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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How am I going to tell my family I'm pregnant at 14???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14, I'll be 15 in 3 days and i believe i am 4 or 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 16 he will be 17 in about a month.HE is completly happy about the pregnancy. he wants a kid.He has a job.I am Scared! I will NOT give up my kid. Will NOT have a abortion or give him/her up ... (203 words)

My boyfriend of over one year constantly calls me a whore and accuses me of sleeping with coworkers when I have work meetings.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of over one year constantly calls me a whore and accuses me of sleeping with coworkers when I have work meetings. I have never, in my short 26 years been unfaithful, I have been cheated on and I know that pain. I have been making plans to move to Europe with h... (162 words)

Advice needed? Is he using me for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya :) I'm 15. There's this boy I've liked for a while. we'll call him connor. I've been on a date with him but that was months ago. He knows i still like him and he says he likes me too. we're quite close friends and have been for about a year, we were texting the othe... (159 words)

What colour bra makes your breasts look biggest??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Any ideas on a colour of bra that makes your breasts look bigger?? ... (13 words)

Can I trust him or not? Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in the throws of PTSD right now and trying to get past it. My problem is that my husband doesn't seem to understand what I am going through. He says that he went through PTSD himself and that all he had to do was tell his thoughts to shut up and to let things go. He wants ... (192 words)

Advice please? Do I have a yeast infection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - so... this is really gross! but i think i might have some kind of bacterial or yeast infection! there's a discharge and it's kinda yellowish-white. smells kinda like chlorine. and it gets clumpy like cottage cheese! what is it?... (39 words)

Help!!! How can I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Couple of months back i lost my virginity to this boy I'd gotten to know pretty well - who had been chasing me for a while. Personality wise we were a great match and always got on amazingly, thing is he was always open about the fact he wasnt interested in relationships longer ... (139 words)

How bad is it to get together with your friend's ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) age 36-40 - How bad is it to get together with your friend's ex? me and my friends girlfriend have been madly in love for a long time now and after months of debating and torturing ourselves for feeling the way we do we have finally decided we have to be together. we cant keep going ... (257 words)

Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy who I've known for a while and he has a girlfriend that he's been dating for six months but he flirts with me all the time and talks about wanting to have sex with me. Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?... (53 words)

I lied to him about the kind of car I drive, how can I tell him the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

- I lied to my bf about the type of car I used to have. I know this may sound really weird, why would I lie about something like that? Well, my car I used to have was a really expensive one and people would always judge me by it. As soon as I say what type of car I had, they will ... (173 words)

I don't want to give the baby, my boyfriend or my education up, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've almost finished with collage, am about to start univsity and have a steady boyfriend. Just on problem, I found out I'm pregnant. My parents where a little upset but are ultimetly okay with it and say they will help out so I can carry on with my education. My boyfriend ... (147 words)

Family dilemma!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My mother died when I was real young and my dad never really got over her but about two years ago he met another woman and they ended up getting married. She has two, a boy my age and a girl a bit younger. You see, me and her son (let's call him M) where made to share a room ... (127 words)

Should I carry on? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya I'm 17 and I'm engaged to a 19 year old and we have been together with a year and a half with a beautiful seven month old daughter. Everything was absolutely perfect we moved in together but when I was 9 months pregnant he started going out a lot more than he used too. I ... (185 words)

My married lover is stalking me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My married lover is stalking me - I only found out he was married recently, he gets a group of his mates to help him spy on me too-thing is, from how he's treated me and the fact that he's married he doesnt love me and from how he is with me I'm sure he's not obsessed - he ... (89 words)

Seeing a married man and he wants us to have sex in his wife's bed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and seeing a married man of 40, and its just mainly sex but i wish he would leave his wife for me, we usually have sex in his car and he suggested how hot and thrilling it would be to have sex in his and his wife's bed? The only thing that worries me is that we might... (66 words)

How can I get this girl to talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How Can I Get This Girl To Talk To Me..... Okay so, There this girl, we were good mates, and she liked me and i guess i liked her, but i never asked her out, i guess i missed my chance. Anyway Now, i feel like im falling in love with her, everytime i think about her or s... (145 words)

Horrible age diffrence! Help me get rid of my crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have now liked this guy for 3 months. But there is just one little problem with it. He happens to be 23 when im only 14. I truly hate liking him cause i cant have him. And i wouldnt do that to anyone i liked cause its illigal and i dnt want him to be in trouble. I ha... (102 words)

She is having the best of both worlds and I am letting it happen!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Well here is the problem. I have been in a serious relationship for 10 years now. Just started going to church. My girlfriend then starts to talking to a preacher who is 28 years old. He has no job and still lives at home with his parents and has never moved out. I am 37 and ... (314 words)

