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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My FWB has a hard time having an orgasm, any good suggestions that would help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, just so you know I 15 and I'm bi. I have a really good friend who is also bi a d yes he is a friend with benifits. We like to get together and wank and suck each other off but he always takes so long to cum. Sometimes I can't make him cum after 45 minutes and I ... (133 words)

I really like this girl on tv, could someone help me draft a letter to her, without offending or scaring her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok there is a girl who i like who is on tv and she is the same age as me. she is a presenter on a sport news channel. i have heard that she hasn't got a boyfriend. i want to write a romantic letter to her but i don't know what to write could anyone give me any tips on what to ... (119 words)

Any suggestions to help with my problem, I'd like to have a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - i know what wrong with me now i suffer Involuntary celibacy all my life.its no wondering i have being rejected all the time no matter how nice dress or did n,t it did n,t make difference, because i suffer Involuntary celibacy like i said i was born a rejected and i wasn,t wrong ... (138 words)

Do you think I am wrong with my actions, regarding this child?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I ave jus encountered the most arrogant orrible parents ever i wntd 2 bang them,on way hme in cab an driver c a little girl undr 2yr an tells me.we stop an i go 2 her nobody around so i ask her can she show me mummy,we walk 2 a house round corner from me i bang on door an kids ... (100 words)

Strange goings on with his Face book, and he hasn't returned my messages, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so 2 days ago, my crush sent me a message and a “poke” on facebook so i sent him back a message and he still hasn’t replied…but i went on his page just now and it said that he commented on someone’s video in his recent activity and then i went back to his page 2 minutes ... (178 words)

Is it possible to infect someone with gonorrhea if you test negative for it, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - HELP!!! Okay here's the story. I went out with this guy for a little while. We had unprotected sex. Within a month of us having sex he finds out he got gonorrhea. I went to a clinic and got tested. The lady told me my test results were going to come up in 2 weeks. Since i ... (193 words)

I like my best friend's boyfriend, how do I change my feelings for him, don't want to lose their friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.... Well the thing is i really like my best friend's boyfriend... simple? not really My friend Sara* and her boyfriend *Paul went out and broke up.... Paul and i became really close friends and he asked me for alot of help and advice. Him and Sara got back tog... (321 words)

My lover left his family, now his health made him decide to go back, how do I cope with ending our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with a man for 10 months now and we are totally in love with each other. He left his kids 24, 20 and 15yrs and wife of 23 years and moved to a flat to be nearer to me and work. I ended my relationship with my partner of 6 years (with whom I have a ... (326 words)

Serious mood swings and depression because of a contraceptive implant, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had the contraceptive implant implanon inserted nearly a month ago. Sice then the only side effect ive had is severe depression and mood swings. The mood swings are affecting my bf a lot worse than me, i switch from severe depression to extremely happy literally every ... (257 words)

Would there be a chance of my being pregnant from this experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm wondering if I could be pregnant? We had sex with a condom, he pulled out with the condom on, took the condom off outside of me, and came on my inner thigh. I wiped it off immediately, but i'm not sure if some sperm could have traveled inside.. I'm now due for my perio... (105 words)

He breaks my heart everytime I give him another chance, should I give up or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - How to make me feel better and peace of mind? My boyfriend is a flirt, I had been give him so many chance in the return he said I am sick, I am too much to check his phone, call the woman that he talk with, the last chance I gave him was a month ago, he send me flowers, took... (203 words)

We have a child, my ex provides a liitle support, but wants to stay in and control my life, how do I get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 ,,me and my ex-boyfriend have 1 child,,we were together 5 years,, it was a relationship where he had a drink problem which i stood by him through while he was in rehab and all of it! He was abusive and everything and i dont know why i still love him i honestly dont i ... (249 words)

Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five years ago, I met another ... (731 words)

I told everyone I dumped him, problem is I haven't actually told him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have a little problem, well, it' not really small to me. I've told everyone I’ve dumped my boyfriend, because i really want to, and i will. Just finding it incredibly hard cause i love him, but the bad things outweigh the good by far (i posted the question: Relationship fro... (95 words)

I need positive advice about how to get my ex back in my arms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. im looking for optomistic....possitive advice and testimonies to getting your Ex bakc into your arms. Basically I fell in love with my BEST female freind. and she feel in love with me after a week of telling her......after 4 months of sort of seing her......she was i... (136 words)

