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writes:Do I have something to worry about or are my friends just trying to get things into my head?Ok, so my boyfriend is hanging out with his buddies this weekend..it's one of the guys B-day. :) Anyways, he said that he might drive out Friday after work depending on the time he gets off. But on Saturday for sure he's hanging out with them for a late night dinner! So, I'm like..hmmm ok! I called my girls up and we'll see what pops up this weekend. But they're like..what? Trouble in your relationship? And I said, 'No, I think it's healthy in any relationship.' We've been together for six months and he hangs out with his buddies... I'd say about once day out of the month. So, that's not a bad thing right?? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Nahh, there's no problem here. Time apart in a relationship is a totally healthy, encouraged thing. If you spend every waking hour together, you won't appreciate each other and get a chance to miss each other. You have to do your own thing and he has to do his. I think it's great that he's hanging with the guys and you're going out with the girls. And when you reunite, it'll be better than ever!
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 you need to let him go and trust him.
whats the point in being together if u dont trust him?
u cant keep him under lock & key and its his friends birthday so dont listen to what your friends say, u shud know ur bf better than them.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): No. Trust is everything in a relationship. Has he ever asked if u would like to tag along?
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