Hours since I lost my virginity and still bleeding! I'm really scared, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so, i just lost my virginity today, and, it really didnt last long because we were both scared. but it kinda hurt a lot. and, it bled. and it still is. and its been about 2-3 hours, am i okay? i cant tell my parents, or his, they'll kill me. please help, im so scared. ]:... (57 words)

How do I go about this crush on my best friend's Bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dying to tell someone about this.... I have a huge crush on one of my best friend's boyfriends. He is funny, caring and good looking. He is also a very touchy feely person and when she is not around gives me hugs and snuggles into my neck (which I a... (201 words)

I enjoyed my sexual encouter with a girl more than I do guys. Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently slept with a woman for the very first time...and I really loved it. It was the most erotic, sensual sex I've ever had. I easily liked it better than being with guys (which I have a good amount of experience with). So this defenitely makes me a lesbian, right?... (51 words)

Don't have any luck with girls! Could my height be the reason behind this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this is embarrassing. i think i have a really good body..but i dnt hav a gf. obviously good girls aren't shallow jus to go for a bloke who takes care of himself.. so i think i hav an ugly face cuz i always hear how girls ask a guy out but i never get asked out by a girl. so ... (153 words)

I'm too wet when we have sex! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just recently got married n wanted some help. When i make love with my husband, i become too wet which makes me feel embarrassed sometimes. I wonder if it is normal.... (33 words)

If we get back together would it be ok for her to talk to this guy? she says she has feelings for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been having quite a few issues lately and have broken up a few times just within the past couple of weeks. We both made some mistakes and I'm trying to make things alright again. I've been trying to get her to give us another chance, but she's been s... (293 words)

How do I stop my bad behaviour toward my girlfriend?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i have been in a relation ship for a yr now n i have the tendency to b self destructive n tell the occasional lie. i feel its to protect my mate but she found out n i dnt no what to do. i dnt mean to hurt her but it happens i love her mre than i love my own life, she is the ... (82 words)

Left my husband for a guy, who later turned abusive so I left, but I'm still in love with both of them. I don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, im not sure where to start in my head my problems are HUGE and i need advice so am hoping you can help. I have been married for 8 years my husband was faithful (i think but there have been some doubts and accusasions by my best friend of otherwise). when we had our little g... (812 words)

Do I tell him my feelings or get over him? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm sixteen years old. It's important you know that I am a very shy, reserved person before I share with you my predicament. Ok, so about a year and a bit ago, I met this guy, we'll call him Ed. He was insterested in my friend, they never got together. Over... (258 words)

Is this relationship ever going to go anywhere? Opinions needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a little over 2 years now. We live about 2 hours away from each other, so we only get to see each other on the weekends. We were both separated when we started dating. I’m now divorced, but he is still in the divorce process. I’m eager to ... (442 words)

How could he change so suddenly? what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello agony aunts and uncles! im sorry this is so long and drawn out but its been niggling at me for a log time now and i just need a bit of help or some insight as to whats going on. first of all i belong to a youth organisation, and im currently a adult instructor, th... (379 words)

Can pre cum make you pregnant?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?... (48 words)

My boyfriend is going on dating websites looking for a discreet relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is going on dating websites looking for a discreet relationship. I confronted him about it and he took down the page saying that he was just stressed about us and it was stupid. But then two weeks later I find another one! We live together and he is not smart ... (192 words)

She loves me but is not sexually attracted to me - what does she mean by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this girl for 2 years in college but towards the end of our relationship we started fighting a lot and kinda fell out of love. We broke up in feb 2009 and continued to remain friends. In May we started hanging out a lot and started acting very couply. We kiss on the ... (206 words)

Is he just being friendly or is there more in it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi hope someone can give their opinion. A few months ago a guy joined the place i work, and we spoke a few times. over the last month things have changed slightly and a few of my friends have commented on how this guy acts around me and have said that its pretty obvious he ... (249 words)

I KNOW he's had oral with another guy! If I ask him and he denies it I'll be gutted.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend borrowed my laptop, when I got it back I found he has been watching gay and Bi porn. He also left facebook chat open and there it was right in front of me.... a conversation with an old male friend which stated they had had oral sex in the past. I have asked him ... (93 words)

How can I hint to him to buy me some flowers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and he hasn't brought me any presents or anything. For valentines day I sent him a card as we are in a long distance relationship and he didn't know what he wanted. I thought he would have brought me a card at least but he didn't ... (104 words)

