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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Anal sex tips and help plz!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have just had anal sex for the first time me and my boyfriend used lubricant it did hurt, however i let him continiue for about 10 -20 minutes untill he had ejaculated. i have had an embarasseing time when i went to the toilet after l but now i feel ok im just worri... (131 words)

Do I seem like the rebound girl for these guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering if anyone is in my situation, do any of you always choose to fancy the wrong guys? For example, every now and again my exboyfriend starts talking to me again, flirting etc i start to think it could work again when it's not a good idea as he's the kind of guy ... (192 words)

When a guy says, while holding a girl's hand that he caught a big fish, what does he mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just curious.. What does it mean when you're planning a fishing trip and the gal says, 'Let's get up early enough to go out and catch some big fish.' Then the guy looks over, holds her hand and says, 'I already did catch a big fish.' Oh, and this is a boyfriend and girl... (79 words)

I don't like porn! Is that so wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I don't like porn. Is that so wrong? I've read many questions about porn, and the responses are always something like "Get over it, it's just a video, porn is great, watch it with him, grow up, all men do it...". But I don't like it. I've watched it with him, I've watched it ... (444 words)

Have any texts suggestions to encourage him to ask me out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to text some cute text messages to the guy I am interested in. Do you have a suggestion what I can text? Is there something that makes a guy smile and hopefully ask me out?... (37 words)

Two weeks late...I have to ask the question..Does these symptoms sound like pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that none of you are doctors or a pregnancy test and i do know that really need to go get tested to find out for certain but hear me out. Ive been ttc for the past two months. Last month my period was three weeks late, during the three weeks that it didnt happen i told ... (228 words)

Why did she have to make a comment like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i know this is trivial compared to people with real problems but its upsetting none the less. my boyfriend was at work the other day and said that a girl there mentioned to him that my ex had got married (he used to work there too) she then made a funny comment about my bo... (140 words)

Should I quit my job to prevent an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Im 27 and have the hugest crush on 1 of my reps. He's married and im engaged.We often go out out as a group and get on so well. People at work notice we have a "spark". I went on holiday 2 months ago to St Lucia for 2 weeks and the whole time i couldnt wait to get back to w... (132 words)

My girlfriend wants nothing to do with sex, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My Girfreind [ been freind for 4 years been going out for 3months] doesnt want to see my C*ck.......she says they are ugly....... she doesnt want anything like Oral sex fingering because it is slutty..she is completely turned off by a C*ck and ejaculation disgusts her.....she ... (72 words)

What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help... (28 words)

My friend is making passes towards my girfriend, should I confront him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a question.Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years.I love her a lot and we have been through a lot.Now heres the thing me and my friend go to the same gym and so does my girlfriend after the last few weeks he has gotten very comfortable with my ... (125 words)

My stepfather to be wants me to call him dad, he is abusive and I don't like him, what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I need a little help as some of you know my dad past away not to long ago. And my Mom seems to be over it already cause she's getting married and I just got out of the hospital a little while ago cause of my accident with a dirtbike. So I just found out not to long ... (271 words)

I see this guy all the time, but he is not interested, how can I get over him completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I NEED your help. The boy I have fancied for 2 years, told me a couple of days ago, that me and him would never work. Not even in secret. And it just made me feel like i am a no one. I need your help because, he is in the year above me, but we talk all the time, we see each ... (125 words)

How can I improve comunications with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am such a mess. I going out with a guy for 7+ years and living together sharing with another guy for last year and a half. My problem is he doesnt talk to me about stuff. Recently I found he had run up a huge phone bill. I came across it and he acted like a kid caught robbing ... (293 words)

How can I stand for myself more, I let myself be taken advantage of?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder why I am the way I am. Sometimes I stand up for myself, and other times I don't. Sometimes this is because I care too much about what other people think. Like today, I took a CPR course, and then later on came first aid. I was the only one taking the course today in ... (148 words)

