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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have feelings for my friend's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my friend met this guy at a party. He's really funny, and has a great personality, but is not much of a looker. After the party, he asked me out and I panicked and said no. Then my friend told me that he had asked her to pursuade me to go out with him. Then she ... (187 words)

So why isn't he talking to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i have been talking about my boy friend jarid and like i said befor that we have a some what long distint reation ship and latly he has not ben awnsering my txt or my calls he has been a little sick but we used to talk every day it has been 3 should i worry i don't thin he ... (158 words)

How do I show that I have feelings for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this summer i am a cit [councelor in training] at camp and i am really attracted to this guy two years older than me. i have been secretly crushing on him since the second week of camp started. today, we hung out around camp and discovered we had a lot in common. i feel like he ... (138 words)

Marriage has gone downhill so much that I want to leave

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, me and my husband have been married for almost two years and he doesn't really care for me as he used to. We act like we are roommates cause there is no sex. He doesn't take me anywhere unless I ask a few times. He doesn't remember anything having to do with anything I say ... (497 words)

I've fallen in love with another girl - but I know my family expects me to marry a Muslim man! What do we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got myself in a right mess and don't know what to do. Sorry if this is so long.. I'm female,19 and muslim. My family are religious, and i do believe in some aspects of my faith but i don't really go to mosque much and my parents don't pressure me to go if i don't reall... (508 words)

He said he couldn't let me in right now. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been exes since early winter, but we were still seeing each other when I got pregnant in January. Our baby was stillborn 2 weeks ago, and I think that brought us a little closer because we were having some really ROUGH times at the beginning of the pregnancy. ... (270 words)

I have a boyfriend and the chef at work is hitting on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. Im 16, and have just got a part-time job at a restaurant to earn some extra money as a waitress. My mum knows the owners, and sometimes helps out there herself, and one of my mates works there and so does my cousin. My boyfriend has also started working a few times a ... (209 words)

Our relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere - how long do I stay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i have a boyfriend , since is summer we havent seen each other since the last day of school. he asked me out like 5 days ago and its been kinda going ok but lately it's like he dont dont give a fuck. excuse the language. but anyways i have only got 1 text from him. i a... (328 words)

All my friend's lives are so messed up right now and I'm not sure what to do, I just want to hide!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (?) age - Hi Everyone! It's been a long time since I've looked for help from you guys...but I am really feeling overwhelmed! I have always been willing to help/advise, that's why I joined this site. But, the past few days have been unreal! My phone has been ringing nonstop! Friend... (208 words)

I'm having trouble coping with these images of the attack.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey .. im a 15 year old girl and i jus wana no if people think im strong and if im coping? i hav been attacked before! and for the second time i got attacked agen .. although i got away .. i saw my friend get stabbed .. i actually saw the knife go in and out of him :( the 1... (125 words)

My brother is in love with my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok Aunts, My brother says hes in love with my girlfriend and hes constantly touching her,staring at her and hes tried to kiss her until she hit him and i was inthe room when this happened and i went mad.Once before we were watching a movie in my room and i kissed h... (119 words)

My best friend and I are in a big fight because of my boyfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have two very close friends. One is a girl, one's a boy (E.). They are dating, but the three of us are close friends since we've known each other for three years now (my friend's have been dating for 1 and a half years now). Point is, I have a new boyfriend since... (239 words)

I constantly feel the need to urinate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isnt a relationship question, but my parents are gone until tomorrow and I need some help. Today I woke up and I went to use the bathroom, after I felt alot of discomfort after that lasted about ten seconds. It almost felt like the starting of an orgasm. Ever ... (111 words)

Emotionless, affectionless and sexless marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am having this issues with my wife that is destroying my marriage. We have been married 17 years with 2 kids. When we first were married our sex life was fantastic. After our kids and time went on, it went to nothing. I have talked to my wife about how important the affection ... (401 words)