Can we ever be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently split up with a guy who did me wrong - in a big way. Despite this I genuinely believe he loved me. We've talked and talked and I finally understand why he did what he did although I can't forgive him just yet. However I really want to stay friends with him... (152 words)

Pain in strange places after sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, every time I have really passionate, hard sex with my boyfriend I get terrible pains afterwards, just below my ribs. We dont use a condom because I'm on the pill and he's safe so he finishes inside me. I'm 5ft and weigh 6 stone, if that has anything to do with it and h... (84 words)

I feel as if I just exist. How can I pull my life back together so I enjoy life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Where do I begin. At the moment all I do is exist. I only have one close friend, never had a girlfriend. I sit at my computer all night because I havent got anything to do with my time. I sleep as long as possible just so I dont have to face another day. All my life the only... (307 words)

Getting old and feeling it very hard.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so old along side my younger sister who is 15 years my junior and everybody mistakes me for her mother.. When I'm in my 40s+ my sister will be 25 years old. That is so unfair, I hate being and out of date! Guys will perfer her to me becasue I am old and she is young.... (64 words)

Lonely... need girlfriend for company...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm bored this summer. I don't have a girlfriend and I don't know where to look for one. Sometimes I see some sitting alone in the park but is it normal if I went up to one? Certainly not. Where do I go to find someone nice?... (49 words)

Obsessing over this guy... help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This extends on from another question. The boy, let's call him Connor again, has been a big crush of mine since 7th year. He first made me realise I had feelings for other guys, he is the definition of perfect, I try each day to think of a fault he has, but i really fail. ... (432 words)

What to do with ex and sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago. We had been together for almost 4 years. Right away he was with this woman he met on a dating site! All of our neighbors wanted to know what was going on! She started sleeping over just a few days after the break up and has... (337 words)

I need tips on giving oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this girl that I've been fooling around with for a few weeks now... it will most likely turn into a relationship soon because I have strong feelings about this girl and I'm assuming she does as well because we spend a lot of time with each other as it is, but what I'm ... (138 words)

I feel guilty I lied to him but I'm probably never going to see him again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bit of a problem... last year me and my friend were 15 and we went on holiday to spain, in the resort the drinking age was 16. We met some lads who said they would take us out drinking. After they asked our age my friend said 16, so we just went along with that. They ... (183 words)

I feel his penis is too big for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have sex every time we meet and I feel that his thing is too big because he does it for hours and it hurts me like hell. He keeps on sucking my boobs for hours and licks my pussy throughout and when sex starts he forgets everything. I have no problem. I just ... (101 words)

He wants me to get a six pack!!!! Why would he want me to look more muscular? I'm a female for pities sake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband does not want it at all when I try to instigate it. He has no sex drive at all. Our sex life used to be fairly active, but now it's non-existent. I've tried everything to get him interested: I wore sexy lingerie, I've dressed up for him, had romantic meals, ... (289 words)

How can I get my ex's friends to stop bringing his name up every time I meet them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my ex about a year ago. He ended it and asked for no contact which was good as it helped me move on. Trouble is whenever I run into one of his friends, they always bring him up, as if they have been coached. I am getting tired of it as he is old news. Why are ... (72 words)

How do I tell a guy that's in love with me that I know all about his perverted doings behind my back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, this is gonna be long. So there's this guy I used to be friends with, but then our friendship just sort of wore off when he became a pervert. He shared his very creepy opinions about my friends with other people but never his opinions of me. Just a few weeks ago, he to... (268 words)

Is he screwing me over behind my back or is he just having harmless fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am completely and totally in love with my boyfriend of 1 year. He says he loves me and wants to be with me forever, but I keep finding emails from ads that he responds to on personals sites, and earlier in the year he had multiple ads up of his own, advertising him as single ... (101 words)

I'm scared my boyfriend will object to the dress I've bought.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

- We are invited to a 4th of July party, and I bought a rather modest (in length) strapless summer frock, which shouldn't be a problem except my bf is very particular about what I wear, and I am afraid he will somehow object to this dress!! He also objects to lipstick, and now I ... (98 words)

My girlfriend accused me of cheating but I've never done it. How do I convince her of that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a woman for about 4 months. Things were casual at first but heated up quickly. My emotions took over and I started to fall for her. She didn't express very strong emotions for me, so after much consideration, I ended things for fear of loving someone who ... (475 words)

I love him but I said hurtful things ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up. We got back together for a little bit but he said I pull him into my drama too much and that I always need him to feel sorry for him. I told him I would work on that if he would stay with me. But when he didn't know right away I said ... (91 words)