She slept in the same bed as a guy who has a crush on her, said nothing happened, should I beleive her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend went to her friends (friend #1 who is a girl) to hang out with friend #1 and friend #2(who is a guy, and has a crush on my girlfriend) She later texted me saying she was staying the night at friend #2's house. I later found out friend #1 was not with her a... (102 words)

He won't talk to me anymore, should I just leave him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well i still love him,but now he will not talk 2 me.I've known him for 4 years,and we hang out off and on. It breaks my heart that he will not even talk 2 me anymore. When he stop tslking 2 me i know i went way 2 far on sending text messages. That made things ten times worst. I ... (99 words)

What should I do not to appear to be so available?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Guy are always to assured of me from the start? Now I want to start playing hard to get with this new guy I met? So I don't always want to be available? Any good ideas or success stories would be SO appreciated...... (43 words)

Are blow jobs now an expected part of making out?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age - I read recently that kids as young as 11 and 12 no longer "make out" by just kissing, hugging and caressing, but that many boys also expect their girlfriends to give them blow jobs. In other words, oral sex among the young is getting to be pretty usual. Is this true? What has ... (60 words)

How do I give myself a Beauty Makeover?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i dunno if dis is a valid question but could i get tips on how to get good skin-lik totally pimple free n glowin?? n also my hair is neither curly nor straight-its wavy n quite frizzy! how do i make it look sleek n shiny without makin it look oily??... (53 words)

What's worse ? being a slut or being 40 years old virgin ?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What is better either having sex with many people or keep virginity until you're way too old ? What do you think ?... (24 words)

Best friend's boyfriend is coming on to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i think my best friends boyfriend keeps coming on to me! He will say things like, i wish she was more like you, i think your gorgeous, can i pop round and see you etc! They have been together for 3 years and they have a little boy together, i know they both have trust issues ... (100 words)

Married for 6 weeks and think I made a big mistake!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me, I have been married for 6 weeks now and feel that I have made a huge mistake. Its not that I no longer love my husband, as I do more than anything, but the soul destroying problem is that he refuses to have sex with me. We have not consummated our marriage and ... (365 words)

Does he have real feelings & is scared? Or just likes the fwb thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a friends with benifits relationship for 3 years now. we have been friend for 25 years. we spend all our free time together. every night and on weekends. he says he doesnt ever want to be in love again after a bad divorce. he knows when my son is grown in 3 more ... (123 words)

Condom discomfort

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been married about 3 years and my wife and I were each other's first and we have always had natural, naked genital sex. Now she has a medical problem (nothing real serious) and has to go off birth control pills and stay away from other things with hormones. So we started ... (310 words)

He has no time for me! Is it too much to ask?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. He was pretty desperate to stay friends with me and its what I wanted too. The breakup was his fault so I really felt like if he wanted to stay friends he had to put the effort in and he agreed. Since then his job has got ... (231 words)

Broke up to meet others but now I'm not happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years b/c i thought i wanted to be with somebody else but I don't know what to do. The new guys is exciting and different but wit my ex we have so many great memories and he treated me so well, it just got kinda dull and thats b/c i meant ... (65 words)

At this point she doesn't even know I exist!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm a guy, 24 years old and recently I started a new job. The place is great and most of the people are really nice. THe HUGE problem is that I'm a total looser. I'm one of those introverted melancholy type of people. Not to mention I've got a major lack of assertiven... (267 words)

I liked her so much I couldn't perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a major problem. I have wanted this girl for a long time...recently she pretty much gave me the green light and i got so nervous that i couldnt even be turned on.....my heart was beating like a million miles an hour an i couldnt get an erection to save my life. Im only ... (137 words)

Can a person totally change their personality?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can people change personalities over 10 years; like be different in personality and not the same person? can people ?... (23 words)

Guy but like my straight best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Heya~ I know there has been similar questions posted, but any advice will really be appreciated. Basically I'm gay and only out to a handful of friends. Amongst one of them is my best friend who I've been through uni together with over 6 years. I know he's straight and ... (331 words)