How do I tell her that I've been sleeping with someone else for a week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What drives us to do the most embarassing things, is it pure desire? or is there something deeper that drives us crazy until we posses what we thought we always wanted only to find ourselves still searching and when we reach this point there's no turning round, there no way ... (99 words)

Dating a cousin's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think a guy would feel uncomfortable dating his girl cousins best friend? I just wanted to know what you guys thought about this situation. Would you not want to get into a relationship?... (35 words)

Something is bothering him but he insists that everything is ok!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel so confused at the moment. My partner and I have been in a LDR for 2 years. He is 36 years old. 8 months after we started seeing each other he was very keen for us to move in together, however I felt it was too soon and the subject was dropped. Recently, I have been ... (559 words)

WHY do I stay with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I hate myself for loving my boyfriend, but I can't be without him. We've been together for 3 years, and he's been my first boyfriend and love. Generally he's great towards me, but sometimes he hurts me so much and doesn't seem to care. He always uses my past against me even ... (343 words)

The father won't return calls ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My daughter, who is 18, is 7 months pregnant and her boyfriend (20 years old) won't return texts or calls. She is really upset and just needs to talk to him to make some decisions. She originally wanted to offer the baby for adoption, but may now be leaning towards keeping ... (72 words)

Help me get the strength to walk away from this ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Never in a million years would I thought I found myself in this situation. I've been divorced 2 years and although I've been dating here and there, never found anyone who found a connection with. On my birthday 4 months ago, i got crazy drunk and made out with my roomate'... (492 words)

He said I love you and I didn't say it back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me he loves me for the first time! But I didn't say it back. We had a rough couple of days where we weren't really getting along and I was feeling terrible about it and it was making me cry. And he said he was sorry and that he shuts off when he feels jealous ... (146 words)

How do I convince him our marriage can be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband left me four months ago for another woman, he had been having an affair for over a year. basically i want him to come home and give our marriage another chance. (we have been married 20 years) he says he loves me but not in the right way. We are going to spend some ... (126 words)

Should I keep seeing him, or the whole "baby" and "ex" situation too much to bother with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! well first off i meet this guy maybe 10 years ago when i was younger, he used to come through to where i stay for the summer holidays to visit his family and we hung around with each other ....long story short...puppy love! He used to visit them every year and then... (247 words)

How do I leave him and keep custody of the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my man for almost 5 years and we have 2 kids. my problem is that i dont feel the same way about him like i did when we first got together. he has very bad anger issues which has made me angry. i love him but im sure that i am not in love with him anymore. i ... (141 words)

I can't imagine being with someone else, so why am I having these doubts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. He's 22 and i'm 18. He's got a full time job, which means he has to be up for work at 6 every morning until 4 in the afternoon. Whereas i am at uni. Hes my first proper relationship. He tells me he loves me and has really fallen... (449 words)

Best friend & I Like same guy and he likes her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i really like this guy and he "said" he liked me, but then my bestfriend and the guy like each other now, and she knew i liked him and all this stuff, but i just wanna know how i can make him like me again. ive been up crying since thursday because he doesnt like me, :( what ... (61 words)

What is the right way to ask someone if...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm female 14. I have this cousin a few months older than me. A few years ago when she was visiting this thing happened. I was outside and had decided to go back inside the house and then I heard giggling, so I went to the room it was coming from and my cousin was on my ... (100 words)

I'm mis-reading my wife's signs, what am I missing here??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't read my wife's signs. I get home the other day and she heads upstairs to put the kids to bed. Just before leaving the room, she tells me (and shows me) that she doesn't have any underwear on. After the kids are in bed, she takes a bath. After the bath, she comes ... (223 words)

Am I actually in love with my best friend, or have I led him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alrighty, I'm in just a tiny bit of a situation. I've been in love with my best friend for about three years now, and now that's he's acting like he feels the same way about me, it kind of freaks me out. And I feel horrible because maybe I've led him on when I really didn't ... (102 words)