Quick -- do you think he wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i recently moved to New York City from New Zealand and this guy from my local coffee house keeps looking at me. He's pretty attractive, tan, buff and possibly intelligent(he seems to read the buisness section of my paper. We've spoken once about the economic situation and ... (111 words)

How common is a promiscuous phase in women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - is it common for a woman to go through a brief phase of promiscuity? is four different men in six months a lot if her total of different partners is six or is this type of phase common in a woman's sexual development? ... (47 words)

Should he have to pay these bills?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

- My boyfriend moved in with some friends on a 12 month contract not long before we met. After 4 months of living with them, (though he didnt really as this period was over summer break from uni so he was at home) he moved in with me but still paid the rent on his place as he was ... (365 words)

Is it cruel to move my cat from our old house to my new home, a high rise flate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im hoping someone can help me with my problem, i know that this is a relationship site but i want to know this one thing. I want to know whether its cruel moving my cat away from my old home to my new home, considering my new home is a high rise flat and he wont be able ... (266 words)

Homosexuality versus Christianity

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i wanted to know. Like eversince 15yrs i started finding women attractive and for some reason at age 5 me and my best friend had some lesbo interaction. I dont know what it is but some women just have an affect on me and i end up liking them. Now the thing is im scared. What ... (104 words)

Any ideas how to make sex more special?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm actually into the 6th month of my relationship with a guy and we're in love. and we've experienced a lot together. physically, we've covered all the bases but i think that there's still a lot we have to learn because we are just in our late teens and still very n... (156 words)

Any tips to help me get with this other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - God. Where do i start, Okay, i have a boyf, well i did, we're on a break for summer and we're being single because of arguing and we're thinking of getting back together after summer as it's only a break. But there's this other guy, who is the sweetest guy i've ever met an... (178 words)

Do I let him go or pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey!! Ok. I kind of chased my boyfriend away unintentionarily! I was snooping on his facebook, so i created a false account and i could see his flirting with other girls. I got involved with a guy, but it didnt lead to anything, it was something stupid and he forgave ... (340 words)

Family drama....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My mother in-law wants to move in should i let her it not just her its her grandaughter to because my boyfriends brother is in the army and his mother is watching his child until next year when he comes home we already have 2 kids and 1 on the way even we have a really big ... (75 words)

How can I make her orgasm during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months and our sex life is great. we are both 30. she has never had an orgasm through penetration, we have to get the vibrators out to help make her orgasm afterwards. this doesn't bother me, infact i love it when we use toys on ... (108 words)

Does my cousin care about me or did she just want sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I am 16teen years of age an i need to hear what you think.i have this cousin .She and i are well close friends.here's the story.we had to go to our uncles wedding and me and her were at the back of her mom's car and we were talking.she asked me how old i was,who i am to ... (416 words)

I want one night of fun with her but it will be my first time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl and i are good mates, we keep talking about hooking up for one night of fun, i want to a lot, but at the same time i dont, becuase, well, it will be my first time and im woried that it will be over in like 30seconds and she wont enjoy it, i'm worried i wont be able to ... (82 words)

Where do I stand with this man? I cant bring myself to tell him I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of six years had broken up with me in April. I didn't see it coming. I was in total shock! Like any other relationship, we had problems. We've been in a long-distance relationship for so many years and seemed to work. At the beginning (this is when we were ... (887 words)

Her parents dislike me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a 22yr old Indian girl for the past 5 months, and things are going extremely well between us. If it were up to us, it looks like we would be going down the marriage route. however, the problem is that her parents are very traditional Indian parents that do not ... (350 words)

Dealing with his depression

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I’m new here and have been milling around trying to answer folk’s questions. Well, here goes… My partner and I have been together for seven months and we hit it off from the moment we met nearly a year ago. We have pretty much everything in common and for... (608 words)

I don't want her to think she can lie to me and treat me like a fool, but I don't want to lose her either

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Bit of a long one this. A few months ago i met up with an old school friend. before we met up we'd been emailing and texting each other a lot. during this time our feelings for each other grew. we both felt an emotional and sexual connection. we met up, things were a bit ... (498 words)

He guards his phone with his life! I'm suspicious and tempted to look through it. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my husband for 4 years now. I trust him but his behavior with his cell phone gets me thinking. He guards his phone with his life. Wherever he goes, he takes his phone with him. Should I be concerned? I feel tempted to look through it since he is so ... (67 words)

After 5 weeks together he needs space. Should I wait for him or move on?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating a guy 5 weeks ago.he was going out with a girl on and off for nearly ten years, they broke up nearly 8 months ago. he lives across the road from me also. we spend the first few weeks together stayin up for hours chatting. got on so well and he made all the ... (249 words)