I want to help my girlfriend be comfortable expressing her emotions. Any ideas how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm trying to get back with my ex-gf and she recently told me she considers herself an "emotional cripple" and that some of the more serious conversations we've had in the past made her very uncomfortable. I thought we were just sharing on a personal level we had ... (174 words)

I am in love with my ex and I am tempted..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 5 years and have 1 son who is 14 months old. I have just met up with an ex who my husband has met too but the problem is I am in love with my ex and I am tempted to have an affair my ex has been around to my house afew times while my husband is at work ... (69 words)

Why does it hurt when he fingers me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - It never really feels good when my boyfriend fingers me, it feels great when he rubs/plays with my clit but no feelings but pain with the fingering, (pain cuz i'm really tight). Is something wrong with me?... (37 words)

I vented my frustration with him to my friends, and he read what I wrote! I'm afraid I won't be able to fix this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently my boyfriend and I have been discussing the question about whether to stay together when I leave for college. I found him distant and avoiding when the question came up; he was also answering my texts every 5-10 hours and completely disappearing whenever he went on ... (229 words)

What if teachers had crushes on their students?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers (female/male) out there or anyone.... Anyway... I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students declaring their love for teachers. What about if it was the other way round? Teachers having crushes ... (162 words)

Confused! I want to end it before he hurts me more than the first time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was with him before, he broke up with me. now, after 7 months we're back together. even though that's what i wanted, i have not been happy. i feel as if i'm the one trying to keep the relationship alive. i've displayed some angry attitudes toward him because i don't feel ... (165 words)

Am I just a disposable girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night marked the most uncomfortable, heartbreaking conversation with my boyfriend. I just graduated from college and have been feeling awful because I cannot find a job to save my life. Naturally, this sadness and frustration made me want a little more comfort, and I ... (846 words)

He kissed me and only got a semi-erect penis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So last night my male friend gave me a smooch on the lips goodbye. Although we are just friends he always plants one on my lips. So i asked him last night why he kisses me on my lips instead of my cheek and he said I ask for it. Ok...yes I secretly love it but I why would he ... (113 words)

A question about trust and lawnmowers...

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Once again this might not be the most appropriate site to ask this, but here goes! A family friend, whom I'll call Joe, does some work for my elderly mother, for pay. Joe is about 45 and while not the smartest fellow has always seemed honest. Two weeks ago I noticed someth... (166 words)

Could it be pregnancy this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have white speckles on the tips of my nipples and theyre realy sore, my whole breasts are very tender and full. Could this be pregnancy? Im also suffering alot of nausea and skipped my period. But last month my period was three weeks late too, they seem to be getting ... (65 words)

Why do men want to get me into bed, then forget about me??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am hoping to get some input on my dating situation. I am 33 mother of 2 boys that live with me, 10 and 12. I have been single for a few years now. I started dating about 6 months ago. I have met two guys that I really liked. Seems like they both really liked me and ... (152 words)

Would a guy still have sex with a girl even if he thought she sucked in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Would a guy still have sex with a girl even though he thought she sucked in bed? Or because he thinks she sucks would he completely turn it down?... (29 words)

I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?... (32 words)

I feel unattractive, and my boyfriend's comment didn't help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently become very self conscious about my body. i'm petite with b cup boobs and i am not one who likes exercising. im not fat, though im not skinny either.my boyfriend has recently suggested me to start exercising, and though he says its because i should just stay ... (153 words)

How do you keep a guy without sleeping with him at the beginning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you keep a guy without sleeping with him in the beginning? and where do you draw the line when making contact? ... (28 words)

I constantly feel ugly and I'm scared my guy will leave me for someone prettier

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i constantly feel ugly(whether its the fact that m on the chubby side or that i tend to break out with acne due to stress or that every day seems a bad hair day to me!) and i am scared my guy wil leave me for someone prettier. We have been together for over 2 yrs now yet the ... (128 words)

Can anyone give me some blowjob techniques?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone tell me about blow-job techniques that would help my boyfriend to cum?... (14 words)