Bride wars: Brides plan events for same day - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend Bridget is getting married this fall, and I am her Matron of Honor. We have been best friends for over ten years, she was my Maid of Honor, and in short- we are like sisters. Not to make this all too confusing, but it is important that you know that my husband ... (583 words)

Husband's female co-worker is causing me much concern

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been together for 14 years and have 3 wonderful children together... Herman (I'll call him) works 2 hours away from home and frequently has to work overtime; sometimes as much as 90+ hours a week. There have been many times I have wondered if he is actua... (513 words)

I'm so insecure and feel like the outsider! Should I let him go?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have some severe insecurities in my relationship. My boyfriend has been established in this town and I'm new. This is the kind of area that everyone knows everyone and I know no one. My boyfriend has friends he had feelings for in high school and claims they are in the past ... (320 words)

Should I confront him about his online dating account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for more than a year. We dated for 5 months and I had to go back home but came back after 8 months and moved back in with him. we never ended the relationship and we are deeply in love with one another. Recently I accidentaly realized that he has ... (135 words)

Lost! Ex keeps changing his personality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex keeps changing his personality and i'm totally lost. I'll start at the beginning. We met at work and were flirting straight off. he is a couple of years younger than me but that was never a problem. He puts so much stress on himself that he shouldn't. He finishing a uni ... (593 words)

Why does he want to hang out with me when he has a wife, a kid, and another on the way?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. i am a 17 year old girl and im having an issue. I like this guy named Tony who is 26 years old and he used to work as a security guard for my school. When he was working for my school i used to skip class andhang out with him and we would always talk all the time. ... (360 words)

He said he wanted to be alone but he slept with someone else a week later. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is actually dealing with a break up...My ex broke up with me about a month ago because he needed to be alone to work on himself. We dated for 10 months and lived together for 8 months. I tried evrything to make it work and he just wouldn't listen. He has issues in ... (158 words)

Did he overreact or was I in the wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today, completely by accident, I insulted my boyfriend and I don't know what to make of it. Let me explain. I have been doing work experience for a week at a preschool, which means we havent seen each other for a week so we agreed to meet for lunch in town. When I met up wi... (454 words)

How can I find the right guy for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Lately, I've been asking myself should I still become happier than this? I am happy with my kids but sometimes I wish there's more than the three of us. The problem is, there's no chance nor time for dating. The guy I was initially interested in seem not be interested or have ... (130 words)

He slept with 71 women, I've only been with 2 men - am I over reacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive just found out that my boyfriend of 5 month has slept with 71 women!! I went out with him the other nite and i heard a conversation mentioned bout the number 71 i asked him and he said i was number 72! I feel sick cos i got the impression that b4 me hed had a relationship ... (405 words)

His actions scare me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of two years and I have broken up before, at the time our conflicts were getting really really bad. I know I have made the arguement worse many times, I have a dry sarcastic nature that hits him in just the right way, but there are times when I don't feel I was bad ... (351 words)

Sometimes he's cold and rejects me

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months [11 days until our anniversary]. I have a problem though, he's depressed and I understand that his anti-depressents take a toll on his emotions especially romantic feelings towards me. But, sometimes he gets cold and ... (219 words)

1st time intercourse advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd like some advice from gay guys about the best position to receive 1st time intercourse with a man. I've seen dvds and think I'd be best lying on my back with a pillow under my bum and legs well up . My mate promises to be gentle and use plenty of lubrication.This... (91 words)

She stopped answering her other line calls from me, what could this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - what does it mean when a women you known for a long time say a year ...stops answering your calls or when she is talking to someone esle doesnt stop what she is doing and pick up call waiting and let you know she is on the other line ...and when she does pick up the call fro... (120 words)

My ex keeps being a bitch to me, What do I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - It sounds stupid but I don't understand why she keeps being so rude and hurtful to me ? I mean she blocked me from msn but still talks to me through her friends. She once show me a picture of her and her boyfriend and she 2 months later told me her boyfirend is so good in bed. ... (196 words)

How do I get rid of my annoying boyfriend without breaking his heart

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im with this lad that really gets on my nerves everythin he does annoys me so ive bin thinkin about finishing it but he keeps saying he needs me an he cant live without me an it will break his heart if i finish it we have only bin together 5 an a half months so its gettin a bit ... (82 words)

