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Okay I will try to make my story as short as possible. I went out with this guy for one year last year. We broke up in December so it's been about 6 months since the break up. He always texted me about twice a month asking me how i'm doing. Sometimes I would respond hoping it ... (599 words)

How can we be more aggressive with each other in bed?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, we're very serious and i love him dearly. We have great sex...when we have it. Its not that we dont have enough, its that i know we could have more, even better sex but, neither of us are sexually aggressive. We ... (124 words)

I'm so angry at myself after falling for a womanizers lies

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been struck by the womanizers arrow. I am so pinned up against the wall I feel my whole mind has been taken hostage. I am so angry at myself! Were both married. Obviously he led me to believe he was the victim of no sex in his marriage which causes him to look for ... (150 words)

Nervous about fooling around with my girlfriend

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a couple of weeks. and its been amazing I really like her and she really likes me too. we haven't gotten to anything physical but we would like to..id do anything with/for her. all we've done is kissing/cuddling/touching and ... (148 words)

Career change advice please, not sure if I am cut out to teach teenagers!

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm 29 an facing a dilemma which is not about dating, but thought maybe someone on here could help. I am going through a mid-life crisis (I believe). I am divorced with a 3 year old son, and have only worked part time in last few years (a demeaning and boring admin ... (303 words)

Why am I thinking of a future with him?

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15 July 2009 (F)

age - I have been with my boyfriend for many years and now have a child but do not live together. He makes me feel incompetent as he has never eaten with us or my cooking. He is a vegetarian and we eat meat. I have no idea of the types of food he likes and feel totally useless as ... (203 words)

Where do nice girls hang out?

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15 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 18 years old. I work in a supermarket, I also live in a villiage with not many people in it. I have a few friends but I've never been one of the most popular people in the world. I am single. Apparently a girlfriend comes along when shes ready. I'm rarely in places where ... (115 words)

He's 4 years older and we don't see each other much

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well..im 15 and my boyfriend is 19,we been going out for 1month and I really like I feel something special for him and I think he feelsz the same way too...im kind of wondering if this will work out,since there's age difference and we don't see eachother often... I think is... (67 words)

I'm pregnant and so excited but worried too

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15 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seven weeks pregnant after ttc for two months! I'm so excited and i feel so lucky! I've been suffering from nausea and my breasts are killing! Just one thing on my mind thats worrying me and thats miscarriage. I dont drink, and ive quit smoking since i found out i was ... (125 words)