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writes:how do you know when you love someone? i broke off with this girl a month ago cuz i was nt sure about my feelings for her and asked for some time...i am struggling to know whether i love her ot not ...she was one of a kind who loved me from all her heart! i have touched the skies of being loved by her! i miss her so much and it feels so sick at heart when i remember all the little things we did! but as this is the decision of life i want to be damn practical about this before going back to her ...i am scared to lose her but i dont want to make silly decisions and regret later on..in this fear i am pushing myself to believe that i did love her and my sense of reality is badly affeced as i have been thinging about this many days and going crazy!! i loved(and badly miss all the time spent with her)...i enjoyed her companionship love and care more than anyone else as we were soulmates and shared everything! IN SHORT I MISS BEING LOVED I GUESS!! i heartly want her back but im not crazy about her looks or what she wears(i dont even notice it) ..i nevr felt like kissing her but these days i feel like going back to her and HUG her...maybe i didnt have those feelings for her at that time(but im still confused! )it was a long distance and i think i was just used to the small lovely world we created on phone! in reality she was some other girl for me! but still we enjoyed the hangouts whenever we met....i deeply care for her and i think she's in my mind just because of the insecurity of losing such a sweetheart and guilt nothing else ...please give your opinions ..do i love her or i miss being loved ? my sense of reality is affected and my mind is saturated with mixed feelings i cant decide!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): well i think you do love her and you need to take things slow try again dont let go of her
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 love means different things to everybody but u should know if u love her.
there's so many different forms of love (for a mum, friend, sister , brother) this cud fall into any category!
however u dont sound so passionate about her, so to me it doesnt sound as if your deeply madly in love with her.
u need to really judge for yourself what type of love u have for her before u go back to her and promise anything.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): It seems to me that you lack chemistry in this relationship, and in my experience, physical attraction is indispensable for a lasting romantic relationship. You may never find a person of so much value again, but it is very likely that you will love someone less "worthy" far more deeply because the chemistry will be there... Unfortunatly, I think that even if you decide to get back together with this person, you will soon have problems, again...
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 If you can`t get her out of your head then odds are you love her.I think you should give your relationship with her more of a chance but take things slow till your not so confused about your feelings.Love is easy to find if your heart is willing to let go.It`s fear that cages us from the true depths of our feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): you know when you love someone when all you think about is them and you get tingly inside,will do anything to make them happy,do anything to avoid hurting them even if it means lying,send them mssgs to let them know your thinking about them,buy them little gifts,wanting to spend every chance you get with them,wanting to hold and kiss them always,know what ever you do is never to much for them and letting them know by saying i love you.my ex did the opposite and tried to say that was love
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): well it seems to me like you do love this girlone thing that ive learned is that i wont know what its like if i dont try it.so dont be afraid and take a chance on hertake a chance on LOVE.if you dont then THAT is what you might regret later.and then youll be asking yourself "What if she would have been the one?"dont make that mistake and just go for it =)if it doesnt work out then you just have to get up and keep going on!but at least you can say that you gave it a shotbut then will there will comme along that one girl that will make you say "Wow SHE is the ONE"i wish you the best with this!!!!!!hopefully this helps you somehow =)
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