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30-35,
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writes:hi, i have been dating this girl for about a year and everything was going great but lately weve both noticed that things are changing, we dont laugh as much and we are both very playful but things are very dry with us lately,and i recetn;y learned that she is still very physically atrracted 2 her exboyfriend and tehy still talk from time to time i have asked her countless times to cut off all communication with him for fear that this would happen, iu also recently learend that she is somewhat attracted to my closest male friend i have suspected this for so long but to hear her admit it hurt so badly, i am at a complete loss as to what i should do, i still want to be with her and want things to work, any help would be greatl appareciated, thank you
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 She is young and is probably unsure what she really wants.If she is what you really want then continue to try and make your relationship work.So she finds other guys attractive.Can you honestly say she is the only girl you find appealing? Appreciate the fact that she is being honest with you even if such statements are crude an unnecessary. Let her know how you feel about her talking to her ex but don`t forbid her from doing so.That will only drive her away.Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): their are other fish in the sea you dont need these kind of problems at your age or at any age for that matter... try asking her whats the matter and see her response if its someone else than move on you have a whole life ahead of you. best wishes
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