What do I do with this girl? And my boyfriend's response to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend visited me during my college classes. he Stays home as i go to class. i didn't want him to be bored so i gave him access to my computer. my curiosity gets the best of me, so i checked the history. i saw he went to this social network, on two pages of a girls i ... (408 words)

My mom wants me to spend less time with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok Here's my problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I love him to death and he loves me just the same, our relationship has had some really rough times and he broke up with me for one whole day. and we patchd things up and everything was f... (210 words)

One minute he wants to work things out, the next he is pulling away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone help me:( My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me out of nowhere a month ago. Everyone, including me, was completely shocked. Throughout the month we have been in contact every day, talking, texting, meeting up and even going away together. He has told me that ... (272 words)

Is there a way to ask questions more nicely?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently had a problem with my boyfriend. i like talking about our problems to solve them. communication is the key, correct? there's another problem that arises in this, he at times takes forever to answer. i asked him about this as well, he says he takes long because he ... (166 words)

Should I hold on with my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have known my fiance for 5 years now. We decided to get engaged in on our 5th year and plan to get married in the next. We don't live together. She lives with her parents while I have my own place. Now the feeling have changed. She is pushing me to break up because she feels ... (362 words)

I'm 14, the baby's father is 17, and I don't want him to go to jail

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid,, Im 14 and possibly pregnant. My problem is I don't want my bf going to jail, he 17. My mom knows and is fine with it, his mom knows im 14 and she is also fine with it. IF I am pregnant (an accident I promise) then I would have the bbay when I was 15, and my bf wu... (88 words)

How do I tell my ex that I have an STD when he wont even talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that i have a std after my boyfriend and me broke up. I don't think i got it from him. I think i caught it from someone before we got together. We've had unprotected sex 3 times. Now were not on talking terms. I wanna tell him bc i know that's the right thing 2 do. ... (71 words)

My boyfriend's dying of jealousy over nothing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - The other day my boyfriend had a chat with one of my girl friends and she made the stupid mistake of telling him out of our group of mates I'm the one who always gets chatted up when out with the girls. Aside from not being too happy with her...I also had to endure him turni... (190 words)

Whether to go or not to go...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To go or not to go? that is the question. The guy i like lives 8 hours away, its apparently a rule that the guy should come see u, we havent met yet and i AM DYING TO SEE HIM. He cant afford it though and nor can i. my friend told us to talk and that same friend is going to ... (379 words)

After I told him I didn't want a one-night stand, he's stopped responding to my messages.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i recently met a guy that was friend with one of my bestfriends boyfriend and we hit it off from the start next thing you know we are making out. Then my girlfriend and i left that night. So he messaged me on facebook after we became friends saying he wants to connect ... (285 words)

He cheated, she's pregnant. Now what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend cheated on me back in april and now this chick is calling me telling me that she is pregnant with his baby. he dont want anything to do with her and she is only talking to me about the situation. what am i suppose to do about this? we have already made our way past ... (85 words)

Am I straight, bi-curious, bi or lesbian? How can I have another lesbian experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Two questions were combined into one, as they are from the same poster with essentially the same question. FIRST QUESTION: Am I straight, bi-curious, bi or lesbian? Full story: When I was younger, about 6), I had these neighbours who were younger than me.... (693 words)

I reported my teacher for 4 years of sexual touching and abuse, why did my deputy head shun me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if anyone will be able to help me with this, but i hope so. I had a teacher (Who is head of department and on the governing board for the school) who was extensively innappropriate with me over a period of 4 years. He used to touch me, masturbate in front of me a... (933 words)

Should I try to let him know how I feel?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm a gay student who has not, as of yet, "come out". I've been interested in loads of guys from school for a couple of years now. However, now that i've left school and am going to uni in September, i have really felt a deep affection for one in particular. I can't confirm ... (163 words)

What can I do to speed the process up and get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im in need of a little help here. a little background for you, i dated this girl for nearly 4 years. she left me about two months ago to see other people and if we were meant to be together she says we will find our way back to each other. i love this girl and not having her in ... (178 words)

He says he is willing to take a lie detector to prove he didnt cheat on me with a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I am a transwoman and I ve been dating this guy for 1year 6 months in at first things were like a fairytale I couldnt get enough of him. Things started to change he didnt have a job,a car or a place anyways I was willing to work with him he situation changed and he ... (315 words)