She broke up with me because of her family, am I a fool for waiting and hoping?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been with this girl for 2 years + we where going fine we loved each other endlessly but on sunday she told me "i need a break" and that she loves me and hopes we can get back together. she says her heads all a mess with whats going on with her family, her grandmother is ... (211 words)

Pregnancy and oral sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and we've been having sex for about 8 months. We used condoms for about 2 and a half months and then I went to the doctors to get a pregnancy test just to check. (Thankfully it was negative) :) Then I went on the pill... (228 words)

I need help understanding shy guys, does he like me or is he just being polite?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Shy guys are very confusing and frustrating. This guy at my work is around 26. He is so so shy his dad tries to set him up on dates and from what I have found out he only has had one girlfriend. One of my friends at work told him that I thought he was cute and he said it would ... (210 words)

My ex GF is giving me mixed signals, how can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My GF of 3.5 years broke up with me about a month ago. I still want to be together and I have been completely blindsided by the whole situation including the things that made her unhappy. She never told me anything. The list includes things like she felt couldn't talk to me, ... (360 words)

My girlfriend is avoiding me, could it be she cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is not able to speak with me in a normal way for about 2 weeks. She has a cold distant attitude since then. I tried to be patient and told her she will have to tell me one day when she's ready to let me know what's going on with her. Today I received the followin... (159 words)

My girlfriend has feelings for another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so heres how it goes.. Ive been dating this call for 4 months now. before that, we were best friends for a year, and it was basically the best relationship ever in the beginnin when i could see that she loved me a lot. Now, i dont see that anymore.. She hardly texts me and ... (175 words)

He works all the time is not affectionate towards me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F) age - Question to those,who went down on the divorce lane. Well, I can't make up my mind ,but I think about it everyday,at the last 5 years. I think I will drive myself cazy ,if it will go like that ,for much longer.But I'm really unhappy. Here is what is going on, He is not affe... (170 words)

Getting over someone without avoiding him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... i broke up with my ex about 2 months ago but i still kinda like him and im friends with him.. he is now going out with someone and i really need to get over him. it takes me a while to get over people but it annoys me.. does anyone have any ideas which might help... (78 words)

He is mistrusting, paranoid, insecure and trying to control my life

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This story sounds minor but it pretty much sums up my relationship with my boyfriend of two years, who I love dearly and he wants me to move to Italy (where he is from)... So I bought two pairs of shoes, I work in a professional setting. The heels are two inches. He says... (357 words)

Long distance girlfriend wants a week break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 8 months. She came directly out of a two year abusive relationship and i got out a 6 year relationship in which i was engaged about 4 months prior to seeing her. We hung out everyday, while we worked together and she lost her ... (555 words)

My parents control my life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently turned 18 years old (last yr high school) and my parents STILL try to control every aspect of my life. to many adults im the nice hardworking student. because of this, i would think that my parents would trust me when it comes to relationships, drinking etc but ... (176 words)

Block her or accept her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me ex-fiance is sending me some strange signals. At the end of our relationship, about a month before, she started to hang-out with another man, a single guy who she claimed she felt comfortable talking too, and hanging out with. I viewed it as cheating, and it kept going on, ... (797 words)

We have second thoughts on marriage, but for some reason, I still think I should marry him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 years now and I am having second thoughts about our relationship. We have been talking about marriage and I think he is ready to pop the question but I'm definitely not. I'm not sure if he is the one for me...part of me feels like I ... (155 words)

Sex is far and few

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 17yrs...We love ea.other,sex is great (when we have it).I just turned 40 and my husband is 46yrs old. My question: I am very sexual and I try to get my husband in the mood,ask for a quicky or give him something in return. My husband works 3rd shift an... (128 words)

During sex with my boyfriend I felt a lot of pain. I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem , i had sex with my boyfriend but then i felt alot of pain , so we stopped but since then , i felt pain , after sometime we tried doing it again , but i bleeded,,, i can't seek a doctor over my country,,,,so anyadvice ???... (51 words)