I think my husband is cheating or is going to. Or am I paranoid?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - First, I want to say thank you for everyone who takes the time to read this and respond. My Husband of 3 years, I believe has/or has the intention of cheating. We have a 3 month old and a 2 year old. Lately, he has been hanging around a new friend for 2 months now who has piss ... (566 words)

Am I blindly trusting him? What do you think?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. My boyfriend's friend that is female always sends him texts saying that she loves him and she misses him all the time. He has other females that he is close with and they don't send texts like this chick or at the amount per day. ... (229 words)

I want some more romantic time with my husband. What should I do?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day, I am 28 years old and I've been married almost 2 years now. I love my husband dearly and we have a beautiful baby boy. I love my family. But my question is how do I deal with the death of our romantic status. My husband and I have known eachother for 12 years. We... (289 words)

Things weren't perfect, but this cat issue is pushing me over the edge...

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been living together for 5 months, without getting too deep, she has some medical issues, including some stress and anxiety issues. Shame on me for not really getting to understand the extent of these issues, but I'm adapting. Recently her cat began ... (280 words)

I don't want to lose him, how can I make our relationship better?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here it goes! i am just wondering if you people can help me find ways to make our relationship stronger? i am a jealous person and i try so hard not to be! i think im getting better and i am just a open person where i talk about what bothers me! i just feel like lately we ... (194 words)

I have a mad crush on my friends mom and she knows. Help, what should I do?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a mad crush on my friends mom. She knows too because I stayed over at their house once. In the morning she noticed I was aroused by her in a robe but told me to "take care of it" at home. Then two weeks later I was with my friend playing video games. His parents came ... (136 words)

He keeps boxes of items from his past. Am I wrong for wanting him to let go and move on?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age - My husband (we got married last year)keeps everything he has ever touched: old typewriters, computers, manuals and boxes for things that he doesn't even own.He has 3 storage places that he has had for over 20 years. He is definitely a packrat. He moved into my home and we still ... (429 words)

I'm a virgin but don't want to appear clueless in bed. What moves can I try?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin, but I really want to do it with my boyfriend of 3 months, and I don't wanna seem clueless. What moves could I try for my first time?... (32 words)

I want to get my belly button pierced, any advice?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey well I know this isn't to do with love but I have asked a few questions on this website before and people give really good advice I thought I'd as this on here anyway. I want to get my belly button pierced, I'm 15 almost 16 my mum is letting my younger sister (14) get ... (108 words)

We don't trust each other and now I might be leaving for a job. How can we make this work?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Don't know what to do? I have been dating this girl for almost a year! We live in the same town! In fact she lives about couple of blocks away from me! We spend almost every weekend together! But most of that time we will be fighting! I told her yesterday that I might be ... (143 words)

My bf talks to me about our sex but it makes me uncomfortable

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf and i were together 2 mos nextweek. he always talks about our make love (sex) sometimes it makes me feel unconfortable bec. i think this is the only thing that he likes me. i actually tell it to him how i feel but he told me it's not true he really loves me even without ... (81 words)

She says I'm her friend but friends do not do the things we do together

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I seriously need some guidance or advice. Basically my ex girlfriend and i dated for almost 3 years, we lived together. We broke up around November last year, and she was involved with another woman for 6 months, things did not work out. For about three weeks now, we have been ... (133 words)

Did I scare her away?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - alright here it goes, i cannot beleave im doing this but i need help there is this girl that i showed intrest in over the last few months, and she has shown some back. a few nights ago i had her and a few other friends of ours over my place for some drinks and party games.... (175 words)

I get jealous when she flirts and our sex has dwindled!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 35 year old recently divorced father of 3 young kids and have been in a loving relationship with a 20 year old girl for the last 6 months. I love this girl to bits, she makes me so happy and has given me endless support and love, more than I ever received from my... (461 words)

I wonder if he's become distant but I'm trying to change!

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I really hope someone can help me..I appreciate any responses I get. Ok, so me and my boyfriend were togethr for like six months and it was amazing..like I couldn't have been happier and he felt the same. People we didn't know would comment on happy we seemed together, and ... (415 words)

Wife doesn't want me to go down on her any more

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1 July 2009 (M)

age - I really loved cunnilingus, in fact I enjoyed it more than receiving oral sex, and for many years it was an important part of our lovemaking, but my wife went off it a long time ago. She thinks she's "dirty" down there. I haven't even seen her vagina close up for years. If it ... (100 words)

How do I reconcile that I will cause him pain to make my life more peaceful?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid: I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 yrs. We have a 13 month old son. My bf has put me through hell off and on since I became pregnant. He's subjected me to verbal and emotional abuse at first because he was scared of having a child. THen it was for financial ... (557 words)

Was it just a dream?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, this might sound a bit silly but i just wanna know what other people make of this. last night i dreamt of my b/fs best friend. i was fooling around with him(in the dream) and it felt so good and so real. we get along great and he's just so sweet but i've never thought ... (84 words)

My husband is violent with me but then HE cries and says sorry!

