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Does he want my friendship or just sex?

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Question - (15 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So, I met "boy" late 2006, I was 16 and he was 18. We went out a couple of times w/ friends and he visited me numerous times in school, but we never even kissed. So long story short we started seeing other people and then I was single, he lost his virginity to his then gf, he would then come to me for advice on his failing relationship and soon after he was single. I would sneak out to go for rides w/ him and just talk (nothing else ever happened). One night we went to the beach and he asked me if I had ever wanted to kiss him and he tried to make a move. I was kind of weirded out but didn't pay much attention because I thought he was playing. We have a love/hate relationship and enjoy making each other mad so I just thought he was trying to get me mad. We've kept in touch all this time but recently he told me that he hoped that I was still a virgin and asked me if I was. I ognored him but ended up telling him I am. He asked me why and I said that I was waiting for the right one or a drunken night and I laughed but he told me that maybe we should get drunk sometime and went on to ask me if I was up for it. I joked and said I'd need an entire bottle of tequila so he asked me when. I thought he was joking but he was serious though later on he swore he was playing around. He had previously made other comments like this, but never to this point. Does he just want my friendship and comfort or does he really want sex?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (15 July 2009):

RAINORFIRE agony auntI agree with sami he likes you but you two have been freinds along time you dont want to blo it just tell him your waiting for the rite guy if you really are and see where it goes

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