She broke up with me because of my friendship with other girls. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing this girl for almost a year. We were never exclusive but we were dating and over the past three months, we were very serious. In fact,we went out several times a week. Well, back at the end of may, she went out with friends and got really drunk... And she ... (276 words)

My boyfriend can't get me to orgasm and it's causing problems between us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend hasn't been able to bring me to orgasm through any method. Not oral, not sex, not fingering, Nothing. So the other day we were having sex, and trying to get me to have an orgasm. And even though we know that if you focus everything on me having an orgasm it will ... (211 words)

I get the most stimulation by having sex doggystyle...is this strange?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is this a fetish? Or is it strange at all? I like sex of course, all types of positions and with my partner. But it seems in all my relationships, even in high school, I always got the most stimulation from doggystyle. Sometimes I couldn't even get an erection unless ... (177 words)

How can I protect my baby sister from my step dad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum has just had a little baby girl she's only 6 months, im really worried about her future and safety. My step father used to touch my other younger sister (17) when she was only 5.He told her he would kill her if she told my mum. But she did anyway. my mum kicked him o... (241 words)

Problems with the people in my life! And now there's a guy I like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really unhappy latley , all my friends are being horrible to me exept one , all the people in my year , and the year above call me , it feels like no one likes me and i like this guy , but my parents and auntie have told me i have to have nothing to do with him. But i ... (77 words)

What should I do if I find flirtacious comments by my boyfriend dated almost a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went through some of my boyfriend's forum posts for some gaming tips and found something I didn't like. I found flirtacious comments to 2 virtual females a few months after we started our relationship in 2008. Now, this was almost a year ago and I am wondering if I should ... (236 words)

I don't feel an emotional connection to my son, could he be another man's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 28 y.o guy and I have a three and a half year old son with my ex-wife. Even though he has my name I still don't feel an emotional connection, like a father would feel for his son. the evil tongues say he isn't really my son. and Yes my ex-wife confessed to cheating on ... (180 words)

Can you buy a toy on-line anonymously?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I really want to buy some sex toys. I'm a virgin, and I'm not in a relationship, but that's because I'm kinda shy and nervous. But I still love masturbating; I've been doing it for years. The only problem is, I'm getting bored of my fingers. I've used make-sh... (218 words)

She hardly texts me any more; my friend says I'm being clingy ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend and i have been dating for about 2 months now. this is the first relationship for both of us. when we first started going out, we would text everyday, almost all day. but lately shes been only texting once a day. we used to see each other every other day, and n... (194 words)

Thinking of moving to another country with my b/f, not sure I trust him, mom controlling about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone I am stuck between a rock and a hard place! I'm 21 and I'm going to graduate university in 1 year from now. I've been w/ my boyfriend all university (about 3 years). He has 1 extra year of school left after I finish. When he finishes he would like to move to Flori... (458 words)

I don't know if I'm ready ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and there's this guy that likes me. Lets call him J. So j and me were IMing and he said he to have sex with me and i said i wanted to too. But then i thought about it and i really wasnt ready because i was molested and i dont think im ready. Then on saturday i had my ... (110 words)

I want to delete him, then he calls! What does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I seperated a few years ago and never thought i'd meet someone until last year when i meet a guy on a girlie weekend, we kept in touch and met up late last year but since then we haven't seen one another. Everytime i go to delete his number from my phone he gets in touch which ... (68 words)

We want to start our family. What are the chances of her being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my girlfriend have decided that we want a family so we had sex. Well she is suppose to start her period in about a week, so what are the chances of her being pregnant if we had sex on the 4th of july and the 5th and she is suppose to start her period around the ... (61 words)

I've been to the doctor, but do I have an STD or not?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I thought I had a genital wart about two months ago, I went to my doctor and she said yes it was one and to go to a Gynecologist. I made the gyno appointment and had to wait a month to get in. In that time the suspected wart dissapeared. The gyno said that I didnt have a war... (237 words)

