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Nervous about fooling around with my girlfriend

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Question - (15 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a couple of weeks. and its been amazing I really like her and she really likes me too. we haven't gotten to anything physical but we would like to..id do anything with/for her. all we've done is kissing/cuddling/touching and that's it. but we both are very much interested in exploring each others bodies. But the thing is im a lil shy so..its kinda frustrating. she says she wants to give me a handjob/blowjob soon..and i siad sure but inside im really nervous

we're both virgins of doing anythign sexual so i dont know how its gonna go, and my shyness makes it even worse. im very comfortable around her..but idont know why im getting so nervous about this..maybe it's because i think she may think im too small?? idk

what should i do?

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A female reader, Georgia13 United States +, writes (16 July 2009):

Georgia13 agony aunti think that if shes a virgin to and u do something rong shelle understand its ur first time its not going to go perfectly

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

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thanks guys for the answers so far

but it brought up my other worry..what 's she gonna think if and when i cum in front of her? would she be disgusted?

what if i cum on her or something...wouldnt that be a problem?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntjust go with the flow some things come natural to you your born knowing how to swim believe it or not. size doesnt matter for a BJ besides at your age your gf wont care about size she's a virgin so if it was huge it would kill her any way dont wory about it let her do what she wants and go with the flow. i would say say jerk off before you get the blowjob so you dont blow your load as soon as she looks at it preferably before she gets there any way be safe have fun and always use protection

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009):

maybe, if your worried about what she will think, get to know her better.

as in, give it more time instead of rushing into all that kinda stuff.

if you cant be comfortable with your body around her, then your probably not ready to do that yet.

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