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writes:i wont hide anything..long story short, i broke off with this girl cuz this relationship was goin too deep and she was too eager about our children and marriage stuff..im 22 while she was 17....she loved me so much that i feel i have touched the skies of being loved!! i feel so heartsick losing her... and i can never get anyone so heart-touching ever again in my life ! but i always struggled to know whether i truly loved her! as far as my inner feelings go, i think am not crazy about her! it was a long distance relationship and i guess i was more used to being loved and just miss EVERY LITTLE THING that we did and feel like crying! she would ALWAYS have time for me and could do anything just to see me smile! i never felt like holding her in my arms and kissing her though! i dont feel the world is beautiful when she is around! i just enjoy her compainionship a lot it seems..but her memories are piercing my heart apart so im confused whether this is called love? i keep thinking about her all day and m going crazy and undecided!! maybe this is just a temperory fear of losing such a caring sweetheart i guess...what do i do ?? please get me out of this depression! should i control my urge and stay apart??she was one of a kind...she would fall on my feet if she sees a tear in my eyes and ask for forgiveness if she was the reason for it she loved me soo much! and i feel like i have played with her sentiments! i helped her move on though and care about her a lot!!!!6 minutes agoi am committment phobic and dont wanna make such lifelong decisions so early! i wanna see what life has to offer more ..im nt comfortable to committments!*we are friends now and trying to move on*
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reader, iloveyhoo  +, writes (15 July 2009):
 well if you did want to get back together with her then,makesure you make it clear that you would rather enjoy life as it is without marriage and kids. make it clear to her.but maybe you aren't missing her as much as you think you are. you probably just miss the memories, and you are telling yourself that need more to keep you going.good luck with whatever you do.
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