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writes:Hi Just want to know what you people out there think of Love, do you think you can make love with someone yet not be in love with them,if not does it only then become just sex??And if you have broken up with someone countless times and they say they don't love you but every time they get back together with you,what is it they are feeling if they say their not in love with you, if it's not love why not just stay away from you for good. how come they want you back every time??like they can't do without you.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): You're making love when the relationship is solid and you both see it on these committed and respectful terms.
It's just sex if things are on the rocks. Maybe one of you wants more, but if it's not more than sex for both of you then I call it just sex.
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reader, Kenneth  +, writes (15 July 2009):
Men can have sex with women without being attached. On the other hand, Women are more emotional especiaaly when it comes to sex.Men see sex AS JUST GETTING OFF OR JUST HAVING FUN. iF A MAN TRULY CARES YOU'LL KNOW.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): because being inlove is at the begining of most relationships its the honeymoon period,after that it becomes love when your happy content and feel settled
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 Physical intimacy does not require any emotional bonds and vise versa.And yes with out the heart felt emotions it is "just sex".Maybe they do love you but haven`t really explored there feelings.More likely though is they see you as an easy lay.And I have also experienced people who can`t stand to be alone.They would rather be in a dead end relationship or a failing one then be single. My view on love- I believe that most people have the capability to love whom ever we choose to give our hearts to.I am a straight male and would say I have loved some of my guy friends over the years.Love does not have to be physically expressed to be felt.Now when you add the physical intimacy with the emotional feelings it does tend to change things.More like taking it to another level I would say.So saying that this guy probably does love you on some level.He may be afraid to admit it to himself.And he probably feels like he wants something different in life.The whole grass is always greener on the other side the fence.But if this guy keeps saying he doesn`t love you take his word for it.Because if you put to much of yourself into him more than likely you will end up getting hurt.
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reader, jetta  +, writes (15 July 2009):
well hun. When you dont love someone then it is just sex. When you love someone then you making love. Thats how i see it. If he still comes back then he is just use to you or the idea of you i would say. Rather let the person go before you get hurt again.
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