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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He wasn't making me feel good, so I broke up! Should we try again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Well... my boyfriend and I been dating close to a year, never been perfect, he sucks in bed, but I have fallen in love regardles. For some reason, can't explain it why, he casues for me to withdraw, I like him and want to be cheerful and happy around him but he is like a ... (251 words)

How do I get her number without insinuating anything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi people, i need some advice desperately... So pls pls reply! Im 22 yrs old, and a very shy guy. I started a job (2 months) and there is this girl at work i really like. Now i got to know her slightly over the time, we talk on breaks or lunches when it happens coincide... (293 words)

Is it right to make my boyfriend choose between me and his mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. We have two kids together and he has one with someone else. When i first met him his mom was taking his son which i didn't understand. We got pregnant with out first child and before our first son was born we started taking ... (794 words)

How do I deal with him staring at me all the time at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - okay I have been working at my same job for about three years. I always remain true to myself, I know I am attractive, and that I am a people person. well, there's this guy at my job, from the beginning when he got hired to now we have been staring at each other back and forth. ... (214 words)

How do I get my psycho boyfriend to come back? And then when he does how do I make him work for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i have recently lost my virginity to him. I love him more than anything and want to be with him for the rest of my life. However, we have manyyyy fights and basically fight over everything.. I think it also comes ... (411 words)

How can I get him to want me the way he used to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this lad about 6 months ago, and we automatically clicked. We rushed into a relationship, and although I knew he cared, I wouldn't have sex with him. We ended up giving up on the relationship. A few weeks later, however, we started getting close again, and although... (203 words)

Freakish foreskin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm 19, and I've never really been concerned about the fact that I'm uncircumcised, but today I tried on my first condom, it got all bunched up due to foreskin problems, and one thing lead to another and I got online checking all sorts of things about uncircumcised guys. ... (118 words)

I'll bet you've never read a more messed up story than this one!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right then there is a girl who i can say honestly isnt a hotty but she is beautiful i mean truly beautiful an angel among men and her personality is to die for. I love her to the ends of time i would go through hell and stay there for 1 million years just to see her smile. ... (456 words)

My girlfriend wants a boob job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My Question, Problem call it what you will Been dating this girl for around a year now and we are by this time very close (close enough by now that i really should be talking to her about this and not an internet). Anyway, She's decided she wants to get a boob job and for s... (264 words)

Fully stressed, with the world on my shoulders, how do you blanket your feelings of aloneness that may extend to loneliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have posted here before asking questions and have come closer to finding 'answers' to a multitude of thoughts. These are all different questions that came from the same source, that lead to different layers of my psyche. Lately, I have found myself running on a hamster whe... (435 words)

How do I leave controlling bf without being guilt-tripped back in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everybody. I have been in a relationship for about 2.5 years (with 2 "breaks" in between). In the 1st break he went out with someone else and hid it from me and lied about it. Yes I know I'm dumb to take him back. He showed great improvement when we got back together... (655 words)

I feel addicted to sex... How much is too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have sex constantly. Its my wanting to most of the time. But he doesn't want to sometimes because he says we have sex every day. I'm just always in the mood when it comes to him. Am i addicted to sex? I feel like i need it constantly. How much sex is too much ... (59 words)

Want to have sex with my boyfriend but worried about how my 'stubble' down there looks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - right, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month now and we both have decided we want to have sex. But i'm a virgin and i'm really nervous but i've also told my boyfriend this. The problem is, he keeps asking me if i shave, and i do, but i get black stubble ... (76 words)

His ex can't get over him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend broke up with his girlfriend and now we are together. she still calls him, emails him, shows up at his house. she even goes past boundaries and calls me! she still acts like they are together. she will go from acting like they are together to being a bitch an... (213 words)

17 and only find men over 40 attractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - As you have probably seen from my last post I am in love with my teacher. But I only seem to be attracted to older men, I dont know why. I have never felt any affection to boys my age. Im 17 years old, im quite friendly to one guy who kissed me the other day but I felt nothi... (116 words)

