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female
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30-35,
*mcurioustoo
writes:I feel like my boyfriend is getting bored with me, he said he isn't but I still wanna spark things up a lil.. Any suggestions... him and I have been together over a year. And have a pretty good relationship and are very happy it just seems like as of lately he doesn't really take as much time to make us really happy.. He hardly says sweet things . His te,per has been quite bad.. And we've talked about it.. Lasy night actually and there are a few things we gotta work on... but I just need some suggestions to spark his attention
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): I usually find that thinking about what brought you together in the first place helps. When I have been in relationships, thinking about when we first met, the first time we went out, our first kiss, etc, brings the relationship to life again, and reminds me of why it is special. Maybe when you and your boyfriend are alone together, you could try bringing some of the good times up. Like, "Do you remember when we...? Do you remember the first time we...?" etc.
Doing something new together, or going somewhere different can also help. I think that sometimes, you can get into a bit of a rut, so anything that adds a touch of newness can break that. Or maybe you could go on a date together, pretend it is the first date between you, and try to see each other through new eyes, as if you have never met and don't know anything about each other.
Just a few suggestions...I hope something helps! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): i have a great suggestion
have u ever heard of the cosmopolitan magazine??
well it works wonders it has advice tricks and fun ways of making ur sex life wayy better
maybe u should check it out
good luck
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