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writes: well..im 15 and my boyfriend is 19,we been going out for 1month and I really like I feel something special for him and I think he feelsz the same way too...im kind of wondering if this will work out,since there's age difference and we don't see eachother often...I think is working out but sometimes I just dont know Any advise? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys;that's good advise, and yea time will tell...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): 1 month is not a very long time give this some time. Im wondering if he acts alot more mature as far as sex ; your very young take one step at a time . dont ruch into things you have other important things to think about like school focus on your education he will be going off to collage "hopefully" while you will still be in school this could affect your studies. best wishes and make good choices. teen age years only come around once!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (15 July 2009):
Im gonna have to say that it probably wont work out hes not gonna want a gf that cant hang out and go to the club with him,hell be 21 with a 16 yr old gf thats not kool, my opinion on 19 yr old guys that have 14 yr old gf is this there trying to hang on to the last of there teenage years. The whole point of being an adult is so you can take part in adult activities for example sex, i feel thats an important part of a relationship especially during the teenage years and at 14 your underage, I wouldnt say break up with him because its not liek your going to find your soulmate from a HS boy and you can learn more about relationships in general form an older guy but im letting you kno that the relationship is probably going to phase itself out in time so i would say not to get your heart set on this guy but only time will tell if your comfortable and happy with this guy stick it out and see what happens relationships have phases you dont have to hang out be with each other all the time to still care about each other
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