In my 30's and still single and the future's not looking so bright either...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it strange being 30+ and never having a boyfriend and never being kissed . I have had a lot of rejection by guys and still paying after 11 yaers. I am very shy, quiet, low self estreem. I am also overweight, short, plain looking and not great personalty I used like a g... (89 words)

Could I be pregnant And is it true that women don't ovulate while on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm on the pill, and I'm not very good at remembering to take it (sometimes miss over 3 days at a time) and recently had sex (3rd week of my cycle) using the withdrawal method, which I know isn't exactly the most effective method. I'm just wondering what the chances are ... (70 words)

I'm having an affair with a guy who has stopped contacting me! Is he over me already? Or just confused?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 13 years and have 2 children. My husband has had terrible bouts with alcohol and just recently decided to go to AA. I feel he is really trying, but I hold years of resentment from the pain he has caused my family emotionally and financially. Over t... (349 words)

Why would she text me after telling me to forget about her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I went through this painful breakup with my now EXGF about a month and a half ago. Two weeks ago we ran into each other at the store and I said Hi and she said hi back without making too much eye contact. the next day I sent her a text just saying what's up and she basically ... (116 words)

We're still together after he hurt me a lot, but I'm finding it tough. Can the damage ever be reversed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I went through a very tough few months where he was very verbally abusive. We have made it through those times and are moving forward, I am doing so with caution. However, I can not shake the empty feeling that I have inside. I freak out at the smallest ... (295 words)

We're both married, but I think there is an attraction between us. What to do...or not do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am writing to ask your opinion about my friendship with a married man. I am married also, and over the last couple of years we have become quite friendly. We only see each other about once a week very briefly at school to say a few words, and we email now and again also. H... (168 words)

She's ignoring me over a misunderstanding, so should I keep trying or forget about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend recently broke up with me. It is kind of a long story so I won't get in to all of it but long story short she misubderstood something I said, took it as being a control freak said it brought up a red flag. She agreed to talk to me last Friday, when I contacted her ... (314 words)

Should I be worried about my weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have one question. i am 5"0 and i weigh about 79 my family and friends are worryed bout me but i don't make myself thow up i eat normaly i am a vegatarian so idk if this is bad. any help?... (42 words)

Should I really believe my father after all he has put me through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, i was wondering if anyone can help as this is kind of very important and disturbing. Ok i was talking with my father one night and he started asking about my boyfriend, as he asked more questions he said he is related to a family with the same last name as my boyfriend ... (280 words)

Will he call on my birthday? We haven't talked in a week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My birthday is 2day and I am afraid my boyfriend won't call me because we haven't talked in a week. We have so much planned for 2day so what should I do if he doesn't call me? Should I call it quits or give him another chance... (47 words)

Is it ok to date your best friends brother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, needing some advice. Nothing has happened yet but I want to get some advice before it does so that maybe I have a better idea of what I'm doing. A few months ago my best friend went away abroad for a year - shes studying abroad. We're really close and I miss her a fair ... (282 words)

She makes plans with other guys and then lies to me about it!

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i Hve been in a relationship with my gf for about 4 years. The main issue in the relationship is trust. Specifically about other men. My gf has this tendency to make plan to meet with guys for beer or conversation, but oftentimes lies to me about it. She insists that nothing ... (271 words)

I cheated, I regret it, and I want her back!

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im need of help my girlfriend of 5 yr also lived me as gone and left me she found out i cheated on her which ive said im sorry and i honestly do regret it she does mean the world to me and i just dont know why i cheated on her back in march and a few times before she was on to ... (165 words)

I'm sick of being hurt and afraid to get involved again!