If he likes me why isn't he speaking to me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and this boy like each other We used to talk or actually text everyday Now it all stopped We would talk like once or maybe twice a week Recently I was talking to him through text and he asked me " I know this sounds wierd but do u still like me?" At that time I ... (182 words)

My BF says if I loved him I would have sex with him

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 39. he said he loves me and if I loved him I would have sex with him. what should i do?... (27 words)

How can I make my penis bigger without pills?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - is there any way to make your dick bigger without pills or nothin that costs alot of money? like naturally really im fourteen and my dick is a litte over five inches hard two inches wide. is that normal size? if not how do you make it bigger? please help... (56 words)

Should I leave my fiance even though I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I thought I was going to marry my best friend, but now I feel like I am making a huge mistake by committing my life to my fiance. "John" and I were as close as any friends could be- we worked together, spent every day together and hung out in social situations toget... (1018 words)

Why do good looking guys always get girlfriends?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - why is it good looking guys always get girlfriends no matter where there are.... (14 words)

14 years old and seeking girl advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - What do girls like in a guy? And what do they like to be told? How do you just go talk to them? What are you supposed to dress like? I gotta over one hundred dollar bottle of diesel and they go crazy over it and are attracted to me like a pack of hungry wolves. What kinda th... (190 words)

Since having kids my wife is never in the mood for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ever since we had a kid three years ago my wife is never in the mood for sex what can i do... (22 words)

Mixed feelings after a threesome with my BF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know i`m outta my head. For my bf birthday me and my best friend (who knows him well) had talked about a special gift. Still full of fear we planned the three of us and he was having a one off threesome he`d always joked with us about (he never said it to me alone),or was ... (239 words)

Should I break up with him? If so, where, when and how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going out with a boy from the year above who really likes me and I kinda like him. He kept asking me out for months and has liked me for a year I think. The only problem is he gets jelous easily, but tries to hide it, coz I have lots of guy friends. He's also kinda cling... (231 words)

What is this unknown spot on my genital area?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I have this problem. Recently I found a spot on my gential area. This was say a week ago. Earlier today I found another. The one I found seems to be sore whilst the other isn't. I have never had sex and haven't engaged in any sexual contact (eg foreplay) in a... (74 words)

If I get pregnant, he says he'll do a runner! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and my boyfriend keeps telling me he thinks i'm pregnant. first time was when i felt sick, he said i was pregnant. second was when i started my period a day before, he went mental saying i'm pregnant etc, and loads more sh*t like that. :( i can't take the constant... (156 words)

Can I take this as a sign of affection that he's into me or do some guys just like to cuddle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I take this as a sign of affection that he's into me or do some guys just like to cuddle? I'm casually seeing this guy and yes we are sleeping together. He likes to cuddle in bed, especially after sex. When I fall asleep he's holding me and when I wake up he's still holding ... (78 words)

My Fiance is sending sexual emails to old female friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age - My finance is still emailing an old female friend and using sexual innuendos, he says he is not in touch with here however I know for a fact he is lying, what do I do confront her?... (37 words)

I've been unfaithful and am unhappy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for 9 years, married for one a half years. I have often had doubts as to whether I ought to have married him (I have had no other serious relationships and barely any boyfriends) and more recently I have been quite unhappy wondering if this us really ... (417 words)

My boyfriend is violent, why do I still love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently got back with a guy that i've known for years. i fell for him very quickly he was sweet and give me anything i want but here lately he start getting very mad to the point he hit me once and tried to again and keeps threaing to hurt me bad i can talk to who i want but ... (106 words)

To treat my husband: spend a lot on a day, or pick something that won't break the bank?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 months now and I wanted to do something special for him. He works really hard and finds it hard to chill out so I thought of either taking him to a day spa or just for a massage at a good salon in my town. Should i push the boat ... (94 words)