I want to get rid of my stepdad, he's making our lives a misery!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - AHH!, i need help on this one, my stepdad is becoming uncontrolable, well he and my mum got married about 3 years ago now, they dont have any kids together but he has ruined my ife so far. wen i was just 12 he strangled my brother and he got arrested but the case was dropped,... (192 words)

Can a person become brilliant despite having little or no relationship with their parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey! I'd love to hear from anyone that's experienced something similar to me! The thing is, all my life, I've never been that close to my parents, particularly my Dad, and I think that's the main reason I have low self esteem. I've never really had a father figure to teach me ... (315 words)

What happens when a girl hasn't had sex in awhile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Just wanna know, what happens to a girl's vagina if she hasn't been having sex for a while? About seven months...... (22 words)

I have a thing for my cousin's daughter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a thing for my cousin's daughter. We are both single and we are far from children. She is very bright and interesting, and there is a physical appeal. We spoke recently at a party and she actually told my mother in a telephone conversation how much she enjoyed ... (79 words)

We want to be porn stars!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend and I want to be porn stars how do we tell our parents we want to do this for a living and how we get into porn we are only 18 ... (34 words)

Should I run away to my father's?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My parents have been divorced for several years. I used to live one week at my daddy's and one week at my mom's. Then I had some problems with my dad when teenage came. So I stopped the one-week-thing to live with my mom. I don't see my dad very often,something ... (286 words)

It feels like my life is over now that MJ is gone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,My name is Kate, And well,Ever since Michael Jackson Died..ive been really down! I was such a huge fan, and grew up listening to his music!.. He was such an inspiration to me!.. And i thought he was gorgeoues back the 70s and early 80s!:) Im really thankful thoug... (207 words)

Stupidly didn't use protection and now am afraid

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend on the 26th of june and id just finished my period on the 25th of june stupidly we didnt use protection but he said he didnt come in me and that he withdrew , however i feel really worried and im scared that i could be pregnant i cant wait another ... (76 words)

Broke up, didn't want to be contacted but now he's sending messages again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am still broken up with my boyfriend since 3 months ago. It was a very bad break-up, he was very angry with me. I texted him later to say sorry but he said that I should leave him alone. He said that if we keep texting each other, then it will be difficult for us to recover. ... (244 words)

Sex has become a much higher priority to him than me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we've been living together for almost 2 years. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and that he loves me with all his heart. The problem is, our sex life has steadily gone downhill over the past year and a half. I ... (407 words)

How can I make him want to see me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a new friendship and I realy like the guy. I was engage a year back but broke it of after 8years because it couldn't come to a point. This new guy was also engage till about 6months back. He havn't had a relationship since yet because he don't feel ready off course- and ... (187 words)

He wants me to settle down but he's my first so I'm afraid!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, little problem. I just turned 16 two weeks ago, and I’ve been with my FIRST BOYFRIEND (ever, I mean I’ve never had a boyfriend before) for 9 months, and he’s asking me to move in with him and marry him and start a family. Obviously he means have a child when I’m a littl... (170 words)

Does he see me as more than a friends with benefits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so we all know the story - two bored friends with nothing better to do, so they have sex. No rules, just booty. I was attracted to him before we made this arrangement, but I told myself that I didn't want anything more from this guy. I lied. We spend a lot of time toge... (277 words)

6 years ago he touched me inappropriately and now he wants to be friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - when i was 7 i was sexualy touched during a game of truth or dare. The rules were was if u don't do the dare u had to take a pice of cloths of and i had gottin down to my underwear and shirt and when i did not do another dare i did not want to take any cloths off and then this ... (286 words)

I seem to fall low on the list of my boyfriend's priorities

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im unsure with my relationship because of my boyfriends priorities. ive seen him once this week even though we're on our school summer break and when i try to make plans with him he wants his downtime with his computer games and his guy friends. i understand him needing ... (111 words)