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So the deal is Im sick of being constantly hurt by guys and now Im too scared to get involved with anyone because I feel like Im just setting myself up to be hurt again. Sure most of the time with them is great but when things go wrong/end it feels like the hurt outrules it all ... (151 words)

I left and now I'm beginning to think I made the wrong decision

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Right about 4 months ago I got a temp job at home, having just returned from abroad. Not thinking that I was settling down at all or making any friends I decided to leave again in the summer. Because I didn't want to let my boss down, I said that an opportunity had come up for ... (235 words)

I don't feel comfortable with this friend of his, is it worth ending our relationship over?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age - I apppreciate that I am a bit old to be feeling jealous but this is how I feel. I am due to be getting married again to a man I have known for 13 years. We met at work. At the same workplace was a lady that my boyfriend used to spend a lot of time with and for a short period o... (470 words)

Can 2 different religions work in a relationship?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there, what do you think of relationship between two of with different religion can such a relationship work? is it difficult? what's your views about it??... (28 words)

In his sleep he started talking about a girl showing up at his hotel room

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband went to a stag night away over a month ago. He swore to me nothing happened. At the back of my mind i now there is something he is hiding but he is very convincing and since he has always been a genuine guy i want to believe him. He sleep walks and starts to talk ... (182 words)

I'm not a leper am I?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old girl. My parents are pretty old fashioned and conservative, especially my mom. She's spent my whole life telling me what I can wear, who I can hang out with, ect. My mom has even told me she doesn't want me dating...ever. Anyway, I've never had a boyfrie... (309 words)

He's kind but not attractive, and I'm supposed to marry him

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi dears, please give me more solutions, i'm going to marry someone who is a very faithfull, loyal, generous and as a whole a good boy. but as a matter of fact he is not such handsom and attractive in my sight. i logicaly accepet him as my husband but sensory it's hard for me... (66 words)

Twice she's rejected me and called me a creep and I don't know why!

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - oh my where do i even begin. firstly, sorry that this is long but i need your help as i have no friends. i am begging you to read this, please. i feel so awful. long story short i met this girl online back in january and we talked and all. she treated me with tons of affection ... (521 words)

He wants to go on holiday together and have sex without a condom!

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - After i broke up with the man i used to date last year i started to date with a man i knew for a while but i didn't date with him because i didn't like him a lot. As nothing seemed to get improved with the man i used to date i decided to go out with the man i didn't like a lot. ... (225 words)

Should I let my wife have a fling?

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 12 years. We married young and both have had few partners before marriage. My wife is starting a bit of a mid life crisis and wishes she had played the field a little more when younger. I am afraid that it will drive a wedge between us and ... (72 words)

Are your weight and wrinkles related?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear aunts!! Im 24 and I can see some fine sines of wrinkles around my eyes while laughing!!! Due to this im bit tensed and dont want to laugh loud!!! Im bit thin am 45kg. Does the weight have any connection with wrinkles??can you give me some tips. ... (48 words)

I don't like giving oral sex, he asks for it every day!

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend asks for oral sex EVERYDAY!!! I for one am not that into it. if there were a better term id say i hate and choose not to do so, i do it enough maybe every four days or so but im gettin tired and he wants me to do it until he cums, i feel he wears its out. he gets ... (111 words)

My family doesn't like this guy and are taking bets on me getting pregnant!

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my life sucks i just started daiting this jarid july 1st and his big bro looks out for me so i call him big bro 2 and my whole family hates me and jarid together like my bro said he wants to kill him but i really like this guy and every time i talk to him i get butterflys and i ... (193 words)

I can feel his erection when we hug! How do I let him know in the right way?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, my boyfriend and I work together. We don't have a lot of days off together, so we see eachother at work most of the time. Coworkers aren't allowed to date, so we act like everythings normal when people are around, so naturally there's some tension between us. We c... (326 words)

We have to see each other behind my parent's back. How can we make them accept us?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm am 16 years old and have a confusing relationship with a 21 year old. When our strange relationship started we talked about what we would do because of the age difference. We both wanted to let our parents know about us however we were scared they would force us to stop ... (204 words)