Can anyone give me an idea about what's in his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex split with me few weeks back. I'm not sure but think he cheated on me with his new girlfriend as they got together couple of weeks after we split. After weeks of him being undeceive of how he wanted me in his life as friends of not, I sent him an email telling him I'd had ... (193 words)

Things have gone from bad to worse with my abusive boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi! i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for three years now. at start, things were going so well but as time pass by it changes. he started hurting me,physically. and it really hurts me to know that he can do that to me. then, i met this guy through my best fri... (264 words)

I have same name crushes, am I crazy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it weird that I keep crushing on guys with the same first name? I'm fairly sure it's just co-incidence but has anyone else ever found the same thing happening to them? There are two guys that I have fancied for a few a years and they are both called Alex. I am also drawn to... (102 words)

My boyfriend is Bi-Polar and has panic attacks and 4 a year old child. Bad mix?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i just split up with my boyfriend, he suffers from panic attacks and is bi-polar, he always does things when i break up with him, like do pills, panic, go out looking for fights, things like that. the problem is, his daughter is staying with him for a week and i'm scared he's ... (85 words)

My Husband wants to dress in satin maid outfits while cleaning the house.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3735 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all I was hoping you can help, my husband and Ib have a great sex life and we are both quite openminded. My husband has admitted that he is Bi and has fantasies about being dressed in satin and being a sissy with other men. I know he has a major satin fetish and I try... (140 words)

I was in danger and could of died, but he couldnt care less because he needed his sleep!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had a rocky beginning. I loved him more than anything and it wasn't mutual. I did let him go and it took me dating another for him to realize he loves me. We've been together for five years and I thought everything was fine but last night I was in danger and ... (218 words)

What do you buy for a 4 year old who has everything?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My 4 year old son is soon to graduate from his private nursery school,and as you can imagine its going to be a very emotional event especially for mums and dads but not for his dad as he is very reluctant to take any real interest in his son`s life unless he has been pushed to ... (109 words)

I do love my fiancé but we keep drifting further and further apart, and to make things worse my ex is back in the picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My problem, I've been in a relationship with my fiancé, for 2 years. We fight no more than normal, but when we do fight it's usually me getting completly fed up with the fact that she does nothing, no want or drive to work, she sits around and gets my place dirty and doesn't ... (283 words)

What do I do? We both know how good we are for each other but we are not together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i fell in love with my best mate...told him how i feel...and he said the timing is wrong and wants to be friends. we became friends but more distant. still talk to each other. things always bring us back together when we spend time apart. in jan 09, i started working with him... (509 words)

Large labia minora....is this a turn off to men?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello This is a little bit embarrassing.... I just wondered if anyone could give me HONEST answers as to what they think as i'm too embarrassed to ask anyone I know. I have large labia minora that hang down a little... i am so paranoid about them...is this a major turn off f... (63 words)

Men: What do you look for in a girl when you want a long term relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Quick question for men: what do u like from a girl at the beggining ? What is the thing that u look for a girl that u think in a long term relationship with her?... (35 words)

Everything was going great until we had sex! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i met this guy at work and he was into me and i was too. he was real nice and sweet. until we had sex thats when everything went wrong. he started to treat me bad. until one night he called me when he was drunk. he was telling me he liked me and stuff but i dont know i ... (79 words)

On one hand it is the best relationship I've ever had, on the other hand it is the worst!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age - he is a great guy, but has a couple of problems. have been with him 15 months he lives with me. we havent been intimate for 10 months, i ask him if he wants to be with me and he says yes but there is no affection. it is like living with a roommate. we sleep together but in a... (128 words)

I have been in a gay relationship for 4 years, but I've found out that he's been looking at heterosexual porn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25, been in a gay relationship with my partner of 4 years, he's 28. We have good jobs and live together in our city flat. In most respects, our life is good, no issues there, apart from our sex life. My partner does not seem to want sex any more, and I think I know the... (296 words)

