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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I know this man for almost 10 months, we knew each other from the internet. He was a nice guy,I liked him so much, and I felt that I didn't feel lonely in this strange country (all of my family live far). After 3 months dating, he said that he couldn't be in a serious relationship since He had two terrible experiences in the past. I respected his choice (even one of my friend said that I could happen that a man want to take it slow), I even wanted to let him go and We didn't talk to each other for 1 month. One day he called me to get some news from me. And since then, we talked again, we met each other and we made out like before. I told him once that I didn't feel that it was right (to make love, and see each other). He said that there was a risk but he wanted to know me more, we made for each other and he kept thinking about me (he even said that if I left him, he'll miss me so much). So we continued seeing each other and we had nice time together (even he asked me some serious questions about family and relationship). The last day I met him, I told him that I had difficulties in searching a new job and maybe there'll be a risk that I would be obliged to go back to my country. Since then, he kept contacted me to ask me whether I found a new job or not. And the last day when we broke up, he called me, asked me whether I was Ok (how was the job, whether I had financial problem or not), I said I was OK (since I don't want him to worry). But then he said that he met another girl and He fell in love (just 1 month after our last date). I felt so hurt, I even erased him from my facebook. He called me, he was so angry and he said that he appreciated me so much but there was a time where love just came like that, and he said that we were not a couple. one day after, he asked me to add him again in my facebook.Right now, I'm angry with myself, With him too. I said, what's wrong with me? I'm pretty, and smart, why he treated me like that?(am I the only one who become his victim. Did he left me because He didn't want to spend his summer with someone who had lots of problems like me?? why he left me during a difficult time? what should I do if he calls??Help me!!!
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 This guy is not for you.You may be able to keep him as a friend but nothing more.If you can call him do so.Let him know your having problems and don`t be afraid to ask for his help.If he is willing to help you try to suck up any pain he may be causing you and take his help.Other than that I don`t know what to tell you.Good luck.
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