My boyfriend has put me through so much, yet still I remain at his side. Why?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to tell somebody - anybody who is willing to listen. I have things bottled up that I need to get out in the open, so I can really spend some time and think about it. Thanks to all those who take the time to read this. My boyfriend is responsible for controll... (640 words)

Do men talk to their friends about women they like/are interested in?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men talk to their friends about women they like or are interested in? I was seeing this guy for a little bit a few months ago and we just kind of started talking again. After going out, he took me to his place since he had just moved and wanted me to see it. His ... (169 words)

Is he interested in possibly dating me?? Is the ball in my court and I should make the next move?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Something kind of exciting happened to me the other day but I don't know what my next move should be. I just hired a lawyer to do some work for me and I have met him only three times. Our last meeting was a few days ago and it was all business like our other two meetings until ... (182 words)

My friend was upset over the death of her mom. I tried to comfort her with a joke...and I think I made her feel worse! Help!

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7 July 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My friend's mom died recently(6days ago)and she been upset lately. The other day she was at my place crying her eyes out. I wasnt really sure how to calm her down so I made a joke thinking that would help. The joke was a bit mean now that I think about it. My friend got really ... (74 words)

The bleeding is bad...What is going on here?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - he made it bleed bad about three month ago with his fingers. it bled bad. now today he he didnt barely go in with his fingers and blood came gushing out. whats the problem?... (34 words)

I don't know what he wants. We haven't fought, but he's ignoring me. What's going on with him?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Met him on FB and we have been emailing each other for 6 months till we met and really like each others qualities. I am confident that he is a genuine person. The only issue is that he has a girlfriend. It was at the beginning stages when we got to know each other but now they ... (681 words)

My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is really uncomfortable with webcam sex. How can I help him like it? What should we do during so it's not phone sex and not like watching porn? Due to work sometimes we have to be apart for a few weeks at a time and I really want to give this a shot! Also, the... (97 words)

Do you think he'll care if I'm completely horrible at making out?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so im 13 and im going out with a guy thats already had sex 4 time and ive never made out but i want to and i will with him but do you think he will care if im just completely horrible at making out and does it come natural? help me please:)... (54 words)

When they tell me they love me I start to feel trapped. What can I do?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do about this, I've thought about it a lot and I think I always want what I can't have. Lately I've been seeing a new guy, and until he said he really likes me I was feeling very attracted to him, but now not so much. And about 6 months ago I was seeing ... (151 words)

I don't want sex, but she's had sex once before. Should I start a relationship with her?

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Should i start to invest in a relationship with a girl i like who has had sex once before?? She's told me that she's fine with not doing any of that stuff with me....i'm not like that. i want to stay abstinent.... (42 words)

Can his ED trigger him to have such addictive desire to threesomes?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age - I am dating this guy who keeps telling me I am the sexiest woman he's ever met. We have had fantastic, hot sex. Lately all he's been doing is asking me to consider a threesome. I would understand this desire if we were younger (he is over 50). To make matters more ... (98 words)

I'm starting to think about calling my ex...Should I?

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey! I have a simple question to yall. I used to have a boyfriend a year ago. I loved him very much, but i guess we had problems. He broke up with me, and after a few weeks, started calling me to see how i was doing and etc. But when I called him back, he treated me cold and ... (184 words)

I don't want to be asking myself ten years later "What if?.." I want to know.

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In 2005, I was fourteen when I met a man who soon became my everything, basically my whole world. He was forty-two, engaged to be married, and was also my history teacher. So you see, he was out of reach in more ways than one! Well, we've grown closer and closer everyday ... (313 words)

Why do I love the smell of him?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that I love the smell of my boyfriend? Any other guy I just don't like how they smell, but when I smell my boyfriend or smell his scent faintly near by it just puts me on cloud nine. I have never been like this with any other boyfriend or guy friend or crush strictly ... (72 words)

My girlfriend is not affectionate!

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year and I don't feel she is affectionate enough now as she was before. (I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT SEX) I have talked to her about this and she feels that it is just her personality. Sometimes i wonder weather she loves me or not. Has ... (107 words)

I need help with how to talk to women! I've gotten nowhere!

