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writes: dear agony aunt please can u give me some much needed advice. where do i start. i have had my suspicions for a long time now tht my fiance whom im due to marry this year has bn having it off with my mother. i havnt actually caught thm in the act but they are very secretive with each other follow one another to rooms also iv heard him ask her for a kiss and they leave clues for each other around my parents house. funnily enough i keep finding paper ben cut into triangles and left in my bed room which does seem bizarre. i feel i carnt come out and confront them because they will never admit because off the consequences. i didnt mention i have two young sons to think off. i also didnt mention i suffered postnatal depresion after the birth off my youngest son which is when i first noticed thn really getting on. im fully recovered now but because i had this illness they both make out im paranoid and need rest. i fel like a bubble waiting to burst. i wish i cud tell my dad my suspicions but feel no one will beleive me.
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 well you need to first get the evidence.
leave them two in a room togetha and either listen and record/ voice record it. or next time it gets deep and he asks for a kiss walk in and see what happens. do they split apart quickly ?
talk to your dad about it. start off by asking would mum ever get it off with someone she shouldn't and stuff like that.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Are you totally sure you've recovered completely? Postnatal depression can be very serious and does cause paranoia in some women. However, if you are truly better then I guess I'd start with a long talk my fiance.
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