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey So a couple of months ago my fiance and I (we live together and have a year old baby girl) had a really bad fight and he grabbed me around the throat, quite tightly. Afterwards he started crying and said that we had to break up because he's scared he really hurts me.... (259 words)

Been married for thirty years but there's no affection

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1 July 2009 (M)

age - Thirty five years ago I had a girlfriend who I was besotted by, but things didn't quite turn out the way I wanted and she married someone else. I never thought I would meet anyone who could make me feel that way again, so I married my next girlfriend on the rebound, and we have ... (413 words)

No love, just sex!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - how to tell or show to a girl that you wanna get laid with her? and not fall in love with her? whats next step? etc...... (26 words)

My gut tells me he"s cheating

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1 July 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend works away most of the time, i see him once a month. he has visited brothels and escorts before we got together and my gut is telling me that he is doing it again. i have to always ring his mobile when i need to speak to him,never a landline. he has opted to want ... (141 words)

Why do I attract psychos?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so maybe this is more so of a venting session than a question. Why do I attract PSYCHOS???!!! They always have a problem or a chip on their shoulder, they like to act like they're a "victim" when they have serious issues! They lie constantly about dumb things. They ar... (200 words)

Is he going to wait till the baby is born and then run?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked my boyfriend if he could promise he would never dump me and he said "i cant promise that" then said "i have to change my family or he wont stick around" im 8 months pregnant. Is he jus gonna wait til its born and do a runner anyway?... (50 words)

Best friend told me she had a dream about having sex with my brother!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, i have a problem. my best friend and i have been friends for about a year... but this quickly grew to being best friends. Ive always had feelings for her, but she never had feelings for me... so i thought. we talked about it a couple times, but it was vague. The o... (417 words)

Why is he telling people that I'm an atheist?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not a religious person but I do have a high focus on my spiritual health. This guy, I really like him and he likes me too, we get along great, the only thing recently we somehow got to talking about God he's a Christian, I'm not. I totally understand and respect his ... (198 words)

Why masturbate in front of them?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him, but i'm not really sure what to do. I don't really masterbate often because honestly i'm not that good a it. He is just so much better at pleasing me than I am at pleasing myself. Also I have small hands so when I finger ... (86 words)

How can someone be incapable of loving?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me that he doesn't want to be with me because he isn't capable of truely loving anyone and doesn't want to hurt me. He also doesn't want to have sex with me because he knows I will end up getting hurt. I think that my boyfriend must love me if he cares so much ... (220 words)

Left with the tattoo, but not him!

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I look at the tattoo it remind... (90 words)

Confused by his actions and talk!

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey My boyfriend and i live far apart.We have been in sexual relation.He don't call me daily. If i give missed call , he immediatelly calls back and ask me if i have some problem. But once a week only he calls me late night and talk to me for hours. Last night he got erection... (138 words)

She said everything was perfect between us but she doesn't want to be with me!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really like this girl that i met a couple months ago, and for the first month or so things were perfect! spending all our time together. To keep things short and to the point, she would spend the night, i met her parents on several occasions, and we've had sex 4-5 times. She ... (412 words)

Free shot: What's wrong with me? Am I a dirty secret?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - We met, talked, fell in love - (happens when you're not looking for love). I was 39 (divorced, kids not with me) she was 23. I lived on the other side of the country. Long distance was a pain, but we made it work and saw each other as often as possible. I found work and moved ... (357 words)

I don't know what so say to him...someone please help me..please..this is my last hope..