Does my ex like me more than his new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, here is my problem. At the beginning of this year I was dating my dream man. Tall, gorgeous, funny and loving. The fact that I was with him was a dream come true! After a while things became rusty and we ended up spliting up. I was gutted. It took a while but things g... (243 words)

Why are we so shy around each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy and he likes me back We talk or actually text everyday but all of a sudden stopped, no I idea why Anyways.. the thing that bothers me is that when we see each other, we act like we don't like each other ( crush like) When we would go to the movies with other... (185 words)

Should I continue my chase, or is she just not that into me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I really could do with a second opinion on this please; I’m even more ‘lost’ now. Here’s the background to my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-invited-me-to-her-party-and-id.html Basically I went to the party last night (sorry I pretended it was the ... (411 words)

This is a serious question - How do pimps operate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi does anyone know any of the tactics pimps use to groom girls for prostitution - like what kind of mind games they play or if they sometimes operate in gangs or if they would stalk a girl? This is a weird question I know but please only answer if you have a serious answer. ... (124 words)

My boyfriend is a slacker in bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I have a really bad problem, i love the guy I’m with more than anything, but, well, in bed he's not exactly great... I’m lucky if he lasts 5 minutes and he’s really selfish in bed. I spoke to a mate of mine, and we were talking about sex and all I could think was ... (111 words)

How am I supposed to feel passionate when we never make out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance rarely ever kisses me "with tongue". He has problems breathing through his nose so he says he can't breathe when he does. How am I supposed to feel passionate when we never make out? Is it wrong of me to get sick of little kisses? Is it weird to get turned off by ... (58 words)

My boyfriends unromantic proposal is disappointing

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend asked me to marry him 4 months ago. He did not have any kind of romantic little speech or poem. He didn't even say how much he loved me- just plain old "will you marry me". He has not brought up getting married ever since. What can I do- I am really disappointed ... (94 words)

He said he knew we would have sex as soon as he met me, is this because I look easy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age - Met this guy on internet dating. He said he knew when we met that we are going to have sex. Why did he say that? Because I look easy or because he also felt that there is some chemistry? Went for coffee at his place and when I got home someone wrote "another" in the dust on ... (85 words)

14 and pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 14 and possibly pregnant. I just want to know how most dads react? My dad is violent and im scarred he wuld hit me. ... (26 words)

I slept with my ex, what does it mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and i have a son together although we are not together, i told him that i needed to have plain sex with him to get him out of my system we split 6 years ago, after alot of no's from him we agreed to meet, in secret away from my now partner. anyway, we went to his house ... (368 words)

We broke up, but I still want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf broke up for about a month now. We've been together for about 4 years (next Saturday). We've remained "friends" and he called me almost everyday. The problem is that we keep on fighting over and over for the same mistakes that we made. We fought a great big time ... (159 words)

I don't want to be a second wife but I love him so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 24+ and i really need someone in my life(a fiance),i dont want to be too desperate about it because i dont want to fall into the wrong hands. i dated my boyfriend for four years but i have broken up with him because he doesn't trust me, he is a cheat, a liar and he is ... (125 words)

He's looking to move out because I'd rather walk away than fight with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a pressing issue. I am with a loving man and we get along 95% of the time. He moved in with me last year and we are to be married next year. Here's the thing. When it's good it's good, when it's bad it's horrible! We fight about the kids, he says they are not disciplined ... (202 words)

How can I have feelings for anothe when I'm supposedly in love with my partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for the last 4 1/2 years, we have been through a lot and have always been there for each other. Our relationship was great from the start and we have a lot of history together, which made the feeling of finally getting together even be... (386 words)