My boyfriend is going on a holiday...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi ... Well ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3months now and i love him to pieces and his everything i want, however he went on holiday with nine of his mates, he come back and then the next day on facebook was aload of pictures of him and another girl hug... (179 words)

My breasts are different sizes by about a cup, what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4364 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since I was about 16, my breasts have been different sizes. Now that I'm 19, they're still different. I'd say it's a good cup size difference, so it's obvious when I'm naked. Luckily, you can't really tell when I have a shirt on, although my cleavage isn't exactly even. ... (298 words)

My fiance is spending too much time with my ex? Is it just friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancé has been spending way too much time with my ex-boyfriend for the past few weeks. About a month ago, me and my fiancé were out at a shopping mall when I saw my ex, me and him had a friendly conversation, and I introduced my fiancé to him. Amazingly, they got on we... (265 words)

My man already has a family and isn't excited for my pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 23 years old and pregnant this is my first child. My man has a wife and two children already. I got married to him because I loved him and he loved me too. Things were fine before marriage and I thought everything will go fine. But things have changed drastica... (154 words)

Should I try harder, keep myself to myself, or just give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5644 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have known my best guy friend for over a year now, we get on great. I used to like him A LOT, I confessed my feelings for him once and he said he only liked me as a close friend. I eventually got over him and our friendship was never ruined, so that was good. Although for the ... (330 words)

Is he gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, So I was In my senior year of high school,and I met a dude. First, it started off as friends...me being gay and attracted to him I told him I was gay. He told me he didnt really care his exact words were, "Im Open Minded that stuff doesnt really bother me" so we kept ... (279 words)

Why did he apologise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone :) okay so today i had to go to drivers ed and pick up my friend "Jack" too. Jack and I have always been very close friends but about a month ago we took it a step forward....we disided to send pictures of our selfs to eachother(not naked just not exactly i... (279 words)

Is he playing me for revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does online relationship really work?? Hello everyone. First of all I really want American guys and not guys from our country because I love tall and white guys. I met this guy on an chatting site and he is a marine in Japan. I will prefer call him James. We've been chatt... (1249 words)

What would be the outcome if I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have had a unprotected sex quite a few times. I know it was stupid as I have condoms and I have birth control pills which I choose not to take. Long story short - I am a dumb fifteen year old I suppose. I've been on this site for a long time and I know ... (263 words)

Why don't I want to have sex with either women or men?

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have no real desire to have sex with a woman or a man. The only thing that gets me aroused is my own stomach and some other young men's stomachs who are just the right amount overweight. I just masturbate to myself. No other part of a body, man or womans, is a turn on for ... (289 words)

Worried all I'll be able to think about during sex is getting pregnant

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been talking to this guy for a year and we just started dating about 2 and a half months ago. I'm pretty sure I love him ha, actually I do love him. He means the world to me, well he's ready to have sex and I am too I'm pretty sure. the only thing that I'm ... (154 words)

How can I make my wife feel valued?

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife said she doesn't feel important to me what do I do? Right now she said she needs a break what are some things I can do to make her feel special and to show how much I really love her?... (43 words)

For the men, do you like it when a girl sucks on your balls during a bj?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kinda a question that is towards men, but do you like it when a girl sucks on your sack when your girlfriend is giving u a blowjob? Thank god for anonymous lol ... (34 words)

I'm 20 years old and my libido has disappeared!

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10 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and as of the last two years (or maybe a bit less) my libido has gone down, down, DOWN!!!! I no longer get any tingly sensations, maybe VERY mild ones. Sometimes, when I'm with my boyfriend... but it's not him, it's me. Well I was a virgin before I m... (239 words)

I want her to desire me again!

