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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): best way to find out is to go see a doctor a gum clinic because this isnt normal.sex should feel great not painful x
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (16 July 2009):
 Of course, none of us can diagnose you, but I read about someone who suffered the symptoms you described and it turned out to be interstitial cystitis. I don't mean to scare you, and I don't think you're going to die or anything, but you should get this checked out. Anytime you have symptoms involving the reproductive system, get it checked out!
I think that ugh made some good points. I'm not trying to be mean either. However, there is a time and a place for sex. For your own sake, you should wait to have intercourse.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (16 July 2009):
Of course, none of us can diagnose you, but I read about someone who suffered the symptoms you described and it turned out to be interstitial cystitis. I don't mean to scare you, and I don't think you're going to die or anything, but you should get this checked out. Anytime you have symptoms involving the reproductive system, get it checked out!
I think that ugh made some good points. I'm not trying to be mean either. However, there is a time and a place for sex. For your own sake, you should wait to have intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): was ur blood light like dark pink water?
well usually its just ur body trying to get used to having sex...it might take some time
but next time u have sex try using lube and dont tense up relax[only if ur tense when u have sex]
but if the bleeding doesnt improve see a doctor
good luck
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reader, Brittbritt09 +, writes (15 July 2009):
Brittbritt09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes I bled the 1st 2nd 3rd an 4th time is that normal? I still bleed when I tightn bak up tho
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reader, kinkydude  +, writes (15 July 2009):
well for one thing you're really too young to be having intercourse. But it could also be because you're lover is a little bit to rough and insensitive. ask him to go slower and maybe not to come in so quickly. it takes time for a woman to really "be ready" for intercourse. Try a good amount of lubricant also.
Maybe find a good book on the subject. You will learn a lot that way.
Actually try MANY books on the subject. believe me, we're not born knowing how to make great pleasurable sex. Its learnt over time.
good luck, and be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): Well it might still hurt if ur hymen[cherry]didnt break.
do u ever remember bleeding after sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2009): First off sex will hurt for ahile after you have it. Not all people heal at the same rate or get used to it at the same rate either. I think that you need to not think so much about the pain while you are having sex and set your mind to enjoy the pleasure. If you do this than you may notice that you don't really feel the pain. Remember to be in the mind set of this is going to be pleasureful and that's it. The pain will eventually go away with time but everyone is different.
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reader, ugh101 +, writes (15 July 2009):
 ok i no that this isnt what you want to hear, and you dnt ask this for a lecture. But probly because your body isnt ready for it yett.( im honestly not trying to be mean)
Be safeXX
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