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writes:I am falling for my best friend, who has come to me for help.Me and this boy, lets call him jon, have been best friend since the start of yr 7 and i am going into yr 11 in september, we've always been able to talk to each other about our problems, i could trust him with me life and i think i am falling for him. But he has just had a problem with this girl, shes likes him and he swears to me he doesn't like her but they pushed him off his bike and said he cant have it back until he says yes, but he got it back and hasn't been to school today as he has a broken thumb and a deep deep cut on the elbow, is it too soon to make a move?Anyway before this happend we were talking and flirting abit like we always do and he said why isn't she like you?What does this mean?Well they always say your best friends always turn out being closer, is that true?Thankyou :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your help. :)
I think i might go for it, i might as well.
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reader, Traviesa_7768  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 Well i had the same problem with my bestfriend.we have been friends since kinder and im also going to the 11thso practically hes been through everything with me my whole lifethen i sorta started to develope feelings for himi was really confused because i had seen him like a friend even like family for so long and now i saw him diffrenthe had a gf at the time and well she cheated on himi wanted to tell him how i felt at that moment but i waited and gave him timeweirdly enough after all that happend a month later he told me that he kinda liked me but was scared to loose our friendshipso we talked and then we gave it a shotit didnt work out cuz we were WAY too much alike and we bumped heads oftenbut we are still great friends so what im trying to say is give him time and when you think its been enough tell him how you feeland it seems to me that by what he told you that he likes you toso hey you never know maybe he can be the one to tell you first.but whatever happens i wish you the best =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): i think you should tell him you think you are falling for him cause it sounds like he has for you and is just afraid that he might ruin the friendship. now is the time to snatch him up if you really want him.
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