Should I have anal with my boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i need help cuz my boyfriend wants to have anal but i dont know if i should. i want to know more stuff about anal before i do it. ive heard that it hurts alot and that their might be remains of poo on the condom when your done. then i also heard that after the first time it ... (82 words)

First time sex question!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello peeps, I am 25 this year and is currently seeing a 40-year old woman. She is divorced and has one child. We knew each other about two months ago and really hit it off, hence we are currently at this stage. In her marriage, she had mostly bad sex experiences with ... (246 words)

Relationship from hell: But I cant leave him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here’s my problem: I probably have the relationship from hell, but I can’t break up with this guy, I love him too much. Problems: He takes money from me and says he’ll pay me back, never has. (over all, he’s taken at least £1000 from me.) He’s quick tempered to say... (262 words)

What do you think he meant by his comment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys what would you say this meant! when a guy says.. "(my names) Nice, but it'll never happen, you know..." One way i think hes saying it will never happen but its the You know... bit tht makes me think if he has feelings but for some reason thinks it cant happen. ... (137 words)

How do you know when you have had an orgasm and when you have pleased your man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help on this and fast. well first off i feel real Dumb for asking this but how do you know when youve had an orgasm? and how do you know when you have fully pleased your man? i feel real sumb for asking that but i wanna make sure that what im doing is right....... (57 words)

We have an agreement so my wife can have sex with another man, but now he has started to be abusive to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age - I have a new question . My wife has had sex with another guy while we are married. And thats ok with me because i have medical problems that prevent me from getting an erection .AND we both are in agreement about this arrangement so dont preach to me if you have a hangup about ... (166 words)

Every time I try and talk to him about his laziness he makes me out to be the bad guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5548 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I work 4 days during the week. My husband doesn't work. We have a 10 month old baby. When I get home from work, my husband passes the baby to me and goes to lay down. And this is after I've worked in a restaurant with no air conditioning, or I've just cleaned someone's house ... (349 words)

Is pre-ejaculate fluid normal in males?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - i get wet frequently how do i stop pre ejaculation is it normal for males... (15 words)

I'm really worried I'm going deaf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have a problem and im getting abit worried. I ADORE music! I live with it! I love going to gigs n when im at home ive normally got it on full blast out my headphones or on my cd player(that doesnt go up as high) The thing is i know the risks but i swear im going deaf! Im ... (262 words)

When is it ok to sleep with a guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When is it ok to sleep with a guy? first date, second? a month......just when i like a guy i get so sexually frustrated i want sex with them as soon as....... (32 words)

Is it bad to be friends with a teacher after school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Earlier I had a conversation with a friend. We were talking about teachers. I had this teacher who I really appreciated and respected. From her behaviour, she seemed to appreciate the student I was and was always trying to help me no matter the problem I was having. ... (163 words)

How do I get her back? I've loved her for 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - basically, i have been involved with this girl for 2 years we've dated twice and the first time other people put an end to it and then we got together again about 5 months ago, and about 2 weeks ago she broke up with me because i lied to her but not to hurt her to protect her, ... (317 words)

My friends kids have been taken away on false grounds, what can be done to appeal the decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm sorry if this is a bit all over the place, but I am god damn fuming right now. And could really do with some suggestions on what can be done with the situation. Well, my friend has literally, just ended up with a care order on her 3 kids. Now, she's been having to meet with ... (190 words)

My girlfriend and my mum are not getting on, but I feel like we should be trying to keep my mum happy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I have been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months now and I have been seeing her for almost a year. She is a strict vegetarian and she is currently living with me and my mum for a few months till i can find a job and move out with her, the deadline for thi... (368 words)

Why did he come all the way out to my house to be the way he was, especially seeing as we're over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi..PLEASE PLEASE help me. My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months and brokke up a month ago completely out of the blue. It was very unexpected. We were deleriously happy and everyone, even people we didn't know would comment on it. For the last month we have been in ... (180 words)

I always thought we would remain friends, but she has told me to stop bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 30 yrs old and I was in a relationship with a single mom who is 7 years older then me. The relationship lasted approx. 3 years in which we lived together the entire time. It's going to be a year since our break up next month. She has a 7 yr old boy who she spoils rotte... (1288 words)