Why put on a dating website "just looking for friends"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I have a profile on a dating website. I found a really interesting guy so I messaged him. We messaged back and forth for a while, until I noticed his relationship status was "unknown". So it turns out he has a girlfriend and is just looking for friends. I think it's wierd ... (130 words)

After 11 years he left me for another woman but I don't think he knows what he wants!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years he moved straight in with her after only knowing her for 3 weeks and this is true as she told my ex sister in law that they been together for that period so i know its true. she has a 8 year old boy too since moving in ... (407 words)

I need a man I can call my own!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i am with a married man but the thing is that he an his wife lives 1000 miles apart 4 the summer an christmas they hook up an i am left on the back burner till i see himm again i do love him an i no he loves me but i cannot handle being the second woman he tells me ... (87 words)

Married again but realized now I'm not happy now what?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in agony over my situation for a while now and it is tearing me up inside. I am currently in my second marriage, after my first marriage ending poorly due to being a victim of domestic violence (yes, men can be victims). Over time, I have realized that my... (257 words)

Broke up, went out, she kissed another guy and I freaked!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - 3 weeks ago my girlfriend and i split, although we were only together 4 3 months we built a very strong relationship and it has taken some getting over. Last night we went out together for a drink which resulted in us heading into town and making a real night of it. Throughout ... (226 words)

He followed me into the bathroom and told me to dump my loser girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was at a restaurant with my girlfriend and her best friend who was with her boyfriend, and everything was going well. We'd been out as a foursome before, so there were no problems there up until now... That day, I had to go the bathroom, and her best friend's boyfriend ... (223 words)

He picked her! I'm shocked and upset and disappointed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I originally posted this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-have-been-getting-on-so-well-but.html Please read that first because this is a follow on from that. Basically he picked her. I am shocked and upset and dissapointed. Even though we were onl... (283 words)

How do I stop feeling bad about when he masturbates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend and I are in a committed relationship and the sex is extremely satisfying and frequent for both of us. I definitely have a higher libido than he does, but I can really easily coax a higher libido from him when I want it. We talk really openly about masturbation ... (335 words)

What shd I think of this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i went to see the wife at her work for a cup of tea when entering the shop there was no one there. then a work mate popped out of the kitchen very red faced so i goes int he kitchen to find my wife very nervous and shaching like a leaf she couldent even look at me what should i ... (62 words)

Should I just leave him? He doesn't show affection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

- How do men behave when they want out of a relationship but don't have the balls to tell you so?...My b/f of 4 yrs. been very distant. Snaps at me over everything. Hardly ever e-mails me during the day like he used to. He rarely talks about his work like he used to. If I ask he ... (225 words)

I found out I'm pregnant and he says he can't even be a friend to me right now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really at a stand still at this point in my life and I just need some advice.I started seeing a guy about a year ago, this is the first man i've been with in eight years.We are not in a relationship but we do or I should say did things as if we were in one.I know for sure ... (225 words)

He's not into showing love on text!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't understand my boyfriend, when he sees me he shows all the things that says he is in love with me with me. He stares at me so intensely, holds my hand even in the most uncomfortable position and he tells me he misses me. As soon as he sees me, he asks to hug me and he ... (272 words)

Does this mean anything?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was at my friends bday party at her house She has a playground and like around 5 of us were just hanging out and chatting I was by the swings This boy ( the only boy with us) was on top of the slide right above me The rest of the people were just next to me So ... (167 words)

He hurts me or makes me cry and I'm living in fear

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, and it's been pretty rocky. He's been putting me down about certain things that occurred before we were even together! I was in a "relationship" with a guy he despises, so he beat me up verbally about it for the ... (346 words)

Pregnant with twins, but my boyfriend doesn't like the names I've picked out!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am twenty four years old and I discovered about four months ago I was pregnant and then I discovered I was pregnant with twins! I was just estastic and so was my boyfriend of two years. We have had so much fun preparing there rooms and going shopping for clothing and all... (152 words)