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im so lost to where all i can do is cry and i never wanna leave my house... so i had just turned fifteen and i used to bowl. Well there was this guy there the night leage had come back around and the minute i saw him i fell head over heals...we dated and had se... (826 words)

His snoring interferes with our sleep -- what can we do?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A rather silly question.... My husband and i just got married about a week ago.... Before we got married we use to spend long weekends together as normal couples do. His snoring has always been a problem, its not that it bothers me, i fall a sleep much easier hearing his ... (108 words)

We're set in our respective churches -- should we try to work it out or break up?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and I have been together 9 months. He is catholic and I am baptist. We are concerned about what this will mean if we get married and start a family together. We are definitely in love, but we are very set in our own churches and don't like each others. This ... (122 words)

I'm attracted to my b/f's father -- would it be wierd for me to date him?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, in college, and I've been in a relationship with a boy I met about 4 months ago. Recently (a month ago) I met his single father and he's really attractive to say the least. We had a discussion while my boyfriend was in the shower and it turned into flirting. ... (142 words)

I can't finish without my vibrator -- is this a problem?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So all my life I had trouble orgasming. I didn't have my first until I was 21 and bought myself my first vibrator (though I'd tried with hands without success). My boyfriend is freaking amazing in bed and I have never been so turned on by anyone, but no matter what I can't seem ... (264 words)

This boy said he loves me... I don't know what to do! Is he just awkward, or does he want sex?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay first of all you should know that I’m a Christian and homeschooled and do not believe in sex relationships before marriage. But this boy, who is also home schooled, (he has 9 brothers and sisters) has told me he loves me. My family and I have known him and his family... (435 words)

Could he be starting to like me?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, well when I was younger, I hated the idea of marrige. My mother told me that will change when the right guy comes along. I met this guy Tony. Now, all i think about is what it would be like to marry this man! We are very close, nothing sexual or any thing. I feel like I can ... (415 words)

Being my best friend's other guy.

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been friends with a woman (lets call her Butterfly) for 7 years now (all of our adult lives), she's actually one of my best friends. Butterfly is recently out of a harmful relationship and I am recently out of the military, so for the last couple of years we had light ... (190 words)

My mom won't let me get a second piercing ...

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 and I have one ear peircing on each earlobe. But on my left ear I want a second peircining t the top ( a little silver ring) and my mom would never agree. I am not the kind of girl that would go behind her back and get one nd either way she would sooo notice. What... (91 words)

My husband doesn't give me any money to pay the bills, and I think he's cheating

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ok i dont want to bore everybody with my problem i will try to make it short and plain i am british living abroad with partner unmarried with two kids both to him he works away from home long distance driver i only see him once a week for one day somtimes once a fornight when ... (318 words)

My husband never admits he's wrong

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1 July 2009 (F)

age - for years i have had a problem with my husband. if he says something to me that might insinate that i did something wrong I will alway give him an excuse and can never admit it they I did do something wrong. it is mostly because in my mind I really don't feel it was wrong ... (387 words)

Do I really want him back or is he getting back at me for breaking up with him?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years. I broke up with him 3 months ago. I found out he meet someone. I on the other hand have been trying to get over him. Then bingo he calls after 3 months and wants to see me. So I thought I should explain the break-up. Says he wants ... (129 words)

Am I doomed for spinsterhood?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm nineteen years old and I've never been in a romantic relationship. I've never even had a first kiss. I chalk it up to the fact that I'm frequently afflicted by social anxiety and have a depressive inclination. I always shy away from guys when they ask me out and try to a... (151 words)

My girl always tells her friends our relationship problems before she tells me!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My current girlfriend always tells her friends our relationship problems before telling me and it really bugs me. its as if she expects her friends to tell me for her. For example im going to go see a movie with my friend this weekend and she a woman. (Me and her are very close ... (202 words)

I love him, but he's still dealing with issues about his ex

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For the first time, I truly love a man, but I can't let him know because it would freak him out. His ex badly hurt him about a year ago - they'd been together for 5 years when she cheated on him. She's still with the other guy but still sees my one (lets call him Simon). I've ... (421 words)

Plucking your eyebrows.... what should I do?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know what other girls do when you pluck your eye brows... i just sort of 'clean them up' i guess. just plucking the ones around the edge and the next day they look really messy again. should this happen or do i have very fast growing eyebrows???!!! also ho... (88 words)

How do I tell her I'm sorry and really want to trust her?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have a problem. I am too jealous. This girl I been dating her for almost 6 months. And she has never give me any reason why not to trust her. And I haven't heard notting bad about her, in fact all I have heard its good stuff of her. On this past saturday we went to a ... (402 words)

The break up is fresh, how can I deal with the pain and when can I talk to her again?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I loved her, we had so much in common.. I thought relationships that work are based on a commonality and similarities.. I guess not.. To be honest she was first 'real' love, someone i thought i could be with always. I would love to have her back, but Im not counting... (327 words)

Daughter feels its ok to masturbate in the open?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I am a 41 years old single mother. My daughter is 15 years old and I was single ever since her father left me when she was 9 years old. She's a very bright student and scores very good marks at her exams, excels in sports and extra curricular activities... (509 words)