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so my wife and i are 20 and our son will be 1 on july 12th we got married march 27, 2008. we have always had a very intimate relationship. but within the past 5 months she just doesn't seem interested in me anymore. i have asked her why she doesn't have any interest in me ... (276 words)

Barriers in our Love

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10 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I am really in love with my girlfriend of 3 months.I have given up alot for her and she knows that and she loves me like crazy. But my mind keeps saying there will be barriers that will keep us apart and there is nothing I can do about it. I really dont want to lose her... (102 words)

All my friends ditched me after my breakup. I'm lonely :-( how do I get out of this rut?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi im wondering what to do with myself. My bf and I ended an 9 year relationship and I moved towns. Even though he cheated on me none of our mutual friends speak to me any more and im very lonely because I no longer have any friends. I try and make new friends for gods... (124 words)

I think I'm Gay...But I don't know what to do.

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - As the topic states, I Think I Am Gay but I do not know what to do... The feelings are only sexual though. The idea of a life relationship with a man is an immediate turn off for me....but the idea of sex with a woman seems awkward to me. I'd much rather have a penis in m... (217 words)

I love my best friend to death

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my best friend but idk how to tell her my feelings. She's 1 1/2 years older than me and she's going off to college next year she is gna be four hours away untill I go to college wit her. But nowdays me and her watch movies together go swimin together and we even lay in ... (141 words)

My Ex wants to still have Sex when his new Girlfriend is pregnant!

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for 5 years he cheated on me 3 times but I love him and still ended up back with him. We got married last year and I got pregnant. He left me for other women when I was 2 months prego. He told me thay it was a mistake to leave me and thay he love me and that he ... (235 words)

I love him, do we keep the baby even tho we're 900 miles apart?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 months ago because he couldnt decided if he wanted to be with me or be single. I let him make the choice after being with him for 2 years making sure he knew I tried and it was his decision. We promised to remain friends and have ever since. I ... (157 words)

He tells me he needs a break but his actions speaks a different tune

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend almost three years my boyfriend just told me earlier this week, that he didn't feel the same anymore and that he wanted a break and that he really really cared about me. i love him so much he literally means the world to me. when he told me that it ... (341 words)

Why is he so mean to me when we've broken up?

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10 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago, I'm feeling really down and depressed, because we ended up in ugly terms, he was so mean and rude to me, telling me things like these: - I don't wanna talk to you, whats the part you dont get? - I'm not going out with you a... (321 words)

Should I believe a Married Man?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month ago I was out havin drinks with a friend of mine. we met two guys at a bar and started havin great convo. at the end of the nite we kissed and i got his number 2 days later i sent him a text and 2 days later i got a response. later on we talked on the phone.we met ... (310 words)

Is there any hope of us getting back together based on what he had told me?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is long, but I need some advice. Me and my boyfriend were together for about seven months. I had never felt so strong about another person and told me how much i meant to him and how much he loved me evert day. Well, something happened between him and his sister who he ... (474 words)

Is phone sex wrong?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if someone could tell me if phone sex is wrong with my bf...we've been dating for 41 months and pretty much do it every other nite.... (29 words)

He says "sike!" in response to "I love you"! What does that mean?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when my boyfriend of two years says an I love you and when I respond with "I love you too" or "I love you more" he says, "sike" or "yeah right"? Does he really love me or does he really not believe I love him?... (49 words)

This is beyond crazy! I have developed a twitch. I have thrown up multiple times at work from the loads of anxiety! HELP!

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It was a coworkers last day today and our boss took us all out to lunch. I had to make sure that I sat next to all women because my boyfriend would otherwise be angry. I was on gchat with my blackberry the whole time in case he needed to check on me, I become anxsious if I ... (559 words)

I'm 14 and my 17 year old bf is always mad at me!

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. we have been together for 11 monthsz now and almost a year. the thing is he always gets mad over little things and always thinks i am lying to him...he doesnt trust me at all. and this one time he got really mad and pushed me to the floor.... (160 words)

We did meet at school, but he was never my teacher. Now I'm wondering what my next move should be?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked a teacher from my high school for about 4 years now. Im almost 20 and hes 28. Ive dated older so the age difference doesnt bother me. I graduated in 2007 and i kept in touch with him by email and i would visit from time to time (Btw he was never my teacher). I ... (744 words)

Madly in love.... but afraid of marriage! Help!