Ex won't get back with me because she keeps thinking about the bad times

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all, I had a gf for 2yr 8mnths. It was a very solid bond between us. Then due to some misunderstanding we dint speak to each other for some time and then she broke up with me. Some times i had not been on my best behaviour and hurt her emotionally and she keeps thinking a... (99 words)

A one night stand or more?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help. I know D for about 2 years, on and off, we were never close. I was in his city recently so I asked him out for drinks, which led to dinner, and ended up in me at his place. I was drunk, and I didn't think much of it. ONS maybe. I left in the ... (245 words)

Will I be able to trust again?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wit my boyfriend for 5 month... he was first love, my first everything... bt wen he cheated on me (twice) everything fell apart and I broke up wit him. Now ever since I broke up wit him my relationships with men have been down hill. But nt jt with men... also wit ... (127 words)

Was I wrong?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I resently had a huge fight because he thinks I am disrespectful to his friends. He has this dumn friend he considers his bff all of a sudden and now he is saying things he never said before. He is pointing out things that are "wrong" with me that he never saw ... (142 words)

Would a song for your personal vows be a good choice?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question. I know its not really pertaining to relationships but I was just wondering do any of you know if it would be ok to use a song for your personal vows?... (35 words)

Any ways to tell my baby's gender before my ultrasound??

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All! Okay this is kind of a silly question and its basically just because Im impatient due to excitement. Im 13 - 14 weeks pregnant and I have an ultrasound on the 14th of august to see how they baby is!!! But it also happens that the doctor will tell us the gender of the ... (166 words)

Husband texting and flirting with a single 22 year old!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am at a loss as what to do. My husband and I have been having problems lately because of another girl. This is the story. Right after we got married and had our second child, (the first was 5 at the time) we were doing great. Then 1 month into our marriage he claims that he ... (895 words)

Any advice on how to handle myself and my neighbor?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age - When I moved into my neighborhood, the first woman I met was very friendly and she and her husband were out immediate next-door-neighbors. We became very cordial, and exchanged cards, did samll favors for each other, such as taking in parcels and watering the plants, and ... (553 words)

How to help him get over me?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister had a boyfriend from which she had a son who I love, my only and favorite nephew. They never loved each other and the relationship deteriorated fast and broke up. But he ended up falling in love with me, I liked him too so we had a relationship in secret. This has ... (179 words)

Need some help with roleplaying

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23 July 2009 (?) age - Everytime I roleplay with my boyfriend, I always mess up or kinda lose interest. I feel bad too because he loves to do it with me. How can I stick to the RPing and and have fun with it? ... (42 words)

I feel like we weren't meant to be together but the sex is amazing!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for 2 months then I cheated on my bf by making out with another guy one night. After that I broke up with him even though he did not want to. We remained friends and then a few months later we began to talk about giving us another shot. One ... (304 words)

Should we give our child the freedom to choose or enforce one of our religions on our child?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, umm so i found out a few weeks ago that me and my husband are going to have a baby, and i'm really excited but the only problem is that he's christian and i'm catholic. were both stressing out because we don't know what to raise our child, christian or catholic. my question ... (96 words)

Her mom and brothers are against us dating!

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 17 and my girlfriend is 13 we are 4 years apart. what makes it worse is my friend little sister her mums took away her phone and made it clear not to try to talk to her daughter again and her bros are pissed off". this might led to fighting. what should i do? please hel... (153 words)

What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum alone?