Do I start an affair with my student or keep it stricly professional?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunty, I have been following your forums for a while..I am 25 yr old female-single teacher,I teach Computers for 12th grade boys school in USA..I often were tight dresses and mini skirts to school, i have a decent figure as I am fitness freak!!! many of my students flirt ... (187 words)

My husband has been browsing on a cheater's website, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is tough so forgive how long it is. I don't see how I could be wrong though. Someone kept clearing the history in our internet browser. At first I was worried my 9 year old son had started looking at pornography and trying to cover his tracks. Anyway, following a slip... (181 words)

I want to write a romantic letter to my crush on TV, any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a big crush on someone who is on tv and she is about my age. i heard she hasn't got a boyfriend and i am planning on writing a romantic letter to her but the problem is that i suck at writing and talking to girls so what i am asking is that what should i say in my ... (103 words)

Extremely Lost Teen...Please help Me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there, Im in sort of a bind, but I'll get to the point. Me and a girl, who I will call "Jen", dated for almost a year. We broke up several months ago, although we still talk a every once in a while through text messaging. Lately, she has been texting me more, I think ... (242 words)

He cant get an erection when we have sex but he can get it up when watching gay porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband can't get an erection when we have sex, and I feel disappointed. I'm not expecting an orgasm or anything like that; I'm only really expecting loving, caring sex. He is a respectful, lovely guy. He seems to be able to get an erection watching a porn DVD featuring tw... (222 words)

Was I wrong to talk to my friend on Facebook?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend broke up a few months ago, within that time i talked to a guy i had only kissed before (years ago) just catch up, what have you been up to etc my bf then hacked into my facebook and read the messages between us. this didnt really bother me as they wernt ... (183 words)

I'm too scared to ask him how he feels in case I scare him off!

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so unbelievably confused! I can't even think how to get all these thoughts written down in an order that makes sense. I always thought I knew how to figure guys out but I could really use some help, I'm thinking someone impartial might be able to just look at the facts an... (304 words)

Question for men about mainstream porn

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - there is something I have been wondering about mainstream porn and I would like to hear mens responses. I have noticed in porn that none of the women seem to have the usual bodies of most women. I never see scars, stretch marks or sagging breasts. Of course, Im not talking ... (159 words)

My boyfriend sulks every time we have an argument!

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend sulks every time we have an argument? my boyfriend sulks when he does not get his own way. He plays golf a lot and works awkward hours in a hotel. I understand his love for the game and I'm always willing to compromise but sometimes he wants his cake and eats it... (274 words)

Complicated situaton with a female co-worker!

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Bear with me as this is long. . . I recently broke up with my girlfriend and have been on the mend for some time now. At my work we were short staffed and my boss's daughter came in to fill in. She is gorgeous and I love talking with her, we can talk for hours and we hav... (353 words)

He is a lot 'bigger' than anyone I've slept with before and it really hurts! What do we do?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. Here is my problem. I am in a wonderful relationship with a great guy. We have been together a few months and we are both madly in love with each other. We have decided to move our relationship on and sleep together. We have both had sexual partners in the past. The ... (95 words)

How do I get over this? My self-esteem is crushed!

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24 July 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I feel very bad. My first boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me. Basically, once he heard about my past, he thought I was a whore, and because I lied about the past a couple of times, he lost his trust in me. Now, I know lying was wrong, but I didn't want him to learn ... (554 words)

Ever since I've been feeling like having sex, I've started to break out!

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm a 15 year old female and i just wanted to say that my boyfriend is 17, and whenever i am with him, i feel like having sex but i don't because i'm only 15, and ever since i've been feeling like having sex, i've started to break out. i wanted to know if it's true that you ... (87 words)

What are some interesting things to talk about with the guy I really like?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - to make this short sweet and simple i was jus wonderin how to talk about interesting things and not to be boring with my conversations... i talk to this guy and we really like each other a lot but there are pauses sometimes when we talk on the phone...so my question is....what ... (86 words)

How do I let her know how I feel about her?