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with the same man for 3years and I am madly in Love with him, there is no doubt in my mind that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. The only problem is that I fear marriage. I trust him with all of my heart, I just am afraid of getting hurt or losing him ... (131 words)

Why did my colleague not speak to me first?

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10 July 2009 (F)

- I thank in advance all who offer advice here. I have been having workplace/ colleague issues over the past year. The pattern seems the same. I am a very kind but also professional person who does her best in her job. It seems though, that some of my colleagues are almost ... (161 words)

Will guys find this thing disgusting?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've had this thing around my rectal opening for quiet a time , protruded hemorrhoids , it is in an early stage from the pictures i saw online ,i'm really embaressed by it and can't go to a doc , is it normal or common , do guys find it disgusting ? what can i do about it .. ... (61 words)

Shouldn't he be the one to make the effort to win my affection?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for three years, we lived together for one of them. He's going to graduate school in Maryland while I'm staying here in Oregon. He says that he needs time for himself to grow and mature, and thinks that we're way too young to be in a serious ... (227 words)

He's just not there for me any longer... I miss my husband and best friend.

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I don't know where to begin. My husband and I have been together for 15 years, married for 13. I have 2 adult daughters from a previous marriage, and an 11 year old son with my husband. My problem is, my husband spends no time with me, one on one. He is self-employed (for ... (438 words)

Does calling her "sweet thing" mean he likes her?

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10 July 2009 (F)

- What does it mean when a guy calls a girl 'sweet thing'? Does it mean he probably likes her? ... (22 words)

I'm 15, pregnant and don't know how to tell my mom!

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and I have only been dating my boyfriend for a week. But we have been messing around for 2 months and I just currently found out that I was pregnant. I'm not to sure what to do or what to think I have no job I am homeschooled a freshman again an... (96 words)

Is there any way to find out who the father is before the baby is born?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is my problem, I just have discovered that I am pregnant but the problem is, I don't know who the father would be. Two weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a really close friend, and then about 5 days later I got back together with an ex and we ended up having ... (158 words)

I'd like to think that our marriage problems are about money, but it's really that my husband thinks only of himself.

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10 July 2009 (F)

age - my husband and i are having marriage problems. we have been married for 23 years. we are going through some financial problems, and i would like to think that is the problem, but the real problem is that my husband thinks only of himself. we borrowed some money from his brother ... (215 words)

I'm tired of the way my boyfriend tries to detatch from me every summer and puts in no effort to see me.

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me again. Hey, so I talked to my friend on the phone the other night. She's my best friend and isn't so crazy about my bf anymore. She gave me some really good advice. He is on a camping trip and is still trying to remain distant from me. Everyone tells me that I need to l... (255 words)

I want to study abroad, what about my boyfriend?

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10 July 2009 (M) age 41-50 - For the past year I have been planning to study abroad. However, I met this guy and we became a couple (gay couple), even though neither one of us is "out of the closet", so to speak. We love each other very much, and he made great changes in his life in order to accommodate ... (313 words)

I've known him a week. How do I know he loves me and isn't just after sex?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i started dating a man i hardly knew since a week. we both spend time together and also on phone all the time. he too calls me whereever he is. he cares for me. but i dono if he is in love with me. we have already made out and stuff too soon. this is bothering me. we both are ... (86 words)

He doesn't hit me but he spits in my face. What to do?

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10 July 2009 (F)

age - ok ive been married 16 yrs i realy feel my husband is honest, maybe it me ,anyway he has 2 single friends and i mean very single. every day he gets off work he stops in a bar. its a slum bar, i mean. i go sometimes with him but the bartenders wera low cut shirts and show boobs ... (121 words)

Married, but I'm in love with the other man and want to pursue that relationship.

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10 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 38 year old woman married for 14 to a 52 year old man. My husband has been a truck driver for the last 12 years. When we originally married he was home everyday, then everyday turned into week and now months for the last 11 years. Nine years ago we decided to have ... (493 words)