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I had sex three or four times throught the day recently, one of those times (the first) a condom was used, the rest we didn't have any, so one was not used. My question is this: What is the probability of pregnancy from the precum alone? I urinated after e... (79 words)

Having Doubts on our relationship (Warning: LONG)

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my bf and I having been dating for two years now and I don't know if I should call it quits or not. In the beginning it was great, we had a lot in common, could be on the the phone for hours at a time and clicked very easily. I could share anything with him, and he seemed t... (726 words)

What can I do to show them that I love him and that our relationship is real?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my current husband 8 months ago. We started dating and with in 4 months he asked me to move in with him. With in 6 weeks of living together he asked me to marry him and I said Yes. Both of our families were shocked but his family seemed very upset with our relationship. ... (230 words)

Want a child and fiance has changed his mind!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for approx. 4 years. I am 38 years old. He is 49 years old. From the beginning of the realtionship I told him I wanted one child. He agreed to this. We got pregant once- I miscarried. He has since changed his mind - says he is too ... (258 words)

19 and looking to get my tubes tied

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently 19 and looking into getting my tubes tied. I know that this is a risky operation and I can blow my chances of ever having children but I am strongly curious about this option. Does anyone know what the chances are of pregnancy after a reversal? Are there any ... (96 words)

We've got back together, but now he's acting differently! I feel lost, please help

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i met a guy on the internet a year and a half ago and when we first met ahh he was great the usual and clamed to love me very much , alot has gone on since we have had alot of small rows lead to big fights and even splits, we were going through a break up when i found out i was ... (448 words)

What's going on with this guy? I think he may like me, but doesn't talk much!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We're in college and have recently been at the same events. I recently noticed him looking in my direction quite abit, though im unsure of if i'm dreaming. I had this strange eye contact thing when i caught him staring at my face. And once when he left my table, he turned... (208 words)

I'm religious and have told him I'm not taking it any further, but he still wants to try his luck. What can I do?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's what's going on. I'm mormon, age 20, a virgin. I have a bf, 21, not a virgin. I tell him my restrictions for our relationship of going to 3 months, I tell him I want to wait until marriage before I have sex, including oral, he's agreed to help me keep it that way. ... (322 words)

I can't find girls my age outside of school. Should I go for older woman?

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I go to a conservative christian school, I am an Atheist however and I want to know where I can find girls my age 17, outside of school. I go to the city every day and hang out in book shops and coffee shops but, I can never see a girl my age there, the girls at school tell me ... (96 words)

Who should be head of household and lay down the rules?

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23 July 2009 (M)

age - I've been with my wife for 10 years. She has never had a job. I have always paid most of the bills with very few exceptions. she collect ssi and public assistance. She pays what she wants on the bills. Recently it has been $80.00 a month for the rent and utility bills total. ... (288 words)

My ex says he loves me but won't date me anymore... How do I get over him?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have had problems with trusting guys wen i got hurt a year or two ago. well i meet this guy and he promised he wouldnt hurt me. well we went out for a week when i have liked him for half a year. he broke up with me and i cried so much. he keeps telling me he loves me and ... (75 words)

Is there something wrong with me? Girls never seem attracted to me!

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. is there anything wrong with me? I can't never seem to attract any girls. everywhere I go its girls and whenever I try to approach them it seems like they don't want me near them. I know there's gonna be plenty girls down the road but it seems like forever to get down the ... (86 words)

I gave my daughters boyfriend permission to propose to her.... But having second thoughts about it!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter and her boyfriend met on some Harry Potter fan site a few years ago and have been together now for three years. They started dating when he was 17 and she was 20 and they met in real life only last year. Before their relationship even started, she had major trust ... (419 words)

My boyfriends mother hates me! What can I do?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend has been together for 2 yrs and it has been a bumpy road for us but we are managing and still are together, but the problem is his mother, she hates me and he says no she dont but i know because is not possible for somebody to one day like u and the minute ... (329 words)

I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just scared. Scared to be alone and ... (175 words)

He really likes me but I just don't feel the same. How can I get him to leave me alone?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i broke up with a 24yo guy as I'm just not that into him. he still wants to meet up all the time and calls me all the time. I took his virginity and was his first real gf. I know he really likes me, but at the end of the day, i didn't feel the same. i feel guilty for hurting ... (119 words)

What can I say to my best friend? I don't want her to get hurt anymore by these confusing relationships