Unless I shave all my body hair, she won't have sex!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend has pretty much made it clear that she will refuse to have any sexual relations with me unless i shave of all of my body hair. I have never had to do this and it makes me a little uneasy. Is this normal for some girls to hate hair this much, and should i do it. ... (58 words)

Did I just throw 5 years away?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, please help me find some kind of relief from this. I am beyond stressed right now. About a week ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of five years. I felt it was the best thing for me to do because I had issues with him not being able to commit to me completely. That... (445 words)

Is he moving slowly because he doesn't like me that much?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy "Ben" 2 or 3 months ago and we got on really well. A few weeks ago we were out dancing one night when he kissed me and said he really likes me. So far so good right :) In the taxi home that night (we live near each other) he brought up that a common friend of ... (243 words)

I have to forget about my counselor...how can i?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen and last week I attended this church camp that I've been going to every summer for 7 years. But, this year, I met this new counselor who's 20 and I really liked him. Now that I'm home I really really miss him. Like, I just can't stop thinking about him and I have ... (132 words)

Falling out of love? I'm I not expressing my emotions clearly?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't feel like I'm in love with my bf anymore, we've been together for about 3 yrs now and were friends for about 5 yrs before that. Due to a mutual decision for him to move out and move in with his friend Mark as a roommate b/c of our financial situation at the time he no ... (773 words)

I want my ex to have her closure...what do I say?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl for two months a year ago. The relationship ended when I told her I had "hooked up" with someone else. That someone else was my old best guy friend. I only said "hooked up" but all I did was kiss him. After I told her I had "hooked up" with him, she ended the ... (183 words)

I feel like my step dad favors my sister more than me...

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've got an issue, my mom died like a year ago and lately i've been getting like these jealous rages with/about my step sister and step dad.... i don't know why i get mad, i just do! and i get soo jealous. like the past 2 weeks my step sister, let's call her jamie, was in ... (153 words)

Is the man I love gone forever?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy I have been dating for the past 8 months has not always been the most affectionate (up to my standards I guess) and so this has been an issue since day one. We have discussed this and he has always made an attempt but then things go back to the way they were. My bf has ... (337 words)

Break up, make up, break up again?

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend, we've had a lot of problems during the last 2 weeks , everything started when we went to a club 2 weekends ago, I got a little drunk, but i felt he was pushing me away to dance with another guys, at some point he told me to my face he wanted to dance with ... (437 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend? It's not fair on him, these feelings I have for my ex!

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused...my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months, but have only been in an 'official relationship' for 2 weeks. I love him so much, he's one of my best friends and I know how many times people say this, but, I honestly don't know what I'd do without ... (250 words)

Calling all horse people (and others)!

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so i went bareback riding on the pavement on my friends horse who i lease....obviously dumb idea i realize now...she got spooked and galloped off and i fell and held the reighns and got dragged and she kept rearing so i let go....she stayed still..i had to get back on and ride ... (246 words)

29 year old male virgin, still approaching women with zero luck. Any tips appreciated!

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1 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im a 29 year old male going to turn 30 next month. i am indian american born and raised in NJ. i have never kissed, dated,..still a virgin. i am not shy when it comes to approaching. i have been approaching women since the age of 18. i have approached all types of woman but ... (203 words)

Can a boy just seriously stop liking you like that?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so there is this boy ive been hooking up with. the whole day we were have a really good convo and he was telling me how much he wanted me and cares about me and that this relationship isnt committed...its not just physical to him and that he respects me so much etc. well ... (281 words)

I'm lost right now...

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years since i was 19 i do love him but feel like I am missing out on life and we now have 2 kids i am pregnant now and i feel like we have to stay together for our kids he has no lue that i feel this way but everyday is like a routine i get up ... (187 words)

Just a friend...

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1 July 2009 (M)

age - I'm a 45 year old man who has been married for 18 years. We tried to have kids but it never happened since she waited until he late 30's (we're the same age). So I really missed out on the family that marriage is supposed to provide - you know, crazy kids and lotsa love. Anyhow ... (369 words)

How can he love someone else in just one month?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much for 2 years now i did everything i could to be with him. Sex, care, be there, go out anytime n everytime he need me. I love him n he loves me. We went throught hard time together he is my everything but just the other day he told me that he needs ... (155 words)

Does this mean he still has feelings for me or am I putting words in his mouth?

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1 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my husband are getting a divorce. we have been married for 2 years. he says he done with me and he has found him an older much older woman than him that he is in love with he says. he tells me not to txt him anymore unless its about our 12 month old son. i was talkin to ... (182 words)