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a freind of which i've known for about four years, and i really like her. I have been told by her cousin that she really likes me, but thinks that i'm not all that interested (which based on my personality i can understand). The problem i'm having is finding a way to ... (93 words)

Is there such thing as a perm to straighten wavy hair?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I have wavy hair and want it to be straight without having to straighten it everyday. So I know that there is such thing as a perm to straighten hair but I dont know if it works on wavy hair. Does it? How long would it last? About how much would it probabl... (172 words)

How do I talk to my mum about anti-depressants?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i went overseas, i go to bed at normal times for where i live and i havent been able to sleep during the night. This results in me being late for school because of my sleep deprivation, i've taken blood tests and been to the doctor about my depression, which i am ... (106 words)

Feeling quite sad and confused

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Lately i don't know what's going on in my head, i've lost a huge sense of direction in my life and i'm feeling down a lot more than usual. I've not long turned 21 years old, and i see everyone else around me moving on in different ways and making something of the... (534 words)

Boys, boys, boys.....

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this boy, and hes like my best friend. sweet,smart,funny,loving are some words to describe him.i've liked him since i've met him and words cant describe the feelings he gives me. well just recently hes found out i liked him,and like he became even nicer.he hugs me ... (117 words)

Virgin, tried sex twice and no luck.

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a virgin. And I've attempted sex twice. Both times we tried with me on top once and missionary once. Both times it just.. Wouldn't go. I know I'm really tight. Masterbating even hurts. I'm a bigger girl and he's a little chubby. Would that had something to do with it? ... (77 words)

Tired of drama and heartbroken

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello to all, I just recently got out of a 14 month relationship with what I thought was a great guy, we met through friends. I had been separated from previous 8 year relationship for 2 years and figured it was time to give dating a try!! We seemed to have hit it off and e... (476 words)

I want her to notice me

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with a friend from new york the past couple of weeks. we have been staying with his dad and his dad is going through a divorce so we have been going to his new girl friend house. his new girlfriend has a daughter that's 15. we have only been knowing my friends dads ... (143 words)

I don't want her to give up friends, but this guy is not decent

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has more guy friends than girl friends... just a part of military life. I do get jealous sometimes, but Im working on it. One guy in particular bothers me though. She told me that one time about two years ago he tried to take advantage of her when she was drunk. ... (136 words)

Depressive breakdown and don't know what to do.

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i suffer from depression, a hell of a lot more than i realised i found out today, i was on a hugxe downer after a row with my boyfriend, we spent the whole of the night partyin with friends and when i asked him for some alone timean hour or so, he said he was going out with his ... (380 words)

Should I date this guy or should I keep waiting for the right one?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and have never had a relationship before. My mom, friends, and even myself think that going through dates and relationships are just a natural part of life. I want to know what the buzz is. I do want to have all those experiences like going on nice walks and etc. It ... (240 words)

Boyfriend ignores me, what should I do

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with him 4 times before and all ... (203 words)

Haven't had sex, but still missed my period

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 16 and am on birth control I've been having my period since i was about 9 and have been on birth control for almost 10 months. I haven't been having sex but I still missed my period. What could be the problem?... (45 words)

Stands close to me, does he like me

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well theres this guy I'm friends with and I kinda like him. He was in one of my classes last year and we weren't really friends then but we talked some. He would always ask me for gum and stuff. A couple of weeks ago at bible school he would always follow me around and try to ... (121 words)

Thinking about boyfriend's bestfriend while masterbating.

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it really ok if I masturbate while thinking about my boyfriends best friend?? I kinda feel bad about it.... (20 words)

Is my new dating relationship doomed already?!

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I started talking to a new guy a little over two months ago. In the beginning, he pursued me, called often and we had great communication. However, during this time we've known each other, we've only been on four dates. It's been a while since I've played the dating game, so ... (256 words)

Am I expecting to much and being selfish?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need to know if I'm in the wrong...tonight my b/f and I were out on a "Date" night. We've only started doing this about 2 months ago - we've been together for a while now. My b/f and I have been having some serious issues that we have been trying to work out, and having date ... (312 words)

He messed around with someone at a party. What shoudl I do?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For 6 years my best friend Mike told me he was in love with me, everyday he would tell me but I just couldn't risk our friendship. When I say we were best friends I mean literally. We told each other EVERYTHING, spent every single day together, even having sleep over at each ... (167 words)

Should I move on or stay with him?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating someone for 4 years now on and off. About 2 years into our relationship I found out he had cheated on me and that he was lying pathologically just for the sake of lying. At first I tried to make it work with him. I spent a whole summer trying to rebuild our ... (562 words)