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I hope this doesn't sound like a stupid question, but I need help with how to talk to women (dating, relationships). I am a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and frankly, it's pathetic. I always freeze up when a woman talks to me or I'm very short with my answers ... (283 words)

What should I do? He wants to give it time before we have sex, and has a thing for shopping.

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am on the topic of trying new things that we never done before and it has already been done and that whats keeping us closer and we even come to a conclusion to moving to a different city for that major change. i am a gay dad of a 8year old boy who also lives with me. we are ... (149 words)

Do 'cute' guys attract different girls than 'hot' guys?

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A general question here....do girls prefer guys who are cute or hot? Because throughout my life i have always been told by girls how cute i am and my brother who is a couple of years older always gets told how hot he is, and he has had heaps of girlfriends and i have only ever ... (75 words)

How do I get over a breakup caused by distance not a flaw in the relationship?

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Folks, Two months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend of two years. We were long-distance for most of that time and saw each other once a month (on average). My ex kept an extremely busy schedule (theater + college + work), and my work took me to remote areas where I ha... (306 words)

Our heartless, intimidating 'act' is keeping me from finding a boyfriend!

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In my friendship circle there are 3 of us who are single and we're the closest 3 who do everything together. However we dont class ourselves as your average girls we seem to have this image where by we're just 'some of the lads' and we got on with lads because we're not like ... (253 words)

I still love and miss him but does he feel the same way?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to this guy and at first had a "casual" relationship, I guess. He told me that he would ask me out but he needs to get into law school and he is on the verge of failing. After a few months, I told him I cant do it anymore with someone who is not even my ... (326 words)

What's with guys and threesomes? Should I be offended?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I who are in a some what long and serious relationship have what I atleast think is be great sex. The problem is that when we do have a go at it, he looks at the porn on the screen more than me. Also, he often admitts to me that his dream is to have sex... (115 words)

Is better communication the key? Even though he cheated on his wife with me?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I have been living with my boyfriend about 4 months now. We've known each other for 8 years. we met while he was married, started a relationship then, but we ended it after a year when we realized it was not right and he would not leave his children. I went on to ... (255 words)

I think he can't forgive me for spilling the beans to his family.

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So my ex and I broke up in really bad terms almost 2 months ago. It was a turbulent relationship, and I found out he served me white lies during the 2 years together ( which was a big shock to me and betrayal). I took revenge (not thinking straight)by confronting his ... (612 words)

He kept me waiting for hours! Should I give him another chance?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 9 weeks, well, he is my boyfriend and he is working out of town right now. He came back for 4th and I was waiting for him and he said he would be at my house like and hour didnt show up but then called me like 3 hours later and said he had an ... (103 words)

Lost my virginity. Now I have a concern about my body...

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two days ago I lost my virginity. I'm almost 99% sure he doesn't have an STD but yesterday I was uh feeling around down there to see if anything changed and I felt what seems like an air bubble on the left side of my vagina and I dont know what it is...has anyone had this ... (65 words)

If there was so much passion and memories, will he come back?

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7 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with a man now for 4 months and I've fallen in love with him, he's told me he loves me too. He had plans to go to Texas for awhile, long before we began dating, now that he's gone. Im finding myself lost for words and skeptical of our relationship and where it always ... (163 words)

I like the girl who dated my brother. Is that wrong?

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7 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i went to this fair in my home town and i met this girl i already sorta knew her cuz she dated my little brother well recently me and her have been hanging out alot and i really like her would it be wrong to go out with her if she already dated my little brother im going ... (81 words)

I love her and I want her back! Help!

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7 July 2009 (M)

age - dear cupid. after 2 years my girl as finished me . i realy love her and want her back. how do i go about this. if i come on to strong she will run from me . she was so passionate towards me in the past and now its as if she want give me a second thought please help! im gutted.. ... (62 words)