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend is bi sexual. and she loves another one of my friends and they both like eachother. but the girl she likes has a boyfriend and likes a couple other people. what do i tell my best friend so she wont get hurt anymore?... (46 words)

My ex hates me and hurts my feelings, but I really want us to be frineds

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What should I do I want to be friends with my ex but he calls me a bitch and says just give up i don't want to be friends. He really hates me and he hurts my feelings sometimes but i know deep inside he wants to be friends hes just to afraid to admit it. He says I yelled I hate ... (78 words)

How do I stop hurting my boyfriend..I really don't want to be with him anymore

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Over the past year or so, my bf and 5 years and I have had 3 of "those" talks. Each time it was about the same thing - whether I still want to be with him or not as I was not showing it. Each time I have assured him that I do love him and want to be with him, and each time I ... (273 words)

She likes multiple guys, including me

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok ok theres a girl i really like. alot! she said that she likes me too, but im not the only guy she likes. today she broke up with her bf and everyone thought bc of me, but idk. she told her cousin that we were "talkin" but she isnt looking for a relationship so soon. and ... (155 words)

I'm letting hims play mind games with me

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to go out wit this guy..i called it quits cuz it just didnt go anywhere.then for a champioship in la we went in the same plane and we had fun and flirted.then when we got in california he told me that i've changed since i got to cali and i really didnt notice change in ... (303 words)

Can I get HIV's if he is positive?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have recently been with a guy who is very promiscuous, we didn't completly have an intercourse because i was drunk and dry so he just got his tip in for a few milimiters and then took it away before we came, what i am worried about is that he didn't have any condom on and he ... (91 words)

He left us for his internet woman. I need to move on, but cant!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 15 years left me and our 2 sons for a woman he met on the internet. He walks around and acts like nothing is wrong, like this is the Reba show. I was totally devastated. When i do talk to him he just blames me for the way our relationship had gotten. We argued ... (133 words)

Please help! Only 15 and I think I'm pregnant!

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help please I think I might be pregnant and Im only 15. Im on the pill and last month I had sex with my bofriend (didnt use a condom) I was on the pill but about a week ago my period was late then came and when I stopped taking the pill, I started bleeding again but only for ... (100 words)

I like chatting and dating online...Anything wrong with online dating or LDR as a result?

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I'm a 14 year old boy. I like to go online into chat rooms and talk to girls around my age. when I'm talking to them I always ask of their features such as if they have a big butt or big breast. I love dating girls online. can anybody tell me if its wrong to date online or ... (66 words)

Married but have found a FWB relationship

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for MANY MANY years. Last year, my husband and I decided to separate, but to stay together as room mates for while due to finances. I found a married man and started an affair with him. My husband decided that he wanted to stay married afterall. He has NO ... (224 words)

I need help before I destroy more lives!

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23 July 2009 (M)

age - why am i such a pessimist it truly is awful being like this,im actualy an horrible person but i am quite good at fooling people especially women,i know that my ex girlfriend was good to me in loads of ways but i even turned her against myself,blaming her for the breakdown when ... (70 words)

Mixed signals as we're apart

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23 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This is long, I know - please take a moment to read it and let me know your thoughts. So, my ex and I had been together for almost 2 years and the relationship moved very quickly -- we moved in together almost immediately, work together, and have a very overlapping circ... (1213 words)

Our new LDR is about to gain more distance! How do I keep the spark going?

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 17. we just gel! its amazing! but he lives about 3 hours away and we are both still at school so we dont see that much of eachother. its particularly tough at the moment because he is going on holiday for two weeks and then i am. so we wont get to ... (123 words)

Always depressed, lonely, distant...

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23 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel crap and I have tried talking to some adults about it. Just feel depressed all the time when I'm at home, but when I get to school or wherever then i'm usually really happy. I know you are probably thinking it's hormones, but it got so bad that I started cutting myself. ... (129 words)