What can I do to get my best friend back?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a friend, he is 17 and is mentally addicted to weed(so he says) and i want him to stop. he used to talk to me every single day and everything was perfect. we were like bestfriends and i told him everything. i tell him to stop but he doesnt. he knows its stupid and he ... (140 words)

Am I a freak for remaining a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - All my friends, guys and girls alike, have participated in sex of some sort. So I can't help but feel like a pariah when they begin to talk about their sexual encounters when they go on about, "Such and such made me a woman/man the other day." I know they don't rub it in on ... (385 words)

His needing a break, feels like a breakup

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24 July 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 14 months needs a break. His sister has been in the hospital and needing constant attention for 4 months after a surgery that went very wrong, and his father just passed away. He has a very demanding job and isn't in the best of health right now, due to his ... (345 words)

How can I get my optimism back and go about getting what I want?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Normally I try and always have a positive attitude towards things, and for a long time I kept up my positive way of attacking this problem, but lately I've completely lost my optimism, I'm almost heading towards bitterness and I don't want that at my age so I need some help! ... (298 words)

Should I sit here in frustration and misery, or just go for it?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm going to college in september. I've been there a couple of times on inductions. And already I find myself really really attracted to this girl lauren in my German class. I met her in spanish class, but it got cancelled because there was only 4 of us. So I'm a bit bum... (388 words)

I need to find my purpose. What should I do?

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24 July 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I know i am going to sound delusional, but ever since i was little i have felt like i've got something special, like i was destined to succeed. And I really feel frustrated as i don't know what this is yet! I attained straight A's at school, even though i didn't turn up to a ... (127 words)

Is it wrong for girls to watch porn?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Another problem for ye. People think its weird if you/a girl watches porn. I personaly think its natural and everyone should be doing it!! Is there something wrong with me? Or is it them? Am I normal? Is it wrong to look at those kind of things? ... (47 words)

I can't listen to my husband's advice.

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I'm happily married, life is going really well except i use to date this controlling guy for 4 years before i meet and married my husband. and now if ever my husband advices me on anything i freak thinking he's trying to control me. i need advice. ... (49 words)

I'm tired of my fear of dating! Help!

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have a little problem. I'm afraid to go out with guys. I dont really know why. Well I do think that guys use us!! For sex and that we mean nothing at all. Just a time filler. I guess I want to know, is it true? Because I'm tired of being afraid to date a person. People ... (74 words)

I'm damaged goods... should I just settle for him?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I hope you can take time and read this, as I dont know know who else to reach to. I am a woman in my mid twenties, I have a small child that I raise at home alone. I was married to the father of my child for four years. The relationship was definately dysfunct... (583 words)

He was so embarassing to be with when he drinks that I don't invite him along anymore!

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't exactly a relationship question...I moved to a new city a few months ago, and one of the first people I met was a guy who also just moved here and didn't know anyone. So we sort of became friends by default, though he likes me and has asked me out quite a few times ... (224 words)

My girlfriend thinks she has a horrible body!

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help, i have been with my girlfriend for around three years now and she still wont let me see her body, she wont take her top off when we have sex and she wont even get changed around me. i have tryed soo many times to tell her she has a nice body and once before i... (120 words)

My best friend & my brother seeing each other

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out that my older brother and my best friend have been seeing each other! - i was so upset/angry/confused when i found out, i wasn't sure how to react and resulted in getting really emotional, i didn't want to be around my best friend and i certainly didn't want my ... (1168 words)

He lied about smoking weed and he was messaging another girl about going out on a date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like i have problems all the time :(. Sorry this is so long, but please read. Well, I love my boyfriend. Some of you may have read my last post about the Birth Control. Well, unfortunatley we have another problem. I love my boyfriend for all his flaws, but there w... (518 words)

How do I stop lying and just end this?

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24 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my bf for 5 years. Over the past year or so my feelings for him have really changed. I can't pin point exactly when it happened or what caused it, but I don't want to be with him anymore. Everytime I hug him, kiss him or we have sex, I feel like I am forcing ... (275 words)

Girlfriend anger issues

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24 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend or ex as of a few days ago has basically put an ultimatum that I get help for my 'issues' or goodbye! It's complex, this has been a very close friend for more than 10 years. We dated for a couple of months when we first met 10 years ago for about 3 months. ... (420 words)